sexylassie2:
The cause of death in your family is simple.... You guys don't do regular check up.

No charm was buried...the pastor scammed you.

Ningen:
I'm sorry for your lost man. Be strong.

Not trying to be insensitive but I don't think you should entertain diabolical thoughts concerning your parents death. Sudden deaths are mostly due to an underlying disease so don't be afraid.

The best way to fight your enemies is by going for regular medical check ups & living a healthy life. Don't pay any money to any pastor.

God's protection doesn't cost a dime. It is FREE.

Britishcoins:

My mom was diagnosed with lung cancer, the most painful thing I have ever witnessed, watching her dying slowly and my dad never complained of any sickness but he is a long time snooker and drinks a lot too...

sexylassie2:
The cause of death in your family is simple.... You guys don't do regular check up.

No charm was buried...the pastor scammed you.

Britishcoins:
Please my fellow nairaland, I have been in pain for a while now, I lost my my Mom in the year 2019, but her death was so sudden just few weeks sickness and she died after spending a lot of money at ESUT parklane Enugu..
Now exactly a year later, my dad very healthy and vibrant went to farm and collapsed with half of his body totally paralyzed, he later died the following day....
Now this is my fear. One Pastor called and told us that they have buried charm in my family home and that the same unknown evil men are planning for my younger brother who is presently at village. I asked what could be the solution, he told me to bring 120k to buy whatever materials he needed to do family prayer (he even mentioned white ram).
Although the manner at which I lost my parents made me afraid but without much thinking I have not considered the man to be true man of God.
The said money is not much the problem but, how can I get a genuine solution to prevent further death which by God's grace will never be my family portion again....
I have already made plans to bring my younger brother to the city... ( reason to learn business and mostly to know God more)
Pls how can I fight this battle because we are surrounded by the enemies...
They are envy maybe because my mom was hard working. The problem started immediately she finished the new building, unfortunately she was buried inside that house.
Pls help me, I am even afraid to visit home. I am the first son 26 years and glory be to God my business is moving fine.
Pls help me.. What should I do?
Cc mynd44 lalastclala

Britishcoins:

My mom was diagnosed with lung cancer, the most painful thing I have ever witnessed, watching her dying slowly and my dad never complained of any sickness but he was a long time smooker and drinks a lot too...

Britishcoins:

My mom was diagnosed with lung cancer, the most painful thing I have ever witnessed, watching her dying slowly and my dad never complained of any sickness but he was a long time smooker and drinks a lot too...

Mancala:
My sincere condolences to the OP. I feel for you as I know how it feels to lose a loved one. I would advice you to do an autopsy to determine the cause of death of your father. The symptoms are somewhat similar to a stroke. If this is the case, you need to know if there are any hereditary risks involved and if you and your siblings should be taking any precautions. Be strong. This pain too shall pass.

Britishcoins:
Please my fellow nairaland, I have been in pain for a while now, I lost my my Mom in the year 2019, but her death was so sudden just few weeks sickness and she died after spending a lot of money at ESUT parklane Enugu..
Now exactly a year later, my dad very healthy and vibrant went to farm and collapsed with half of his body totally paralyzed, he later died the following day....
Now this is my fear. One Pastor called and told us that they have buried charm in my family home and that the same unknown evil men are planning for my younger brother who is presently at village. I asked what could be the solution, he told me to bring 120k to buy whatever materials he needed to do family prayer (he even mentioned white ram).
Although the manner at which I lost my parents made me afraid but without much thinking I have not considered the man to be true man of God.
The said money is not much the problem but, how can I get a genuine solution to prevent further death which by God's grace will never be my family portion again....
I have already made plans to bring my younger brother to the city... ( reason to learn business and mostly to know God more)
Pls how can I fight this battle because we are surrounded by the enemies...
They are envy maybe because my mom was hard working. The problem started immediately she finished the new building, unfortunately she was buried inside that house.
Pls help me, I am even afraid to visit home. I am the first son 26 years and glory be to God my business is moving fine.
Pls help me.. What should I do?
Cc mynd44 lalastclala

Phut:


Read up on second hand smoke. It’s very lethal. That’s probably how your Mom got lung cancer. Smoking and drinking astronomically raises a persons chance of being hypertensive/having a stroke. Sorry for your loss and may your parents souls R.I.P.

Having said that, do not vilify “village people”. It’s an ignorant mindset to speed up our own cultural genocide.

Coded2:
My advice for the op is to leave the family house and not go back there secondly he should avoid any thing about home and dedicate his time to prayer and fasting this will protect you against any evil any man of God that requested money from you is a fraud don't go near them they are wolf in sheep's clothing.

bjprodint:
pls is stroke hereditary cos my mum died of stroke after battling with it for 5 years.

Britishcoins:
Please my fellow nairaland, I have been in pain for a while now, I lost my my Mom in the year 2019, but her death was so sudden just few weeks sickness and she died after spending a lot of money at ESUT parklane Enugu..
Now exactly a year later, my dad very healthy and vibrant went to farm and collapsed with half of his body totally paralyzed, he later died the following day....
Now this is my fear. One Pastor called and told us that they have buried charm in my family home and that the same unknown evil men are planning for my younger brother who is presently at village. I asked what could be the solution, he told me to bring 120k to buy whatever materials he needed to do family prayer (he even mentioned white ram).
Although the manner at which I lost my parents made me afraid but without much thinking I have not considered the man to be true man of God.
The said money is not much the problem but, how can I get a genuine solution to prevent further death which by God's grace will never be my family portion again....
I have already made plans to bring my younger brother to the city... ( reason to learn business and mostly to know God more)
Pls how can I fight this battle because we are surrounded by the enemies...
They are envy maybe because my mom was hard working. The problem started immediately she finished the new building, unfortunately she was buried inside that house.
Pls help me, I am even afraid to visit home. I am the first son 26 years and glory be to God my business is moving fine.
Pls help me.. What should I do?
Cc mynd44 lalastclala

Britishcoins:
Please my fellow nairaland, I have been in pain for a while now, I lost my my Mom in the year 2019, but her death was so sudden just few weeks sickness and she died after spending a lot of money at ESUT parklane Enugu..
Now exactly a year later, my dad very healthy and vibrant went to farm and collapsed with half of his body totally paralyzed, he later died the following day....
Now this is my fear. One Pastor called and told us that they have buried charm in my family home and that the same unknown evil men are planning for my younger brother who is presently at village. I asked what could be the solution, he told me to bring 120k to buy whatever materials he needed to do family prayer (he even mentioned white ram).
Although the manner at which I lost my parents made me afraid but without much thinking I have not considered the man to be true man of God.
The said money is not much the problem but, how can I get a genuine solution to prevent further death which by God's grace will never be my family portion again....
I have already made plans to bring my younger brother to the city... ( reason to learn business and mostly to know God more)
Pls how can I fight this battle because we are surrounded by the enemies...
They are envy maybe because my mom was hard working. The problem started immediately she finished the new building, unfortunately she was buried inside that house.
Pls help me, I am even afraid to visit home. I am the first son 26 years and glory be to God my business is moving fine.
Pls help me.. What should I do?
Cc mynd44 lalastclala

frozen70:



Best option for now is to lock that house and move every of your siblings away from that village

You must be far from your enemies so that they can't detect or predict what the future have for you

Assuming you are in lagos, bring them down to Lagos, give your father's family a long break they will be the one to look for you guys

What ever they are doing in the village and invite you, promise them that you are coming but don't show up

Use your break period with them to search for the mystery of all this death

If your late father has a land in tussle, don't bring it up again let it go

Even if they bring it up, tell umunna to handle it the best way they can

You have to keep away any information you know about your life and your siblings away from them

But keep in touch with just one or two of your uncles whom you feel is not the actual person monitoring your family, even at that be careful

Tell your siblings if anyone ask them anything, they should refer that person to you so that your family details will only be gotten from you and just you alone

If you want to erect any structure, do it in the city and away from the eyes of your family

Lastly, move closer to God, he will reveal a lot to you