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(proven) How To Make It Near Impossible For A Man To Refuse You Or Cheat On You by dora170(f): 11:15am On Aug 06, 2020


Hello, my name is dora and i'm going to be unvealing the secret of making your man totally yours and yours alone, and doing this easily.
If your a lady, carefully read the following text and never have to fear loosing your man again


first of all, some stats about cheating you need to know

In general, men are more likely than women to cheat, but the gender gap in infidelity varies by age.
57% of men overall admit to committing infidelity at some point in their lives
22% of married men admit to having an affair at least once during their marriages
Men, adults who didn’t grow up in intact families, and those who rarely or never attend religious services are more likely than others to have cheated on their spouse.



Other stats
It is estimated that 10% of affairs start online.
40% of online affairs turn into real life affairs
Revenge infidelity accounts for 9% of cheating behavior
36% of cheaters have affairs with their coworkers
22% of men have cheated on their significant other

Why will a man cheat?

He's immature
One of the main reasons why men cheat is simply a matter of immaturity. When a man is immature, this unappealing attribute can impact a relationship in many different ways. For example, men who are immature often put themselves first in most situations, don't take into consideration their partner's feelings, insist on being right even when they're wrong, and are characteristically unreliable and irresponsible. To that end, being immature is also heavily related to acting impulsively, as most men who are immature tend to give in to their basic temptations and desires without a care or concern for the repercussions of their actions and the possible negative effects that their behavior can have on others.

His emotional needs aren't being met
Another primary reason why men cheat pertains to their emotional needs and desires. In fact, it's been shown that nearly 50 percent of men who cheat do so because they feel emotionally unfulfilled, unhappy, and unsatisfied in their relationship. In other words, men cheat in order to feel valued and emotionally supported, both of which they may not sense they receive from their partner. And rather than finding ways to have their emotional needs met in their current relationship, such as by frequently communicating with their partner, openly discussing their feelings and concerns, as well as having realistic and sensible expectations of their significant other, these men often seek out another person (or people) who can provide them with the emotional satisfaction, support, and empathy that they believe they're lacking.

His physical needs aren't being met
When looking more closely at the real reasons why men cheat, a lack of sexual fulfillment in his current relationship is also a key underlying factor behind a man's infidelity. Specifically, a study in the International Journal of Sexual Health revealed that one of the major motivators in a man's decision to start an affair was his desire for sexual satisfaction that was lacking or completely absent from his present relationship. With this in mind, it's not too surprising that an additional sign that a man may be cheating is that he stops being physically intimate with his partner since his sexual needs are being met by someone new.


He's insecure
Another key reason behind why men cheat is centered around a man's personal insecurities. When a man is insecure, he may feel unworthy of being with his partner, he may constantly worry about his partner's continued interest level, and he may continually need reassurance, support, and approval from his partner in a wide range of circumstances. Typically, insecure men are typically very needy, and they incessantly seek out validation in order to prove to their partners, and more importantly themselves, that they're good enough. With this in mind, research has found that men who are insecure in their relationships are more likely to cheat, as noted in a study in the Journal of Family Psychology.

other reasons

He's an egomaniac
His father was a cheater
His friends are cheaters
He's being cheated on by you
He's worried about his sexual performance
He wants to exert his power
He enjoys the thrill of cheating

Which area do you think your man would fall into? Knowing this will help you prevent cheating.



What does a man want in a woman?
This is a very important question because if you don't know this, you may have yourself taken for less even though you love him.

Do they want sexual gratification as many would say?



Or they desire something more?


WHAT HE REALLY WANTS

Unfortunately there is no exact formula to satisfy all men. They are different and their wants could vary greatlty.

Yet i'll drop the most common things i have seen that men like. Make 99 percent of this least and it will be really hard for him to refuse you.

1. A woman with her own life: Ladies, please note that he doesn’t want someone clingy. If you are one person who has her own set of friends and can hang out by yourself, you are closer to hitting the jackpot.
2. No first move: OK, so is it ladies first or do men get be gentlemen and ask the lady out? The guy likes a woman who never makes the first move. He wants to decide how he’s going to woo you serenade you – so be a lady and let him!
3. Love’s in the air: Does your heart beat faster when you see him? Does his voice make you want to see him? While some may experience these, others may feel a sense of comfort and security when with him. This makes for a good foundation to take the relation ship.
4. Show you care: Someone said don’t sweat the small stuff. But in a new relationship you definitely need to! Doing little things to show to him that you care will make his heart grow fonder.
5. Sexy yes, slutty no: Don’t indulge in PDA right off the bat – you are likely to scare him off! Men like to take it slow and prefer being nonsexual but flirty in the initial stages of the relationship.
6. Wait for sex: Don’t jump into bed on your first date. Sex can effectively ruin what could otherwise be a beautiful relationship. Both of you may end up having very little in common other than sex. So wait a while before you seal the deal.
7. No-nonsense: A man wants a woman he can respect. If he knows he can’t get away with anything, he’s likely not to go down that path. Also, don’t date a guy who is seeing other women, married or abusive – they are just not worth it.
8. Be his buddy: Make him feel good in front of his friends and important people. Don’t laugh at him but with him.
9. Lay off: If you are the kind who will call, text and mail your man umpteen times a day, rest assured he will run out the door in a jiffy. Don’t badger him, especially about the future. Take it as it comes and things will just fall in place!
10. Good attracts good: If he is well-mannered and gentlemanly, then you have scored a 100! As dating experts say, “Good manners are a sign of what kind of man he is.” Ensure that you have similar values and he’s dependable and truthful.
11. Smile. It not only makes any woman more attractive but also makes men feel better about themselves.
12. Cooking skills. That's one of the best ways to win a man's heart!
13. Playfulness. Sometimes it's very important to stop being serious and just relax.
14. Their care. Every man wants their woman to become a loving mother to them when they feel helpless.
15. Being real and natural. A real woman will never try to look like someone else or act in an unnatural way.
16. Big hips. They are associated with fertility and giving birth to healthier and smarter kids.
17. Kindness. Only a kind woman will be empathetic and will support her man when he needs it.
18. Being accomplished and fulfilled. A woman should have her own interests and feel great being on her own as well as in a couple.
19. Motherly instinct. After all, men think about future kids, and a woman should be able to take good care of them.
20. Sense of humor. A woman should be able to laugh at a man's jokes or lift his spirit when he feels down.

That's all for today.. i'll be back for more. Let me know in the comments on what your opinion about this is.

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Re: (proven) How To Make It Near Impossible For A Man To Refuse You Or Cheat On You by yunglegend99(m): 12:58pm On Aug 06, 2020
I'll rate this article 50% some ar true and some are not
Re: (proven) How To Make It Near Impossible For A Man To Refuse You Or Cheat On You by Nobody: 1:11pm On Aug 06, 2020
In other words for a man to not cheat on you, you have to be inhuman.
Yawns undecided
Re: (proven) How To Make It Near Impossible For A Man To Refuse You Or Cheat On You by dora170(f): 3:13pm On Aug 06, 2020
yunglegend99:
I'll rate this article 50% some ar true and some are not
Which ones aren't true?
Re: (proven) How To Make It Near Impossible For A Man To Refuse You Or Cheat On You by dora170(f): 3:14pm On Aug 06, 2020
Chii59:
In other words for a man to not cheat on you, you have to be inhuman.
Yawns undecided
That's true for some men

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