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if shes sincere about it why not continue as long as they are not doing it again. in every aspect to you soon turn relationship if trust and truthfulness is absent i dont see such relationship standing.. it will fall like jericho wall.

Omoh... Kai. Ladies sha..
7 guys + male cousin ✖ x where x >2 ... Me go japa sha..

What if her cousin wears white agbada and comes for the traditional wedding to drink palm wine and brings friends to eat your rice during white wedding or even decides to pay you guys visit one day at home? Are you mature enough to handle those thoughts? If you are, no wahala but if not don't kid yourself and regret later.. RUN!!!!

I'm coming back to read comments.

if she is willingly to change,pls give her another chance.

DonBenny77:
I'm coming back to read comments.
I think "male cousin" sounds better than "cousin brother".

modify

Nowadays don't try to unearth a ladies previous sexcapade please
Just check her character, devotion to God, loyalty and love for you, your love and believe in her, check her HIV and hepatitis status and that the womb is still intact.
Cefene!

habsydiamond:
if shes sincere about it why not continue as long as they are not doing it again. in every aspect to you soon turn relationship if trust and truthfulness is absent i dont see such relationship standing.. it will fall like jericho wall.

She is actually remorseful

Robisky001:
She is actually remorseful

Being remorse means shes has moved on for that. my advice. just monitor her professionally cos it may be more than what u think. have u seen the movies ladies act they are professionals when we talk of pranks oo.

This KIND can sleep with all your family members. What do I know sef?

Wtf Op...If it was once..I would have thought it was a mistake..that they didn't know they were cousin...More Than Once, twice and more...guy leave her... Whenever she talks about any cousin of hers, your mind won't be at rest...Free her... People don't change, they find a better way to pretend and cover up..

She was honest enough to open up, well then she's worth it and you should give her a chance.

Looking forward to your future threads.

Are you interested in her past she regretted and repented from..?
OR
Transparancy (bedrock of endless love) with you..?
I'm waiting.

Sleeping with one's close relative is one form of perversion. Sleeping with a stranger/friend you are not married to is another form of perversion. Both are perversion.

same old story, same old mistakes, asking about the past when you dnt havd the balls to face it or the power to change it...my guy, everybody gat skeletons in thier cupboard especially girls, if guys keep asking and the girls wants to say the truth about all thier past, i swear no guy go get mind marry
i blame d girl for telling u such deep past because ur chicken heart gat no balls to take them..
the same bea wey tell you with her own mouth, naim u come online they cast....jus imagine.

Just make sure that "cousin" doesn't father your first child.

You met her on social media during lockdown.

You think she's cute, ambitious and ticks all the boxes.

Kept in touch through calls and messages.

Met her in July.

Told her you want the relationship to end in marriage.

Assuming she accepted this condition, she was honest to tell you her dirty laundry.

You're chickening out.


You see why people ease into relationships instead of jumping steps? Now that more boxes are opening up your eyes have opened.

You have standards and that's great but if you decide to go marry this chick, know that you won't have anyone to blame when she travels and you can't reach her for a few days and then start suspecting something that may/may not have happened.

She may or may not have changed, are you ready to gamble your money, time and care? Are you ready for her to sleep over at her cousins place when she goes to visit her family? Can you relax when one of your kids looks like him? Woman plenty, na wisdom to make good choice scarce.

To my own perspective bro, I think she worth it because there's no bae that can willingly explained her past even her sexcapade if She doesn't love u
So bro, I think this bae love u by telling u all this secrets, u can still give her second chance and see how it goes

NB.... Remember every saints has a past and every sinners have a future

Having Sex With A Family Member Wen She Is Not A Kid It's Something That Is Very Bad. But Telling U Her Pasts I Thing She Deserve A Second Chance.

Na u won unearth am na, wat u found dey do ur eyes wanawana now, well Sha she even tell u just know da even if no b u marry her someone else will.

Las Las we go dey aiit

Ningen:
She was honest enough to open up, well then she's worth it and you should give her a chance.

Looking forward to you future threads.

I saw what you did there

Oga I can assure you, it will end in WEEPING and SINCERE WAILING and gnashing of Teeth

Op, for starters; did you also recount your dirty mischiefs in the past to her?
If your answer is yes, what was her reaction?

What a lady has done with her life before I met her is not my business. I don't ask who she's been with and I won't show interest if she decides to tell.

I am new in her life so she should open a new chapter

Na you go find trouble dey ask too much question.

What do you now want the girlfriend/wife of her cousin to do?

What if she never opened up?

If you're too holy for her, leave her and her past.

But sleeping with cousin tho? For how long & is it when they were kids or as adults?

God epp us

Raeheemwayne:
Op, for starters; did you also recount your dirty mischiefs in the past to her?
If your answer is yes, what was her reaction?

Very important question.

7 guys....you mean 700 guys. you better drink the redpill. simp

Marvyx:
Omoh... Kai. Ladies sha..
7 guys + male cousin ✖ x where x >2 ... Me go japa sha..

What if her cousin wears white agbada and comes for the traditional wedding to drink palm wine and brings friends to eat your rice during white wedding or even decides to pay you guys visit one day at home? Are you mature enough to handle those thoughts? If you are, no wahala but if not don't kid yourself and regret later.. RUN!!!!

Lol, shall we do the body count of most men?

As for me RUN!!!!!!!! if she could sleep with her cous next is ur relative bestfriends and others

Idowster:
As for me RUN!!!!!!!! if she could sleep with her cous next is ur relative bestfriends and others

if u re a virgin run if u re nt dont condem

If she says she's only been with 7 guys then those are the guys she liked and actually dated. The real body count if you're to include hookups, one night stands and exchanges for favours then the real number is probably about 20-30.

Sex with cousins is actually more common than people think. Not saying it's right, but there are worse things.