my friend andy(first son of his aged parents with 9 siblings) who is to marry a professional working class lady he has dated 4yrs now and madly in love with come october, mysteriously turned wretched with no 1naira to his name again and lost his job april without pay due to covid. D issue nw s the turned excessively insultive, selfish, arrogant disloyal, unsubmissive, unapologetic, power-hungry psycopathic control-freak with no atom of ideal feminine compassionate caring nature and adamant to correction and logical reality reasoning. am his would-be best man. He is here with me so would see all your comments. I askd him to be staying with me to avoid him comiting suicide due to depression because of the new turn of his first love life and the mysterious wretchedness that swooped down on him despite him been the first son with aged parents and 9 siblings

He should concentrate on getting a job.

A jobless guy will feel intimidated by any move of a working class babe whether she mean to communicate dt or not

AntiWailer:
He should concentrate on getting a job.

A jobless guy will feel intimidated by any move of a working class babe whether she may to communicate dt or not

God bless u. I told him to dump the girl and go make good money with a good job. He s not the type 2b intimidated.he is a B.Sc holder and got her a PhD Form, registered her for fashion-design and makeover trainings before the lockdown and the unthinkable happened to him. Although he has been going all round abuja looking for work since june, all to no avail. I just pity him

cicodeblazzer:
my friend andy(first son of his aged parents with 9 siblings) who is to marry a professional working class lady he has dated 4yrs now and madly in love with come october, mysteriously turned wretched with no 1naira to his name again and lost his job april without pay due to covid. D issue nw s the turned excessively insultive, selfish, arrogant disloyal, unsubmissive, unapologetic, power-hungry psycopathic control-freak with no atom of ideal feminine compassionate caring nature and adamant to correction and logical reality reasoning. am his would-be best man. He is here with me so would see all your comments. I askd him to be staying with me to avoid him comiting suicide due to depression because of the new turn of his first love life and the mysterious wretchedness that swooped down on him despite him been the first son with aged parents and 9 siblings

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Naz0ht37Wa4[url]

cicodeblazzer:
my friend andy(first son of his aged parents with 9 siblings) who is to marry a professional working class lady he has dated 4yrs now and madly in love with come october, mysteriously turned wretched with no 1naira to his name again and lost his job april without pay due to covid. D issue nw s the turned excessively insultive, selfish, arrogant disloyal, unsubmissive, unapologetic, power-hungry psycopathic control-freak with no atom of ideal feminine compassionate caring nature and adamant to correction and logical reality reasoning. am his would-be best man. He is here with me so would see all your comments. I askd him to be staying with me to avoid him comiting suicide due to depression because of the new turn of his first love life and the mysterious wretchedness that swooped down on him despite him been the first son with aged parents and 9 siblings

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Naz0ht37Wa4[/url]

cicodeblazzer:
my friend andy(first son of his aged parents with 9 siblings) who is to marry a professional working class lady he has dated 4yrs now and madly in love with come october, mysteriously turned wretched with no 1naira to his name again and lost his job april without pay due to covid. D issue nw s the turned excessively insultive, selfish, arrogant disloyal, unsubmissive, unapologetic, power-hungry psycopathic control-freak with no atom of ideal feminine compassionate caring nature and adamant to correction and logical reality reasoning. am his would-be best man. He is here with me so would see all your comments. I askd him to be staying with me to avoid him comiting suicide due to depression because of the new turn of his first love life and the mysterious wretchedness that swooped down on him despite him been the first son with aged parents and 9 siblings

Get him to watch the YouTube video below.. He will be glad he did.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Naz0ht37Wa4

cicodeblazzer:
my friend andy(first son of his aged parents with 9 siblings) who is to marry a professional working class lady he has dated 4yrs now and madly in love with come october, mysteriously turned wretched with no 1naira to his name again and lost his job april without pay due to covid. D issue nw s the turned excessively insultive, selfish, arrogant disloyal, unsubmissive, unapologetic, power-hungry psycopathic control-freak with no atom of ideal feminine compassionate caring nature and adamant to correction and logical reality reasoning. am his would-be best man. He is here with me so would see all your comments. I askd him to be staying with me to avoid him comiting suicide due to depression because of the new turn of his first love life and the mysterious wretchedness that swooped down on him despite him been the first son with aged parents and 9 siblings

Isn't it better for him to be out there finding a solution, both physical and spiritual to his problems?

Continue giving him a shoulder till he's strong enough.Its just a phase in his life,remember joy comes in the morning after the darkest of nights.My prayers are with him.He should cut off completely from the lady

Zzor:
Continue giving him a shoulder till he's strong enough.Its just a phase in his life,remember joy comes in the morning after the darkest of nights.My prayers are with him.He should cut off completely from the lady

Most sensible words I have seen you type thus far. No harm intended.

When I said city girls are like street dogs no offense, you boys with peanuts in between your legs rant like a car thats is on bad fuel,

When I said there is no peace when a girl have and you don't, everyone looks at me like I am possessed,

When I said you should focus more on making more money cos that girls have no love for anyone except for themselves,

you folks treats my words with contempt, I am certain she contributed 90% to what drained this guy to service lane.. Now to pedestrian, it's time to treck SIMPs. No better lesson like ones learned from hardcore situation.

cicodeblazzer:
my friend andy(first son of his aged parents with 9 siblings) who is to marry a professional working class lady he has dated 4yrs now and madly in love with come october, mysteriously turned wretched with no 1naira to his name again and lost his job april without pay due to covid. D issue nw s the turned excessively insultive, selfish, arrogant disloyal, unsubmissive, unapologetic, power-hungry psycopathic control-freak with no atom of ideal feminine compassionate caring nature and adamant to correction and logical reality reasoning. am his would-be best man. He is here with me so would see all your comments. I askd him to be staying with me to avoid him comiting suicide due to depression because of the new turn of his first love life and the mysterious wretchedness that swooped down on him despite him been the first son with aged parents and 9 siblings

he still dey reason woman matter...him deserve to beaten every morning for 7days and hung on d ceiling fan....god show u d real character of d useless girl wey u wan marry instead of u to go beer parlour dey drink chilled heineken

Normal situation for men that refuse to use their head. If he sees another lady that he likes he will still fall and end up like the first one, no need having Pity for such people.

Tloc:


Most sensible words I have seen you type thus far. No harm intended.

who are you mtcheww

Ishilove:

Isn't it better for him to be out there finding a solution, both physical and spiritual to his problems?

1. The only physical solution is legally getting a good job that would pay him well since his date is few weeks time....he still needs a good paying job to take care of himself and his huge responsibilities as firstson to his aged parents and siblings, should he dump the lady and move on. 2. His parents, some relations and friends frowns at the idea of he backing out because he has done everything in the list(which are considered a gift in igboland customs and are non-refundable by custom except bride price) and he is yet to pay that on the D-DAY so if he backs out, he would lose all he spent on that list(because they are considered gifts in igboland). so you see he is between the devil(mysteriously incapacited to pay bride price and do ceremony) and deep blue sea (brides red flag behaviours that r about costing him his all his expenses so far)