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Yes it is. I will tell you why, in our society, it is expected that the man is the initiator of relationships. Women are supposed to wait around for a man to ask her. It’s OK to use feminine wiles to influence the man, but she isn’t supposed to come out and ask him. (Not saying this is how things should be, just saying how I perceive it to be.).So do the maths, how many Nigerian girls will approach a man for a relationship? t
They are forming hard to get in their country ( because men will call them hoe), in Western world a lot of men are not expressive like Nigerian men.

Next comes cultural determinations of beauty. Let’s face it, when you watch TV, or the movies, or magazines, who is presented as beautiful, eh? Blond haired, blue eyed, skinny white girl with big tits. If you keep getting told that that is what is beautiful, it is very easy to buy into that. How often are you seeing black women try to look more white? Again how many of our women wants to keep fits and eat healthy? An average American or Westerner are fat so will naturally prefer a skinny lady.

Now, going back to racism and status. Remember now, it’s the men doing the choosing. Now, instead of thinking of the women as a person in and of herself, think of her as a status symbol. Just looking at race and gender, highest status is white male, lowest status is black female. It will take a white man or Asian man of some independent thought to choose a black woman. And, of course, she has to be good with that, too. Again how many Westerners want to cross breed? An American will prefer a Chinese woman, Caribbean girl to an African. In some Western family, your skin determine the level of relationship they have with you.

The vast majority of black women and black men you see in interracial relationships are in the media and have fame and money, very intelligent and smart.The only men I’ve seen who regularly look for women who have money are black men, so that won’t help a black woman who wants to date or get a chance for marriage ( How many black women wants to build with their men?). The odds doesn't favor Black woman. Like I always tell my girl( a Nigerian whom I adore and love deeply), if I didn't met you, I will have steadily work my way up, get marry to a western lady due to the fellowing factors 1 economic power, 2. Loyalty and respect 3. World influence. Don't get me wrong, I have a world view and selfish interest. You can achieve a lot been in the circle of white ladies if you play your cards right why 1 they have a lot of connects compare to black( a Nigerian ladies)2: Very loyal and faithful 3: Ready to support and build up. I strongly believe most Nigerian men, has same thinking mindset. A black guy in America will gladly take a mature American white ladies for a date, endure all the bullshits, because of the above interest. Love is the least considered factors when it comes to long term relationship.
Another strong point; 1 in 5 black American are in jail,or has been to prison.
4 in 5 African men in Western world want liberation ( economic liberation), 4 in 5 white man doesn't want a long term relationship with a black lady. The end RESULTS, so many American African women, a lot of Asian women, and some white ladies want a black man. What chance does a Nigerian girl with ego, strong African influence, unattractive body ( due to bad eating habits) and unsupportive attitude get in a western world? Truly there are still some classy Nigerian girls, well mannered with high IQ.
Family influence: An average Nigerian girl still take instructions from her family when it comes to marriage. Go to school, settle down to build a career then marry from your tribe. This is a regular advice from a Nigerian parents.
So if you are a Nigerian girl who wants to travel to Western world, kindly forget marriage, if it comes be happy. The grass doesn't look green out there. If you even stand a chance be ready 1:To take a white guy bullshits 2: Drop your African lady ego 3 Be a high Target lady( smart, classy, homely, intelligent)
4: Have a lot of money
5 Be ready to split bills ( something you find it difficult to do in Nigeria)
6 career driven person.
Have an hour attractive body and beautiful face.
This is solely my opinion, you have yours. Will like to hear your contribution. Bashing are welcome.
Cc Isilove, all African American women in the house, Dr Funmi, potochantas, cococandy,Association of feminist, Alpha male community, broke shaming community, Nigerian living in Western countries etc I like your contributions.

Now I draw the cottons for today's tug of war between the Alphamales and the Feminist






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sirjamesjnr:
Yes it is. I will tell you why, in our society, it is expected that the man is the initiator of relationships. Women are supposed to wait around for a man to ask her. It’s OK to use feminine wiles to influence the man, but she isn’t supposed to come out and ask him. (Not saying this is how things should be, just saying how I perceive it to be.).So do the maths, how many Nigerian girls will approach a man for a relationship? t
They are forming hard to get in their country ( because men will call them hoe), in Western world a lot of men are not expressive like Nigerian men.

Next comes cultural determinations of beauty. Let’s face it, when you watch TV, or the movies, or magazines, who is presented as beautiful, eh? Blond haired, blue eyed, skinny white girl with big tits. If you keep getting told that that is what is beautiful, it is very easy to buy into that. How often are you seeing black women try to look more white? Again how many of our women wants to keep fits and eat healthy? An average American or Westerner are fat so will naturally prefer a skinny lady.

Now, going back to racism and status. Remember now, it’s the men doing the choosing. Now, instead of thinking of the women as a person in and of herself, think of her as a status symbol. Just looking at race and gender, highest status is white male, lowest status is black female. It will take a white man or Asian man of some independent thought to choose a black woman. And, of course, she has to be good with that, too. Again how many Westerners want to cross breed? An American will prefer a Chinese woman, Caribbean girl to an African. In some Western family, your skin determine the level of relationship they have with you.

The vast majority of black women and black men you see in interracial relationships are in the media and have fame and money, very intelligent and smart.The only men I’ve seen who regularly look for women who have money are black men, so that won’t help a black woman who wants to date or get a chance for marriage ( How many black women wants to build with their men?). The odds doesn't favor Black woman. Like I always tell my girl( a Nigerian whom I adore and love deeply), if I didn't met you, I will have steadily work my way up, get marry to a western lady due to the fellowing factors 1 economic power, 2. Loyalty and respect 3. World influence. Don't get me wrong, I have a world view and selfish interest. You can achieve a lot been in the circle of white ladies if you play your cards right why 1 they have a lot of connects compare to black( a Nigerian ladies)2: Very loyal and faithful 3: Ready to support and build up. I strongly believe most Nigerian men, has same thinking mindset. A black guy in America will gladly take a mature American white ladies for a date, endure all the bullshits, because of the above interest. Love is the least considered factors when it comes to long term relationship.
Another strong point; 1 in 5 black American are in jail,or has been to prison.
4 in 5 African men in Western world want liberation ( economic liberation), 4 in 5 white man doesn't want a long term relationship with a black lady. The end RESULTS, so many American African women, a lot of Asian women, and some white ladies want a black man. What chance does a Nigerian girl with ego, strong African influence, unattractive body ( due to bad eating habits) and unsupportive attitude get in a western world? Truly there are still some classy Nigerian girls, well mannered with high IQ.
Family influence: An average Nigerian girl still take instructions from her family when it comes to marriage. Go to school, settle down to build a career then marry from your tribe. This is a regular advice from a Nigerian parents.
So if you are a Nigerian girl who wants to travel to Western world, kindly forget marriage, if it comes be happy. The grass doesn't look green out there. If you even stand a chance be ready 1:To take a white guy bullshits 2: Drop your African lady ego 3 Be a high Target lady( smart, classy, homely, intelligent)
4: Have a lot of money
5 Be ready to split bills ( something you find it difficult to do in Nigeria)
6 career driven person.
Have an hour attractive body and beautiful face.
This is solely my opinion, you have yours. Will like to hear your contribution. Bashing are welcome.
Cc Isilove, all African American women in the house, Dr Funmi, potochantas, cococandy,Association of feminist, Alpha male community, broke shaming community, Nigerian living in Western countries etc I like your contributions.

Lol!!!

Keep saying that to comfort yourself. 4of my classmates married white men from Europe. Two married white from the US.

We will go where we are valued, whether it is nigeria or Ndi Abroad

DrFunmisticGlow:
Lol!!!

Keep saying that to comfort yourself. 4of my classmates married white men from Europe. Two married white from the US.

We will go where we are valued, whether it is nigeria or Ndi Abroad

. Well I know there is a possibility but the odd is against black women. You can choose to accept facts. It is what it is. Trust me I will advise any black lady to go for a white guy but be ready to for anything.

no where is perfect. my Ibo love couldn't marry me cos I'm Yoruba. religious indoctrination wouldn't allow us marry even from the same tribe.


we are our own problems

gnykelly:
no where is perfect. my Ibo love couldn't marry me cos I'm Yoruba. religious indoctrination wouldn't allow us marry even from the same tribe.


we are our own problems

. You are right. Hope our women could reason logically, it's difficult having that dream man in your country base on tribalism, religion, how will they even get a chance in a western world? Fact is have a good character and values then you will get your dream man.

In the western world guys have no chill for shakara

Oigbooo:
In the western world guys have no chill for shakara

. All what a black guy need are education, class and maybe a paying job, then he is on the go.

sirjamesjnr:
. Well I know there is a possibility but the odd is against black women. You can choose to accept facts. It is what it is. Trust me I will advise any black lady to go for a white guy but be ready to for anything.

Keep pushing that twisted narrative of yours. I will not internalize your negative self talk.

What's the big deal about black men anyway?What have they contributed to civilization? To history.

What great feats have they done to improve their economy. All they do is make excuses and leave black women to clean up their mess. They see the white women that enslave them as a status symbol. They aren't good father figures, lack ambition, are all talk and no action. The only thing they have going for them is the thing between their legs. It is most likely inversely proportional to their cerebral capacity.

Thank Goodness our eyes are becoming opened. Ladies go where you are valued regardless of race, nationality or tribe. Let men like sirjamesjnr continue to whine in victim mentality and blame others for their unhappiness.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Keep pushing that twisted narrative of yours. I will not internalize your negative self talk.

What's the big deal about black men anyway?What have they contributed to civilization? To history.

What great feats have they done to improve their economy. All they do is make excuses and leave black women to clean up their mess. They see the white women that enslave them as a status symbol. They aren't good father figures, lack ambition, are all talk and no action. The only thing they have going for them is the thing between their legs. It is most likely inversely proportional to their cerebral capacity.

Thank Goodness our eyes are becoming opened. Ladies go where you are valued regardless of race, nationality or tribe. Let men like sirjamesjnr continue to whine in victim mentality and blame others for their unhappiness.

where in my write up did I whine in victim mentality, or blame others? You have a problem sort yourself out.

Nope.

sirjamesjnr:
Yes it is. I will tell you why, in our society, it is expected that the man is the initiator of relationships. Women are supposed to wait around for a man to ask her. It’s OK to use feminine wiles to influence the man, but she isn’t supposed to come out and ask him. (Not saying this is how things should be, just saying how I perceive it to be.).So do the maths, how many Nigerian girls will approach a man for a relationship? t
They are forming hard to get in their country ( because men will call them hoe), in Western world a lot of men are not expressive like Nigerian men.

Next comes cultural determinations of beauty. Let’s face it, when you watch TV, or the movies, or magazines, who is presented as beautiful, eh? Blond haired, blue eyed, skinny white girl with big tits. If you keep getting told that that is what is beautiful, it is very easy to buy into that. How often are you seeing black women try to look more white? Again how many of our women wants to keep fits and eat healthy? An average American or Westerner are fat so will naturally prefer a skinny lady.

Now, going back to racism and status. Remember now, it’s the men doing the choosing. Now, instead of thinking of the women as a person in and of herself, think of her as a status symbol. Just looking at race and gender, highest status is white male, lowest status is black female. It will take a white man or Asian man of some independent thought to choose a black woman. And, of course, she has to be good with that, too. Again how many Westerners want to cross breed? An American will prefer a Chinese woman, Caribbean girl to an African. In some Western family, your skin determine the level of relationship they have with you.

The vast majority of black women and black men you see in interracial relationships are in the media and have fame and money, very intelligent and smart.The only men I’ve seen who regularly look for women who have money are black men, so that won’t help a black woman who wants to date or get a chance for marriage ( How many black women wants to build with their men?). The odds doesn't favor Black woman. Like I always tell my girl( a Nigerian whom I adore and love deeply), if I didn't met you, I will have steadily work my way up, get marry to a western lady due to the fellowing factors 1 economic power, 2. Loyalty and respect 3. World influence. Don't get me wrong, I have a world view and selfish interest. You can achieve a lot been in the circle of white ladies if you play your cards right why 1 they have a lot of connects compare to black( a Nigerian ladies)2: Very loyal and faithful 3: Ready to support and build up. I strongly believe most Nigerian men, has same thinking mindset. A black guy in America will gladly take a mature American white ladies for a date, endure all the bullshits, because of the above interest. Love is the least considered factors when it comes to long term relationship.
Another strong point; 1 in 5 black American are in jail,or has been to prison.
4 in 5 African men in Western world want liberation ( economic liberation), 4 in 5 white man doesn't want a long term relationship with a black lady. The end RESULTS, so many American African women, a lot of Asian women, and some white ladies want a black man. What chance does a Nigerian girl with ego, strong African influence, unattractive body ( due to bad eating habits) and unsupportive attitude get in a western world? Truly there are still some classy Nigerian girls, well mannered with high IQ.
Family influence: An average Nigerian girl still take instructions from her family when it comes to marriage. Go to school, settle down to build a career then marry from your tribe. This is a regular advice from a Nigerian parents.
So if you are a Nigerian girl who wants to travel to Western world, kindly forget marriage, if it comes be happy. The grass doesn't look green out there. If you even stand a chance be ready 1:To take a white guy bullshits 2: Drop your African lady ego 3 Be a high Target lady( smart, classy, homely, intelligent)
4: Have a lot of money
5 Be ready to split bills ( something you find it difficult to do in Nigeria)
6 career driven person.
Have an hour attractive body and beautiful face.
This is solely my opinion, you have yours. Will like to hear your contribution. Bashing are welcome.
Cc Isilove, all African American women in the house, Dr Funmi, potochantas, cococandy,Association of feminist, Alpha male community, broke shaming community, Nigerian living in Western countries etc I like your contributions.

Im a white woman n i live in Australia n every country has different cultures but every person is different none think exactly the same. Lol not all westerners are fat but the US and here in Australia we do have fat ppl but there's skinny ppl, average ppl, ppl of all sizes. Of course there would be men who would date/marry African women. Everyone has different tastes n desires in what kind of person they want and some just fall in love with who the person is they happen to meet. I've been in long distance relationship four years with a guy in Nigeria n I love him for who he is. I love our differences but it's not y I love him. You can't just stereotype ppl from any one country from things U hear or see on tv or online or in the media. U can find love anywhere in the world. If U happen upon someone with a completely different culture then if U love each other it all works out. I don't see y black women would be lowest on any scale for anything. Or black men, white men/women on any scale. We are only to each other what we think in our own minds wat we are. Ppl need to think better n perceive themselves and others as equals. Skin colours/nationalities don't define anyone as for who they are