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Hi My Fellow Nairalander...

I'm a guy (20 years)

I have this problem in me and I think I can get some solutions/advice from you cos I believe many elders and well thinkers are in Nairaland...
So let me start
I'm a guy and I don't have a girlfriend and anytime I have some feelings for a girl and if I get to see her everyday then suddenly the affection and love I have for the person will begin to demish and im still a virgin(nobody believes that but I do) and have not dated any girl so I begin to feel somehow like it might cause destruction in my relationship like if I get married.......
I Masturbate Too and I HATE It....
Advices And Solutions Are Highly Appreciated..
Don't Mind My ENGLISH Please

You're confused
1. You say you're a teen yet you're 20 years old.
2. You're not falling in love, you're getting infatuated. The fact that you can't tell the difference shows you ain't mature yet..
3. Why are you ashamed of being a virgin? As I day Bleep all the time, trust me I day regret sometimes say I no Bleep that girl in 2011
Masturbation is not your problem

This is a good time to lay a solid foundation by aquiring good education and skills to enable u live a good life in the future. Time for girls will come and believe me, u will have the best out of the best.

PornLegend:
You're confused
1. You say you're a teen yet you're 20 years old.
2. You're not falling in love, you're getting infatuated. The fact that you can't tell the difference shows you ain't mature yet..
3. Why are you ashamed of being a virgin? As I day Bleep all the time, trust me I day regret sometimes say I no Bleep that girl in 2011
Masturbation is not your problem

Masturbation is not your Problem
please clear

Uzomacharles:
Hi My Fellow Nairalander...

I'm a guy (20 years)

I have this problem in me and I think I can get some solutions/advice from you cos I believe many elders and well thinkers are in Nairaland...
So let me start
I'm a guy and I don't have a girlfriend and anytime I have some feelings for a girl and if I get to see her everyday then suddenly the affection and love I have for the person will begin to demish and im still a virgin(nobody believes that but I do) and have not dated any girl so I begin to feel somehow like it might cause destruction in my relationship like if I get married.......
I Masturbate Too and I HATE It....
Advices And Solutions Are Highly Appreciated..
Don't Mind My ENGLISH Please

well ask someone close to you, not those animals.
2.if you wanna be in relationship.. pls set boundaries (based on your virginity, if you want to keep it till marriage)
3.if you have feelings for any girl make sure she's well modeled, not those chewing gum.
4. for me since you are in your early 20s just focus on your positive ambitions in life ,don't let the dogs (male or female) to deceive in to unworthy things in the world.
5.pray to God for invention.
6.stay away from bad companies.
7. forget about sex and if you can quit masturbation too.
8.follow your heart correctly.

fati2001:
well ask someone close to you, not those animals.
2.if you wanna be in relationship.. pls set boundaries (based on your virginity, if you want to keep it till marriage)
3.if you have feelings for any girl make sure she's well modeled, not those chewing gum.
4. for me since you are in your early 20s just focus on your positive ambitions in life ,don't let the dogs (male or female) to deceive in to unworthy things in the world.
5.pray to God for invention.
6.stay away from bad companies.
7. forget about sex and if you can quit masturbation too.
8.follow your heart correctly.

Thanks

Uzomacharles:
Hi My Fellow Nairalander...

I'm a guy (20 years)

I have this problem in me and I think I can get some solutions/advice from you cos I believe many elders and well thinkers are in Nairaland...
So let me start
I'm a guy and I don't have a girlfriend and anytime I have some feelings for a girl and if I get to see her everyday then suddenly the affection and love I have for the person will begin to demish and im still a virgin(nobody believes that but I do) and have not dated any girl so I begin to feel somehow like it might cause destruction in my relationship like if I get married.......
I Masturbate Too and I HATE It....
Advices And Solutions Are Highly Appreciated..
Don't Mind My ENGLISH Please

masturbating is your only problem.... It is the reason why love diminish so fast when u love somebody, and its same reason for your lack of Confidence and still remaining a virgin

dangermouse:
This is a good time to lay a solid foundation by aquiring good education and skills to enable u live a good life in the future. Time for girls will come and believe me, u will have the best out of the best.

Yah I'm learning some cool stuff

cedricksly:
masturbating is your only problem.... It is the reason why love diminish so fast when u love somebody, and its same reason for your lack of Confidence and still remaining a virgin(note u are no a virgin coz u are sexually satisfying yourself, stop deceiving yourself)

Okay

Uzomacharles:
Thanks

u are welcome, so can we be friends ?

fati2001:
u are welcome, so can we be friends ?

Sure

Uzomacharles:
Sure

OK, so are you on facebook?
but U don't behave like some of those wayward pple... I liked that. just focus... anything that will cuz u Distraction and negative things in life just cut it off and follow the right path.

fati2001:
OK, so are you on facebook?
but U don't behave like some of those wayward pple... I liked that. just focus... anything that will cuz u Distraction and negative things in life just cut it off and follow the right path.

Yah I'm on FB
Thanks For The Advice I Really Appreciate Cos It Have Been Bothering Me For Long Now

sorry tho, I don't respond back with email. user name :fatty zaraha or nick name (amma)

Uzomacharles:
Yah I'm on FB
Thanks For The Advice I Really Appreciate Cos It Have Been Bothering Me For Long Now

no problem! As long as you maintain the will of God. and rescue your self from the goat.. you will not be bothered... and if you open up for sensible pple for answers to your problems.stay cool.

fati2001:
sorry tho, I don't respond back with email.
user name :fatty zaraha
or nick name (amma)

I'm Uzoma Charles

Uzomacharles:
I'm Uzoma Charles

also your facebook handle?

fati2001:
also your facebook handle?

Yah

well its not only you

cedricksly:
note u are no a virgin coz u are sexually satisfying yourself, stop deceiving yourself)

Mtcheeew. Do you even know what it means to be virgin?
Don't be unfortunate SIR!