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New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Nobody: 11:42am On Aug 27, 2020
Lol, I know most of you will rush in with the aim of unleashing curses and different profanities at me but actually im only about to ask a question on behalf of a friend.

My question is What is wrong With a married woman suddenly having a new male friend.

I mean is this normal or wrong, a new male friend that they communicate almost daily both through WhatsApp and call.. I will like to hear people's opinion because this woman seem like a descent woman that wouldn't engage in extra marital affairs. Even if there's nothing now can't feelings develops eventually in the future.
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Sixfit: 12:30pm On Aug 27, 2020
Misleading title truly. Nothing wrong with a married woman wanting friendship from another male in my opinion
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by bjprodint(f): 12:37pm On Aug 27, 2020
Sixfit:
Misleading title truly. Nothing wrong with a married woman wanting friendship from another male in my opinion
sexual feelings may develop in the process,so its not wise at all

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Sixfit: 12:40pm On Aug 27, 2020
bjprodint:
sexual feelings may develop in the process,so its not wise at all

You may be right but I'm banking on the poster's indication that the said married woman is a decent person.
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by meobizy(f): 12:52pm On Aug 27, 2020
Why don’t people ever ask this question from the man’s angle? Oh, I know why: females are too insecure to allow men keep female friends. I remember back in the day, females who friend zoned me chased away all the ones I had as friends plus their own friends who tried associating with me.
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by crackhaus: 1:03pm On Aug 27, 2020
Ibadanboyy:
Lol, I know most of you will rush in with the aim of unleashing curses and different profanities at me but actually im only about to ask a question on behalf of a friend.

My question is, What is wrong With a married woman suddenly having a new male friend.

I mean is this normal or wrong, a new male friend that they communicate almost daily both through WhatsApp and call.. I will like to hear people's opinion because this woman seem like a descent woman that wouldn't engage in extra marital affairs. Even if there's nothing now can't feelings develops eventually in the future.
Lol, it always seems that way, trust me.
There is hardly any married woman that has the face of someone who engages in extramarital affairs.

But things do lead to things, which can then lead to other things, until these things then become the only thing that is happening when you consider everything.



So regarding your question, it's not wrong per se to nurture a close friendship between a married woman and another male, BUT in the same vein it's not advisable especially if they are within the same location and can easily bump into each other.

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Sixfit: 1:19pm On Aug 27, 2020
crackhaus:

Lol, it always seems that way, trust me.There is hardly any married woman that has the face of someone who engages in extramarital affairs.

But things do lead to things, which can then lead to other things, until these things then become the only thing that is happening when you consider everything.



So regarding your question, it's not wrong per se to nurture a close friendship between a married woman and another male, BUT in the same vein it's not advisable especially if they are within the same location and can easily bump into each other.

The bolded can never be over emphasized.

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by crackhaus: 1:29pm On Aug 27, 2020
Sixfit:


The bolded can never be over emphasized.
Lol... they all look and seem decent, at least most do.

But it has never stopped something from leading to something.

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by fr3do(m): 1:42pm On Aug 27, 2020
Men from una side of the country too like married women!

Na curse to touch married woman o
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Sixfit: 2:10pm On Aug 27, 2020
crackhaus:

Lol... they all look and seem decent, at least most do.

But it has never stopped something from leading to something.
No be lie
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by bukatyne(f): 2:32pm On Aug 27, 2020
Ibadanboyy:
Lol, I know most of you will rush in with the aim of unleashing curses and different profanities at me but actually im only about to ask a question on behalf of a friend.

My question is What is wrong With a married woman suddenly having a new male friend.

I mean is this normal or wrong, a new male friend that they communicate almost daily both through WhatsApp and call.. I will like to hear people's opinion because this woman seem like a descent woman that wouldn't engage in extra marital affairs. Even if there's nothing now can't feelings develops eventually in the future.

@Bold:

What normal married women 'suddenly' has a male friend she whatsapp and calls daily? What are they talking about? What common ground do they have?

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by TheeDetective: 2:47pm On Aug 27, 2020
@Op; this is how people get themselves into serious trouble. That said, you seem to be the male friend that this married woman wants to establish a friendship with right? undecided Hence, your bringing it to NL to seek validation from Nlanders to carry on the friendship via whatsapp, calls and other avenues with this supposedly married woman presumably. undecided Okay nah; your eyes go soon clear.

Don’t be the one to make this married woman withdraw the attention that she ought to be giving exclusively to her husband to you especially when problems start arising in the marital union. The male friend AKA you will be like a shoulder to cry on and then from there, other things CAN/MAY/WILL transpire. Save yourself from that stress so that you and this married woman will not cry crocodile tears (muttering had i known) if at all your so called friendship EVER leads to adultery. The above apply if the reverse was the case; i.e a married man having a female as a friend other than his wife.

You can clearly see the repercussion of a married man who kept a female as a friend in the case with this poster in the attached thread below who wants to eat his cake and have it at the same time. Though the story looks like a tales by moonlight story as NO ONE WHO IS COMMITTING ADULTERY WILL BE THAT RELAXED WITH THE SORT OF SILLY, NANSENSICAL AND TRASHY RESPONSES THAT THE POSTER HAS PROVIDED IN THAT THREAD. Learn from that example; Enough said.

https://www.nairaland.com/6071277/sinful-relationship

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Liposure: 3:18pm On Aug 27, 2020
The fear of one thing leading to another is the beginning of wisdom. Very risky to the husband, very risky to the woman overall very risky to marriage

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 27, 2020
fr3do:
Men from una side of the country too like married women!

Na curse to touch married woman o

Why the generalization, so you chose to be myopic in your reasoning that people from south west cheat on their spouse the most. Anyways it's your individual opinion it doesn't hold ground.
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Nobody: 6:43pm On Aug 27, 2020
TheeDetective:
@Op; this is how people get themselves into serious trouble. That said, you seem to be the male friend that this married woman wants to establish a friendship with right? undecided Hence, your bringing it to NL to seek validation from Nlanders to carry on the friendship via whatsapp, calls and other avenues with this supposedly married woman presumably. undecided Okay nah; your eyes go soon clear.

Don’t be the one to make this married woman withdraw the attention that she ought to be giving exclusively to her husband to you especially when problems start arising in the marital union. The male friend AKA you will be like a shoulder to cry on and then from there, other things CAN/MAY/WILL transpire. Save yourself from that stress so that you and this married woman will not cry crocodile tears (muttering had i known) if at all your so called friendship EVER leads to adultery. The above apply if the reverse was the case; i.e a married man having a female as a friend other than his wife.

You can clearly see the repercussion of a married man who kept a female as a friend in the case with this poster in the attached thread below who wants to eat his cake and have it at the same time. Though the story looks like a tales by moonlight story as NO ONE WHO IS COMMITTING ADULTERY WILL BE THAT RELAXED WITH THE SORT OF SILLY, NANSENSICAL AND TRASHY RESPONSES THAT THE POSTER HAS PROVIDED IN THAT THREAD. Learn from that example; Enough said.

https://www.nairaland.com/6071277/sinful-relationship

Thanks for taking time to write up a rather sensible piece though your assumption of me being the said male friend is only imaginary. Apart from that, you surely made some valued points and it is important to note that not everybody that make a post on here is seeking for attention or trying to delight himself/herself with the stress of dishing out "a tales by a moonlight story"
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Nobody: 6:48pm On Aug 27, 2020
bukatyne:


@Bold:

What normal married women 'suddenly' has a male friend she whatsapp and calls daily? What are they talking about? What common ground do they have?


The common ground according to my understanding is that they both went to the same university though they weren't acquaintances then.
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by mariahAngel(f): 8:59pm On Aug 27, 2020
Ibadanboyy:


The common ground according to my understanding is that they both went to the same university though they weren't acquaintances then.

Passion dey sleep, lust go dey wake am up.

Kuku say na you...no be here we dey? undecided

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 27, 2020
mariahAngel:


Passion dey sleep, lust go dey wake am up.

Kuku say na you...no be here we dey? undecided

Whatever makes you sleep at night undecided
Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by mariahAngel(f): 9:15pm On Aug 27, 2020
Ibadanboyy:


Whatever makes you sleep at night undecided

E be tinz!

Ma ton ara e!
To ba wu e, ko lo gba iyawo oni'yawo s'ogbo? grin

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Re: New Male Friend For A Married Woman by Nobody: 10:27pm On Aug 27, 2020
mariahAngel:


E be tinz!

Ma ton ara e!
To ba wu e, ko lo gba iyawo oni'yawo s'ogbo? grin



undecided feel free to derail as u obviously don't have anything tangible to offer. Nite.

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