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| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Powerfly(f): 12:34am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Your parents want to add to Nigeria's problem. We gat too much kids and an overwhelming unproductive and broke population. Why are they trying to compound our problems.. Eh why? 3 Likes |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by vickydevoka(m): 12:37am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Me way de 31. Anytime I talk about marriage my parents go de vex 2 Likes |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Joshmanuel10(m): 12:40am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Of all problem to deal with parent matter Na tough stuff oooo.... If u plan to go all out against them u have to leave cos if u stay they might but u through hell.... Not until u see finish.... U should be wise someone somewhere is feeding them stupid ideas..... |
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| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Slimsly100(f): 12:54am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Are you their only son  |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Thereishel: 1:04am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Alimzy20: Liar you are in school, unemployed and 21. Lies lies and lies. |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Oyolohi24: 1:06am On Aug 28, 2020 |
cooooooks:Are you their only male child? If yes, I see reason with them for the fear of uncertainty. This last few is some how some how bros. But if no, to me, you are not emotionally, financially and even sexually mature going by age to withstand nowadays ladies brohaha except if they can buy you shock absorbers |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by linearity: 1:08am On Aug 28, 2020 |
cooooooks: Bros don’t under rate parents when it come to that and the OP should never bring that before them as an excuse. They will just tell him not to worry and arrange one willing bride for him over night, that is if they don’t already have one waiting. |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Oyolohi24: 1:09am On Aug 28, 2020 |
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| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Nobody: 1:36am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Alimzy20:Your Parents are funny!! Are you the only son?? Do they want to have grandchildren early?? Just stand on your ground. Don't be bullied or guilt tripped to marry when yo are not ready!! It is a bad idea  |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by joyandfaith: 1:52am On Aug 28, 2020 |
inumidun2010:you get it. @Alimzy20 please ask them why? |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by wellingtongrey(m): 1:54am On Aug 28, 2020 |
UDUJ: It may not be a lie. I would want my son to get married at the Op's age (21) cos I married late and would love to see grandchild earlier. I reside in Magodo Phase 2 , you need to see young guyz and ladies getting married and leading a good life. An exemplification of well-cultured behaviours and readiness from the couple. So, even if you get married at 39( like me), you may still elicit that immature behavioural tendencies. Age has nothing to do with it ,in its entirety. Individual differences though. 1 Like |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Emyogalanya: 1:56am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Alimzy20:I wanted to ask if you are an only child , but let me rephrase it : are you an only son ? |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by bigtt76(f): 2:05am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Simple ....get married and keep the geh for den house go do your paros ....thank me later  Alimzy20: |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by henrychikezie(m): 2:14am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Just ask God for direction |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Jhydeezle: 2:22am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Are they dying and in need of grand babies already?? |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Pat081: 2:23am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Alimzy20:U are nt into any relationship ??that is ur parants fear oo they are thinking maybe d thing is nt working like a man own Alimzy20:U are nt into any relationship ??that is ur parants fear oo they are thinking maybe d thing is nt working like a man own Alimzy20:U are nt into any relationship ??that is ur parants fear oo they are thinking maybe d thing is nt working like a man own |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by friday2011(m): 3:00am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Talk tru, u don too dey chop dere food  1 Like |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Goodman247: 3:23am On Aug 28, 2020 |
How can your parents be forcing you to get married when you don't have any source of income, how are you going to care for your child, is this story really true |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by uuzba(m): 3:30am On Aug 28, 2020 |
cooooooks:OP is most likely still living in their house and not paying rent. Parent's money is finished and they're basically telling OP, "Get out of our house, earn money, marry, born kids and be responsible to us" - Is it because they're still alive? If they die now what will OP do? He will go and find money to bury them by force. And he will have to find money to eat. |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by uuzba(m): 3:33am On Aug 28, 2020 |
friday2011:Exactly. He's not paying rent. The school he's bragging with, he's not even paying the fees as he said he has no job. He thinks his parents should pay everything for him. That's why they threw marriage on this head, so his eyes will open.. |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by paulgabrielz: 3:50am On Aug 28, 2020 |
I am just feeling sucidial  |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Ybaby: 4:16am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Alimzy20: How are they forcing you ? They cannot handcuff you to the registry na or force your peepee into a woman weewee. No one can use your mind so no one can force you. Be posting/ gaming them. DONOT ATTEMPT TO IMPREGNATE anyone without finances sorted. Too many kids suffering - lets put a stop to it! As for your parents, play them with love but donot listen to thier advise thought it is out of their love for you but still a "foolish" advise nonetheless. 1 Like |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Ybaby: 4:17am On Aug 28, 2020 |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by mercyland93(m): 4:17am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Seems ur parents gave birth to you alone.
If yes, please ask them if they would assist you financially. .
So with that, u are good to go.. |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by BayoMiller: 4:26am On Aug 28, 2020 |
This one weak me ��� |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by losvemous: 4:26am On Aug 28, 2020 |
I experienced something like that at about your age. I was 20 then, and my dad wants me to engage a particular girl, promising he would take care of her while I go to school. Knowing my dad to be a very stubborn person and been the only one I had to sponsor my education, I arranged a meeting with the girl through a religious leader; did all the formalities, so my dad would think that I'm serious, then I went to school. So everytime my dad called me to discuss marriage, I would tell him I have a very serious exam at hand and that I would come home after the exam so we could forward preparation for the wedding... Buy guy, I went home only twice throughout my five years university programme and each time, I made sure it was safe to travel. But my dad didn't give up. Even though I explained to him that the lady already had someone else, he encouraged me to get closer and make things work. My dad pressured me till the lady got married last year. So bro, man up! Your life is yours to live. You are obviously not ready for marriage. Go get education, get a job, set your own space and find someone who suit you. 1 Like |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by toprealman: 5:01am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Alimzy20:The earlier you, the better. |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by toprealman: 5:05am On Aug 28, 2020 |
paulgabrielz:Kilode, want to talk to someone? |
| Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by MemoriesAndMe: 5:12am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Alimzy20:May be your parents want you to inherit a throne and a requirement is having a wife and kids. Is your dad a king? If not, no mind them jare, na old age dey bother them. They probably had you when they were old and want to see grandchildren from their son before anything happens to them. |
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