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Most girls think that am a cheat even without getting caught.. and it's a major problem for me

What is fine or handsome ?

No small pikin talk be that one.

I prefer looking like the twin of Oshimole with money

I may not be handsome but I look better than Oshimole, nonetheless I don't think a chick like Lara would choose me over Oshimole.

Chii59:
Team virgin guys or nothing

yes ooo nothing more nothing less,virgin guy or I use you to run errands till you receive sense.

Obaawonuniversi:
It's a gift to be an attractive and handsome guy that girls can't resist. Less attractive guy's may think the grass is always greener on the other side. Being handsome sometimes has it's downsides too. I'm sure a lot of guys can relate to these things.

Your appearance is intimidating: imagine a girl has a crush on a guy, it's hard enough for her to have to make the first move. But even worse, you're the cute guy that makes her nervous whenever you're around. She's simply intimidated by your appearance, which really sucks for you, just because you're attractive.

Women presume they are players: All just you're a good looking stud, you are guilty without even being tried. Women believe most handsome guys are nothing but heartbreakers at the first glance. They believe you're probably hiding a devil beneath the surface.

You are a threat to other guys: Automatically, other guys might be aggressive and resentful towards you, because they know you might be giving their girl some looks she might not resist.

Presumptions that you're empty inside: Many people, especially women might assume you're nothing but a pretty face that's Intellectually shallow, and they probably don't need a good looking idiot as their man. Some people even believe that the smart and nerdy people aren't always the handsome type.

Your looks aren't enough: Though, you might be blessed with great genetics. Your looks just aren't enough. Women prefer men with status and financial stability to a guy that's just handsome. Nothing beats a handsome and successful man.

Women want you as a Prop: Some women just want you for your looks. Though, they might not be deeply emotionally attached, but hey!,You're good-looking, and who wouldn't want a handsome stud as theirs. They just don't want you for who you really are.

People think you take too much pride in yourself: A lot of people probably have lingering speculations that you take too much pride in your looks.You can't dress too well, because you look to good and people think you spend a lot of time and efforts in making yourself look good.

You might be seen as more of a boy than a man: Some women prefer men with more manly and mature looks that are a few years older. To them, It brings a sense of Alpha-male dominance and responsibility compared to boys who might play around with them and waste their time.Don't be too surprised when you see a young lady marrying an older man.

90% true man, most fine guys are usually stupid, they might be book smart but when it comes to real thinking rubbish. Look at all the famous mathematicians, philosophers and physicists. They are all just plain or ugly.

vickydevoka:
Do u knw ugly gals prefer handsome guys?
Dark gals prefer fair guys n short gals lyk u prefer tall guys. Even without de guy affording to buy u recharge card u might open 4 him

This your comment stopped working since 1966,where have you been?wake up

Speaking from experience, as a guy whether you are fine, average looking or ugly, JUST HUSTLE & MAKE SOME GOOD MONEY.
If you are cute & broke, ladies will only use you to catch cruise. They will only roll with u just to show u off to their friends but deep down, that respect is not there. Not to mention cheating on you with ugly rich dudes sef & u nor go fit exercise ur authority like an Alpha-male.
My point: As a handsome dude, do not rely only on your looks to get beautiful women chasing after u.
Hustle very hard to make some dope money & trust me, the sky will be your limit.

vickydevoka:
Mine is just discipline.very important. I lack dat. N it pains me, n I can't help it

you are lacking in the most important aspect

Obaawonuniversi:
i am very attractive and extremely handsome

Pics or idontbilivit

NegroAcheiver:
Nigerian girls like that zzor up there.The funny thing about it is that when handsome guys now make money they will now want commitment from him more than the average guys because they want to win at all sides.Most of the handsome guys I know that made money normally chop all these girls anyhow.They show no mercy.

This is the ladder:
Handsome guy with money
Average guy with money
Handsome guy with no money
Average guy with no money

Add ugly guy with money and ugly guy with no money to the equation. Then add Power as well. i. H + M+ P

I think it's money before handsomeness. Money have an edge over handsomeness on a long run.

Zzor:
are you even handsome to start with,what is so special about a man being handsome?All a man need is money and discipline.Stop letting it intoxicate you

My sister God go bless you for saying this truth.

[quote author=NegroAcheiver post=93326453]Nigerian girls like that zzor up there.The funny thing about it is that when handsome guys now make money they will now want commitment from him more than the average guys because they want to win at all sides.Most of the handsome guys I know that made money normally chop all these girls anyhow.They show no mercy.

This is the ladder:
Handsome guy with money
Average guy with money
Handsome guy with no money
Average guy with no money.


See, I don believe in all these trash. As for me am a gud looking guy to some extent. Am a civil servant. Am not rich oh but I av a stable income. Before I got married i had many girlfriends that even the finest guy amongst my friends could not compete wit me. Sometimes it's not about being handsome or being rich. It's ur courage and maturity that women need. The way I dress speaks much about my personality and when girls finally got closer to me. On visitation they see the way my apartment looks like very neat and charming b4 I know wat is going on they had fallen asleep. Forget being handsome or being rich my dear.

Zzor:
yes ooo nothing more nothing less,virgin guy or I use you to run errands till you receive sense.

Organs:
Add ugly guy with money and ugly guy with no money to the equation. Then add Power as well. i. H + M+ P

Ok.I just added only average so people will understand.I don't like calling people ugly.

NegroAcheiver:
Aunty just because you can't mugulate handsome guys doesn't mean it's not special.Im sure you yourself wont want your son to look like oshiomole abi you want?

That's not needed.

Zzor:
tripp?Smh,how can I tripp for some audio hype,abegi,a handsome guy doesn't trip me, virgin guys do.

And I use to be a virgin till my mid 20s o.

[quote author=zeekcom83 post=93334109][/quote]Sure bro you're very right but for most guys once they're even only rich there's a certain level of confidence that flows from the inside.

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Women presume they are players: All just you're a good looking stud, you are guilty without even being tried. Women believe most handsome guys are nothing but heartbreakers at the first glance. They believe you're probably hiding a devil beneath the surface.



Your looks aren't enough: Though, you might be blessed with great genetics. Your looks just aren't enough. Women prefer men with status and financial stability to a guy that's just handsome. Nothing beats a handsome and successful man.


People think you take too much pride in yourself: A lot of people probably have lingering speculations that you take too much pride in your looks.You can't dress too well, because you look to good and people think you spend a lot of time and efforts in making yourself look good.

You might be seen as more of a boy than a man: Some women prefer men with more manly and mature looks that are a few years older. To them, It brings a sense of Alpha-male dominance and responsibility compared to boys who might play around with them and waste their time.Don't be too surprised when you see a young lady marrying an older man.[/quote]Valid points...

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Most importantly, don't forget that "handsome" ends at 25. Oshiomhole in a 2020 G-Wagon beats "handsome with 6 packs" in a keke. Just saying.

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Feminists and Masculinists trading war of words everywhere on nairaland.

Ladies and Guys comments here indicates that 90percent of them have really experienced what we call a failed and pained relationship.

At such a young age, all what will occupied their mind is to have boyfriend and girlfriend while others are busy fighting to have a great future by actualising their dreams with careful followed set of goals.

By the time they clock 25 upwards, they are already tired of life and promte them voicing out their frustrations through their topics and comments here on nairaland.

webizone:
Depends on the type of guy you are dating, and the type of girl you are. Most girls I have known don't really wanna bother me with their lady stuff. I am actually the one asking them about their affairs as a way of getting closer to them.

even if a lady is not asking you for their stuff,at least full ground remain incase the need to ask you arise,also learn to pamper your woman,dont be a stingy boyfriend

Zzor:
This your comment stopped working since 1966,where have you been?wake up

That's not needed.

4 dis covi,d era n senseless killing all over, u de talk of handsome? See, 2 tins u fit do to reset ur brain
1. Smoke smalllll weed 2. Visit mortuary,make u know where handsome end. 4 dis covi,d era n senseless killing all over, u de talk of handsome? See, 2 tins u fit do to reset ur brain
1. Smoke smalllll weed 2. Visit mortuary,make u know where handsome end. even crayfish get brain pass u. F**kn full

Zzor:
even if a lady is not asking you for their stuff,at least full ground remain incase the need to ask you arise,also learn to pamper your woman,dont be a stingy boyfriend

What if the lady is stingy?

I don't care how you look now... Just hustle and have money... You'll see that na money be fine Bobo...

Who handsome help self,na money be fine guy abeg

Notatribalist:
If thats his real picture then he is handsome. Stop the hate

if i hear first pic is @gainbygaines on ig second pic is @dayvyid

Obaawonuniversi:
i am very attractive and extremely handsome

bro i don't know you oo but I like ur reply.

You are a threat to other guys: Automatically, other guys might be aggressive and resentful towards you, because they know you might be giving their girl some looks she might not resist.


This is FALSE

If a guy is comfortable, he can get any girl

Ladies value money more than looks

Na underage girls who are still whoring (according to Nairaland guys) that lay emphasis on looks

webizone:
What if the lady is stingy?

do you intend to leech on any lady?during our father's time,they never depend on their women for anything,they were fully incharge hence the more reason they had stable homes that what we have around these days.Most men these days leech on women alot and naturally when a man leech on a woman,he has indirectly loose his authority.A woman should help her man(thats in marriage ooo,not all this yeye boyfriend and girlfriend something) but it shouldn't be a burden placed on her by the man

Zzor:
are you even handsome to start with,what is so special about a man being handsome?All a man need is money and discipline.Stop letting it intoxicate you

why now use my picture to make a thread *pic1