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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 11:56am On Aug 31, 2020
Smile4mee01:
To be sincere with you, I dont think its really really a bad thing. Rather than watch if she is wearing a ring, watch her actions.

Again, let's even think deep and back. At what point did a ring become an evidence of being married. Was this not even a white mans idea that we have incorporated into what the ideal should be. How did our forefathers and fore mothers identify as being married. Did adam give eve a wedding ring ?

Just saying.

#kunuboy#

I don’t see it as a bad thing either.

I just wish I could easily identify a married lady (especially the fresh and newly married ones), even without a ring.

Is there a better way?
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 11:57am On Aug 31, 2020
botrix:
most unmarried ladies go to the market,buy rings and wear,just to scare some guys away.

Irony of life grin
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by truespeak: 12:24pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:


Okay........How do we now recognize a married woman when I see one?

I must say that in the two instances that I have met these women, I truly admired their maturity. The way they spoke to me was so friendly and reasonable.

I understand your plight but in truth, it is dependent on the woman whom you meet for if she does not wear a ring nor conduct herself with the spirit of one whom is bound or taken, you may never know until you approach and find out.

In my humble opinion, this is a case of you may not know until you truly know!
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Dtruthspeaker: 12:28pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:


Okay........How do we now recognize a married woman when I see one?

I must say that in the two instances that I have met these women, I truly admired their maturity. The way they spoke to me was so friendly and reasonable.

Ah! You will know, they always look married. And any who does not look married, is not married, even though she may be married.

Everything is Spirit including a woman who is truly married!

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Smile4mee01: 1:37pm On Aug 31, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:


Ah! You will know, they always look married. And any who does not look married, is not married, even though she may be married.

Everything is Spirit including a woman who is truly married!

Word!!!

There is this aura and vibe about married women, you will most likely know. Listen to thier conversation, you can tell. They are often quick to tell they are married.

Don't get it twisted though, if you are dangote son. Don't be surprised if a married woman will take off her ring just to seem available.

Generally just look towards younger women and ask if they married. No be sin. Infact, once I understand a girl has a boyfriend. I don't even bother, I move to the next one. The issue for the girls most time is that they have boyfriends but still entertaining other men, gauging the better offer.

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by crackhaus: 1:51pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:

I don’t see it as a bad thing either.

I just wish I could easily identify a married lady (especially the fresh and newly married ones), even without a ring.

Is there a better way?
On first meeting, I don't think there's any other way you can tell for sure that a woman is married if she's not wearing her wedding bands.

Although most times, I do make use of her size, her carriage, the way she speaks, and her overall aura to guess it on my own but still, this is never 100% accurate.
I would assume but still won't ask until they tell me themselves.

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 2:19pm On Aug 31, 2020
Smile4mee01:


Word!!!

There is this aura and vibe about married women, you will most likely know. Listen to thier conversation, you can tell. They are often quick to tell they are married.

Don't get it twisted though, if you are dangote son. Don't be surprised if a married woman will take off her ring just to seem available.

Generally just look towards younger women and ask if they married. No be sin. Infact, once I understand a girl has a boyfriend. I don't even bother, I move to the next one. The issue for the girls most time is that they have boyfriends but still entertaining other men, gauging the better offer.


My brother, it’s well. This wife matter na real work grin
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 2:21pm On Aug 31, 2020
crackhaus:

On first meeting, I don't think there's any other way you can tell for sure that a woman is married if she's not wearing her wedding bands.

Although most times, I do make use of her size, her carriage, the way she speaks, and her overall aura to guess it on my own but still, this is never 100% accurate.
I would assume but still won't ask until they tell me themselves.

I get you bro......Just imagine the mental calculation you have to go through, when this could have been avoided by a mere ring
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 2:23pm On Aug 31, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:


Ah! You will know, they always look married. And any who does not look married, is not married, even though she may be married.

Everything is Spirit including a woman who is truly married!

Wow! This is highly spiritual grin
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by crackhaus: 2:34pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:

I get you bro......Just imagine the mental calculation you have to go through, when this could have been avoided by a mere ring
Lol @mental calculation. What to do... grin

There was a time I used to ask them their status just to speed things up... but after some experiences, I noticed they simply don't like being asked. cheesy

- The one who is married and not wearing her bands, will feel disappointed and think she doesn't look as young and single as she thought.
- The one who is not married, will still feel disappointed and think she looks too old which is why you assumed she's married.

I don't bother asking no more, women can be funny...

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:41pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:
Recently I have been scouting for a wonderful lady to settle down with.

On two occasions, I met some cool looking ladies, only to be told they are married. However, I noticed something, the two women never wore their wedding ring.

My latest encounter today was the funniest. So I walked up to this lady and we got talking, only for her to tell me she’s married and the husband was actually inside a car that was parked beside us. So I told her I never knew she was
married since she wasn’t wearing her wedding ring.

Lo and behold, the husband just stylishly came out of the car, by then I’d already excused the lady and left.

Mehn..........I was just laughing at myself after the whole thing.

So my question, is it not important for married young ladies to wear their wedding ring to public places?

unfortunately you see marriage world in your tunnel vision

1 not all married people follow the western world using the rings to show one is married

2 The ring doesnt stop anyone doing whatever they wan,t in this case cheating

3 With or without a ring, its the respond and interaction that will make you notice that this woman is married or in serious relationship
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 2:49pm On Aug 31, 2020
crackhaus:

Lol @mental calculation. What to do... grin

There was a time I used to ask them their status just to speed things up... but after some experiences, I noticed they simply don't like being asked. cheesy

- The one who is married and not wearing her bands, will feel disappointed and think she doesn't look as young and single as she thought.
- The one who is not married, will still feel disappointed and think she looks too old which is why you assumed she's married.

I don't bother asking no more, women can be funny...

It’s a crazy world champ........May we not end up dating married women or becoming Assistant Husband las las grin
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by crackhaus: 2:55pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:

It’s a crazy world champ........May we not end up dating married women or becoming Assistant Husband las las grin
Lol, you're even going too far.. Dating or assistant husband ke.

May Kings not end up having a one-night stand or casual sex with someone's wife without our knowledge. AMEN! cheesy
This is their real plan...

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:58pm On Aug 31, 2020
Smile4mee01:


Word!!!

There is this aura and vibe about married women, you will most likely know. Listen to thier conversation, you can tell. They are often quick to tell they are married.

Don't get it twisted though, if you are dangote son. Don't be surprised if a married woman will take off her ring just to seem available.

Generally just look towards younger women and ask if they married. No be sin. Infact, once I understand a girl has a boyfriend. I don't even bother, I move to the next one. The issue for the girls most time is that they have boyfriends but still entertaining other men, gauging the better offer.


Yes oh! Always looking for better even when they are married.
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Dtruthspeaker: 4:59pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:


Wow! This is highly spiritual grin

grin we are Spirit too, so we see spirits!

Remember that is why we used to see some babes and we say "Bros run, day one na evil spirit" grin

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:04pm On Aug 31, 2020
crackhaus:

Lol, you're even going too far.. Dating or assistant husband ke.

May Kings not end up having a one-night stand or casual sex with someone's wife without our knowledge. AMEN! cheesy
This is their real plan...

What shall you say when it is married women knocking on your door asking you to Potiphar Wife them now?

That is what is going on now?
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 5:07pm On Aug 31, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:


grin we are Spirit too, so we see spirits!

Remember that is why we used to see some babes and we say "Bros run, day one na evil spirit" grin

Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Aug 31, 2020
Some churches don't use rings.
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by truespeak: 5:30pm On Aug 31, 2020
BornToSucced:


My brother, it’s well. This wife matter na real work grin

It is, if you walk with your own understanding!
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by truespeak: 5:35pm On Aug 31, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:


Ah! You will know, they always look married. And any who does not look married, is not married, even though she may be married.

Everything is Spirit including a woman who is truly married!


Some have rings but are not married,
Some are married but have no rings,
But the Spirit discerneth all things!
Both, the truly married, the married on paper only and the unmarried!
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 5:41pm On Aug 31, 2020
truespeak:


It is, if you walk with your own understanding!

Are you married?
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by crackhaus: 5:52pm On Aug 31, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:

What shall you say when it is married women knocking on your door asking you to Potiphar Wife them now?

That is what is going on now?
Run, nigga, run...

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by crackhaus: 5:54pm On Aug 31, 2020
Dtruthspeaker:


grin we are Spirit too, so we see spirits!

Remember that is why we used to see some babes and we say "Bros run, day one na evil spirit" grin
...from the marine kingdom grin
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by GboyegaD(m): 6:14pm On Aug 31, 2020
What's the special thing about the ring? The faithfulness and commitment to the marriage is the important thing.

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:40pm On Aug 31, 2020
crackhaus:

Run, nigga, run...

Omo withr Nos in the Trunk boosting and pedal to the metal!
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Dtruthspeaker: 6:41pm On Aug 31, 2020
truespeak:


Some have rings but are not married,
Some are married but have no rings,
But the Spirit discerneth all things!
Both, the truly married, the married on paper only and the unmarried!

grin
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by Amazinggirl95: 7:56pm On Aug 31, 2020
Because they marry Fvck boys as husbands who adds no value to their lives
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by lilyheaven: 9:03pm On Aug 31, 2020
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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by BornToSucced(m): 9:46pm On Aug 31, 2020
lilyheaven:
My husband stopped wearing his ring Not up to a month after wedding, so I removed mine too and kept it inside the same box He kept his.
We are almost 4 years in marriage, we don’t wear it again. And no one can wear it because we inscribed our names within

So you stopped wearing your wedding ring, just to spite your husband refusal to wear his........or you just didn’t feel like wearing it anymore?
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by lilyheaven: 1:49pm On Sep 01, 2020
BornToSucced:


So you stopped wearing your wedding ring, just to spite your husband refusal to wear his........or you just didn’t feel like wearing it anymore?
Both
Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by ImaIma1(f): 5:00pm On Sep 01, 2020
bukatyne:
Question: Why are most of the married women you meet without their wedding ring?

Answer: Because you are destined to marry a married woman grin cheesy

Thread closed.


I am one of them o cheesy

I have had to tell guys that I am married...lol.

For me, when I was pregnant, my fingers were bigger and the rings couldn't fit my wedding finger. Instead of keeping it, I wore it on my little finger and that's how it fell off.

I haven't gotten round to getting a new one.

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Re: Why Are Most Young Married Ladies No Longer Wearing Their Wedding Ring? by bukatyne(f): 5:04pm On Sep 01, 2020
ImaIma1:


I am one of them o cheesy

I have had to tell guys that I am married...lol.

For me, when I was pregnant, my fingers were bigger and the rings couldn't fit my wedding finger. Instead of keeping it, I wore it on my little finger and that's how it fell off.

I haven't gotten round to getting a new one.

Wait lemme ask the OP if he met you grin

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