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chatinent:
I never read anywhere you indicated you are ready to settle down. So why are you now getting this abnormal upsurge for a relationship? Sex?


Do not be misled. Premarital sex will ruin your life. If not now, later.

Don't follow the crowd.

jammy60:
You are right but I felt, I should start building a relationship that would end up well with me.

jammy60:
To be sincere, right from my secondary School day's, I have always find ladies around me and I am the type of guy that plays and jokes very well but I could be very serious at times when I mean business.

I came from a family where we only have one girl and others boys, and I hardly go out with ladies or allow them visit me due to the natural fear I developed towards them or should I say I was just the shy person that find it difficult moving with ladies, playing or doing all this normal kissing, hugging and all of that, that guys do, even in my private when I am with any lady either we are chatting or playing even when I initiate it, if the lady tries torching me, I would just run and play around her, reason being that any little torch from a lady gets to me, and if steadily turns me on, I have high sexual drive.

My undergraduate day's was war for me as many ladies really wanted me, some even had issues with me because I didn't allow them penetrate me, have fun with me, hug me, I don't hug normally, helpfully, I got engaged in fellowship things with one of the most respected fellowship in school, for there way of life....which helped me a bit, but beside that some ladies doesn't care, they still want to be close, not that I was not interested or don't like some of them, I was always scared and doesn't want to do anything that will make me have sex, I graduated went for service. During my service it was like a war, I tried keeping myself too but flopped a bit as I really had romantic affection with a female corp member, who was very close to me..... But no sex because I was still afraid.

Now, I am working in Lagos, I have so many responsible and future promising ladies around me who are really interested I should just ask them out but I am confused, I don't want to make mistake. I don't want to fall into wrong hand, I have kept myself, maintained all this while, but seriously I am feeling lonely, I need someone in my life.

Started a job in Lagos 2 months ago, I already have a lady so much interested in me, which is the problem I always have..... Please what could be the cause?

Just advise, pls no it's my first time posting here... Thanks

jammy60:
To be sincere, right from my secondary School day's, I have always find ladies around me and I am the type of guy that plays and jokes very well but I could be very serious at times when I mean business.

I came from a family where we only have one girl and others boys, and I hardly go out with ladies or allow them visit me due to the natural fear I developed towards them or should I say I was just the shy person that find it difficult moving with ladies, playing or doing all this normal kissing, hugging and all of that, that guys do, even in my private when I am with any lady either we are chatting or playing even when I initiate it, if the lady tries torching me, I would just run and play around her, reason being that any little torch from a lady gets to me, and if steadily turns me on, I have high sexual drive.

My undergraduate day's was war for me as many ladies really wanted me, some even had issues with me because I didn't allow them penetrate me, have fun with me, hug me, I don't hug normally, helpfully, I got engaged in fellowship things with one of the most respected fellowship in school, for there way of life....which helped me a bit, but beside that some ladies doesn't care, they still want to be close, not that I was not interested or don't like some of them, I was always scared and doesn't want to do anything that will make me have sex, I graduated went for service. During my service it was like a war, I tried keeping myself too but flopped a bit as I really had romantic affection with a female corp member, who was very close to me..... But no sex because I was still afraid.

Now, I am working in Lagos, I have so many responsible and future promising ladies around me who are really interested I should just ask them out but I am confused, I don't want to make mistake. I don't want to fall into wrong hand, I have kept myself, maintained all this while, but seriously I am feeling lonely, I need someone in my life.

Started a job in Lagos 2 months ago, I already have a lady so much interested in me, which is the problem I always have..... Please what could be the cause?

Just advise, pls no it's my first time posting here... Thanks