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Let your parents help too, you just might never know

Realpal:
Please, I have a question for married guys and engaged couples.
I hope I'm in the right section.
How do I find my life partner?
I'm 36+ years old, independent and I want to get married, but I don't even know where to start.
My parents subtly suggested to help, but I rejected their offer, because I don't want an arranged marriage.
How do I go about this on my own?
My pastor advised singles in our church to meet him, if they're seeking for a woman to marry.
Is it advisable to look for my future wife in the church?
I need help, please.

Wherever you are getting your wife from is not the problem

The problem is being married to a woman who will be your friend, your sister and your wife

Does it mean that you don't have a girl friend you can model for a wife to be

Marriage is sensitive and stronger than you guys think

You could look here on NL.

Prayerfully search you will find her.

Don't rule out church too.

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God will guide you in choosing.

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Realpal:
Yes, it is.
You'd think women are everywhere to choose, but it's not easy at all.
My exes are both married and they had to marry someone else then, cos I wasn't ready at the time.
I'm ready now, but still searching.

Ther is no end to a man's search for a wife