my wife just left and ran away leaving I and my 2 kids behind in this my present condition. I couldn't post it here on Twitter I have been so heart broken since 4 days now. Struggling with 2 small kids age 2&4yrs old you can check all my post both pinned and she decided to add more. Pls, my 2 little kids are hungry, you can assist us with anything please here is my whatsapp number 08070751915, Whatever you can assist us with, Pls
God bless you and your family.

while some are praying for husband, some are running away, some are begging for a child someone just abandoned two.


it's well bro.

only legends know da true story

Your wife no get relatives?

Lies your wife left suddenly you turned beggar, format. Lies

Thank you so very much and I leave you with your thoughts. I think you see where I said for the past 4 days now. I have been to the station she is not even communicating with anyone she only appeared online once and even the SMS I sent to use the delivery status notification to know when she will on her phone is yet to be delievered. You won't understand until this kind of situation hits you. Thanks

smithmoi:
Lies your wife left suddenly you turned beggar, format. Lies

I would have told you men have been doing it to their wives but I won't even though you know it's the truth.My neighbors wife left since Easter leaving him with 4 under 8 kids. Their state alone is pitiful. His wasn't finances though. Arranging to send them to his sister who has 5 kids already. I don't even want to imagine the suffering that is before them.

My concern is your children and you must do right by them whether she is there or not. Apportioning blames will not solve anything.

Think outside the box and make arrangements for babysitting while you go out n hustle.Your mom, her mom or female siblings or even elderly female neighbors.

The reality of single fatherhood is staring at you.

I treck to her fathers place in Igando from Ayobo today and the man said since that day (4 days ago) till now her phone has not gone through. Her elder brother too is also checking out from some of her friends which I have contacted some but they all saying she is not there. But I believe some evil friends advised her to leave the marriage due to my present condition. You can take your time to check my posts right from my first time here on NL I have been doing any kinds of hustle trying to get back to my feet but nothing is working out for me. I even begged for a loan of 300k on Twitter so that I can open a restaurant with her since she is a caterer but nobody assisted now she is gone. Looking at my 2 kids like I just don't know what to do anymore no single food in this house for them

thorpido:
Your wife no get relatives?

You won't understand until you grow up to be in your parental hood. Thanks anyways and I leave you with your thoughts

smithmoi:
Lies your wife left suddenly you turned beggar, format. Lies

Na person whey get money to feed and pay babysitter will look for one. Even money to register them in lesson and to enrol them in school I don't have. They have been hungry since I left just same back now arranging beans for them to eat. I just don't know how else to explain my life I'm dying inside seriously

LadySarah:
I would have told you men have been doing it to their wives but I won't even though you know it's the truth.My neighbors wife left since Easter leaving him with 4 under 8 kids. Their state alone is pitiful. His wasn't finances though. Arranging to send them to his sister who has 5 kids already. I don't even want to imagine the suffering that is before them.

My concern is your children and you must do right by them whether she is there or not. Apportioning blames will not solve anything.

Think outside the box and make arrangements for babysitting while you go out n hustle.Your mom, her mom or female siblings or even elderly female neighbors.

The reality of single fatherhood is staring at you.

MondayUche:
Na person whey get money to feed and pay babysitter will look for one. Even money to register them in lesson and to enrol them in school I don't have. They have been hungry since I left just same back now arranging beans for them to eat. I just don't know how else to explain my life I'm dying inside seriously

Sorry dear. I hope you get help.

This is pathetic though. This is not the time to leave now? Especially if you're not giving her any heat. Hmm...

I think a lot of people don't really understand what marriage is. Most enter into it with a wrong mindset that its going to be rosy at all times and when their expectation is not met or the nittigritty of marriage hit them, they'll pull out without warning. And to think that in another post, someone was crying that she's come off age and not yet married. What do they think marriage really is?? A rollercoaster ride?? Then they need to think again.

Well, you just have to brace yourself and hope for the best.

Move on with your life and try give your kids the best of life.

Shalom.

Thank you so so very much. God bless you for the encouragement words. I just don't know what to do. Even this night it is the beans that my father inlaw who is currently sick gave me that I have just prepare anyhow just for us to eat but my son who will be 2yrs by next month doesn't like it and doesn't even want to eat. Now I don't know hungry is really going to do us a lot and I don't even know how to leave them to go and hustle. My plan is to bring my younger brother from home but I don't have the transportation to send to him as they said from Imo State to Lagos now is about 9/10k I'm just tired of this life already no single food and medication at home for the kids not at all

Brachaa:


This is pathetic though. This is not the time to leave now? Especially if you're not given her any heat. Hmm...

I think a lot of people don't really understand what marriage is. Most enter into it with a wrong mindset that its going to be rosy at all times and when their expectation is not met or the nittigritty of marriage hit them, they'll pull out without warning. And to think that in another post, someone was crying that she's come off age and not yet married. What do they think marriage really is?? A rollercoaster ride?? Then they need to think again.

Well, you just have to brace yourself and hope for the best.

Move on with your life and try give your kids the best of life.

Shalom.

MondayUche:
Na person whey get money to feed and pay babysitter will look for one. Even money to register them in lesson and to enrol them in school I don't have. They have been hungry since I left just same back now arranging beans for them to eat. I just don't know how else to explain my life I'm dying inside seriously

Stay strong for your children.

Take the challenges one day at a time...with time, you'll readjust.

Let me know if you've basic knowledge of cryptography so that I can tell you what to do to change the financial story of your life immediately.

Thank you so much please as long as is something that will help my life please help because my heart is very heavy right now and I can as well do anything to make sure I defeat this poverty that is taking over my family. Tell me about the cryptography please here is my whatsapp number 08070751915 please explain to me and I will grab immedately thanks

LordKO:
Let me know if you've basic knowledge of cryptography so that I can tell you what to do to change the financial story of your life immediately.

MondayUche:
Thank you so much please as long as is something that will help my life please help because my heart is very heavy right now and I can as well do anything to make sure I defeat this poverty that is taking over my family. Tell me about the cryptography please here is my whatsapp number 08070751915 please explain to me and I will grab immedately thanks

Your basic knowledge of it is the prerequisite of what I intend to teach you from afar, so the absence of it - as evident in your reply - means there's nothing I can do under the circumstance.

Stay strong and focused; there's always light at the end of a tunnel.

I read the two letters and I think your wife neither left nor dumped you. It seemed she only left temporarily to hustle and take care of your family better than you currently do. When women are pushed to the wall by hardship, some of them go to the extremes to salvage the situation and it looks like that's the situation here.

If your story is true then all you need to do is follow the instructions in that letter, wish her well and hope she doesn't soil her hands badly on her quest for solution.

Stop crying up and down like a baby, will ya.

Don’t you have neighbors where you can drop the kids? This guy, I don’t believe this post. Kids will eat when they are hungry no matter the shakara. Keep the small ones food, when he’s hungry he will eat it. Those kids barely need to pay school fees in Lagos, enroll them in government school. Since school has not yet resumed, save money and buy some books so they can learn to read and do maths when you come back from your daily hustle. If you go out and hustle one day, you will find work to eat. Even if it’s to go and work on a site. People are building and life is going on. I think you are a proud guy, giving excuses.

It will have not come to this if you and your wife hustled. A caterer can hardly go hungry or wait for restaurant before business starts coming in. I wish you the best. Everywhere de red. When you are ready to go and find work, you will find solution to everything you are crying about.

If he can’t handle it, why does he think his sister with her already 5 kids will do?
Some people self.

LadySarah:
I would have told you men have been doing it to their wives but I won't even though you know it's the truth.My neighbors wife left since Easter leaving him with 4 under 8 kids. Their state alone is pitiful. His wasn't finances though. Arranging to send them to his sister who has 5 kids already. I don't even want to imagine the suffering that is before them.

My concern is your children and you must do right by them whether she is there or not. Apportioning blames will not solve anything.

Think outside the box and make arrangements for babysitting while you go out n hustle.Your mom, her mom or female siblings or even elderly female neighbors.

The reality of single fatherhood is staring at you.

In your message to her, you said she left because you guys don’t have a flashy lifestyle anymore. That tells me you used to be rich. What happened? And When things got bad, didn’t you have any assets left that you could liquidate to generate 300k for your restaurant business ?
What about folks you used to know then. Can you borrow from them for your business?

cococandy:
If he can’t handle it, why does he think his sister with her already 5 kids will do?
Some people self.

Lol. The same question I asked. He wants someone he's comfortable with. The wives sister has been the one staying with them but sadly she wedded last month. The man married an Orphaned Olosho he met in a brothel. She has gone back. Everybody has gone to beg her to at least come n be checking on them she said no. 4 streets awayoo

. He leaves for work as early as 5am so He drops money with The elderly woman next door who has been cooking for them and according to her warned him not to marry yet for fear of maltreat ING those kids.

The man has shrunk by force. Coming home at night to do laundry and cook their night meal.

Women dey try.

cococandy:
In your message to her, you said she left because you guys don’t have a flashy lifestyle anymore. That tells me you used to be rich. What happened? And When things got bad, didn’t you have any assets left that you could liquidate to generate 300k for your restaurant business ?
What about folks you used to know then. Can you borrow from them for your business?

I think they did, but probably mismanaged the funds.

Op I believe you must have family members and friends. You should walk upto them.. too many fakes and scammers out here and your story sounds exactly like one.
Why haven't you walk up to your immediate family

LadySarah:


Lol. The same question I asked. He wants someone he's comfortable with. The wives sister has been the one staying with them but sadly she wedded last month. The man married an Orphaned Olosho he met in a brothel. She has gone back. Everybody has gone to beg her to at least come n be checking on them she said no. 4 streets awayoo

. He leaves for work as early as 5am so He drops money with The elderly woman next door who has been cooking for them and according to her warned him not to marry yet for fear of maltreat ING those kids.

The man has shrunk by force. Coming home at night to do laundry and cook their night meal.

Women dey try.

na pidgin sweet for me to use take react to this your post, the kind shock and fear wey catch me as I read this message no even fit comot for my mouth, chai this one na clear case of unrepentant ashawo, them born that one for Ashawo hotel and na Ashawo hotel she go die put, na all those kind women them suppose dey bury with "dick coffin after them die, like that Ghana woman wey them bury inside preek coffin" Na wa, IBO man really talk am say Uwa diegwu chai.

What skills do you have?

Can you drive? Do you speak fluent english?

What business can you start with 50k ?

LadySarah:


Lol. The same question I asked. He wants someone he's comfortable with. The wives sister has been the one staying with them but sadly she wedded last month. The man married an Orphaned Olosho he met in a brothel. She has gone back. Everybody has gone to beg her to at least come n be checking on them she said no. 4 streets awayoo

. He leaves for work as early as 5am so He drops money with The elderly woman next door who has been cooking for them and according to her warned him not to marry yet for fear of maltreat ING those kids.

The man has shrunk by force. Coming home at night to do laundry and cook their night meal.

Women dey try.

The choices we make comes back to bite us. I wonder what his motive was for marrying her. Seems he was a regular at brothels and decided to wife one to continue the enjoyment. It's except she showed prospects of quitting and starting a new life, if not, he shouldn't have gone ahead to marry her.

But the deed has already been done. I think it is a very bad idea to send 4 kids to someone who already has 5. If he has the finances, he can get a nanny to help out with them when he goes to work. And she can help with the laundry and all to reduce the load for him.

ImaIma1:


The choices we make comes back to bite us. I wonder what his motive was for marrying her. Seems he was a regular at brothels and decided to wife one to continue the enjoyment. It's except she showed prospects of quitting and starting a new life, if not, he shouldn't have gone ahead to marry her.

But the deed has already been done. I think it is a very bad idea to send 4 kids to someone who already has 5. If he has the finances, he can get a nanny to help out with them when he goes to work. And she can help with the laundry and all to reduce the load for him.

He was and is before the separation. He went again this yr and met his wife there.Wifey denied him. Later came back home and fight ensued so she kukuma pack her bags for full time work. lol.

I just pity their kids not the two fools. It's taking a huge toll on them. Always looking dirty n wandering from one street to the other.

LadySarah:


He was and is before the separation. He went again this yr and met his wife there.Wifey denied him. Later came back home and fight ensued so she kukuma pack her bags for full time work. lol.

I just pity their kids not the two fools. It's taking a huge toll on them. Always looking dirty n wandering from one street to the other.

True.

When elephants fight, it is the ground that suffers. Our choices, good or bad affects the children more.

It's so sad that the children have to go through all this. I pray he has sense from now and takes decisions that will benefit them.

Men have being abandoning their wives and children to only God knows places yet they still survive

Take those kids to your mother and start thinking of what to do to get them going

They are not the reason you are quarrelling with your wife and they don't even know what is happening between both of you

So be strong face it and have an idea of what it is to be a single father

Lots of people are in that shit and they have already moved on

For a woman to abandon her children for you means that the real story has not been told

Good morning to you. Thank you so very much for your response and for believing in me and my predicament even when others are using some negative comments to add more to my depression. Yes I am a good driver basically in aotumatic transmissions and I have been driving since 2009. Even my drivers licsense expired last December which I am unable to renew because of my present condition. I have been so down since my wife left, I just came back from a lession school where I went to drop the kids. Yes 50k will go a lot for us I can get a small space to at least start up something maybe making of indomie or Paga for a starts. Because considering of leaving the kids to nobody or neighbor then go to do any odd job that I might be coming home by 4,5 or 6PM I don't think they will be fine before I get home. Their birthday is next month Octorber 13 and 23 even my wife too same month on the 15th. So my kids will be just 2 and 4 by next month so they are too small to leave for someone almost everyday. And I don't have money to send to my younger brother who is in the village to come over at least. They said transport now from Imo to Lagos is 9/10k so Please I beg of you the 50k will help me to start up the business of cooking indomie or PAGA and I pray success in any business I will use it to start Amen. Here is my number both on whatsApp 08070751915 Thank you and God bless

CocaineLord:
What skills do you have?

Can you drive? Do you speak fluent english?

What business can you start with 50k ?

Please teach me I will learn I beg of you. I am a fast learner and I am digital also. I can learn believe me please just tell me what to what to do and step to step to take then watch me surprise you please.

LordKO:


Your basic knowledge of it is the prerequisite of what I intend to teach you from afar, so the absence of it - as evident in your reply - means there's nothing I can do under the circumstance.

Stay strong and focused; there's always light at the end of a tunnel.