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My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by drucheobi7: 3:45am On Sep 12, 2020
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a 13 months and because physically, hes much bigger I always assumed he was older. Apparently, hes 31 and I am 33 years old with 20 months in between us.

He has proposed and is planning to go and see my parents this December officially. Asides the age gap, hes an amazing man. Very focused and level headed. Please people married people, is this something one can navigate or would this raise issues in future. If youre married to a younger guy, your comments will be well appreciated.

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by blackpanthar: 3:50am On Sep 12, 2020
drucheobi7:
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a 13 months and because physically, hes much bigger I always assumed he was older. Apparently, hes 31 and I am 33 years old with 20 months in between us.

He has proposed and is planning to go and see my parents this December officially. Asides the age gap, hes an amazing man. Very focused and level headed. Please people married people, is this something one can navigate or would this raise issues in future. If youre married to a younger guy, your comments will be well appreciated.

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER
Do not let 20 months gap ruin the possibility of the next 20-50 amazing years of your life with your amazing man.

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by drucheobi7: 3:56am On Sep 12, 2020
Thank you and God bless
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by tetula123(m): 4:00am On Sep 12, 2020
Age is just a number they say. Just hope one day he doesn’t see you as too old. For me I can’t picture marrying an older lady

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by solmusdesigns: 4:02am On Sep 12, 2020
The gap isn't much, and since he isn't complaining you shouldn't too

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by tobenuel(m): 4:05am On Sep 12, 2020
Why you calculating things in months?
Well, just leave him
In the next 600 months you will get your true love and be married

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by drucheobi7: 4:10am On Sep 12, 2020
Yes, hes not even complaining at all. He says he really cant see how its an issue. Thanks a lot.
solmusdesigns:
The gap isn't much, and since he isn't complaining you shouldn't too

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by MJBOLT: 4:37am On Sep 12, 2020
how is this an issue since both of you are in your 30s?please value what you have because it's still a dream for others.

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Juliusmomoh: 4:47am On Sep 12, 2020
How did u got to know u senior him.. undecided
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Slawormir: 4:49am On Sep 12, 2020
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright....
Don't be concerned about the age difference....
It doesn't matter my dear....no issues....

One thing we niggarrrz are looking for is peace.... .no complain...We actually looking for a woman who will treat or take care of us the way our mothers do....a woman who can show us that same care our mothers do show us.... and immediately a girl start doing that to us...then we begin to feel comfortable with her and probably can't do away with her till the end of time...and moreover we niggarrrz have only one true love and that is our love towards our mothers so once a girl start taking care of us like our mom...then we start transfering little of it to the girl

And have realized older ladies give peace of mind more....and they are matured enough to take care of us just like our mom....
So behave like his mother.........with that you will be crawling into his heart without him knowing....and he will respect you till the end of time
There is this girl i was supposed to bang and move on
...she is about four years older than me....i don already bang her....but the way she is treating me ehnnnnn.......am afraid if she continue like this...she might weaken me as a real niggarrr

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by jawalis(m): 4:54am On Sep 12, 2020
Which one is 20 months? Just say you are 2years older than him and for your info, it’s better to call that Fvck off now before taking it more serious else you’ll blame yourself after marriage. And maybe after 240 months, you start seeing your husband as been younger and he sees you as a old fool by then. By then, the butterfly inside you now would have died and you’ll be faced with reality. By the way;
And I have noticed on Nairaland, whenever a woman wants to introduce her boyfriend, fiancé or crush; we always read stuffs like: He’s caring, fun to be with, intelligent, Handsome, Very focused, amazing, outspoken, cool and all those Sh!t. And yet you hoes complain there’s no good man in Nigeria. Let me hope all your Prince Charming are from India. B!tches.

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by nexttag: 4:55am On Sep 12, 2020
Not an issue just make sure u respect and don't call him baby during sex coz literally .... grin[url][/url]
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Notatribalist(m): 5:56am On Sep 12, 2020
drucheobi7:
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a 13 months and because physically, hes much bigger I always assumed he was older. Apparently, hes 31 and I am 33 years old with 20 months in between us.

He has proposed and is planning to go and see my parents this December officially. Asides the age gap, hes an amazing man. Very focused and level headed. Please people married people, is this something one can navigate or would this raise issues in future. If youre married to a younger guy, your comments will be well appreciated.
Any talk truth.If we ask you to leave him now you go leave an?

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by westlius(m): 6:02am On Sep 12, 2020
Most of u talking 20 months is much, age is just a number, will run after hearing ur babe is older than u

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by jeyselassie(m): 6:04am On Sep 12, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright....
Don't be concerned about the age difference....
It doesn't matter my dear....no issues....

One thing we niggarrrz are looking for is peace.... .no complain...We actually looking for a woman who will treat or take care of us the way our mothers do....a woman who can show us that same care our mothers do show us.... and immediately a girl start doing that to us...then we begin to feel comfortable with her and probably can't do away with her till the end of time...

And have realized older ladies give peace of mind more....and they are matured enough to take care of us just like our mom....
So behave like his mother.........with that you will be crawling into his heart without him knowing....and he will respect you till the end of time
There is this girl i was supposed to bang and move on
...she is about four years older than me....i don already bang her....but the way she is treating me ehnnnnn.......am afraid if she continue like this...she might weaken me as a real niggarrr
ARe you a real nigarr grin
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by nexttag: 6:38am On Sep 12, 2020
It is all fun until you called him baby during sex grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by JOACHINpedro: 6:39am On Sep 12, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright....
Don't be concerned about the age difference....
It doesn't matter my dear....no issues....

One thing we niggarrrz are looking for is peace.... .no complain...We actually looking for a woman who will treat or take care of us the way our mothers do....a woman who can show us that same care our mothers do show us.... and immediately a girl start doing that to us...then we begin to feel comfortable with her and probably can't do away with her till the end of time...

And have realized older ladies give peace of mind more....and they are matured enough to take care of us just like our mom....
So behave like his mother.........with that you will be crawling into his heart without him knowing....and he will respect you till the end of time
There is this girl i was supposed to bang and move on
...she is about four years older than me....i don already bang her....but the way she is treating me ehnnnnn.......am afraid if she continue like this...she might weaken me as a real niggarrr


Just invite us for the wedding
it's not a big deal for a real niggarr to tie the nuts

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Nobody: 6:50am On Sep 12, 2020
Thats never enough reason to break up so long he accepts it.
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by TheChameleon: 7:11am On Sep 12, 2020
Better accept before you reach Best Before Date. undecided

Dey dia till you reach Expiry.
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by TJaguar(m): 7:18am On Sep 12, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright....
Don't be concerned about the age difference....
It doesn't matter my dear....no issues....

One thing we niggarrrz are looking for is peace.... .no complain...We actually looking for a woman who will treat or take care of us the way our mothers do....a woman who can show us that same care our mothers do show us.... and immediately a girl start doing that to us...then we begin to feel comfortable with her and probably can't do away with her till the end of time...and moreover we niggarrrz have only one true love and that is our love towards our mothers so once a girl start taking care of us like our mom...then we start transfering little of it to the girl

And have realized older ladies give peace of mind more....and they are matured enough to take care of us just like our mom....
So behave like his mother.........with that you will be crawling into his heart without him knowing....and he will respect you till the end of time
There is this girl i was supposed to bang and move on
...she is about four years older than me....i don already bang her....but the way she is treating me ehnnnnn.......am afraid if she continue like this...she might weaken me as a real niggarrr
Slawormir. Real nigga
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Think9ja(m): 7:27am On Sep 12, 2020
Personally, if I'm not at least five years older than a lady, whatever we are doing is just for fun. I can't imagine myself having anything serious to do with an older lady, I just can't.

Age is not and can never just be number. I like respecting my elders, even if they are older with just a day. There's a way I want to be talking to my wife when she messes up and I can't do that with an older lady. I need a girl far younger than me so that i can always put her in her place.

But truth is having sex with an older lady is way sweeter than having it with a younger lady.

I was super happy for August Alsina when he fvcked Jada.. Dude made me proud.

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Gadsun39(m): 7:39am On Sep 12, 2020
drucheobi7:
I have been dating my boyfriend for over a 13 months and because physically, hes much bigger I always assumed he was older. Apparently, hes 31 and I am 33 years old with 20 months in between us.

He has proposed and is planning to go and see my parents this December officially. Asides the age gap, hes an amazing man. Very focused and level headed. Please people married people, is this something one can navigate or would this raise issues in future. If youre married to a younger guy, your comments will be well appreciated.

Which law states that the man must be older? So long as he's matured and sensible enough to respect you please don't waste time, and please after you are married always respect him and make him feel his the boss in the house, it will go a long way in making you happy in your matrimonial home.
Am happy for you cause not all ladies have the opportunity to marry a younger man

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by jeff1607(m): 8:17am On Sep 12, 2020
Gadsun39:


Which law states that the man must be older? So long as he's matured and sensible enough to respect you please don't waste time, and please after you are married always respect him and make him feel his the boss in the house, it will go a long way in making you happy in your matrimonial home.
Am happy for you cause not all ladies have the opportunity to marry a younger man


After a few years he won't be respected
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by LammyBillionz(m): 8:56am On Sep 12, 2020
As long as he is matured and values you. You definitely can make it work.

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Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Asuito7(m): 9:10am On Sep 12, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright....
Don't be concerned about the age difference....
It doesn't matter my dear....no issues....

One thing we niggarrrz are looking for is peace.... .no complain...We actually looking for a woman who will treat or take care of us the way our mothers do....a woman who can show us that same care our mothers do show us.... and immediately a girl start doing that to us...then we begin to feel comfortable with her and probably can't do away with her till the end of time...and moreover we niggarrrz have only one true love and that is our love towards our mothers so once a girl start taking care of us like our mom...then we start transfering little of it to the girl

And have realized older ladies give peace of mind more....and they are matured enough to take care of us just like our mom....
So behave like his mother.........with that you will be crawling into his heart without him knowing....and he will respect you till the end of time
There is this girl i was supposed to bang and move on
...she is about four years older than me....i don already bang her....but the way she is treating me ehnnnnn.......am afraid if she continue like this...she might weaken me as a real niggarrr

Chai you have spoken my mind. And surprisingly young girls don't know this it is only the older ones that know it.
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by sunshineV(f): 9:15am On Sep 12, 2020
So u are 33 and u are still complaining? aunty u must be very stubborn
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by ednut1(m): 9:22am On Sep 12, 2020
So wetin make we do
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by EmmySparky(m): 9:37am On Sep 12, 2020
August Alsina comes to mind...the older the wine...the better
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by OlawaleBammie: 9:46am On Sep 12, 2020
Think9ja:
Personally, if I'm not at least five years older than a lady, whatever we are doing is just for fun. I can't imagine myself having anything serious to do with an older lady, I just can't.

Age is not and can never just be number. I like respecting my elders, even if they are older with just a day. There's a way I want to be talking to my wife when she messes up and I can't do that with an older lady. I need a girl far younger than me so that i can always put her in her place.

But truth is having sex with an older lady is way sweeter than having it with a younger lady.

I was super happy for August Alsina when he fvcked Jada.. Dude made me proud.

Lol, proper naija guy.

Omo Akegrin
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by Gadsun39(m): 10:07am On Sep 12, 2020
jeff1607:



After a few years he won't be respected

Na she go suffer, after all he's younger. Cheating can set in and before she realized it is gone far while she's aged.
Re: My Boyfriend To Be Is 20 Months Younger, Do I Go Ahead With The Relationship? by jeff1607(m): 12:09pm On Sep 12, 2020
Gadsun39:


Na she go suffer, after all he's younger. Cheating can set in and before she realized it is gone far while she's aged.


A man gets old too , we die earlier than women, plus when the youthful energy is gone starting all over is difficult

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