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Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 9:34am On Sep 12, 2020

My babe and I have been together for 3 yrs and we plan to take things to next level soon.

she's a graduate and through with nysc...her uncle plan to relocate her including her parents to USA, d pandemic slow things down but hoping they'll go b4 ending of this year.....

my issue is what will be my fate after she's gone..? Advice pls...Note, I love her so much

Secondly due to her eagerness for job she got Nigeria Army and Navy Dssc form, I'm not comfortable with this idea as I don't want her to be a military personnel due to d danger and uncertainty to care of family.....but I dont know how not to make it sound I'm against her progress.....guys ur advice is needed......Mature opinions pls

Re: Guys Pls Advice by fati2001(m): 9:36am On Sep 12, 2020

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Wow, well.
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.good morning sorry tho.. I know you're hurt deeply..

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Jafar1: 9:41am On Sep 12, 2020

If u stop her from getting job, will u take the responsibility of caring for her??

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Re: Guys Pls Advice by donbachi(m): 9:49am On Sep 12, 2020

She wan go abroad with parents,u no want am..she wan join military,u no want am too..bros,no go carry ur kaikai go jam expensive wine..abeg.

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Re: Guys Pls Advice by usj(m): 9:55am On Sep 12, 2020

'Gone with the wind.' never try stopping anyone from fighting for a better tomorrow. You either give her a better alternative or support her.

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Re: Guys Pls Advice by AfroKnight: 9:59am On Sep 12, 2020

Don’t stand in her way bro. She wants to be a soldier? That’s good. She wants to relocate? That’s better. Just give her good vibes. Show support and mean it.

Re: Guys Pls Advice by baralatie(m): 9:59am On Sep 12, 2020

donbachi:
She wan go abroad with parents,u no want am..she wan join military,u no want am too..bros,no go carry ur kaikai go jam expensive wine..abeg.

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 10:03am On Sep 12, 2020

Jafar1:
If u stop her from getting job, will u take the responsibility of caring for her??

read again I'm not stopping just that I dont want military job for her......we are both applying for other jobs for her

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 10:04am On Sep 12, 2020

donbachi:
She wan go abroad with parents,u no want am..she wan join military,u no want am too..bros,no go carry ur kaikai go jam expensive wine..abeg.

how do u mean?...im just been realistic dude

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 10:05am On Sep 12, 2020

usj:
'Gone with the wind.' never try stopping anyone from fighting for a better tomorrow. You either give her a better alternative or support her.

I'm applying for other jobs for her

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 10:07am On Sep 12, 2020

AfroKnight:
Don’t stand in her way bro. She wants to be a soldier? That’s good. She wants to relocate? That’s better. Just give her good vibes. Show support and mean it.

Like seriously I dont like military, not even at this time d security of Naija is nothing to write home about.....abt d travelling i can't stop her in just wondering what will be my fate as shes d only one I've ever been with and I'm faithful with her, furthermore i Iove her so much

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 10:19am On Sep 12, 2020

more advice needed guys

Re: Guys Pls Advice by usj(m): 10:33am On Sep 12, 2020

Francisayo:
I'm applying for other jobs for her

That's better

Re: Guys Pls Advice by AfroKnight: 11:19am On Sep 12, 2020

Francisayo:
Like seriously I dont like military, not even at this time d security of Naija is nothing to write home about.....abt d travelling i can't stop her in just wondering what will be my fate as shes d only one I've ever been with and I'm faithful with her, furthermore i Iove her so much

Things don’t always turn out the way we plan them. That’s life. Distance puts a lot of strains on relationships. So buckle up. Your relationship is about to be tested.

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Re: Guys Pls Advice by iLegendd(m): 12:15pm On Sep 12, 2020

"I love her so much..." is the most popular line simps use and the end is always disastrous.

Ninety nine percent of the men I know that have used that line always shed tears at last. You make think I'm joking — time will tell.

Spend your energy on 3 skills

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to (make) attract money skill
3. How to manage money skills

Without these three skills, you'll regret in life. Read books on them and take actions.

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Re: Guys Pls Advice by Nobody: 12:46pm On Sep 12, 2020

Let Me Be Frank With U, D Chance Of U Losing Her Is 90% Relating To D Situation At Hand. I Would Advise Dat U Don't Put All Ur Hope In D Relationship To Avoid Heart Break. However, If She Truly Loves U She Will Come 4 U.

Re: Guys Pls Advice by proclinician: 12:57pm On Sep 12, 2020

If I'm in ur shoes and I'm 100% certain of the movement, I'll get her pregnant

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Re: Guys Pls Advice by BigJoe29: 1:29pm On Sep 12, 2020

Mr. You have no problem. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 2:17pm On Sep 12, 2020

proclinician:
If I'm in ur shoes and I'm 100% certain of the movement, I'll get her pregnant

Don't u think it will affect her travelling?

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Nobody: 2:23pm On Sep 12, 2020

proclinician:
If I'm in ur shoes and I'm 100% certain of the movement, I'll get her pregnant

Re: Guys Pls Advice by proclinician: 2:24pm On Sep 12, 2020

Francisayo:
Don't u think it will affect her travelling?

She will travel and have my child in u.s.a. why I go wan stop am? Do I look like satan to u? Think out of the box. Timing is important though.

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Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 3:57pm On Sep 12, 2020

proclinician:
She will travel and have my child in u.s.a. why I go wan stop am? Do I look like satan to u? Think out of the box. Timing is important though.

Won't that affect her visa??

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 6:54pm On Sep 12, 2020

Truvel:
Let Me Be Frank With U, D Chance Of U Losing Her Is 90% Relating To D Situation At Hand. I Would Advise Dat U Don't Put All Ur Hope In D Relationship To Avoid Heart Break. However, If She Truly Loves U She Will Come 4 U.

Hmm

Re: Guys Pls Advice by Francisayo(op): 8:08am On Sep 13, 2020

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