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| Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by LtCZAR: 12:13pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
I, write this with a very heavy Heart. Hitting a lady is not part of me. I hit the woman of my life, who gave birth to my beautiful daughter . Yesterday 19/09/20. I did what am not proud of. I feel ashamed because of this, I confronted her because of infidelity issue and she got vexed. The person she introduced me to as her friend would take her out, to drink, go clubbing and she comes back late in the night. I have talked to her about this issues so many time but she refused to give this up. She saved a numberber on her phone as My Love, when I confronted her about it, her reply was it's just a word, no feelings attached. whenever this person calls, the way she responds to this call is annoying. I am not perfect. I am out of work since the beginning of the year, I try to babysit our two year old daughter just for her to be stress free and concentrate on her work place. House, Woman out here, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AM SORRY FOR HITTING A WOMAN. It does not make me a better person. I saw her, this morning after pleading with her all through the night, where she cried her eyes out. I feel her pains, and am sorry. I tried to get people to talk to her but, she refused to listen. She said she wants to move out of the house back to her parents place. I have pleaded with her. Just now she telling me, she's going to Suntan Beach Badagry, and would not be back till tomorrow. House, how do I talk her out of this? Should I allow her go back to her parents place as she requested so she can have her freedom to do whatever she wants? What would be the faith of my daughter?. Thank you all for reading my epistle. Your replys and bashing are all welcomed. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by slickbak(m): 12:19pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
If you cannot convince her after the infidelity and mending, start entertaining the possibility of life with your daughter. Don't give up though, do your best but don't kill yourself. Good luck bro 2 Likes |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Prec1ous(m): 12:38pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Would you just sit down and realize that your woman is gone already. You are only dealing with her body, mind has flown out. Yes, you are correct. Your inability to provide has made your woman open uo to a perceived better man. She will be sleeping in his arms soon, if not already. Stop begging and stop crying. Let her move. She is not going to her mother's place, she is stepping out to freedom. Count your daughter as your benefit and move on. She is not even your wife yet so let this ship sail! 5 Likes |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Nobody: 12:45pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Hmmm... Really don't know what to comment on this, sorry about what u facing Bro, just find a way to sort things out, doesn't necessarily have to involve a third party, once she has accepted your apology, u guys should discuss deeply n sort things out Cheers |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by dingbang(m): 12:55pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
You mean you hit your wife who just gave birth yesterday? Why do I feel this story is fake 1 Like |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Go and Listen to R-Kelly's When a woman's fed up, there is nothing you can do about it.......Lalalala la la la 1 Like |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Oizee(f): 1:01pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
I pray you find a job soonest, we can be somehow sometimes, it's ur present condition that is pushing her to the wrong direction so. You should have controlled ur temper too, she will now use it against you. Imagine the audacity to save a male name as luv under una roof, respect don go, luv don go. Always a do a thorough research about a woman families before u marry una no dey hear, make sure d woman truly loves you una no go hear. May God take over ur home. Seriously if person no get money, d person don becom yeye. 2 Likes |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Oizee(f): 1:03pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
dingbang:he hit her on 19/09/20 1 Like |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by dingbang(m): 1:12pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Oizee:and when was that? |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by 3rdclassESCAPEE: 1:16pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Islam has a different opinion about how to treat a woman and honestly their system works. Don't ever be ashamed to slap or beat a woman. Infidelity on the part of the woman means she should be stoned to death or killed. Imagine a woman that is supposed to be submissive, loyal and respectful disrespecting you in the presence of your neighbors and kids. Or worse still, insulting your mother. Learn to administer some self correcting SLAP and remember to give her a good kick. Let her learn the hard way. I am not sounding wicked, the truth is just bitter 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by cooooooks(m): 1:22pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Go and ask for your bride list back. Have self respect. Never beg someone to love or/and respect you. 3 Likes |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Oizee(f): 1:39pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
dingbang:u don't get it? Yesterday he hit her not that she gave birth yesterday. He only explained she has a daughter for him. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by dingbang(m): 1:44pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Oizee:chineke nna... Abeg read this again, and carefully this time. ,I write this with a very heavy Heart. Hitting a lady is not part of me. I hit the woman of my life, who gave birth to my beautiful daughter on 19/09/20 |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by LtCZAR: 1:50pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
dingbang: |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by dingbang(m): 1:52pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
[quote author=LtCZAR post=94122865][/quote]then go back and edit your post well. Now you know that lack of proper punctuation can be very misleading. Cc:oizee |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by dingbang(m): 1:54pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Op.. This is how you should put it. I write this with a very heavy Heart. Hitting a lady is not part of me. I hit the woman of my life on 19/09/2020. We dont need to know about she giving birth to your daughter as the subject is about hitting her. 1 Like |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by LtCZAR: 1:56pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
@dingbang, sorry for my poor punctuation. I feel really depressed, my world coming to an end. If she leave, there nothing left for me to be alive because I have failed. @Oizee, thank you for the kind words. I hope everything get settled. I have never felt this depressed in life before. I don't feel like eating or I just 3 declofenac tablet now, if I can sleep but not working. Thank you all for all you have said. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by dingbang(m): 1:57pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
LtCZAR:well, time heals wounds, as long as you are deeply sorry, she will forgive. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by crackhaus: 2:01pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
I don't get this gist. Your partner always goes out with a certain man, they go clubbing, have drinks, and she usually returns home late at night...all this is despite the fact you both have a 2yr old daughter whom she probably leaves at home so she can rigmarole about. Noteworthy to mention also – she saved the name of someone as 'my love', someone whom she speaks with in a suspicious way whenever he calls... And as a result of the above trespasses, something led to something and you hit her. She is now angry and is threatening to leave the house BUT you still want to beg her... As in, YOU STILL WANT TO BEG HER?  This must be a joke. Keep begging, since you don't have sense... 10 Likes |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by crackhaus: 2:17pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
LtCZAR:Na so, why not just take sniper? If I were you (God forbid), I'll let her go to her parent's house. Perhaps her father will be in a better position to reset her brain since you have lost all your cojonés. I don't see how she's gonna stay at her dad's house, keep going to clubs and returning home late at nights – it's a win-win for you. Let her be someone else's responsibility. I hope her father is still alive though, because if na only mama she get, there's a slight chance both of them are in the same WhatsApp group. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by LtCZAR: 2:18pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
@crackhaus My begging her not to leave, is to fulfil all righteousness. Her father is not in support of this her character. Her family are trying to talk to her but she is stubborn. My only regret is hitting her. Abeg, am an IT SUPPORT SPECIALIST, if you have any job for me, please help out oooo. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by mariahAngel(f): 2:20pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
LtCZAR: Let her go! SHE DOES NOT LOVE YOU! You just gave her the perfect excuse to leave. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by crackhaus: 2:22pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
LtCZAR:You have it backwards. In this case, helping her pack her bags and baggages is exactly how you will fulfill all righteousness. But one problem at a time, is it work you want or how to beg woman? 2 Likes |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Oizee(f): 2:45pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
dingbang: |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by dingbang(m): 2:48pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
[quote author=Oizee post=94125041][/quote]your opinion at this time is not needed since the op has realised his mistake and corrected himself. Thank you! |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by LtCZAR: 3:09pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
crackhaus: Am not asking how to beg a woman. I only told the world, am sorry for hitting my wife. As for work, if I see anything that would make my time Worth while I would do. Legitimately |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Oizee(f): 3:11pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
dingbang:ah! Nawa for you o, na u b d OP? I'm sorry, I thought you meant the advice I gave him, I didn't know he later corrected it. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by nahzyla: 3:16pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
This story sounds like it contains a lot of lies and omitted parts Maybe op himself was a nasty husband or cheated on his wife too that's why he is feeling guilty but he will only come here to tell us how his wife is bad. |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Op forgive her but it's best you start calculation on how to get a second wife. This is the truth, once a man lose his job the wife changes... |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by crackhaus: 3:33pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
LtCZAR:I see Check your inbox first |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by Graxie(f): 5:18pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
What a manipulative woman! Please stop begging, look for something doing and abandon the sinking ship. Why and how do you meet such spouse, partying while you are babysitting? May we not see such in my generation. She even told you she was going out to come back the next day. Please let's hear her side of the story, Nigerian women are yet to be this dogged. 1 Like |
| Re: Family: Why You Never Hit A Woman. by bukatyne(f): 5:36pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
LtCZAR: Letting her go to her family house solves your problem. Narrate this same story to your in-laws and apologize to them. There after, let it flow naturally from there. |
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