crackhaus:

I see

Check your inbox first

I didn't see anything.

While you hitting her is a big issue. It’s not the primary issue you have in your marriage.

Her conduct is one. Y’all’s financial situation is another.
Not saying that solving these two will definitely cause you to never hit her again (we don’t know the type of person you really are). But I’m willing to bet that it likely will change a lot in your relationship dynamics if she fixes her behavior.

If she says she definitely wants to leave, you’re allowed to be sad.you’re human . But have some dignity and don’t beg for love.

I always tell anyone who cares to listen. DON’T EVER BEG ANYONE FOR THEIR LOVE. Be with who wants to be to with you.

LtCZAR:

I didn't see anything.

Oga please send me a PM from your end then. I just hope you're not here catching cruise.

crackhaus:

Oga please send me a PM from your end then. I just hope you're not here catching cruise.

I have sent you a PM, as you requested.
I am not here to catch cruise. I wanted a place where i can Air my heart out and answer questions thrown at me.
Thanks for your time

cococandy:
While you hitting her is a big issue. It’s not the primary issue you have in your marriage.

Her conduct is one. Y’all’s financial situation is another.
Not saying that solving these two will definitely cause you to never hit her again (we don’t know the type of person you really are). But I’m willing to bet that it likely will change a lot in your relationship dynamics if she fixes her behavior.

If she says she definitely wants to leave, you’re allowed to be sad.you’re human . But have some dignity and don’t beg for love.

I always tell anyone who cares to listen. DON’T EVER BEG ANYONE FOR THEIR LOVE. Be with who wants to be to with you.

Thank you so much, I hope she changes her behavior, so it would not rob off on our duagther.

Wish you could turn back the hands of time. I hope you two reconcile

Good you feel remorse.
But these days, it's not wise listening to only one person in issues like this.

booscy:
Go and Listen to R-Kelly's When a woman's fed up, there is nothing you can do about it.......Lalalala la la la

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Currently playing this song

Its has really been a sad day, but to everyone that took out time to make a comment of encouragement and advise,Thank you.

@crackhaus thanks.

I pray this storm would pass and the whole family heals and move on.

You have done your best to apologize for hitting her which is the extreme. With her recent behavior, let her go to wherever she wants to before she kills you to be free to be where she wants to be.

Hian! You shouldn't have hit her but biko no kill yourself. Let her do whatever she likes...you are the ultimate victim jare. Na wa!

crackhaus:

You have it backwards.

In this case, helping her pack her bags and baggages is exactly how you will fulfill all righteousness.


But one problem at a time, is it work you want or how to beg woman?

Not related to the topic.


Do you know that I was monitoring Edo election live yesterday at work? I can't believe I did that
Have never bothered myself with elections in Nigeria before.

I dont support hitting a woman just to the extent that she does not hit me first. Same goes for a man

crackhaus:

Oga please send me a PM from your end then. I just hope you're not here catching cruise.

Heyiiiii!

You wan go teach am how to be bad abi?

Before the guy go come out from your tutorials, he go don turn full fledged redpiller... abi na wetin dem dey call am sef

The root of the issue is the fact that she is now the breadwinner..Try to find something to do, even if it's a menial job.

A man's respect diminishes before his wife when she becomes a breadwinner in the family.It's the harsh truth.Women are not wired to be providers.Every woman wants a man that will be there for the family financially.When the chips are down,find anything honest to do. Don't just relax at home while she goes out there to hustle.

I advice you to get something doing no matter how small.You guys can look for a daycare for your daughter.When that's sorted, you can address her infidelity issues by asking her what she wants for the marriage?Make her understand the implications of her actions and how they make you feel.All the best.

LtCZAR:
Its has really been a sad day, but to everyone that took out time to make a comment of encouragement and advise,Thank you.

@crackhaus thanks.

I pray this storm would pass and the whole family heals and move on.

I can see from your writing that you are not prepared for life after this woman you called your wife. Please do not put unnecessary emotional baggage on yourself because of someone that does not care about your existence anymore.

I must applaud her manipulative prowess, she pushed you extremely to the wall till you went physical on her, now she has the upper hand in the whole scenario, she can keep enjoying the other man and still not entertaining any of your pleas hiding under the fact that you beat her.

stop begging her, pick the pieces and move on, in her eyes the continuous begging is irritating to her. God will provide another job and you can always start afresh but before then, extensively search for a lady that loves you, even more than you love her.

LtCZAR:
I, write this with a very heavy Heart. Hitting a lady is not part of me. I hit the woman of my life, who gave birth to my beautiful daughter . Yesterday 19/09/20. I did what am not proud of.

I feel ashamed because of this, I confronted her because of infidelity issue and she got vexed.
The person she introduced me to as her friend would take her out, to drink, go clubbing and she comes back late in the night. I have talked to her about this issues so many time but she refused to give this up.
She saved a numberber on her phone as My Love, when I confronted her about it, her reply was it's just a word, no feelings attached. whenever this person calls, the way she responds to this call is annoying. I am not perfect. I am out of work since the beginning of the year, I try to babysit our two year old daughter just for her to be stress free and concentrate on her work place.

House, Woman out here, FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AM SORRY FOR HITTING A WOMAN.
It does not make me a better person.

I saw her, this morning after pleading with her all through the night, where she cried her eyes out.
I feel her pains, and am sorry. I tried to get people to talk to her but, she refused to listen. She said she wants to move out of the house back to her parents place. I have pleaded with her.

Just now she telling me, she's going to Suntan Beach Badagry, and would not be back till tomorrow.

House, how do I talk her out of this? Should I allow her go back to her parents place as she requested so she can have her freedom to do whatever she wants?
What would be the faith of my daughter?.

Thank you all for reading my epistle. Your replys and bashing are all welcomed.

Association Of Simpsons......

descarado:

Not related to the topic.


Do you know that I was monitoring Edo election live yesterday at work? I can't believe I did that
Have never bothered myself with elections in Nigeria before.

Lol, the following was massive.
I noticed this as well at least with people who could understand the underlying factors that were really at play.

It wasn't just the usual PDP vs APC affair - it was more about a battle of wits between some of the people involved, it was also a way to prove that the factionalization inside the APC which will make them lose the presidency in 2023 is very real... then there's also the statement that was sent to bourdillion himself.

Even Lagos PDP is now bragging they have the firepower to send Tinubu into retirement in 2023

mariahAngel:

Heyiiiii!

You wan go teach am how to be bad abi?

Before the guy go come out from your tutorials, he go don turn full fledged redpiller... abi na wetin dem dey call am sef

Ehn?