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Masonkaycares:
I've been fighting masturbation for almost a year now when I discovered that it's getting outta hand. I tried going a month without it but just one day remaining and I failed not once but on multiple occasions and I hate it. But with the comments above me am determined to stop. In fact I've stopped. Please no one should give me a lecture. Abeg.

Brachaa:
Call on the holy Spirit to help you, he will.
Also flee every appearance of evil ( sex in this case) until you're in charge and control of your body or the holy Spirit has put that self control in you. And before you know it, you'll be totally free from that bondage.

It is well.

CAPSLOCKED:
SIMPLE BIOLOGY.




OGA ALL THIS IS BULLSHIT. THERE'S NOTHING YOUR RELIGION OR PRAYERS TO GODS CAN DO TO STOP PEOPLE FROM ENGAGING IN ALL KINDS OF SEXUAL ACTS.
ALMOST EVERY LIVING RGANISM IN THIS WORLD ENGAGE IN VARIOUS KINDS OF SEXUAL INVOLVEMENT, BUT ONLY HUMAN WANT TO DICTATE HOW PEOPLE SHOULD USE THEIR PENĮSES AND VAGINAS.

SmellySperm:
get a new Vaseline bro... stop ke!

OPAA6:
Once a pussy is fuckèd it can never be unfuçked

djon78:
Then why is there sexually transmitted diseases in humans ?
Have you seen people suffering from Gonorhea, staphylococcus, HIV etc


That's because the creator didn't design sex as a sport but for marriage

Masonkaycares:
I've been fighting masturbation for almost a year now when I discovered that it's getting outta hand. I tried going a month without it but just one day remaining and I failed not once but on multiple occasions and I hate it. But with the comments above me am determined to stop. In fact I've stopped. Please no one should give me a lecture. Abeg.

Zzor:
You this ashawo man again,you truly need deliverance.Cut away any of your organ leading you to sin

ambitiouschap17:
Don't mind anybody bro, stop that fucking habit. You can go to Reddit and search for nofap community on Reddit

Franzinni:
I know right ...OK I am agnostic ..



Nah lie o I believe in God! Not just a particular one I just know there is a higher force. If you see maths for example all the formulas that we know till date, not even one was invented rather they were Discovered meaning human or no human those formulas have always existed and you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know that they aren't random or luck . so I believe in God but not from the view of religion.

Karleb:
The problem starts when we see sex as a bad thing.

Youths are supposed to be active sexually, it's just biology.

It's just like aging, you can't stop, so stop trying to stop it.

Interesting15:
Premarital sex is a bad thing.
Come on, there are several young folks like me who are living a very happy lifestyle and not indulging in immoral acts. I sincerely can't relate with all these vehement struggles with sexual addictions, despite being a young guy with healthy sexual urges.

So it's possible to have control over yourself as a young person. To go far in life, you must have control over your own self.

Karleb:
Speak for yourself not others.

Your natural sexual urge might be below normal.
We have married people who don't like sexx as well.

There's nothing like control when sexual urge is involved. Do you think sexx addiction is popular by chance?

There is nothing immoral about sex, it's just like every other activities we engage in such eating, sleeping..., which can be abused.

Interesting15:
I know myself. And I know the sexual monster I will likely have become (as a result of my sexual urges) if I didn't had an encounter with Jesus Christ very early in life

Gaze at life (as well as the concept of sex and sexuality) with a pure heart, and it will be glaring that sex is no ordinary activity, and that sex is spiritual.

I rarely quote people here. But what I want you to know (as well as others) is that there are many young folks out there with healthy sexual urges, who have been able to learn to tame their desires, and have full control over themselves, as a result of their partnership with the Holy Spirit.

God bless you my brother.

Masonkaycares:
my vaseline of 2years just finished bro

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL. ARE YOU A CHILD? OR IN YOUR VILLAGE MARRIED PEOPLE CANNOT CONTRACT STD'S? OR YOU DON'T KNOW ANIMALS ALSO HAVE THEIR OWN SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES??
WHEN YOU ONLY READ YOUR BIBLE AND LISTEN TO YOUR DUMB PREACHERS YOU'LL FOREVER BE IGNORANT TO THE SIMPLEST THINGS IN LIFE.

JIMMY1393:
Op you're a fool sorry to say...so you knew a lady was coming over YET all you had on was boxers? You're literally inviting her to do sexual things with you yet you are coming her to complain ...omo get the f out nonsense...instead of you to have been fully clothed and have a sensible conversation then bid her farewell you went to face her with only boxers...I feel like slapping you...you are the sole reason for your downfall

JIMMY1393:
Op you're a fool sorry to say...so you knew a lady was coming over YET all you had on was boxers? You're literally inviting her to do sexual things with you yet you are coming her to complain ...omo get the f out nonsense...instead of you to have been fully clothed and have a sensible conversation then bid her farewell you went to face her with only boxers...I feel like slapping you...you are the sole reason for your downfall

fati2001:
now you have come to realized the deep secret of premarital sex,, well thank God he purified you quickly..... and now it's left for you to keep the purity.

Zzor:
You this ashawo man again,you truly need deliverance.Cut away any of your organ leading you to sin

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL. ARE YOU A CHILD? OR IN YOUR VILLAGE MARRIED PEOPLE CANNOT CONTRACT STD'S? OR YOU DON'T KNOW ANIMALS ALSO HAVE THEIR OWN SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES??
WHEN YOU ONLY READ YOUR BIBLE AND LISTEN TO YOUR DUMB PREACHERS YOU'LL FOREVER BE IGNORANT TO THE SIMPLEST THINGS IN LIFE.

Righteousness89:
Getting a Solution begins when you know there is a Problem! I see that your Spirit, Soul and Body have agreed that there is a Problem!

Secondly, There is an Enemy! The Enemy is not a Human but a Spirit. The Spirit of Lust! They are Watching you Closely.
Let me shock you. The ladies calling you and the one you finally had Sexual sin with were Purposely sent to you. The Spirit of Lust Watching you, entered Her to Confuse you and make you Fall..

There are 3 things the devil uses to capture Humanity..
What to Eat
What to Drink
How to Gratify the Flesh

These are 3 Major things the devil has used from Generation to Generation to Capture, Chain and lock Destinies and Send them to Hell.

The Moment you can Overcome this 3 things you will go places..

HOW Do we Conquer?
You Have to Conciously Decide to be Genuinely Born again. Conciously Hand over yourself to Jesus and Honestly request for His Help..

You Need to take some Drastic Actions. Since the days of John the Baptist only the Violent takes it by Force..
You need to Delete or Block any Number that will lead you to Sin or Fornicate.

You Need to Delete all photos of whoever looks like Sin Partner.. Inshort go Flash the Phone..

You Need to Look for a Bible Believing Church or Brethern who will Constantly Hammer the Raw Word of God in your Ears.

Delete all Wordly Music, Pornography like stuff on your Phone and in your House..

You will Cut off from some Friends . Both male and Female. Or you treat them with a very long Spoon..

Your Eyes is the Gate way to your Body! You need to Conciously Regulate what your Eyes sees. Once the Eyes sees it passes it to the Brain sharply . If your Eyes Sees what it should not, Repent Immediately and Make use of the Blood of JESUS to Purify your Heart and Mind..

Fill your Set with Undiluted Messages and Songs from Servants of God.

SmellySperm:
I've got new fresh content u can soapy with

hit me up bro

haiti007:
I'm sure you did not read his post to the end.

djon78:
A married person that contacts sexually transmitted disease got it from straying or having intercourse outside his or her faithful partner.

Franzinni:
I know right ...OK I am agnostic ..



Nah lie o I believe in God! Not just a particular one I just know there is a higher force. If you see maths for example all the formulas that we know till date, not even one was invented rather they were Discovered meaning human or no human those formulas have always existed and you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know that they aren't random or luck . so I believe in God but not from the view of religion.

Carchoice:
For the past weeks now I have been questioning God if He deliberately put sexual desire in us to make the ignorant and foolish minded ones to lose focus and concentration.

Sex is not only overrated but I’m beginning to see it as demonic. The thought of it takes you away from reality. You get trapped in a loop where the only escape you can think of is sex and more sex. Hence fornicating.

After careful observation and prayers, I realized the problem was/is me. Whatever you feed your mind is what it consciously and unconsciously feeds your body. That is, when you lust after a sexy lady’s photo or see a lady with a nice backside and start to imagine things, you have unconsciously incurred a debt, a debt you must pay. How? Whatever goes into your mind can’t go away easily until you satisfies it (pays the debt) and satisfying it is just the beginning of more to happen. (More debt)


Sex is(soon to be “was”) the only thing that comes to my mind whenever a female comes to my place or calls me. But the past weeks I have been advising myself to stop wasting my minds space and precious time on impurities, then the ladies started coming at me, I would open my WhatsApp and see a text that says

“I am Hot, can I come around”, “why are you avoiding me”, “are you trying to tell me you have not had sex since then?”

It hasn’t been easy for me as I was able to acknowledge a problem right before me but the solution to the problem is far far within me. I don’t know what your life problems are/is but for me, fornication is my only problem right now and I pray and pray I can defeat this. (Prayers in cases like this cleanse impurities from your mind)


Whenever you sees someone post “the only thing in our youths mind is sex”. That post is not far from the truth. When you allow your mind to accommodate sexual pleasures whenever it arises, nothing good can stay in that mind. The only thing that will occupy the whole of your minds space is sex and it will lock the doors for other reasoning that will better your life.


A lady friend had been calling me all through the weekdays, I did not pick because she was part of the problem. Yesterday being Sunday I finally picked and she insisted on seeing me that it’s been a while (just one week of no see) I told her I was busy, several times. But she insisted on coming, she even noted that it seems I am avoiding sex that she’ll not do anything funny.(I didn’t believe her ofcourse) but I took it as a challenge to see how far I had gone with my self-discipline. She finally came and a little chit chat and all that, then the devil struck. I was just on boxer, she went on her knees. I will never forget these words that came from her;

“you can’t resist this”.

I fell for it. So many things were running through my mind but I lost.


Then I had a dream around 4am. I dreamt I and others were writing exams, I wasn’t sure what exam it was but it seemed very intense. What I did on my answer sheet was I copied all the questions. I did not answer any of it. And to think the exams were not conducted in a class but outside(you can even go home to answer yours) we were given ENOUGH time to answer the questions. But I was not able to answer any. When time was up, I went to submit and realized it was just me and two others that are yet to submit ours. I had to quickly go through one of the candidates answer script and saw that the questions I could not answer were more like primary school questions but time was already up and the invigilator asked the three of us to wait outside as punishment for submitting late. I immediately pleaded with one of the candidates to allow me copy answers from him which he accepted but immediately I wrote the first line. We were called in to submit our scripts. I woke up and shouted

“I don fvck up” I actually failed a real life exam and it happened yesterday evening.


I’m beginning to feel ashamed to pray to God. I have to work on myself before involving God. Whenever I remember I have a long journey ahead of me, I cringe. But by God’s Grace and his Mercy, I will share a testimony soon, as I did masturbation.


PS. Atheist and non-believers should not derail.

Cc righteousness89