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Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Sep 21, 2020
For the past weeks now I have been questioning God if He deliberately put sexual desire in us to make the ignorant and foolish minded ones to lose focus and concentration.

Sex is not only overrated but I’m beginning to see it as demonic. The thought of it takes you away from reality. You get trapped in a loop where the only escape you can think of is sex and more sex. Hence fornicating.

After careful observation and prayers, I realized the problem was/is me. Whatever you feed your mind is what it consciously and unconsciously feeds your body. That is, when you lust after a sexy lady’s photo or see a lady with a nice backside and start to imagine things, you have unconsciously incurred a debt, a debt you must pay. How? Whatever goes into your mind can’t go away easily until you satisfies it (pays the debt) and satisfying it is just the beginning of more to happen. (More debt)


Sex is(soon to be “was”) the only thing that comes to my mind whenever a female comes to my place or calls me. But the past weeks I have been advising myself to stop wasting my minds space and precious time on impurities, then the ladies started coming at me, I would open my WhatsApp and see a text that says

“I am Hot, can I come around”, “why are you avoiding me”, “are you trying to tell me you have not had sex since then?”

It hasn’t been easy for me as I was able to acknowledge a problem right before me but the solution to the problem is far far within me. I don’t know what your life problems are/is but for me, fornication is my only problem right now and I pray and pray I can defeat this. (Prayers in cases like this cleanse impurities from your mind)


Whenever you sees someone post “the only thing in our youths mind is sex”. That post is not far from the truth. When you allow your mind to accommodate sexual pleasures whenever it arises, nothing good can stay in that mind. The only thing that will occupy the whole of your minds space is sex and it will lock the doors for other reasoning that will better your life.


A lady friend had been calling me all through the weekdays, I did not pick because she was part of the problem. Yesterday being Sunday I finally picked and she insisted on seeing me that it’s been a while (just one week of no see) I told her I was busy, several times. But she insisted on coming, she even noted that it seems I am avoiding sex that she’ll not do anything funny.(I didn’t believe her ofcourse) but I took it as a challenge to see how far I had gone with my self-discipline. She finally came and a little chit chat and all that, then the devil struck. I was just on boxer, she went on her knees. I will never forget these words that came from her;

“you can’t resist this”.

I fell for it. So many things were running through my mind but I lost.


Then I had a dream around 4am. I dreamt I and others were writing exams, I wasn’t sure what exam it was but it seemed very intense. What I did on my answer sheet was I copied all the questions. I did not answer any of it. And to think the exams were not conducted in a class but outside(you can even go home to answer yours) we were given ENOUGH time to answer the questions. But I was not able to answer any. When time was up, I went to submit and realized it was just me and two others that are yet to submit ours. I had to quickly go through one of the candidates answer script and saw that the questions I could not answer were more like primary school questions but time was already up and the invigilator asked the three of us to wait outside as punishment for submitting late. I immediately pleaded with one of the candidates to allow me copy answers from him which he accepted but immediately I wrote the first line. We were called in to submit our scripts. I woke up and shouted

“I don fvck up” I actually failed a real life exam and it happened yesterday evening.


I’m beginning to feel ashamed to pray to God. I have to work on myself before involving God. Whenever I remember I have a long journey ahead of me, I cringe. But by God’s Grace and his Mercy, I will share a testimony soon, as I did masturbation.


PS. Atheist and non-believers should not derail.

Cc righteousness89

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 12:34pm On Sep 21, 2020
You this ashawo man again,you truly need deliverance.Cut away any of your organ leading you to sin

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Prinss: 12:39pm On Sep 21, 2020
SEX - A blessing and a curse...
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Righteousness89(m): 12:40pm On Sep 21, 2020
Getting a Solution begins when you know there is a Problem! I see that your Spirit, Soul and Body have agreed that there is a Problem!

Secondly, There is an Enemy! The Enemy is not a Human but a Spirit. The Spirit of Lust! They are Watching you Closely.
Let me shock you. The ladies calling you and the one you finally had Sexual sin with were Purposely sent to you. The Spirit of Lust Watching you, entered Her to Confuse you and make you Fall..

There are 3 things the devil uses to capture Humanity..
What to Eat
What to Drink
How to Gratify the Flesh

These are 3 Major things the devil has used from Generation to Generation to Capture, Chain and lock Destinies and Send them to Hell.

The Moment you can Overcome this 3 things you will go places..

HOW Do we Conquer?
You Have to Conciously Decide to be Genuinely Born again. Conciously Hand over yourself to Jesus and Honestly request for His Help..

You Need to take some Drastic Actions. Since the days of John the Baptist only the Violent takes it by Force..
You need to Delete or Block any Number that will lead you to Sin or Fornicate.

You Need to Delete all photos of whoever looks like Sin Partner.. Inshort go Flash the Phone..

You Need to Look for a Bible Believing Church or Brethern who will Constantly Hammer the Raw Word of God in your Ears.

Delete all Wordly Music, Pornography like stuff on your Phone and in your House..

You will Cut off from some Friends . Both male and Female. Or you treat them with a very long Spoon..

Your Eyes is the Gate way to your Body! You need to Conciously Regulate what your Eyes sees. Once the Eyes sees it passes it to the Brain sharply . If your Eyes Sees what it should not, Repent Immediately and Make use of the Blood of JESUS to Purify your Heart and Mind..

Fill your Set with Undiluted Messages and Songs from Servants of God.

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by powerhouse3(m): 12:41pm On Sep 21, 2020
Those that are fully engage with their time,don't really suffer from sex stuff...

while I was on.leave ,I found myself thinking toward your line ,but( ..send me transport money and many demand kill the urge.)...and I was highly grateful for that....and reading book kill it totally..


when the covid pandemics bit hard,many were calling me ,can I come and spend some day and I always answer them with a menacing.. NO


if you count the cost that come with it ....then you are suppose to do away with it

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:44pm On Sep 21, 2020
Righteousness89:
Getting a Solution begins when you know there is a Problem! I see that your Spirit, Soul and Body have agreed that there is a Problem!

Secondly, There is an Enemy! The Enemy is not a Human but a Spirit. The Spirit of Lust! They are Watching you Closely.
Let me shock you. The ladies calling you and the one you finally had Sexual sin with were Purposely sent to you. The Spirit of Lust Watching you, enter Her to make you Fall..

There are 3 things the devil uses to capture Humanity..


Mister, you forgot to use your usual font, what happen?

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Franzinni: 12:46pm On Sep 21, 2020
Atheist has landed ...

You need to realize God never created EVE from clay he made her from bone .. Do you not wonder why the serpent never went to meet Adam in the garden but instead he targeted eve.

Mind you the discussion that devil had with eve in the garden is more than what you see in the Bible ... Just be careful with women and sex ... women are helpers, that is the original plan so if they are not helping you grow they will help you fail in life ...

Samson
Solomon
David
Joseph

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Biglittlelois(f): 12:47pm On Sep 21, 2020
I can't believe this is coming from the randy rich carchoice, I'm impressed you're trying to clean yourself up, it takes strong determination cos it ain't easy to stop what has been a continuous routine, I wish you the very best.

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by doctore212(m): 1:20pm On Sep 21, 2020
How much does olosho collect for TDB in Gwarimpam

I need two Oloshos tonight

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Sep 21, 2020
Sexual corruption is one of the hardest things to curb because the flesh is hard to tame especially when u have fed it uncontrollably with its cravings over time......but u sound like u half way there ......

Some people will soon come and relate everything to religion.....but it's not all about religion...
A man that doesn't tame his sexual cravings may have to pay dearly for it.....Robert Kelly, one of the most talented musicians of our time comes to mind right now
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by fati2001(m): 1:39pm On Sep 21, 2020
Carchoice:
For the past weeks now I have been questioning God if He deliberately put sexual desire in us to make the ignorant and foolish minded ones to lose focus and concentration.

Sex is not only overrated but I’m beginning to see it as demonic. The thought of it takes you away from reality. You get trapped in a loop where the only escape you can think of is sex and more sex. Hence fornicating.

After careful observation and prayers, I realized the problem was/is me. Whatever you feed your mind is what it consciously and unconsciously feeds your body. That is, when you lust after a sexy lady’s photo or see a lady with a nice backside and start to imagine things, you have unconsciously incurred a debt, a debt you must pay. How? Whatever goes into your mind can’t go away easily until you satisfies it (pays the debt) and satisfying it is just the beginning of more to happen. (More debt)


Sex is(soon to be “was”) the only thing that comes to my mind whenever a female comes to my place or calls me. But the past weeks I have been advising myself to stop wasting my minds space and precious time on impurities, then the ladies started coming at me, I would open my WhatsApp and see a text that says

“I am Hot, can I come around”, “why are you avoiding me”, “are you trying to tell me you have not had sex since then?”

It hasn’t been easy for me as I was able to acknowledge a problem right before me but the solution to the problem is far far within me. I don’t know what your life problems are/is but for me, fornication is my only problem right now and I pray and pray I can defeat this. (Prayers in cases like this cleanse impurities from your mind)


Whenever you sees someone post “the only thing in our youths mind is sex”. That post is not far from the truth. When you allow your mind to accommodate sexual pleasures whenever it arises, nothing good can stay in that mind. The only thing that will occupy the whole of your minds space is sex and it will lock the doors for other reasoning that will better your life.


A lady friend had been calling me all through the weekdays, I did not pick because she was part of the problem. Yesterday being Sunday I finally picked and she insisted on seeing me that it’s been a while (just one week of no see) I told her I was busy, several times. But she insisted on coming, she even noted that it seems I am avoiding sex that she’ll not do anything funny.(I didn’t believe her ofcourse) but I took it as a challenge to see how far I had gone with my self-discipline. She finally came and a little chit chat and all that, then the devil struck. I was just on boxer, she went on her knees. I will never forget these words that came from her;

“you can’t resist this”.

I fell for it. So many things were running through my mind but I lost.


Then I had a dream around 4am. I dreamt I and others were writing exams, I wasn’t sure what exam it was but it seemed very intense. What I did on my answer sheet was I copied all the questions. I did not answer any of it. And to think the exams were not conducted in a class but outside(you can even go home to answer yours) we were given ENOUGH time to answer the questions. But I was not able to answer any. When time was up, I went to submit and realized it was just me and two others that are yet to submit ours. I had to quickly go through one of the candidates answer script and saw that the questions I could not answer were more like primary school questions but time was already up and the invigilator asked the three of us to wait outside as punishment for submitting late. I immediately pleaded with one of the candidates to allow me copy answers from him which he accepted but immediately I wrote the first line. We were called in to submit our scripts. I woke up and shouted

“I don fvck up” I actually failed a real life exam and it happened yesterday evening.


I’m beginning to feel ashamed to pray to God. I have to work on myself before involving God. Whenever I remember I have a long journey ahead of me, I cringe. But by God’s Grace and his Mercy, I will share a testimony soon, as I did masturbation.


PS. Atheist and non-believers should not derail.

Cc righteousness89
now you have come to realized the deep secret of premarital sex,, well thank God he purified you quickly..... and now it's left for you to keep the purity.
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by JIMMY1393: 1:46pm On Sep 21, 2020
Biglittlelois:



Mister, you forgot to use your usual font, what happen?

Lmaoo
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by JIMMY1393: 1:48pm On Sep 21, 2020
Op you're a fool sorry to say...so you knew a lady was coming over YET all you had on was boxers? You're literally inviting her to do sexual things with you yet you are coming her to complain ...omo get the f out nonsense...instead of you to have been fully clothed and have a sensible conversation then bid her farewell you went to face her with only boxers...I feel like slapping you...you are the sole reason for your downfall

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by JIMMY1393: 1:51pm On Sep 21, 2020
Franzinni:
Atheist has landed ...

You need to realize God never created EVE from clay he made her from bone .. Do you not wonder why the serpent never went to meet Adam in the garden but instead he targeted eve.

Mind you the discussion that devil had with eve in the garden is more than what you see in the Bible ... Just be careful with women and sex ... women are helpers, that is the original plan so if they are not helping you grow they will help you fail in life ...

Samson
Solomon
David
Joseph


You dont sound atheist cos even though you don't believe he created her from sand you still believe he created her from home...a true atheist doesn't even believe god exists

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Tochj(m): 1:53pm On Sep 21, 2020
Bro stop fighting darkness
Just introduce the light
What you are passing through is simply darkness.
Introduce the light by filling your mind with God's word.
Bf you know it darkness will flee.
That's where you need discipline.
Focus on the word
Feed on the word
Leave the rest to God

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Franzinni: 2:33pm On Sep 21, 2020
JIMMY1393:


You dont sound atheist cos even though you don't believe he created her from sand you still believe he created her from home...a true atheist doesn't even believe god exists
I know right ...OK I am agnostic ..



Nah lie o I believe in God! Not just a particular one I just know there is a higher force. If you see maths for example all the formulas that we know till date, not even one was invented rather they were Discovered meaning human or no human those formulas have always existed and you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know that they aren't random or luck . so I believe in God but not from the view of religion.

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 3:22pm On Sep 21, 2020
Go and marry o.

But why were you wearing boxers when you're avoiding sex?
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by McBrooklyn(m): 3:29pm On Sep 21, 2020
grin Anyways, Iffa hear say ah no knack this babe akpako tonight..

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by devlishGINGER(m): 4:12pm On Sep 21, 2020
Zzor:
You this ashawo man again,you truly need deliverance.Cut away any of your organ leading you to sin
Lol reproduction is God given talent

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by devlishGINGER(m): 4:17pm On Sep 21, 2020
Carchoice:
For the
“I don fvck up” I actually failed a real life exam and it happened yesterday evening.
this post above is the first step to understanding yourself. Sex is not a crime and it has never been a crime. it's just human moral formulas inherited from the society is the reasons why we think sexual obsession is a sin.

Have sex while you are alive because you can't do that when you are dead...

I am not saying you should be engaged in sexual misbehavior but if you feel like being caged in a certain act... Enjoy it to the fullest. All die naa die

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 4:22pm On Sep 21, 2020
First, there is the GRACE of our Lord Jesus Christ: it saves from sin and makes us righteous before God by faith.

Secondly, is the LOVE of God, this is imparted in us and cause us to love God and our neighbour sincerely. It also result in faithful and diligent service to God.

Lastly is the COMMUNION of the Holy Spirit: He gives you power to life like Christ.

"Those who let themselves be controlled by their lower natures live only to please themselves, but those who follow after the Holy Spirit find themselves doing those things that please God. Following after the Holy Spirit leads to life and peace, but following after the old nature leads to death because the old sinful nature within us is against God. It never did obey God's laws and it never will. That's why those who are still under the control of their old sinful selves, bent on following their old evil desires, can never please God." TLB Romans 8:5-8

CONSTANTLY ASK FOR THE HELP OF THE HOLY SPIRIT AND GIVE YOURSELF WHOLLY TO THE STUDY AND MEDITATION OF GOD'S WORD WITH PRAYER.

YOU ARE NOT CONDEMN!

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by delkuf(m): 4:24pm On Sep 21, 2020
Carchoice:
For the past weeks now I have been questioning God if He deliberately put sexual desire in us to make the ignorant and foolish minded ones to lose focus and concentration.

Sex is not only overrated but I’m beginning to see it as demonic. The thought of it takes you away from reality. You get trapped in a loop where the only escape you can think of is sex and more sex. Hence fornicating.

After careful observation and prayers, I realized the problem was/is me. Whatever you feed your mind is what it consciously and unconsciously feeds your body. That is, when you lust after a sexy lady’s photo or see a lady with a nice backside and start to imagine things, you have unconsciously incurred a debt, a debt you must pay. How? Whatever goes into your mind can’t go away easily until you satisfies it (pays the debt) and satisfying it is just the beginning of more to happen. (More debt)


Sex is(soon to be “was”) the only thing that comes to my mind whenever a female comes to my place or calls me. But the past weeks I have been advising myself to stop wasting my minds space and precious time on impurities, then the ladies started coming at me, I would open my WhatsApp and see a text that says

“I am Hot, can I come around”, “why are you avoiding me”, “are you trying to tell me you have not had sex since then?”

It hasn’t been easy for me as I was able to acknowledge a problem right before me but the solution to the problem is far far within me. I don’t know what your life problems are/is but for me, fornication is my only problem right now and I pray and pray I can defeat this. (Prayers in cases like this cleanse impurities from your mind)


Whenever you sees someone post “the only thing in our youths mind is sex”. That post is not far from the truth. When you allow your mind to accommodate sexual pleasures whenever it arises, nothing good can stay in that mind. The only thing that will occupy the whole of your minds space is sex and it will lock the doors for other reasoning that will better your life.


A lady friend had been calling me all through the weekdays, I did not pick because she was part of the problem. Yesterday being Sunday I finally picked and she insisted on seeing me that it’s been a while (just one week of no see) I told her I was busy, several times. But she insisted on coming, she even noted that it seems I am avoiding sex that she’ll not do anything funny.(I didn’t believe her ofcourse) but I took it as a challenge to see how far I had gone with my self-discipline. She finally came and a little chit chat and all that, then the devil struck. I was just on boxer, she went on her knees. I will never forget these words that came from her;

“you can’t resist this”.

I fell for it. So many things were running through my mind but I lost.


Then I had a dream around 4am. I dreamt I and others were writing exams, I wasn’t sure what exam it was but it seemed very intense. What I did on my answer sheet was I copied all the questions. I did not answer any of it. And to think the exams were not conducted in a class but outside(you can even go home to answer yours) we were given ENOUGH time to answer the questions. But I was not able to answer any. When time was up, I went to submit and realized it was just me and two others that are yet to submit ours. I had to quickly go through one of the candidates answer script and saw that the questions I could not answer were more like primary school questions but time was already up and the invigilator asked the three of us to wait outside as punishment for submitting late. I immediately pleaded with one of the candidates to allow me copy answers from him which he accepted but immediately I wrote the first line. We were called in to submit our scripts. I woke up and shouted

“I don fvck up” I actually failed a real life exam and it happened yesterday evening.


I’m beginning to feel ashamed to pray to God. I have to work on myself before involving God. Whenever I remember I have a long journey ahead of me, I cringe. But by God’s Grace and his Mercy, I will share a testimony soon, as I did masturbation.


PS. Atheist and non-believers should not derail.

Cc righteousness89
The Holy Spirit will help to continue upholding yourself. Don't worry, you are doing the right thing

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Sep 21, 2020
I've been fighting masturbation for almost a year now when I discovered that it's getting outta hand. I tried going a month without it but just one day remaining and I failed not once but on multiple occasions and I hate it. But with the comments above me am determined to stop. In fact I've stopped. Please no one should give me a lecture. Abeg.

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Karleb(m): 5:32pm On Sep 21, 2020
The problem starts when we see sex as a bad thing.
Youths are supposed to be active sexually, it's just biology.
It's just like aging, you can't stop, so stop trying to stop it.
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 5:37pm On Sep 21, 2020
Thanks OP for the post.
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 5:38pm On Sep 21, 2020
Masonkaycares:
I've been fighting masturbation for almost a year now when I discovered that it's getting outta hand. I tried going a month without it but just one day remaining and I failed not once but on multiple occasions and I hate it. But with the comments above me am determined to stop. In fact I've stopped. Please no one should give me a lecture. Abeg.
get a new Vaseline bro... stop ke!

Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by CAPSLOCKED: 5:43pm On Sep 21, 2020
Karleb:
Youths are supposed to be active sexually, it's just biology.

SIMPLE BIOLOGY.

Oluvan:
First, there is the GRACE of our Lord Jesus Christ: it saves from sin and makes us righteous before God by faith.

Secondly, is the LOVE of God, this is imparted in us and cause us to love God and our neighbour sincerely. It also result in faithful and diligent service to God.


OGA ALL THIS IS BULLSHIT. THERE'S NOTHING YOUR RELIGION OR PRAYERS TO GODS CAN DO TO STOP PEOPLE FROM ENGAGING IN ALL KINDS OF SEXUAL ACTS.
ALMOST EVERY LIVING ORGANISM IN THIS WORLD ENGAGE IN VARIOUS KINDS OF SEXUAL INVOLVEMENT, BUT ONLY HUMAN WANT TO DICTATE HOW PEOPLE SHOULD USE THEIR PENĮSES AND VAGINAS.
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 6:05pm On Sep 21, 2020
doctore212:
How much does olosho collect for TDB in Gwarimpam

I need two Oloshos tonight
I wish you're near me rn
Am just holding this hockey stick have not seen anyone to bang it on
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 21, 2020
Call on the holy Spirit to help you, he will.
Also flee every appearance of evil ( sex in this case) until you're in charge and control of your body or the holy Spirit has put that self control in you. And before you know it, you'll be totally free from that bondage.

It is well.

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Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by Nobody: 6:08pm On Sep 21, 2020
McBrooklyn:
grin Anyways, Iffa hear say ah no knack this babe akpako tonight..
Don't worry you'll want to stop one day and it will be very difficult grin
Re: Fighting Fornication, My Experience So Far. by McBrooklyn(m): 6:10pm On Sep 21, 2020
OPAA6:

Don't worry you'll want to stop one day and it will be very difficult grin

You lied grin
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