Being permanent means it must be done with proper consent with one's wife and after serious thinking.
Preferably, when the kids are matured.
Devil is wicked.

Vasectomy is alien to the culture of Nigerians.

OP must have copied from some gossip magazine overseas.

You are not under obligation to post if you don't have something original and interesting.

mariahAngel:


They should learn to practice abstinence or other form of intimacy within the ovulation period.
They won't die from not having sex within that period of time.

This has been my issue with using religion as the basis: it distorts rational thinking. So married couples should abstain from sex because they don't want to procreate even when there exists a way to have sex without pregnancy occurring? Why do people like making things unnecessarily difficult for themselves? And s/he goes to claim that they won't die for not having sex, black or white reasoning. If it's not A, it must be Z. Thereby missing B to Y.

It's the responsible thing to do if you don't want children but can't say no to toto...

I've always hated other means of contraception except the permanent methods like vasectomy or tubal ligation, but
I will rather have my wife do tubal ligation, it's better for the family

Guys will make ladies use postinor , do abortions, used invasive birth control etc. But wont near anything like vasectomy or sperm killers. I blame women una no just get sense hahaha

A spiritual Christian does not bother about these issues...because he effect the necessary adjustment in the spirit but the carnal man, well, happy mutilation ohhh!

mariahAngel:


As a Christian, do you agree with the procedure?

Please, don't give me your favourite "where is it written in the bible?" line... God cannot be mocked or fooled.

see this holier than thou folk... keep deceiving yourself there

crackhaus:
Mehn fück this shit, no scalpel or surgical knife is going anywhere near my balls.

Funniest eber

crackhaus:
Mehn fück this shit, no scalpel or surgical knife is going anywhere near my balls.

Funniest ever

Mynd44:
Going by the side-effects of birthcontrols on women (hormonal, weight issues) vasectomy is something I have had my sight into for a long while. After a certain number of children, get it done and have peace. If I want any other offspring by force, adoption is the way.

Excellent idea about adoption, which we should all promote more, to reduce abortion, baby factory stories and related crimes.

jekagadura:
A spiritual Christian does not bother about these issues...because he effect the necessary adjustment in the spirit but the carnal man, well, happy mutilation ohhh!

What of male circumcision and female genital mutilation by most religions?


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When humans try to play God it usually does not end well. Unless the procedure is reversible, it just doesn't make sense! We have seen cases of a man losing his entire family in one accident, we have seen cases of a woman leaving her man alone while taking the children amd we have seen young couples get a divorce and man wants to remarry, who will marry a man that can't give her a child?

In the end, human beings are just too unpredictable, as a man will you put yourself at a permanent disadvantage all in the name of family planning? As a woman should you agree to tube tying knowing your husband can leave you for a younger version and start a new family? I admire the courage of those men but this decision is not for the faint of heart .

jaydeevaa:
I think this is a welcome development...men should also be responsible for family planning. it should not just be the women. Family planning methods for women have proven to be life threatening...with side effects like causing obesity, cervical cancer, bleeding, high blood pressure among others...if vasectomy doesn't exactly pose a threat to the life and wellbeing of a man, then it should be welcomed.

It poses prostrate cancer to men

BigCabal:
A vasectomy is a permanent contraceptive method where a male’s vas deferens is cut and tied or sealed to prevent sperm from getting to the urethra, to stop the man from ejaculating and fertilizing the female’s egg. Whew, that’s a lot of grammar. In simpler English, the tube that carries sperm from the testicles is tied up or sealed in order to prevent the sperm from reaching the penis. This procedure is mostly permanent although it may be reversed in some cases.

Men are increasingly considering vasectomies as a contraceptive method. For the most part, they do it to take the burden off their female partners who have historically been expected to use birth control methods that give them nasty side effects and some times, permanent damage. Vasectomies are generally safe and not as painful as most people think it is. I talked to 5 Nigerian men about vasectomies. They had some pretty interesting answers.

Paul, 38
I decided to get a vasectomy because we were done havings kids and no longer wanted to worry about falling pregnant. It’s less invasive for a guy to get a vasectomy than for a woman to undergo tubal ligation (tying up the fallopian tubes). It’s also way cheaper and requires much shorter recovery time. It’s not even comparable.

I had it done three years ago at my doctor’s office. It was a keyhole surgery (a minimally invasive surgery that’s carried out through a small incision in the skin) with local anaesthesia. I was chatting with the doctor the whole time while he had my balls in his hands. The procedure took all of 30 minutes. I had it done on a Friday and only took Monday off work (because its a desk job). I was cleared to return to the gym after a week.

I don’t regret it at all because it was an informed decision. Also, my wife put her body through the trials of pregnancy and childbirth. Getting a vasectomy done is such a small hit to take for the team. It’s even a bonus because you can have sexy time without condoms or fear of getting pregnant.

When people hear that I underwent the procedure, they’re generally chill about it. Except Nigerian men. They act like they’ve seen a ghost or I called their mother a witch. I can see them fighting the urge to grab their balls to ensure it’s still there. There’s no regret for me. I have two kids. I don lock shop. My team has retired my jersey. Full MVP status.

Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.

Ejiro, 47
I got a vasectomy six years ago. The birth of my third child was a shock to my wife and me, so we immediately decided that I would undergo a vasectomy. It wasn’t a big deal; I’m a doctor and I knew exactly what to expect. I was told it would be potentially painful but it really wasn’t. I was prescribed painkillers and I stopped taking them about ten days after the procedure.

I had it done here in the UK so it was pretty straightforward and, more importantly, free. Asides my wife, not even my close friends and family know that I underwent the procedure. Even if they did, they wouldn’t be surprised I had it done.

Now that I’ve had it done, I’ve got complete sexual freedom. I’m not bothered about whether my wife remembers to take her pills. I’m happy knowing that I’ve completed my family size. It is something I should have taken responsibility for and done a long time ago.

Sam, 32
I’m yet to get a vasectomy but my wife and I are in agreement on this, and I’ve spoken with a urologist. I’ve decided to get this done in November (that’s when our baby will be born) because my wife and I got married knowing that we’re both AS. You might think it’s a big risk but we both knew what we were getting into. Before we got married, we both wanted a child.

When she got pregnant, we took a test to confirm the genotype of the baby, and if she turned out to be SS, we would have aborted immediately. Luckily, she’s AS.

I’m a health worker, so I have experienced firsthand what women go through with birth control and family planning. I’ve seen how it messes them up in different ways like weight gain and constant bleeding. I’ve decided to take that pain off my wife and get a vasectomy done.

Ayo, 34
I’ve decided to get one. I’m married and I have 2 boys that mean the world to me. People ask if I don’t want to try again for a girl and I wonder if they will help me cater for that extra mouth in this Nigerian economy.

Source: https://www.zikoko.com/man/5-nigerian-men-talk-about-vasectomies/

I even thought they're talking about Vaseline-Utomi

Going through the comments, it's kinda funny no one is interested in family planning despite their living conditions and the direction this country is headed to.

I got someone whose goal is to have 7 boys - he's got 5 boys and 2 daughters - but the guy living condition is pitiable.

Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.





This hamza is an idiotttttt

This is what Nigeria needs badly- vasectomy and tubal ligation. And on an industrial scale too.
The way people procreate like rabbits these days is becoming way too disgusting for my patience. Every day, I get calls from home telling me that someone has just "put to bed" and that everyone is "celebrating". The reason for the celebration over the addition of just one more human being, I still don't understand.

My two cents: industrial and affordable vasectomy and tubal ligation for all in Nigeria. That's the final solution to the population surge. We need fewer people and more space. Nuff said.

Much as I hate to weigh in on subjects like these. I mean, for a guy who plans on having no kids, what is my business with this?

And whatever your religion thinks or has to say about this is totally immaterial in the scope of things. Hang it. I need to see fewer people in this world.

mariahAngel:


God's plan for man is procreation.
Whatever is contrary to God's plan is rebellion against God and vasectomy is against procreation. Therefore, it is a sin before God.

And women under going family planing is what?.

dingbang:
Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.





This hamza is an idiotttttt

On the contrary, I like the guy and the way he thinks.

Lols vasectomy, who wan do am.......abegiiiii

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mansakhalifa:


On the contrary, I like the guy and the way he thinks.

your problem...

Waawu

MrTAnonymous:
Oh boy! This men are strong oo.
I can't do that. What if the case arise in the future and I need to have more kids? What if my wife divorces me and I remarry and I need a kid with my woman? What if my kids die and I have no option than to procreate? What will I do? So I can't do it, thank you, Next!!!

Incase you don't know na me talk

These are valid concerns you have up there mehn. However, I would appear to be less bothered about having kid(s) in the event of a divorce.

The only inhibition to vasectomy for me, after i birth my second, would be because I am Nigerian, with village people having active satellites monitoring situation. However, at some point, in the future when my second would start pre-nursery, I would take the final decision because I would hate to repeat the war with forcing an abortion or hearing funny stories about preparing to be a father again due to slips here or there.

mariahAngel:


That it is socially acceptable does not mean it is not a sin.
Mankind has always been looking for ways to have sex indiscriminately without the responsibility that comes with it.
At the end of it all, it is what it's all about. Sex.
The foolishness of man is to think he can outsmart God. There are always consequences to these things which man will never foresee.

Is natural birth controls like the studying of the female ovulation period,and also withdrawal by men also sinful?

YourCoffin:
Good luck to those who want to mutilate their Gbola. I cherish mine the way it is. Besides, a new study has also revealed that vasectomy increases the risk of prostate cancer in men.

Since black men are more prone to prostate cancer than other races, I don't think any black man should be considering vasectomy. The white men that always find ways to kill themselves can have it.

Where did you get the 'black men more prone to prostate cancer' spiel from?

WaterTheMonk:
Denying yourself further procreation because you want to please another gender. 21st century joke

It's not because they want to please women. They want to have sex without worrying about pregnancy too. Women have been doing this for ages. It's even safer for men than women. And it's reversible.

bukatyne:


You are assuming all women have regular periods.

Anyways, i consider the motive in addition to the action.

With my little Bible knowledge and Christian race, I have not seen anywhere that contraceptives in marriage is a sin or wrong.

And I have no business with what is 'socially' acceptable, I work with what is right.

I understand you jare...but I feel the closest instance she should have used to buttress her point was when God killed Onan for spilling his seed on the floor.. at the same time I will believe he was killed cos he was specifically instructed to put his sister-in-law in the family way but he refused by spilling his seed.....

Men that carry out this procedure wouldn't have orgasm. So, they can go on and on and on without getting tired
las las na the wife go suffer am.

anonimi:


What of male circumcision and female genital mutilation by most religions?


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Your ignorance is monumental...as smart as you are you still cannot explain how quantum entanglement occurs without resorting to some twisted convoluted form of reasoning...psychologists are now realizing from several experiments that consciousness is different from the mental activity and that a persons consciousness can remain active even in the absence of any brain activity or in the event that the heart stops beating momentarily...scientists are beginning to realize that scientific materialism is nothing but intellectual insolence and the refuge that lazy scientists get from exploring the unchartered territory of the supernatural...

The joke is on you dude...religion is the primarily belief in the supernatural and in recent times science is headed in that direction...