Kaydeexotic:



I understand you jare...but I feel the closest instance she should have used to buttress her point was when God killed Onan for spilling his seed on the floor.. at the same time I will believe he was killed cos he was specifically instructed to put his sister-in-law in the family way but he refused by spilling his seed.....

You got that right.

For him to think of that means some men were already practicing it.

mansakhalifa:
This is what Nigeria needs badly- vasectomy and tubal ligation. And on an industrial scale too.
The way people procreate like rabbits these days is becoming way too disgusting for my patience. Every day, I get calls from home telling me that someone has just "put to bed" and that everyone is "celebrating". The reason for the celebration over the addition of just one more human being, I still don't understand.

My two cents: industrial and affordable vasectomy and tubal ligation for all in Nigeria. That's the final solution to the population surge. We need fewer people and more space. Nuff said.

Much as I hate to weigh in on subjects like these. I mean, for a guy who plans on having no kids, what is my business with this?

And whatever your religion thinks or has to say about this is totally immaterial in the scope of things. Hang it. I need to see fewer people in this world.

We can start by killing people who think like you to create more space.

etrange:


It's not because they want to please women. They want to have sex without worrying about pregnancy too. Women have been doing this for ages. It's even safer for men than women. And it's reversible.

You do realize this is permanent, right? Women use temporary methods.

WaterTheMonk:
Denying yourself further procreation because you want to please another gender. 21st century joke

As if women have not been swallowing pills to please their husbands who always sleep with them but dont want more children.

This is a good idea. I never thought about it. I had always thought about hysterectomy. it seems this is even safer than hysterectomy.
I'll love to do it after I've gotten four kids.

Me I have no issues with this Vasectomy but something struck me. It said it prevent men from ejaculating, but na where the sweetness dey for we men na
If I no ejaculate, how I wan feel say I dey Bleep

mariahAngel:


God's plan for man is procreation.
Whatever is contrary to God's plan is rebellion against God and vasectomy is against procreation. Therefore, it is a sin before God.

does that mean we should be giving birth to children we can't take care of

Hats off to these ballsy champs...unfortunately, going to school doesn't always translate to getting educated. The world is already overpopulated as it is and it's worse in this parts yet people will keep churning out more babies by the day that will end up on the streets in the name of children being a blessing. You have to raise the child first for them to become a blessing to you. Nobody ever considers how inflation is rising by the year while income pretty much remains the same...

I'm certainly getting one once I have my first child, regardless of sex. Can't trust anybody to not dump extra responsibility on me.

it's very sad that despite the fact that we youths are very educated.. we still subscribe to these science nonsense..


it's very clear that this nonsensetomy would sure have side effects with which the idiots won't discuss with you people..

besides, na your hard work dey feed your family or by the Lord's grace?

I am based here, though I did not do it here. I took the decision myself just like the guys. I had completed my family size and madam was complaining of all the other preventive methods, so off to the urologist. Like they said, 20 minutes procedure and I walked back to my room. The nurses nearly had a heart attack when the gurney returned without me.

Biglittlelois:
This men cannot be in Nigeria naaa, suggesting it to a man here is like putting a gun to their head for a kill shot.

YourCoffin:
Good luck to those who want to mutilate their Gbola. I cherish mine the way it is. Besides, a new study has also revealed that vasectomy increases the risk of prostate cancer in men.

Since black men are more prone to prostate cancer than other races, I don't think any black man should be considering vasectomy. The white men that always find ways to kill themselves can have it.

My thoughts exactly, where will all the sperm go.

Mzwabantu:

I am based here, though I did not do it here. I took the decision myself just like the guys. I had completed my family size and madam was complaining of all the other preventive methods, so off to the urologist. Like they said, 20 minutes procedure and I walked back to my room. The nurses nearly had a heart attack when the gurney returned without me.

Boss abeg me I wan ask you something ooo, I no get issue with the vasectomy ish but if person do am na im be say the person no go dey ejaculate again na

durasome:
.but before this time I was meant to understand that the semen is a combination of the sperm and the other fluids lubricant,is pre ejeculate, and all are being form in the testicle and the vas deference is just a passage way.

my bad, you're right. I've modified my post. I confused semen with seminal fluid. semen is a mixture of seminal fluid and sperm. sorry for the confusion.

sperm moves through the vas deference before it mixes with seminal fluid.

mariahAngel:


As a Christian, do you agree with the procedure?

Please, don't give me your favourite "where is it written in the bible?" line... God cannot be mocked or fooled.

I am trying to figure out what Christianity has to do with this.
Please can you explain this new side of your argument.

bukatyne:


You are assuming all women have regular periods.

Anyways, i consider the motive in addition to the action.

With my little Bible knowledge and Christian race, I have not seen anywhere that contraceptives in marriage is a sin or wrong.

And I have no business with what is 'socially' acceptable, I work with what is right.

Gen 38:9-11
Onan got killed for preventing pregnancy

EXOUSIAng:

Gen 38:9-11
Onan got killed for preventing pregnancy

Under what circumstances?

ATTENTION!!!pls nairaland pls where can one go varicocele surgery..and what is the cost...this has low my sperm count to 10million pls help..

BigCabal:
A vasectomy is a permanent contraceptive method where a male’s vas deferens is cut and tied or sealed to prevent sperm from getting to the urethra, to stop the man from ejaculating and fertilizing the female’s egg. Whew, that’s a lot of grammar. In simpler English, the tube that carries sperm from the testicles is tied up or sealed in order to prevent the sperm from reaching the penis. This procedure is mostly permanent although it may be reversed in some cases.

Men are increasingly considering vasectomies as a contraceptive method. For the most part, they do it to take the burden off their female partners who have historically been expected to use birth control methods that give them nasty side effects and some times, permanent damage. Vasectomies are generally safe and not as painful as most people think it is. I talked to 5 Nigerian men about vasectomies. They had some pretty interesting answers.

Paul, 38
I decided to get a vasectomy because we were done havings kids and no longer wanted to worry about falling pregnant. It’s less invasive for a guy to get a vasectomy than for a woman to undergo tubal ligation (tying up the fallopian tubes). It’s also way cheaper and requires much shorter recovery time. It’s not even comparable.

I had it done three years ago at my doctor’s office. It was a keyhole surgery (a minimally invasive surgery that’s carried out through a small incision in the skin) with local anaesthesia. I was chatting with the doctor the whole time while he had my balls in his hands. The procedure took all of 30 minutes. I had it done on a Friday and only took Monday off work (because its a desk job). I was cleared to return to the gym after a week.

I don’t regret it at all because it was an informed decision. Also, my wife put her body through the trials of pregnancy and childbirth. Getting a vasectomy done is such a small hit to take for the team. It’s even a bonus because you can have sexy time without condoms or fear of getting pregnant.

When people hear that I underwent the procedure, they’re generally chill about it. Except Nigerian men. They act like they’ve seen a ghost or I called their mother a witch. I can see them fighting the urge to grab their balls to ensure it’s still there. There’s no regret for me. I have two kids. I don lock shop. My team has retired my jersey. Full MVP status.

Hamza, 31
I’ve setup a vasectomy appointment for November. I don’t have any children and I’m perfectly fine with the prospect of never having one. My girlfriend is completely fine with it although I dare not tell my mother.

Ejiro, 47
I got a vasectomy six years ago. The birth of my third child was a shock to my wife and me, so we immediately decided that I would undergo a vasectomy. It wasn’t a big deal; I’m a doctor and I knew exactly what to expect. I was told it would be potentially painful but it really wasn’t. I was prescribed painkillers and I stopped taking them about ten days after the procedure.

I had it done here in the UK so it was pretty straightforward and, more importantly, free. Asides my wife, not even my close friends and family know that I underwent the procedure. Even if they did, they wouldn’t be surprised I had it done.

Now that I’ve had it done, I’ve got complete sexual freedom. I’m not bothered about whether my wife remembers to take her pills. I’m happy knowing that I’ve completed my family size. It is something I should have taken responsibility for and done a long time ago.

Sam, 32
I’m yet to get a vasectomy but my wife and I are in agreement on this, and I’ve spoken with a urologist. I’ve decided to get this done in November (that’s when our baby will be born) because my wife and I got married knowing that we’re both AS. You might think it’s a big risk but we both knew what we were getting into. Before we got married, we both wanted a child.

When she got pregnant, we took a test to confirm the genotype of the baby, and if she turned out to be SS, we would have aborted immediately. Luckily, she’s AS.

I’m a health worker, so I have experienced firsthand what women go through with birth control and family planning. I’ve seen how it messes them up in different ways like weight gain and constant bleeding. I’ve decided to take that pain off my wife and get a vasectomy done.

Ayo, 34
I’ve decided to get one. I’m married and I have 2 boys that mean the world to me. People ask if I don’t want to try again for a girl and I wonder if they will help me cater for that extra mouth in this Nigerian economy.

Source: https://www.zikoko.com/man/5-nigerian-men-talk-about-vasectomies/

Hamas, 31 years. Doing vasectomy for his girlfriend. Please, someone that knows the guy should caution him. The girlfriend can as well use Intrauterine device.

I know a man who did it, he had 3 kids already but lost all of the kids in a one day freak accident.

A week after vasectomy,u realise the children u claim to have are not yours.

bukatyne:


Under what circumstances?

"Preventing pregnancy" is the key word.
Note: some many things we do everyday are against the scriptures, this is just another one, I am also not validating sin...
I have for sons, am not married and I will cut off any hands that comes too close to my balls with a knife

Man dey consider Vasectomy?? This world spoil. Something irreversible when other effective reversible methods abound. Wetin civilisation go cost

mariahAngel:


God's plan for man is procreation.
Whatever is contrary to God's plan is rebellion against God and vasectomy is against procreation. Therefore, it is a sin before God.

With all due respect, this argument sounds so irrational and archaic to me.
Do you really understand the topic at all or are you just trying to make a joke.
Christianity does not mean foolishness.
Although I may not readily give myself to Vasectomy, but I don't see those doing it as bn rebellious to words of God.

You said that the purpose of God for men is procreation. My dear, that was not the sole purpose of God to men. He also want us to make the world a lovely place to live in.
If you are against Vasectomy based on Christianity and calls it rebellion to God's words, then you are also rebellious to God's words when you have about 3 or 4 kids ( or the number u feel u wish to have) and you stop. Stopping bearing children should also be seen as rebellious to God. You should keep having children as long as you have sperm and you wife still have eggs in her.

The way we carry this our Christianity stuff sometimes is so worrying.

MrTAnonymous:
Oh boy! This men are strong oo.
I can't do that. What if the case arise in the future and I need to have more kids? What if my wife divorces me and I remarry and I need a kid with my woman? What if my kids die and I have no option than to procreate? What will I do? So I can't do it, thank you, Next!!!

Incase you don't know na me talk

ur head correct bros. dose men na d type wey their wife dey control

EXOUSIAng:


"Preventing pregnancy" is the key word.
Note: some many things we do everyday are against the scriptures, this is just another one, I am also not validating sin...
I have for sons, am not married and I will cut off any hands that comes too close to my balls with a knife

Preventing pregnancy under WHAT circumstances?

Please read the passage again.

Interesting debate between bukatyne and mariahAngel.

These men are good and they love their partner. I wish to marry an understanding man.

ednut1:
Guys will make ladies use postinor , do abortions, used invasive birth control etc. But wont near anything like vasectomy or sperm killers. I blame women una no just get sense hahaha

True.

Awoo88:
Man dey consider Vasectomy?? This world spoil. Something irreversible when other effective reversible methods abound. Wetin civilisation go cost

It's not irreversible.

I just wish people would make an informed choice about the kind of contraceptives they decide to use.

ImpregnaTor:
so the person will not cum during sex?

Alpha males in the house, is it right for a man to do this?

They can still ejaculate.

DaddyGngeess:
Local man no understand oo so mean these guys can't cum?

They do.

Aflix:
Men that carry out this procedure wouldn't have orgasm. So, they can go on and on and on without getting tired
las las na the wife go suffer am.

Say what you know bro, they can have orgasms. They'll only shoot blank – semen without sperm.