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I have seen and heard lot of people suffering from the addiction of self-service, we all said it started as a fun thing to do until it became a problem and it started affecting us emotionally, psychologically, and physiologically. I discovered that some of the physical consequences of self-service is weight and muscle loss, body weakness, premature ejaculation, alteration of the penis shape, slight headache after self service and memory loss. As a 20year old with an height of 181 and weighing 65kg, I discovered I had the potential to be bigger judging from my shape and size as a child. It gotten to a stage that every time I have the urge to self-service and resist it, I feel like I get possessed and I do it and now I am even starting to lose interest in women, except when I need a image to self-service on. But the problem I have right now is why people keep claiming to others that self-service is okay and healthy, even the supposedly learned oyinbo people still make this claim and giving the gullible set of people a pass to keep on suffering themselves.

Thank God you know the truth now.

Although I feel you are still struggling with it, (as it isn't easily defeated just by knowing its disadvantages) your breakthrough is lingering (very close). It just depends on the concerted effort you put into breaking from this addiction.

Try 100 days of no self-service and watch the urge diminsh distinctively and your overall well being increase.

Las las You may just be Sparogated bfr the 100 days, but don't give up. Start again and be diligent... No room for excuses

it's addictive nature is what makes it harmful

Is losing interest in women a problem?

Oga go medical school first before writing non-sense. How can masturbation make you gain weight? If you are not balancing it with a good diet, it could cause underweight not overweight.

YourCoffin:
Oga go medical school first before writing non-sense. How can masturbation make you gain weight? If you are not balancing it with a good diet, it could cause underweight not overweight.

I think you should read my post again but this time more CAREFULLY.

0Brien:
Is losing interest in women a problem?

Yes it can be.
I am losing interest in women as a human being, now am seeing them as a intimacy gadget.

Twenty8:
I have seen and heard lot of people suffering from the addiction of self-service, we all said it started as a fun thing to do until it became a problem and it started affecting us emotionally, psychologically, and physiologically. I discovered that some of the physical consequences of self-service is weight and muscle loss, body weakness, premature ejaculation, alteration of the penis shape, slight headache after self service and memory loss. As a 20year old with an height of 181 and weighing 65kg, I discovered I had the potential to be bigger judging from my shape and size as a child. It gotten to a stage that every time I have the urge to self-service and resist it, I feel like I get possessed and I do it and now I am even starting to lose interest in women, except when I need a image to self-service on. But the problem I have right now is why people keep claiming to others that self-service is okay and healthy, even the supposedly learned oyinbo people still make this claim and giving the gullible set of people a pass to keep on suffering themselves.

I self service. I am taller than you are and I weigh over 90kg.

Hambivert:
Thank God you know the truth now.

Although I feel you are still struggling with it, (as it isn't easily defeated just by knowing its disadvantages) your breakthrough is lingering (very close). It just depends on the concerted effort you put into breaking from this addiction.

Try 100 days of no self-service and watch the urge diminsh distinctively and your overall well being increase.

Las las You may just be Sparogated bfr the 100 days, but don't give up. Start again and be diligent... No room for excuses

Thanks for the advice, the war against self-service is still a ongoing battle in my life.

Squillaci:
I self service. I am taller than you are and I weigh over 90kg.

at what age did you start?

Twenty8:
at what age did you start?

13.

Squillaci:
13.

I started 10, with rigorous self-service sessions due to very high libido. And even if their are no consequences to it, I will still want to stop doing it because I understood that it's a demonic practice, and I hate to be anyone's puppet(even supernatural beings like demons).

Twenty8:
I started 10, with rigorous self-service sessions due to very high libido. And even if their are no consequences to it, I will still want to stop doing it because I understood that it's a demonic practice, and I hate to be anyone's puppet(even supernatural beings like demons).

What makes it demonic?

Twenty8:
Yes it can be.
I am losing interest in women as a human being, now am seeing them as a intimacy gadget.

Then you still have interest in them - sexual interest.

When they've lost all form of appeal to you, then you can say you've lost interest completely. When you no longer need or find any emotional or sexual satisfaction from being with a woman.

I can't say if that's actually a problem. It sounds liberating in a way. Allows you focus your mind and energy on other things.

Squillaci:
What makes it demonic?

Everything about it

Some people are addicted to sex yet nobody says that everyone should stop having sex and that sex is demonic because some people can't enjoy it in moderation.

0Brien:
Then you still have interest in them - sexual interest.

When they've lost all form of appeal to you, then you can say you've lost interest completely. When you no longer need or find any emotional or sexual satisfaction from being with a woman.

I can't say if that's actually a problem. It sounds liberating in a way. Allows you focus your energy on other things.

This is a misleading lie!

Hambivert:
Thank God you know the truth now.

Buh truth hasnt set him free, till den he just kno it for knowing sake.

It like smokers knowing they are reliable to die young buh d truth still keep them in bondage

Squillaci:
I self service. I am taller than you are and I weigh over 90kg.

Achievement...clap urself