Saao:
most marriages crashes because most of our ladies nowadays were not prepared to be a wife rather prepared as a man. Two men can't live in one house. Nigeria men are the most prepared husband if u ask me. Our men are ready to take care of home 100%, anytime you see them derailing, it's the fault of the wife. Some men have issues but very few. The world tends to believe woman more than a man. Most men are orphans in their own home, some lives like slaves in their home but because he's a man, he acted as if nothing is happening. There are good women out there as well but very very few. May God bless marriage institution.

You are wrong. Nigerian men are looking for someone to subdue, oppress. They are not looking for a partner. Most marriage crisis nowadays are the fault of the men. I’m so so happy that the women are beginning to wisen up

The man who marries a Beautiful woman and a farmer who grows corn by the roadside have the same problem....

starbuck:
I pity for the incoming generations

A time shall come when this institution called marriage will be a thing of the past

A time shall come when u will be a thing of past not marriage. Marriage is part of human culture. Officially and legally married couples may decrease with time, but common law marriages would remain and even prevail. And there are laws that govern it in Europe. U can't circumvent spousal responsibilities in the name of being single (it's not healthy for our children).

Saao:
most marriages crashes because most of our ladies nowadays were not prepared to be a wife rather prepared as a man. Two men can't live in one house. Nigeria men are the most prepared husband if u ask me. Our men are ready to take care of home 100%, anytime you see them derailing, it's the fault of the wife. Some men have issues but very few. The world tends to believe woman more than a man. Most men are orphans in their own home, some lives like slaves in their home but because he's a man, he acted as if nothing is happening. There are good women out there as well but very very few. May God bless marriage institution.

Well said, my brother.

God will help us.

NobleAngell:
Lol.
Reminds me of a movie where she packed from her husband's house back to her father's house and said to her mom, "mama I have finished marrying, I'm back".

Hahahahaha..That is very funny. It seems that there is an expiry date in celebrities marriages

SAMBARRY:
they have come again.awon marriage is a battlefield philosophers.a woman has to suffer all manner of rubbish to show she's a good wife.any woman that cannot endure emotional, psychological and physical abuse is not a good wife

A woman will willingly leave her parents house, change her surname, lifestyle, there'll be change in body yet you expect her to leave the comfort of her parents house to suffer.i just can't fathom the way some men reason.

In fact the number of narcistic and sociopathic men that display their toxic ideology on NL makes me frightened for my daughter

With the way the world in general is going, it's better to tell your daughter not to marry at all, cos by the time she has grown up ... Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

(No insults intended)

Wait make i ask, which world are you referring to and who gives a f. ck.

Yampotatocarrot:


With the way the world in general is going, it's better to tell your daughter not to marry at all, cos by the time she has grown up ... Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

(No insults intended)

Lol.... this confirms my thoughts.women entrust their lives, children and future with men who Don't even love themselves or know how to love any other person Except when they're h00rny...

Smh...I pity a lot of women suffering and smiling for the gram

Almunjid:

A time shall come when u will be a thing of past not marriage. Marriage is part of human culture. Officially and legally married couples may decrease with time, but common law marriages would remain and even prevail. And there are laws that govern it in Europe. U can't circumvent spousal responsibilities in the name of being single (it's not healthy for our children).

My brother, he is correct. With the way things are going, marriages might just be a thing of the past.

Look at the Europe you mentioned, people now jump out of marriages for flimsy excuses. Men there don't even want to marry again cos the law favours the woman whether he acts right or not.

I'm even surprised you sef Europe as an example when talking about conservation and continuity of the marriage tradition

Fine lady. Fine children.

What’s really the problem self

SAMBARRY:
Lol.... this confirms my thoughts.women entrust their lives, children and future with men who Don't even love themselves or know how to love any other person Except when they're h00rny...

Smh...I pity a lot of women suffering and smiling for the gram

If men TRULY love themselves first, trust me, they won't marry at all.

Not cool, a couple I used to admire.I wonder wat went wrong

Am still happily married due to the fact that we don't debate every issue we have had. There are some issues we let go. The ones we discus, we must keep smiling while talking, rub ourselves while talking and talk in very low tone. We say am sorry more than I love you.

Upon all these, I must say that MARRIAGE IS NOT A DO OR DIE AFFAIR!

I have many beautiful wonderful people who are single because they want the best of marriage to someone who can take all the rubbish they have learnt over the years. That is the man or woman of their dreams.

They are still waiting.


Some of them have gone ahead to marry, have 3 kids and left the marriage due to lack of fidelity and boxing bout. The later group are always happy. I have many of them.

If you are single and you are 30+, pls get married to someone who you can live with and leave if it becomes bad. Don't die there, please.


In my own little opinion, I believe it is better than being single without children to love now that will love you later.

Don't forget, life is not balanced, yet it is balanced

Righteousness89:
They Looked Happy in their Social media postings all these while..
They Looked Fulfilled with their Social media Postings all these while..
So all these Social media postings Have been all for the Grams..

It's so Clear The Home unit is being Terribly attacked!
It is a Spiritual thing..
Exposing your Home is one of the ways to attract wars and Unnecessary things to your Home..

As we Pray For our Homes , Refuse that Spirit that pushes u to Expose your Home in the Name of showing out.....

You End up attracting Strange Forces and Unnecessary Enemies into your Home..

Wife Submit to your Husband
Husband Love your Wife
Pray and Study the Word of God together. ( Do not Joke with this)
Also have your Seprate times with God..

The More closer your Home is to God! The More Love you Have for each other..
The More Closer your Home is with God, The More Secured your Home is..

Chai.God bless you,Man of God.

I have said it over and over any man going after this ladies called yeyebrity for marriage will suffer heart attack las las. Infact I see such venture as a delibrate attempt for a man to embarrass himself.

Sorry where are those Yoruba yeyebrity marriage dont last blabla talkers? I can see how this one has lasted 50 years and the ex couple are from Oshogbo isn't

Chacha! Chacha!! Chacha how many time do I called you? Ok nah............

See sadness in my crushes voice

SilverNorGold:
..
These days, marriages have become even more volatile than the cryptocurrency market.

Marriages crashing here and there for even the most flimsy reasons. The other day, a pastor divorced his wife because she used Maggi to prepare Egusi soup for him instead of Royco.

Now this.. If you check, don't be surprised that their marriage crashed because the actress kissed Segun Arinze in a movie.

May God help the marriage institution..

well said...........

Yampotatocarrot:


If men TRULY love themselves first, trust me, they won't marry at all.

yeah'right

Another man will go and marry a woman that has been pounded and injected with another man's DNA for seven good years.

God hates divorce. He hates divorce. Stop divorcing at will

U have point too

jamace:

Marry for the right reasons and you wont regret it.

Oh dear, what happened?

You've always been my crush. Wish you all the best in life.

zakkxx:
this one wan join chika ike for Olosho work! very soon she go buy G-wagon. marriage is for ever if u live or divorce make sure u don't sleep with any body till that person dies or else u have bought ticket to hell fire

Hell fire gateman, I greet!

udemzyudex:
Pride and ego kill all of una for there.

The man go wan form boss, the woman go wan form 21st century woman.

nice summary...............

SAMBARRY:
that explains why you are incapable of reasoning like a human being.

Thank you

Righteousness89:
They Looked Happy in their Social media postings all these while..
They Looked Fulfilled with their Social media Postings all these while..
So all these Social media postings Have been all for the Grams..

It's so Clear The Home unit is being Terribly attacked!
It is a Spiritual thing..
Exposing your Home is one of the ways to attract wars and Unnecessary things to your Home..

As we Pray For our Homes , Refuse that Spirit that pushes u to Expose your Home in the Name of showing out.....

You End up attracting Strange Forces and Unnecessary Enemies into your Home..

Wife Submit to your Husband
Husband Love your Wife
Pray and Study the Word of God together. ( Do not Joke with this)
Also have your Seprate times with God..

The More closer your Home is to God! The More Love you Have for each other..
The More Closer your Home is with God, The More Secured your Home is..

whenever u comment on a post,I always do not feel The need to comment anymore... thanks for using your wealth of knowledge to depopulate the kingdom of hell amongst nairalanders.. welldone

Finnese001:


Thank you

you are welcome ,beast