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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Oct 08, 2020

Curious345:
It's with a heavy heart I write you this story.
I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.

What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?

Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical.
It's always been my dream. I thought I would be lucky in this dark world .
But alas I fell into that same web of distortion which I feared the most .

How can I marry a woman whose punna has been used to play PIANO by men of different shades?
Will God in heaven forgive me?

I always had this belief that if I marry a lady who is not a virgin, i am dishonoring my creator.

So what to do ?

If I call off this wedding at the last minute (I am seriously considering it ) can I still find a virgin lady to marry before December?

House ,I need your word on this imbroglio

Common sense is not common

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Dominiqueismad: 2:48pm On Oct 08, 2020

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by JIMMY1393: 2:55pm On Oct 08, 2020

Curious345:
I may not be a virgin , but it's generally accepted that she has to be a virgin.

Men are born disvirgined from above

Mumu...be lying to yourself...so you want to have sex but don't want your wife to have sex?
The ladies you're having sex with are they not going to get married someday ? You need slap

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Connected1: 3:03pm On Oct 08, 2020

On my own part, if we are compatible I will go ahead and marry her, but I will let her know clearly the value of what she didn't give to me and how my supposed respect has diminished, that I will treat her the way I saw her, if she has no objections then we are good to go, else it's quits.
In this generation virgin ladies should be accorded more respect, I know it's not easy to be one.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Dreamliner787(m): 4:01pm On Oct 08, 2020

Curious345:
I may not be a virgin , but it's generally accepted that she has to be a virgin.

Men are born disvirgined from above

Irresponsible man grin

, me I'm a virgin oo abeg.. and I must marry a virgin.. the Quran actually affirms that wink

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 4:30pm On Oct 08, 2020

Silentgroper:
bt petyprincess
zzor nd virginprincess said they are virgins even preshieben, although she once said she lost while riding a bicycle, hw she regained it back is still a mystery

So When U See A Virgin Or A Non Virgin U Won't Know? Lol, Most Times I Can Tell Weda A Girl Is A Virgin Or Not By Just Merely Looking At D Profiles Pics.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by buchi4action(m): 4:50pm On Oct 08, 2020

Curious345:
It's with a heavy heart I write you this story.
I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.

What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?

Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical.
It's always been my dream. I thought I would be lucky in this dark world .
But alas I fell into that same web of distortion which I feared the most .

How can I marry a woman whose punna has been used to play PIANO by men of different shades?
Will God in heaven forgive me?

I always had this belief that if I marry a lady who is not a virgin, i am dishonoring my creator.

So what to do ?

If I call off this wedding at the last minute (I am seriously considering it ) can I still find a virgin lady to marry before December?

House ,I need your word on this imbroglio

Can you swear that you are a virgin? (You never soapy before too)

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Silentgroper(m): 5:05pm On Oct 08, 2020

Truvel:
So When U See A Virgin Or A Non Virgin U Won't Know? Lol, Most Times I Can Tell Weda A Girl Is A Virgin Or Not By Just Merely Looking At D Profiles Pics.

So what's verdict on those girls i mentioned. Are they virgins or not.

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Oct 08, 2020*

Pancakeey:
If virginity is a yard stick for marriage for you, then go find a virgin.

But Christianity or not I believe we’re now wiser and more experienced to do what we deem fit as right.

But one question, what would a virgin wife add to you? Exactly! Nothing.
You don’t want a puna that’s... I can’t remember how you described it.

But are you a virgin yourself?

You people make religion somehow these days

Perhaps it will save him of the MOCKERY other men will make in his face for having already played his wife like a piano grin

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Such pain that comes from such mockery could remain a painful heart ache to a husband which could lead to a very unfulfilled marriage and a life deviod of happiness.

Are you a virgin?!!!!!. If NO then I understand you clearly.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Sulele04(m): 6:05pm On Oct 08, 2020

Zzor what is your take on this, also which do you prefer a virgin husband or a non-virgin husband.

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Biglittlelois(f): 6:31pm On Oct 08, 2020

This thread, men and their entitlement mentality, when the Bible was stating the characteristics of a virtuous woman, virginity was never mentioned(correct me if I'm wrong)

Men, in all you do, seek and pray to meet your DESTINED partner, your own better half, your ride or die, your soul mate, one that will complement you and stay for life no matter what, that is all that matters.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by fcdgrand(m): 6:41pm On Oct 08, 2020

first option, suspend the wedding and make her a baby mama. second option, cancel the wedding and marry hymen intact virgin. listen if you cannot find virgin to marry remain single and take care of your child you have with your baby mama

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 6:42pm On Oct 08, 2020

Biglittlelois:
This thread, men and their entitlement mentality, when the Bible was stating the characteristics of a virtuous woman, virginity was never mentioned(correct me if I'm wrong)

Men, in all you do, seek and pray to meet your DESTINED partner, your own better half, your ride or die, your soul mate, one that will complement you and stay for life no matter what, that is all that matters.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Biglittlelois(f): 6:45pm On Oct 08, 2020

WORDWORLD:

If you know this moniker well, you'd know I don't do silly banter with dingos, adios.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Oct 08, 2020

Silentgroper:
bt petyprincess
zzor nd virginprincess said they are virgins even preshieben, although she once said she lost while riding a bicycle, hw she regained it back is still a mystery

I don't remember saying such ohh... cheesy

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by shadeyinka(m): 7:01pm On Oct 08, 2020

WORDWORLD:
OF COURSE I KNOW THIS VERY WELL AND THAT IS WHY I DID NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE OF NOT ADDING WITH A GOOD CHARACTER SEPERATELY TO QUALIFY THE KIND OF VIRGIN WIFE THAT MAKES THE HAPPIEST OF MEN.

The reason why sexual purity is important because of two main factors
1. Trust between couples
2. Prevention of Sexually Transmitted Spiritual Infections (demonic infestations)

But then all have sinned: including me, therefore I do not judge too harshly one who God has forgiven.

He who has no sin should cast the first stone!

But like I said: virginity does not guarantee a good marriage!

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:02pm On Oct 08, 2020

A very useless thread angry

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:03pm On Oct 08, 2020

Truvel:
So When U See A Virgin Or A Non Virgin U Won't Know? Lol, Most Times I Can Tell Weda A Girl Is A Virgin Or Not By Just Merely Looking At D Profiles Pics.

hope you didn't look at my profile...
This one you're talking

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Oct 08, 2020

shadeyinka:
The reason why sexual purity is important because of two main factors
1. Trust between couples
2. Prevention of Sexually Transmitted Spiritual Infections (demonic infestations)

But then all have sinned: including me, therefore I do not judge too harshly one who God has forgiven.

He who has no sin should cast the first stone!

But like I said: virginity does not guarantee a good marriage!

But virginity and a good character does.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Oct 08, 2020

Preshieben:
hope you didn't look at my profile...
This one you're talking

I Didn't Look At Urs But Because U Said Dis, I Av Looked At Urs.

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Oct 08, 2020

If marriages are to be based on virginity,majority of us will die single.

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Oct 08, 2020

Biglittlelois:
If you know this moniker well, you'd know I don't do silly banter with dingos, adios.

You are a none entity to me. I don't know you and need not to know you but yet the virgin Mary rings a bell in the Bible the mother of Jesus Christ.. grin

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Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:20pm On Oct 08, 2020

Truvel:
I Didn't Look At Urs But Because U Said Dis, I Av Looked At Urs.

you can now see I'm a virgin

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 08, 2020*

Silentgroper:
So what's verdict on those girls i mentioned. Are they virgins or not.

Oh, & Even If I Know, U Expect Me To Say It Here? No, I Won't Do So Cuz, It's Their Privacy.

Re: Help!!!!! She's Not A Virgin ,but We Getting Married. by Biglittlelois(f): 7:26pm On Oct 08, 2020

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WORDWORLD:
You are a none entity to me. I don't know you and need not to know you but yet the virgin Mary rings a bell in the Bible the mother of Jesus Christ..

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