When most Nigerian men get to meet ladies they want to date, they tend to throw it all out on the first date. That is they tend to show the lady all the great things and amazing things about them which is mostly their financial value and achievements. This is usually due to the notion that all you need to get Nigerian girls is money. The implication of this is what we call "see finish". Now let's talk about the right way. Imagine you meet a lady and you are a bit macho and muscular and also fresh and good-looking then she gets a bit attracted and you people start talking and she kinda likes you but she just sees you as one broke guy so she puts you in the friend zone. So after getting along very well you pester her to go on a date with you which she agreed reluctantly after you Disturbed her. She met you at the date you are looking really casual and you people had a wonderful time and then she starts thinking to herself this guy is really cool I would love to date him but hell no he is broke. Then you finish the date, time to go home. She tries ordering an Uber then you drop a bombshell, by telling her you don't need to order Uber, she looks at you surprisingly, and you tell her that's my car over there I will take you home. Only for her to see the mad ass ride you brought. that's the Mystery method.
I can't assure you if she will date you but am damn sure she's blown away. Then her reality of you starts changing. Immediately she gets home first thing is to search for you on Google and other social media platforms and she sees you a Doctor, like seriously that thug looking guy, then she start reminiscing on how intelligent and sophisticated you sound when having conversations with her. This manner of approach in seduction is what we call" Don't show, REVEAL!!!"
IMPLICATION OF THIS APPROACH
I see guys shaming ladies that apart from pussy what can they offer but as a guy have you ever asked yourself that apart from money what can you offer ? if you can't get a lady without having money that means apart from your money you are empty. This is where the issue of self-development as a guy comes in. As a guy strive to have content. Work on yourself, have more to offer than so called money. I don't know who needs to hear this it's really disgusting to start bragging about your achievements. infact the perfect date is to be a listener and not a talker. ( who talks the most enjoy the date the most). Example of ways you can develop yourself is
1. Building your BCC (boldness, courage, confidence).
2. Going to the gym and working on your body
and looking as attractive as possible.
3 Good socializing and communication skills with sense of humor.
Feel free to add yours.
All I want you to know is that being rich or broke doesn't REALLY exist. The kind of money you have that you think you are rich is what is termed as brokeness in some climes. And also the kind of life you are living and crying you poor is what some are praying for. Work on yourself gentlemen.

OP... be careful!

Nice one

Mystery

PriestDaniz:
Nice one

thanks

Good one OP!

Love your write up, actually made sense.

Lot of guys are of the view that, "money na woman" which in my opinion is a fallacy. Money will only get you a woman's attention but not her heart. If you lack certain qualities including the ones highlighted by OP, my brother, you will be manipulated! I've seen millionaires wives, have affairs with their ex boyfriend, drivers, gateman... anyone who has the qualities they need! Some are always in their doctors and pastors office, because these have what they want. Maybe, a listening ear or something. i've seen billonaires wives turn lesbians! OP, thank you for this.

Kranediggy:
Good one OP!

thanks alot

I always try to tell my guys to go on lowkey when dealing with babes. It helps you know the real her. Anyways thanks for the heads-up

Op is correct, if men know themselves all these hoeloshos woukd stop seeing their puna as an asset

virginprincess:
Love your write up, actually made sense.

thank you very much virgin

Front page please. This is a real truth. But a guy still needs money to look good. Imagine a woman can enter aswani market and buy complete water of 500# to work and still looks good but a guy is the opposite. He needs to spend good money too look good. My advise is get money as a guy

Mide3367:
Front page please. This is a real truth. But a guy still needs money to look good. Imagine a woman can enter aswani market and buy complete water of 500# to work and still looks good but a guy is the opposite. He needs to spend good money too look good. My advise is get money as a guy

money is the number 1 factor but it's not everything

Nice write up

sammysneh:
Nice write up

Thanks

tobechi74:
Mystery

yeah

Hmmm.... interesting. I would agree with most of the write up. I especially agree with the part addressing the strong belief of sooo many men that money/asset is the visa to a woman's heart. Money can't buy love. On the approach of a woman..... either way is 'the right way' but that depends on the woman. As in if I see a babe I'm interested in.... she's all glit and glamour... iPhone 14... designer clothing... most likely... a material babe.... then my approach must be "see finish"... I must roll up on her with my luxury car to open the door of conversation. There must be no mystery in this case..... show me the money is the right way! If you're broke..... or appear broke... the Mystery approach will not work.... you will never get the opportunity to begin conversation. Just saying!

Great insight

OP,as you don talk now, na too buy agbo remain now

Jannuxajj:
When most Nigerian men get to meet ladies they want to date, they tend to throw it all out on the first date. That is they tend to show the lady all the great things and amazing things about them which is mostly their financial value and achievements. This is usually due to the notion that all you need to get Nigerian girls is money. The implication of this is what we call "see finish". Now let's talk about the right way. Imagine you meet a lady and you are a bit macho and muscular and also fresh and good-looking then she gets a bit attracted and you people start talking and she kinda likes you but she just sees you as one broke guy so she puts you in the friend zone. So after getting along very well you pester her to go on a date with you which she agreed reluctantly after you Disturbed her. She met you at the date you are looking really casual and you people had a wonderful time and then she starts thinking to herself this guy is really cool I would love to date him but hell no he is broke. Then you finish the date, time to go home. She tries ordering an Uber then you drop a bombshell, by telling her you don't need to order Uber, she looks at you surprisingly, and you tell her that's my car over there I will take you home. Only for her to see the mad ass ride you brought. that's the Mystery method.
I can't assure you if she will date you but am damn sure she's blown away. Then her reality of you starts changing. Immediately she gets home first thing is to search for you on Google and other social media platforms and she sees you a Doctor, like seriously that thug looking guy, then she start reminiscing on how intelligent and sophisticated you sound when having conversations with her. This manner of approach in seduction is what we call" Don't show, REVEAL!!!"
IMPLICATION OF THIS APPROACH
I see guys shaming ladies that apart from pussy what can they offer but as a guy have you ever asked yourself that apart from money what can you offer ? if you can't get a lady without having money that means apart from your money you are empty. This is where the issue of self-development as a guy comes in. As a guy strive to have content. Work on yourself, have more to offer than so called money. I don't know who needs to hear this it's really disgusting to start bragging about your achievements. infact the perfect date is to be a listener and not a talker. ( who talks the most enjoy the date the most). Example of ways you can develop yourself is
1. Building your BCC (boldness, courage, confidence).
2. Going to the gym and working on your body
and looking as attractive as possible.
3 Good socializing and communication skills with sense of humor.
Feel free to add yours.
All I want you to know is that being rich or broke doesn't REALLY exist. The kind of money you have that you think you are rich is what is termed as brokeness in some climes. And also the kind of life you are living and crying you poor is what some are praying for. Work on yourself gentlemen.

Your post still boils down on having the money.
So my guy, go make money.
Me personally, I don't give a fvck about Nigerian girls. You talk about keeping it low to win their heart and love. Who their fake love epp? who their deceitful hearts epp? if you see me getting close to a Naija girl, na fuvk and dump. No time for a leech.

Originalsly:
Hmmm.... interesting. I would agree with most of the write up. I especially agree with the part addressing the strong belief of sooo many men that money/asset is the visa to a woman's heart. Money can't buy love. On the approach of a woman..... either way is 'the right way' but that depends on the woman. As in if I see a babe I'm interested in.... she's all glit and glamour... iPhone 14... designer clothing... most likely... a material babe.... then my approach must be "see finish"... I must roll up on her with my luxury car to open the door of conversation. There must be no mystery in this case..... show me the money is the right way! If you're broke..... or appear broke... the Mystery approach will not work.... you will never get the opportunity to begin conversation. Just saying!

you are right but are you not going to be opening door for gold digging. This kind of approach is best applied if all you want from the said woman is sex. but for you to go into a serious relationship with a woman then there should be an interaction beyond material substance. if one now marries the said woman and the person start having financial issues, do you think the woman would stay. like I said earlier such an approach is only good for chop and go

I see people writing " Good one" "Nice one" others giving the op an accolades he does not deserve.
Hell no, I am not going to any gym because of any lady. Hell no I am not going to kill myself by going through unnecessary tips the op just mentioned.
I am doing everything I am doing just to better myself and not for anybody. If I go to gym, it's for my health. If I work on my communication skill is to talk better, if I work on my self confidence , it is to make beta deals.
Use one mumuni mystery for a lady ,spits

Dear op, I'd have loved to read your write up,but I no just get chill right now...
but the truth about me is that I don't really fancy going through hell just because I want to please a woman.....the earlier we,guys realize that no women can love us like our mothers,the better for us...
so op,no vex say I no spare time to read your tips..... I'm living my life based on my own personal routine,just to please myself....
btw self,who towtow help self?

Sonnobax15:
Dear op, I'd have loved to read your write up,but I no just get chill right now...
but the truth about me is that I don't really fancy going through hell just because I want to please a woman.....the earlier we,guys realize that no women can love us like our mothers,the better for us...
so op,no vex say I no spare time to read your tips..... I'm living my life based on my own personal routine,just to please myself....
btw self,who towtow help self?

baba no matter how we talk say we no need women. we no fit cheat nature. the best na to Sabi handle them

gunners160:
I see people writing " Good one" "Nice one" others giving the op an accolades he does not deserve.
Hell no, I am not going to any gym because of any lady. Hell no I am not going to kill myself by going through unnecessary tips the op just mentioned.
I am doing everything I am doing just to better myself and not for anybody. If I go to gym, it's for my health. If I work on my communication skill is to talk better, if I work on my self confidence , it is to make beta deals.
Use one mumuni mystery for a lady ,spits

lols

Sydoiberuu:
Lalasticlala this na front page material

thanks
uwc