mirabel9:

hmm, OK I will

DasaintHope:
Earlier this year someone I called my best friend for about 7 years now betrayed me. Nigga came to me at my house and asked me to help him process a loan application inn the cyber cafe. I told him to wait till I finished sewing some items, since I also needed to print out something. I finished, went to the bathroom and came out naked to dress. unbeknown to me this Nigga had taken my nude pics, luckily it wasfrom the back, but it was still recognizable sha.. This guy didn't tell me nothing, he passed the photo to one of our other guy and gave this guy his phone to log in Facebook and post the pic. The worst part was that this Nigga tagged me on the post. And we were together that morning laughing together, as a busy man I hawad no time for social media. It was my family members that saw the pic and informed me. I couldn't get angry or anything. I just walked to niggaz house told him in presence of his mom DAT I won't fight him but he has lost a true friend. This Nigga was who I taught was my ride or die. Nigga came later begging, I forgived him but told him i can never be friends with him. since then I promised to quit friends

jagorinho:


My best friendship period ends at childhood those times the mind is pure but now I do not really have friends, I have noticed that making friends in Nigeria is not worth it, seems everyone is in competition with the other, it is more of a race than brotherhood, some can't even hide their disdain for one's progress through their countenance, you can live a very good life without friends......... “Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.”

Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now

otobasin2323:
in 2014 The person i called my best friend went ahead and chyke my side chick and my main girlfriend I wan marry, even when he chyke them he told my babes that they should not mind me that i have nothing to offer . since that day i have stop anything close friend, since then i have stop making friends i just dey my dey alone

Vikalinda:
Mine was when my former roommate, a close friend and blood relative refuse to deliver an urgent message to me from a big shot requesting my CV for a well paid government job, he told them that I said am not interested in the job, the man waited for two weeks looking for someone to occupy the position before I was contacted from another person during a discussion with the oga's wife asking people why I rejected a big connection for job that the husband brought, when I learnt of it I was mad, although I eventually got the job.
when i confronted him he felt bad about his action. although he was somehow defensive. but I forgave him and we moved on.

sonnie10:

OMG! What is your background? What you have explained is so true.

Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now

Clicked:


That's cold but in this case, I'll say it was for the best. If he didn't sleep with her, you won't know how traitorous they both are.

Imagine dying for someone who if the tables were turned will quickly stab you in the back.

EdmundChidera:
It is once said that the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.

Friends is good no doubt, having a lot of friends makes someone gets connected in the society. There are many advantage coming from having many friends, meanwhile some people still want to keep the circle of their friends small to avoid unnecessary drama.

I once seek an advice from my friend on how to leave Nigeria for a better livelihood outside the country. He gave a lot of reason why I shouldn't leave the country which I somehow was convincing. To my greatest surprise, I saw my guy on Facebook taking pictures with white folks like Osuofia in London . He left for Canada after telling me story for the gods on how Nigeria will be heaven later.
I later travelled sha.

Another experience, when I went to pageantry with my friends, though I never planned to partake, my schoolmate told me to replace him looking how fresh I was then sha, but I needed to look more dope. I had to borrow my guys necklaces and wrist watch immediately. While awaiting for result, these guys decided to take away those stuff in the public, just to shame me. I later won sha, And decided not to borrow again.

In my hood then when i had a fine babe and she was so proud of me posting me everywhere as the main guy. I know some guys in pain about her actions but will never believe that my real paddy wants the babe too. The guy toast the babe she refused, the nonsense guy came to me to call the girl names. With this experience I avoided public relationship.

Many experience though, is it when you ask your classmate how you preparing for exam, he will tell you, I'm yet to open my book. Or is it those that say love na scam, getting married. Or those saying school na scam, furthering their education. And so on

Share your experience

Kweensavvy:


Lol after dragging your name in the mud he wants to be friends again...some people's conscience is stone dead.

Trust me, since you have said "No", he'll continue to paint you as a monster to anyone with ears (friends &strangers) while presenting himself as the saint or innocent victim....he'll even formulate convenient demonic sounding reasons why you shut him out...further worsening the situation between you both cuz now he believes he has nothing to lose and it's pay back.( narcissists do this often because they can't survive without attention and drama) But YOU MOVE.

Forgive him but never look back. Dont even attempt to explain yourself, counter, get revenge or anything silly. Just assume you never met.

These kinds of frenemies will pull the trigger without thinking about all the times you were good to them.

And don't ever let anyone guilt trip you. It's your fault if you can't forgive him but NOT your fault if you can no longer trust him. Trust is a natural thing.

Eaglefine:


this is damn bad.

I can't believe is your fellow guy that did this

Powerfly:




You broke your wife's trust by decieving and bleeping another lady outside your union. You disrespected and utterly disregarded all your sacred vows to her as a husband. You went all the way to fabricate unneccesary lies just to bleep a kpekus even when you had a special and legit one. Bros! You deserve all you got, you were not betrayed oo, it was just karma flipping your deceitful coin back at you.

lenghtinny:

You know them too well
I used to have a frenemy that fits your description perfectly..... This one run me down sotey the only thing e no fit take away from me was the air I breathe.... I free the matter lock up and kept my distance from him.....

He began to spread malicious tales about me to anyone that cared to listen. Just they garnish sweet story give dem to look like a better person as per say I don commot for the environment.

I later got wind of his actions and I texted and warned him that if I ever hear that he mentioned my name again then e go see the anger wey e Dey try wake in me. Na so the idiot fem.

Few months later, he begin famz me on WhatsApp forming meekness because I just lock him out of anything wey concern me. When the how far became uncomfortable, I blocked him cos I no get short term memory...

Till today e still Dey try use scope to monitor me by proxy but e don burn that bridge tey tey

Starboytwo:
My circle tight gan, we be blood... No bullshitt...

ifyy07:
I don't have friends I just flow with anybody knowing fully well they can betray me at any given opportunity..... Women no dey allow me get one, my friends are always jealous of me because I have women flocking around me even when i don't have money. I laugh with everybody but I don't trust any...

Linez:
Well, in my case, the young chap is a young boy who grew up in our neighborhood. We all consider ourselves family till date. He's married now. He's always been a careless spender. Loves to look so expensive even when he doesn't have money. Anyways, in August this year, he came crying to me and my husband. Husband himself had sworn never to loan people money he can't forfeit. So for the sake of his new wife being a woman like me, and their preemie, I begged oga and begged him for a long time to loan this guy what he needed to complete the house rent for his new family as they were still staying at her mom's one bedroom and he was squatting with them. He is an admin staff in a fed tertiary institution. He also makes clothes for people. Agreement was, every first week of the month, pay 33k October , 33k November and 34k December. Mr wise man paid in 10k, and days later 6k. No apologies for the breach in agreement. We signed one for obvious reasons. Worst part is he hasn't rented the house till now. Now hubby is like, I warned you, didn't I? Now I regret helping them. Obviously the over 20years of knowing him and his family doesn't count. I am yet to decide on how to get my balance back, if he can just fail at this first installment. This my kind heart will not put me in trouble again.

virginprincess:
No not that i like it, but my brother and this boy has being friends from childhood, telling my brother will hurt him seriously, but the guy is keeping his distance sha, even my brother is suprised at that.

marwanafrica:


You ladies can be funny many atimes. And leter now you guys will be shouting feminism. Madam report him to appropriate person to avoid reoccurrence unless you are lying or derived fun from his attempt.

Eaglefine:
I am very much careful with friends now cos someone I opened my door whole heatedly, betrayed me.

Am much comfortable with male friends than women. I mean responsible male-friends.
Bcoz is my fellow woman kept me where I am now.

DasaintHope:
Earlier this year someone I called my best friend for about 7 years now betrayed me. Nigga came to me at my house and asked me to help him process a loan application inn the cyber cafe. I told him to wait till I finished sewing some items, since I also needed to print out something. I finished, went to the bathroom and came out naked to dress. unbeknown to me this Nigga had taken my nude pics, luckily it wasfrom the back, but it was still recognizable sha.. This guy didn't tell me nothing, he passed the photo to one of our other guy and gave this guy his phone to log in Facebook and post the pic. The worst part was that this Nigga tagged me on the post. And we were together that morning laughing together, as a busy man I hawad no time for social media. It was my family members that saw the pic and informed me. I couldn't get angry or anything. I just walked to niggaz house told him in presence of his mom DAT I won't fight him but he has lost a true friend. This Nigga was who I taught was my ride or die. Nigga came later begging, I forgived him but told him i can never be friends with him. since then I promised to quit friends

angelfallz:


try not to be telling people secrets.

marwanafrica:




Na you do yourself ooh, why will you allow yourself to appear naked in his present, bro you just shut yourself on the foot.

tot:


As in, I read that comment and just shook my head. A cheat complaining about karma, lol. Irony.

Powerfly:


My dear. The matter follow shock me oo. Just imagine.