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|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by annayawchee: 5:03am On Oct 12, 2020|
Huxlebeast77:Lol... Na onitsha o
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Fejimummy: 5:06am On Oct 12, 2020|
Truvel:it happens o... I have once saved someone in such situation before... when there is trust all caution is thrown to the wind.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Vikalinda(m): 5:06am On Oct 12, 2020|
Mine was when my former roommate, a close friend and blood relative refuse to deliver an urgent message to me from a big shot requesting my CV for a well paid government job, he told them that I said am not interested in the job, the man waited for two weeks looking for someone to occupy the position before I was contacted from another person during a discussion with the oga's wife asking people why I rejected a big connection for job that the husband brought, when I learnt of it I was mad, although I eventually got the job.
when i confronted him he felt bad about his action. although he was somehow defensive. but I forgave him and we moved on.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Kccheechy(m): 5:21am On Oct 12, 2020|
JastSiryin:during my school days, I was too broke to afford sorting any lecturer.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Fejimummy: 5:27am On Oct 12, 2020|
NihiIist:lol that's what is happening to me right now, I'm getting married next month and I don't even have a bridal train because my friends no pass 2 even bridal shower sef I no go do after all na me go still spend the money
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by penocrat1(m): 5:51am On Oct 12, 2020|
[quote author=Slawormir post=94792505]Damnnn niggarrr ....
Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...
Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now[/quote
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 6:30am On Oct 12, 2020|
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by mayorkun101(m): 6:35am On Oct 12, 2020|
[quote author=penocrat1 post=94852801][/quote]
Man ! You need healing with this rolling smoke thing
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Ndipe(m): 6:37am On Oct 12, 2020|
During the holidays (back when I was in college), I was doing my internship at a bank. One afternoon, I saw a guy on top of a motorbike flagging desperately at me as I stood outside the bank. I recognized him immediately. He was a close friend of one of my coursemates who doubled as my study partner. While I considered him a friend of mine, I had minimal interaction with his friend who was paying me a visit at the bank. He was on a mission as he told me when he got off the bike and I ushered him into my office. He had five resits at the university and he was in dire need of a place to stay so that he could write his resits. The hotel he was currently staying at was billing him 100 Naira a night which was draining his finances. Hence, he wanted to squat at my place. I was the only one who could bail him out. I declined his pleas and he left in tears.
The following day, he stopped by again to beg me, but fortunately for him, I wasnt in the office. He proceeded to plead with my supervisor to help him beg me accommodate him for a month or so while he took and cleared off his resit. When I came back (he had left), Rosa said to me, "Mbok nyanga enye" . . . "Please help him." I acquiesced to her pleas. By coincidence, I was moving into my off campus residence (from home) that very weekend. So after my mum dropped me off on Sunday. There-after, I went to his hotel and he was so so relieved and happy to see me because that meant I was willing to accommodate him which I did for one month. We got along very well, he cleared off his resits and left on very good terms. I am certain that he passed all his resits. The following session when school resumed, the guy again asked for accommodation. So, he stayed with me, along with my study partner, who then sneaked in his friend as well. So, we were four in a room. My landlord made WAHALA with me and threatened on several occasions to kick me out of the house for harboring occupants in his compound without his permission. Earlier on, my mother had gone to my landlord's village on a mission because he had threatened to kick me out, and there, begged him also to allow the guy to stay with me because of his academic deficiencies. But for the Grace of God, I would have lost my place and these fellows stayed with me for about two months and left on good terms. He was very appreciative of my hospitality to him and tried to reciprocate it by always inviting me to his new bunk to eat at his expenses but I turned him down much to his great annoyance. I know he meant well, but I did not want to come off as a leech, sponging off on him, even if he was wealthy. Later on, we quarreled. My study partner and his other friend and another coursemate would gossip about this wealthy guy to my face and I will defend him. But then my study partner would go to this guy's house and gossip about me. We reconciled but our friendship was not as solid as before.
After college, I relocated to the US and years later, I was able to get in touch with him through a lady that I chatted with in a Nigerian chatroom. He was so so happy to hear from me because the assumption back home is that when people travel abroad, they forget their friends back home. My youngest brother died several years after I resumed contact with this former roommate of mine, so I flew into Nigeria for his funeral. I passed the night in Lagos with plans of traveling to Uyo the following day. But my plans derailed that day so when I went to the airport that evening, the only available flight was to Port Harcourt. My goal was that as soon I land in PH, I will charter a taxi straight to Uyo (as I did years earlier). However it was dark when I arrived in PH. Alone in a strange place with nobody to help me, I was just helpless. Then a thought occurred to me as I remembered my friend I had put up with years earlier lived in PH and like I said to myself, he will help me out because I did help him out when he needed my assistance. So, I called him up, he picked up the phone and I explained my circumstances and that I needed to stay at his place just for one night. I will be on my way to Uyo the following day. He came to the airport to pick me up. On our way, the guy sighed, then berated me, "But you could have left Lagos earlier on now." Then he kept on ranting that when people are married, they focus on their family and not on their friends, so in essence, he was very reluctant to accommodate me. And here I was thinking that this would be another reunion of sorts. But the man kept ranting and ranting and asking me, "Ok, so why did you not leave Lagos earlier on now, you should be thankful to God that I picked up the phone because I was about to switch it off when your call came in, it's just that when people are married, they focus on their family not friends." I was so embarrassed and tongue tied at this deplorable way he was treating me. Like, it was a big deal he gave me a place or without him, I would have been stranded big time in PH (just for a day) whereas, back in college, he was on the verge of being kicked out of college because of his academic deficiencies if I had not given him a place to stay) It got worse when we arrived at his house and he served me food like one would to their cat. His wife was very nice and hospitable to me, but this guy was just angry at me throughout my stay until the following morning when he dropped me off at the the motor-park.
He sent me an email when I returned to the States that he was sad on my brother's demise. When I think of how I helped him in his time of need, how he confessed that but for my help, he would have been stranded and how he repaid my hospitality in my own time of need when I was stranded in PH, I now realize that if the roles were reversed back in college, that guy wouldnt have helped me.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by sonnie10: 6:55am On Oct 12, 2020|
Filmdirect:You won’t understand. This was somebody I kept in my house and was feeding. It wasn’t really business but help. I wanted him to raise enough money to stay on his own.
He made more than 100% profit within that short period because I was taking care of his personal daily expenses. I even encouraged him to put back everything so that his returns would compound.
Bros, even the guy himself knew that I tried him.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by vito30(m): 7:07am On Oct 12, 2020|
ibraheemlamar:dope man spotted
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by bigcee(m): 7:15am On Oct 12, 2020|
jagorinho:100% nothing but the truth.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by 0taPiaPia(m): 7:38am On Oct 12, 2020|
I swear You be werey .. best experience bawo based on milf . Abeg no add to the sister injury. On the contrary she can take revenge on her friend too to settle the score . What ya think
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by spiceadole: 7:38am On Oct 12, 2020|
A man who admires you will not rape or attempt to rape you.
He never admired you.
He only lusted after you.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Haliraph(m): 7:39am On Oct 12, 2020|
My own happened recently with a friend i thought could always confide in everything. Never knew this guy was toasting my babe behind my back.
He was even confident my babe wouldn't have the gods to tell me everything he has been saying to her. Not knowing my babe recorded all his toasting calls to her.
Since then, I dey fear to make close friends.
My people, fear friends. The bad ones (friends) are the worst enemies.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Powerfly(f): 7:42am On Oct 12, 2020|
You broke your wife's trust by decieving and bleeping another lady outside your union. You disrespected and utterly disregarded all your sacred vows to her as a husband. You went all the way to fabricate unneccesary lies just to bleep a kpekus even when you had a special and legit one. Bros! You deserve all you got, you were not betrayed oo, it was just karma flipping your deceitful coin back at you.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by 0taPiaPia(m): 7:50am On Oct 12, 2020|
Bro you said you did what.. you have a big heart but watch it so it doesn’t end in premium tears. You can perpetrate all manner of evil again me but when it comes to food on my table “don’t go there cause even the devil will be amused “
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 7:59am On Oct 12, 2020|
Abeg park well, Mr fault finder! The thread is about how friend disappointed you and not to proof holy holy.
Bye n disappear.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Powerfly(f): 8:10am On Oct 12, 2020|
Shame on you! chronic cheat like you.. My prayers and sympathy are with your wife.. I hope you don't infect her and bring miseries to her life through your incessant cheat and randiness. Once again! You GOT SERVED!!
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by sorepco(m): 8:22am On Oct 12, 2020|
Man u seem to have a good story but I can notunderstand or comprehend anything! Rewrite this thing and repost as you seem to have an interesting story to tell....
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Philipsdael(m): 8:49am On Oct 12, 2020|
czarr:Why do people use this adage
For Lagos wey I come from .. Goat no dey chop yam... Goat like bread
So Goat and bread cannot be friends
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by chuksoyo21(m): 8:57am On Oct 12, 2020|
Mine was last Valentine day, I and my friend were really broke, we hadn't a dime. So, he called me the morning preceding valentine's day, 2019, to inform me that I should try make one or two contacts wether money go drop make we take groove. So, I called a friend who agreed to send me small thing oh.
Na so, I beg my manchi to give me him account since i have an outstanding loan to pay off with access bank. He volunteered his account... Long story cut shot, the money drop for my man account. And he confirmed it to me.
Before you know what, this guy came to my house with his babe and passed the night. Since, I had a little food items at home, I just relax.
When it was dawn, since he was in my house, I told him to go and make the withdrawal so I go give am small thing make him carry flex his babe. The said guy excused himself that I can go and make the withdrawal that he trusts me. Not knowing that he gave a wrong pin, I got to a POS spot, used the card, lo and behold the pin was wrong. I returned his card to him and told him that i have tried it severally it didn't work that he should go and get me the cash since the account was his. My friend got angry on hearing that.
He then went to the bank and got me the money oh. So later I realised he wanted to corner the money to flex his girlfriend. And then sideline me.
The second instance was that my friend borrows my phone to check browse online since his phone was bad. Little did I know that he steals female contacta from my phone to call.
I got to know when people started calling me that someone calls them from my area and that I am the only one they know within my area. So, when about 4 persons complained about that to me, I then cast my mind back and recalled that that my paddy is the only person that I unluck my phone for. Since then, I stopped giving him my phone and then gradually withdrew myself from him..
Avoid toxic friends....
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Merimental(m): 9:06am On Oct 12, 2020|
ur experience crack me up good
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Drizzy5001(m): 9:15am On Oct 12, 2020|
I told the idiot my secret, he went and tell other people, that's how everyone heard it.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by mirabel9(f): 9:16am On Oct 12, 2020|
please am always the busy type,
that's why I keep referring all sales and calls to Stanley to handle.
working as an hair stylist is never an easier job if you will ask me.
but anyways we still keep at it
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by ORLAHOLUWA(m): 9:32am On Oct 12, 2020|
Banging my gf in my absent
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by sorepco(m): 9:32am On Oct 12, 2020|
Stop talking nonsense. U don't tell anyone ur business secrets....it's not a matter of trust. U just don't do that!
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Offpoint1: 9:41am On Oct 12, 2020|
mirabel9:It's understandable dear, nevertheless we can still be friends in spite of our tight schedules and daily hustles.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Osek(m): 9:48am On Oct 12, 2020|
Kccheechy:boss na grace... something similar to this happened during my 100level days first semester to be precise omo as I enter hall my head blank... one thing I nor knw but I just manage answer two questions out of four wish I was not sure was even correct, my guys come outside dey boast how dey disect d exam every every I just dey vex say I don get F only for results to show I get B dey get D I just dey wonder how manage...
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by mirabel9(f): 9:52am On Oct 12, 2020|
OK no props.
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Offpoint1: 9:57am On Oct 12, 2020|
mirabel9:Mind I get your number or you can message me via the contact on my signature...?
|Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by mirabel9(f): 10:02am On Oct 12, 2020|
OK I will
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