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bukatyne:
But it is women rejecting the guy?

One of the marks of a mature man is discipline and subduing his hunger (food or sex).

mariahAngel:
The narrative that it is impossible for a man to stay for awhile without sex.
I mean, even animals take sex seriously only during mating season, when that's over, they're more about hunting for what to eat to survive.
I thought, if animals could control themselves, why can't men?


I wasn't referring to married men.

thesilentman:
This Lady has been with me when the going was tough.She is beautiful and all that jazz.She's got nice pussy too,plump and bootylicious.Its not my fault.She keeps a circle of friends that are all trying to lock legs with me.Sometimes I Come back from work to find one or two of her friends lying in our bed.They all like my company like mad.
Hmmm,the temptation is too much.I finally decided to taste those pussies for once so i can concentrate on my wifey.I hope am not doing anything bad?
Happy Sunday!

mariahAngel:
That is where the narrative comes to play.
They've brainwashed some many young ladies into believing you can't keep a man without giving him sex before marriage.

bukatyne:
And the world has evolved to stop double standards?

Ok.

Munzy14:
humans are higher animals..

If human condition to mate only when its time for child bearing, life will be like a 70yr oldman with his 61yr old wife weh don knock engine.....Imagine that for 30yr old guy, and 25yr old lady blood deh hot....

And, singles bleep more than married people most times.

WoundedLamb:
The world has evolved to recognize and combat gender inequality a step at a time. Africa is very far behind in this regards and it can be seen onhere.

bukatyne:
Maria,

Women are not airheads who can't think for themselves.

1. Generally, women do not place much value on a man's chastity. They would also rank other values above sexual faithfulness in a committed relationship. Also, they want to exchange what they have (sex) for what they want (commitment). That's why a lady would have sex with a guy and start the 'what are we' talk or automatically assume they are in a relationship.

That is why a man would tell you he is taking you to his village or introduce you to all his friends as 'Iyawo mi' to sleep with a woman.

2. Sex is actually important in marriage and I wrote a long post here:
https://www.nairaland.com/6068657/women-allow-husband-beg-sex/2#93133106

mariahAngel:
Was there ever a time I said that it wasn't? Then again, anything can happen to either of the couple that can make sex almost impossible.
If that happens, what next? Is there need for them to continue to be together without sex if their relationship depended on sex? Have you ever considered that?

bukatyne:
Hahahahahahaha

Some of these people are just trolling.

His wife's friends stroll their bedroom and lay naked on the bed to wait for him.

Is their bedroom a lounge or relaxation center that people stroll in and sit/lie down?

mariahAngel:
Higher animals indeed!

mariahAngel:
I never thought this was ever possible for a man.

Munzy14:
noro kwa nga ahu....

biko don't compare us to lower animals, because over there, the females fend for the small babies without assistance of male.

KidDarkness:
Anything is possible. There are many guys out there who have the same values.

mariahAngel:
Anushiri'm ike



Most men of this generation are like that now. Hit and run generation.

mariahAngel:
Are you a Christian?

Munzy14:
Na so, u also never thought girls left him because he said no to sex okwaya? ....naija.

Munzy14:
U are funny o...

lekwa ihe m chigbu ga onwe m na thread a...

Chigbukwa onwe gi nga ahu!

Onwere okwu nu na ihe m juru?
I si ma ajula ajuju?
Onye ajuju o na-efu uzo?

mariahAngel:
It's all about principles and values and faithfulness of promise to one's self.
It is better they go their separate ways than that he compromises his principle for their acceptance. He doesn't have to prove anything to anyone.
Celibacy does not make him less of a man also.

mariahAngel:
I never thought this was ever possible for a man.

mariahAngel:
Chigbukwa onwe gi nga ahu!
Onwere okwu nu na ihe m juru? I si ma ajula ajuju? Onye ajuju o na-efu uzo?

Munzy14:
E shock you say, man said no to sex...

His kind plenty o, forget some bad news people share o.

Some men don't want excesses of ladies at a certain age ,until they want to marry...And some it can affect them, especially when they have mastered comfort without having a lady attached to them.

mariahAngel:
Only a man that is sure of himself can admit that.
Others would want to shame him into silence.
To some men, it is simply unacceptable to them that a man would choose to stay celibate.
There are also some things that they wouldn't want their fellow men letting ladies know.

Munzy14:
hmmmm, don't take everything here seriously o..


Men don't reason this way, except boys...Normally there are times a man can go months without sex, na who never see woman pant before go think say na food...They are the type that spread a lady's leg, one at kitchen, one at the bathroom and pound someone's daughter like say he deh find sars people...

mariahAngel:
Only a man that is sure of himself can admit that.
Others would want to shame him into silence.
To some men, it is simply unacceptable to them that a man would choose to stay celibate.
There are also some things that they wouldn't want their fellow men letting ladies know.

Munzy14:
Funny enough when u were very single this kind temptation no go come...

If your girl is loyal,no need taste outside na...No spoil show for us o.. leave strange women and focus on your babe.

pvssy na pvssy, either tight or lose, e depends on the owner and the digger.

thesilentman:
Lol,exactly,those Gals never looked my way when i was jobless and hard-up o,imagine.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
I ji nwayo pu onu ojoo
Ndi SARS kwa....

Munzy14:
y does almost everyone tell me that...


Bluntness deh my trait....from papa to umu ya...

ka bluntness o wu onu ojoo..lol

mariahAngel:
Owu I mahu?

People like that are usually funny but not everyone can handle it. Most people take their words personal.

Munzy14:
Onye were ya personal, na-akpa ya...


In uni days ,some of my Gs are always scared of shading me dem say my mouth bad for a come back, while some always enjoy staying around maka fun.

mariahAngel:
For me, if you can't deal with some playful roastings, we can't be friends.
I enjoy a good roasting too.

When I read it in my zodiac, I laughed ehn....I never knew before that it was inherent.

Mma m ja asi'm "ihukwa gi ehn, I wu onye onu ngu"