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| Dumping Guilt? by annita19(op): 12:26am On Nov 10, 2011 |
I have a burning question, Has anyone dumped someone only to realize that it was a mistake. I ended a relationship about 6 months ago, and after three months, I started to miss my ex. At first i felt like the ex wanted out, so trying to protect myself, i did the dumping. It wasn't so hard, cause i felt I came out unscathed, but after a few months, I realized that i was wrong. I was not going through that guilt period, that many go through in a break up, I really did some bad stuff. Pushing the ex away. We havent talked much, but I received an email today saying that I am loved, however, things are over. But I dont want it to be over. Has anything like this happened to anyone, whats your story. I am not depressed, nor desperate, I have moved on. I accept my loses, but just curious to hear other stories. Seating back to read your responses Thanks in advance. |
| Re: Dumping Guilt? by coogar: 1:02am On Nov 10, 2011 |
annita19:ever forward i go, never backwards. get someone new. the novelty surrounding a new face in your life would soon eat up the past memories. yes i get that guilt sometimes but what has happened has happened. no matter how much you must have missed the dude, a measure of self-control should apply. if you go back, do you know what his own plans are? |
| Re: Dumping Guilt? by iice(f): 5:02am On Nov 10, 2011 |
[color=#9900ff]Nope. Never had guilt or second thoughts. With any decision i make, it requires a lot of thought until i reach a decision that sits well with me. [/color] |
| Re: Dumping Guilt? by Nobody: 7:04am On Nov 10, 2011 |
Guilt? No way! For me to have made that decision, it means, i really want it to be over. Besides, i love my new life without him, cos it's so much fun and stress free |
| Re: Dumping Guilt? by Youngpo413: 4:02pm On May 03, 2015 |
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| Re: Dumping Guilt? by Mhizkel(f): 5:15pm On May 03, 2015 |
I don't know what to say cos i've never dumped someone and nobody ever dumped me! |
| Re: Dumping Guilt? by Sheenor: 5:26pm On May 03, 2015 |
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| Re: Dumping Guilt? by starlingbawa(m): 6:12pm On May 03, 2015 |
Everyone seems to have the expert/superb opinion claiming to be supermen and women and the ones who walked out on every relationship without getting hurt  Can this all be true? Or these peeps are just E- lions/lionesses whereas in reality they are 'SMALL FLIES' So many fake lads on NL and you tend to wonder |
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