Hello everyone

I can’t keep this any longer I’m dying and I feel I am hating my baby every day I need help I don’t know what is wrong with me. Could this be spiritual? Or do I just naturally hate my babe. Someone please help all my body is now over weight my social life is gone I feel stalk with this babe all day and night. I’m taya I’m exhausted

On a second thought I take my comment back

When I see helpless kids who can't say nothing to their own defence In situations like this, i lose it ..I might have said some things out of anger and I am sorry ... Please try seek professional help

It is well

Franzinni:
I wish I can swear for you but for the sake of the only sane person in that picture I will hold back

Please ma go online and see the amount of people looking for the fruit of the womb and you are complaining about social life ..when you have a beautiful baby ..see better take this tread off you don't need it.

That baby don't deserve this at all please even if you gave birth out of rape as bad as it is ...it doesn't warrant you treating the baby like that please I take God beg you ...social life can pick up when the baby grows .this thread affected me in ways you can't imagine .haba your own baby fah?!?!

Even the baby dey look you dey ask " but mummy why?"

Please read to understand before saying what you don’t have understanding to. I’m depressed and I’m stressed

This too

So sorry nursing mother.how long did you deliver? You need urgent care , see a psychiatrist right away

Almost every nursing mother go through this at some point, so I would say its normal.

Dont let it break you, try and talk to other mothers and find out how they overcame their postpartum or see a psychiatrist right away please.

Btw your baby is so cute but remove his picture please or blur his face.

Franzinni:
I wish I can swear for you but for the sake of the only sane person in that picture I will hold back

Please ma go online and see the amount of people looking for the fruit of the womb and you are complaining about social life ..when you have a beautiful baby ..see better take this tread off you don't need it.

That baby don't deserve this at all please even if you gave birth out of rape as bad as it is ...it doesn't warrant you treating the baby like that please I take God beg you ...social life can pick up when the baby grows .this thread affected me in ways you can't imagine .haba your own baby fah?!?!

Even the baby dey look you dey ask " but mummy why?"

Its because of people like you that depressed people dont speak up.

I guess you are a man, so you wont really understand how dangerous post natal depression can be if not properly treated.

Before you jump to comment next time on a topic, make sure you have a little knowledge about the topic at least.

Is your mum or any other woman there with you. You need some one around you. What about your husband. Call for help before it deteriorates. Talking from experience. It is well.

Before you gave birth what where you do? Like work or business

No need for this too

Franzinni:
knight in shining armour please carry your miss kpekpeye tail comot make I see front ...


What concern me with post natal bs don't drag ababy because you feel one type of way no one forced pregnancy on you if you can't stand the heat stay the hell out the kitchen ...so the baby should go through hell because you women are facing depression ...look here lady you don't know any thing about depression you think statistically men are more likely to die before women is just because heaven dey hungry us? What are you telling me? Depression? Don't go there you hear me ... As you are supporting her behavior please find her location and do what a woman in support should do ... Don't let your I sabi end with corrections like a school teach and tell that woman to take the thread OFF I sometime wonder how some people think.

would have enlightened you on Postpartum but unfortunately you sound too ignorant to be engaged.

Goodnight Sir

Again I realized I am way in over my head here ..I am sorry for the outburst ..

Good night ma.

Casalindal:
Hello everyone

I can’t keep this any longer I’m dying and I feel I am hating my baby every day I need help I don’t know what is wrong with me. Could this be spiritual? Or do I just naturally hate my babe. Someone please help all my body is now over weight my social life is gone I feel stalk with this babe all day and night. I’m taya I’m exhausted

Your baby is so cute and adorable.

Sorry for getting stressedout.

You will get over it soon. Try have ur mum or someone trusted around you who can look after your baby while you relax.

You will shed the baby weight soon.

Be positive and stay strong

The period after you have your baby can be filled with countless emotions. You may feel anything from joy to fear to sadness. If your feelings of sadness become severe and start to interfere with your everyday life, you may be experiencing postpartum depression (PPD).

Symptoms usually start within a few weeks of delivery, though they may develop up to six months afterward. They may include mood swings, trouble bonding with your baby, and difficulty thinking or making decisions.

If you feel like you may be depressed, you aren’t alone. Approximately 1 in 7 women in the United States develop PPD.

The most effective way to diagnose and treat PPD is by visiting your doctor. They can evaluate your symptoms and devise the best treatment plan for you. You may benefit from psychotherapy, antidepressants, or some combination of both.

There are also things you can do at home to help cope with everyday life. Keep reading for more on how to deal with PPD.


1. Exercise when you can
Can’t fit in a long exercise session? Try working out for 10 minutes a few times during the day. Fitness Blender is a good resource for short, simple workouts that you can do without any equipment.
2. Maintain a healthy diet
Healthy eating alone won’t cure PPD. Still, getting into the habit of eating nutritious foods can help you feel better and give your body the nutrients you need. Try planning the week’s meals on the weekend and even preparing healthy snacks ahead of time. Think whole foods, such as chopped carrots and cubed cheese or apple slices and peanut butter, that are easy to grab on the go.
3. Create time for yourself
You may feel stuck on the couch breast-feeding. Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed by work, household responsibilities, or your older children. Instead of dealing with these stresses alone, reach out for help. Take up your mother-in-law on her offer of free babysitting. Let your partner or another trusted adult take the baby for an hour or two.

Get someone to come and help you take care of baby ASAP. Then see a psychiatrist doctor for help.

Before you gave birth what where you do? Like work or business

I am sorry I don't think this is post partum depression. You stated the reasons why you don't like your baby.. You are overweight and your social life is gone.
However, there is time for everything under the sun. Time affects everything. To address weight, eat responsibly and take daily walks, start getting it under control. Secondly, get some one to help you care for the baby. You can take out time to go the salon or spa and pretty up. It will help you mood. Do you have friends that have babies??ook around you, you will see someone that you can learn from, how to manage your challenges.
Your baby will become more independent with time and you will be free again.

I don't know why I find it hard taking anything this chic posts seriously...

Casalinda plays was too much on this forum, hard to know when she's being genuine.

So its you? Mtchew..

In as much as I believe postpartum is real, this lady is a chronic liar! Believe her at your own peril.

pozehnani:
So its you? Mtchew..

In as much as I believe postpartum is real, this lady is a chronic liar! Believe her at your own peril.

Never seen such a criminal in my life. Don't ask me how cos many can attest to this. I've had first hand experience with her and she lied so gloriously that I became speechless but for the help of those who know me well this fakist here would have roped me in.

Just shut it if you have nothing advice!! You that opened different threads on romance section for attention nkor? You think i don't know your moniker from jewssgratitude, sassygem to ashirawealthy nd the previous ones you were using that i can't even remember !! You are in no position to call anyone attention seeker because you are their mentor!! Calling someone criminal because of issue you had in past in really not necessary!

Don't know if it's true or not but please seek help!! Postpartum is real especially when you seeing hw your body changes,one will start blaming the innocent baby. Visit a therapist or psychologist.

Petyprincess:

Just shut it if you have nothing advice!! You that opened different threads on romance section for attention nkor? You think i don't know your moniker from jewssgratitude, sassygem to ashirawealthy nd the previous ones you were using that i can't even remember !! You are in no position to call anyone attention seeker because you are their mentor!! Calling someone criminal because of issue you had in past in really not necessary!

Who is this local champ? Do I know you from anywhere on here? Apart from food section where you display your ugly dishes with only one mama sikira plaiting, have I seen you anywhere before?
Why the so much venom from a skeleton like you? Take it easy before you break into pieces. Ok?

I don't usually give a hoot about lowlife's like you but I see you are her ally that's why im using this tiny time I have to waste on you. I won't be honoring your lame quest for my attention again.

Steer clear off my mentions. I'm not your type.

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way. Please speak to your doctor , there's lots of support out there.

pozehnani:


Who is this local champ? Do I know you from anywhere

Lol all these insults from a 40 years old woman baffles me, only people that don't know you will take you serious,we know hw you seek attention from romance section now you have moved to family section lol
Well i ain't in mood for insults,i was told not to insult my elders today but next time you might not be lucky lol.

ppl replying you arent aware that you are a troll.
mtcheww

ppl replying you arent aware that you are a troll.
You now have a child after your MIL made advances at you.
Go and fulfill the giveaway you promised.
mtcheww

ppl replying you arent aware that you are a troll.
You now have a child after your MIL made advances at you.
Go and fulfill the giveaway you promised.
mtcheww

@LadySarah: I thought I was the only one who went through the op's posts.

This op Don carry her lies and fake life come family section.

I beg resume back to your romance section and continue with you lies there.

Petyprincess:

Lol all these insults from a 40 years old woman baffles me, only people that don't know you will take you serious,we know hw you seek attention from romance section now you have moved to family section lol
Well i ain't in mood for insults,i was told not to insult my elders today but next time you might not be lucky lol.

Quick question, how do you know she is 40 years old? I mean both of you have agreed that you don't know each other, but calling someone's age is pretty specific.

So let's have the fullllllllll gist

I feel your pain, it's not easy. Wish you well

Casalindal:
Hello everyone

I can’t keep this any longer I’m dying and I feel I am hating my baby every day I need help I don’t know what is wrong with me. Could this be spiritual? Or do I just naturally hate my babe. Someone please help all my body is now over weight my social life is gone I feel stalk with this babe all day and night. I’m taya I’m exhausted

Dear Op,
What you are having is called postpartum depression. It happens in someone when after giving birth due to the stress attached to the whole process. Our bodies react differently to such situations. I am glad you recognized something is wrong and you are willing to seek for help. It's a solvable situation. Just seek the help of a psychiatrist in a hospital. They have step by step process on how to make you get better. Good luck.