BigBrother9ja:

So, what is C?
You deserve an award honestly.

As a learned fellow that I am, I would overlook your mannerless invective.

There are better ways to state your opinion.

zakkxx:
whatever you have asked from my Father he will give you, so shall it be! as you no likam God make sure say you no near virgin at all. A woman with character why is she sleeping around? which kind character be that. you know say some women no get husband? them done commot belle tire for the man and the man they fear you sure say this one go fit born? even if woman the sleep any how with men once she change that place go go back and the husband will have no questions to ask on the wedding night be wise!!!

Not all non virgins are prostitutes.
Take note

Alexaonfleek:
Virgin guys no dey naija again. Just look for the one with one or two body counts and good character. Don't date community penis ooo

Lol, there's one virgin guy in my workplace.

IamWonderful:
You mean a fornicator have a pass ,is it for you or by GOD

Someone who lost her virginity through rape, or unprecedented sex, or even consensually but once, is not a prostitute.

Virginity is not overated, stop giving yourself that shit slogan thereby hiding in Sin. Chastity is bliss!

Bluezy13:
A. Character without virginity is a pass.
B. Virginity without Character is a fail...
C. Virginity with Character is a credit
D. Without Character and virginity is a failure.


I will take A.
Unnecessary shouts (from B and C) pisses me off.

Modified*
To all those mentioning unreasonably, Virginity is not only lost through prostitution.
Use your heads.

U are a real man, u can be a good mentor. Those shouting virgin virgin never see anything about women, once a girl has that good character u can live long but the virgin without character one is liable to die young

Afolashade00:






Your notion tho, it is better you speak for yourself alone

I understand you dear but its the sad reality

DimplesLikeWow:
Nobody wants a community dic. If you're a man and not a virgin yourself but are looking for one, then that's hypocrisy.

Gbammmmm!

Awesometo:
Virginity is virtuous but not all non-virgins were promiscuous.

Character is very good important.

But who would you choose if given a choice between two women both with good characters, one being a virgin and the other not a virgin.



I will choose the tear leather baby

you ve not painted a fair scenario. Is like me choosing the easy way out

folake4u:



Lol, there's one virgin guy in my workplace.

How do u know he's a virgin?

Alexaonfleek:
How do u know he's a virgin?

He said it in the office one day when we were all gisting.
Na Deeper life guy.

Liposure:
you ve not painted a fair scenario. Is like me choosing the easy way out

can you please help us to paint the fair scenario?

jmoore:



Dictionary says boyfriend/girlfriend are those who have sex together. Going by this definition, those in a relationship but not having sex can't call themselves boyfriend/girlfriend.

Dictionary is not the ultimate.

I view virginity as a whole not just one branch. Total abstinence from all sexual activity. Mary that was a virgin when God chose her was definitely free from all sexual activities.


Culture makes woman to remain virgin?

Virgins are in the minority. If culture, religion etc are influencing ladies to remain virgins then that's a good culture/religion.

You rather prefer promiscuous ladies everywhere?

my dictionary says otherwise. @2nd bolded. I disagree with you there. They make up the silent majority

maisams01:
can you please help us to paint the fair scenario?

two people. one a mannerless virgin, the other a good mannered non virgin

UndauntedYOCA:
Lol I know a guy who's a virgin but talks dirty and has smooched and all, what's that?! If you're a virgin ,please do so without having to do what doesn't concern you because as dem dey talk, na from clap dance dey start. OP, not all non virgins deflowered themselves on purpose (both male and female) don't you read threads created about children being molested? Ahan ,let me not go into details Abeg.
For me, character is everything! What's the point of marrying a man who's never had sex but is physically, emotionally, verbally abusive?! A bitter man who has no patience.
Virginity is a plus, but we gather dey if you're not a virgin but are of good character.

u just won my hat

ednut1:
Even those who have given Mouth Action and swallowed are Virgins. Those who have done anal sex are virgins too. Keep looking for wetin no loss

haven't you heard of biological virgins

maisams01:
can you please help us to paint the fair scenario?

thank you my brother

folake4u:



He said it in the office one day when we were all gisting.

Na Deeper life guy.

Hmm okay let me rephrase what I said.
There are only 10 virgin guys in naija
Your colleague=-1,which is 9 now.
Pls encourage your colleague,it's not easy.
Froshloaded,should I add your name to make it 8?

Out of these 10 virgin guys in naija,five are foolish and five are wise.

VirginSearcher:
For me I choose virginity.. I will work on your character

hmmm.

PitexyBaba:
Can we call a lady that have sex through her anus but not pussy a virgin??
I'm confused...

I stand character though and if virgin is being added, who am I to reject?

yes. technically

Chastity is the character that makes virginity unique... We shouldn't mix it up. It's not about hymens or what what not for men. Chastity is the virtue being emphasized by virginity

Richmoney1:
Virginity is overrated

Nigerians and their 18th century mindset. These people are still talking about virginity in this Internet or should I say Facebook, Instagram, twitter age.
Men screaming I can't marry a non virgin are men who have very little self worth and want women with also very little self value. They are terrified that their intending wife would have someone to compare their inadequate sexual energy with. They know that the lady would have nothing to compared their horrible sex with.

If you guys insist you can't marry a non virgin, are you yourself a virgin? What is sauce for the goose, should also be sauce for the gander. No man who has had sex before or even màstùrbatèd before should be allowed to marry a virgin. See them male chauvinists that wants absolute control of women and their bodies.

Virginity is even a health hazard for women in their mid thirties. The hymen can fuse with the virgina itself and would require expensive operation to open it. I have heard of a case of a guy marrying an old virgin and they could not have sex because the virgina is fused to the hymen. Last I heard, they were looking for cash for the operation.

Virginity has little to do with a successful marriage.

innobarca:
They practice different types of rubbish but avoids penetration, Those ones are virgins too

Difficult to see a virgin above 20yrs with good character.

Difficult to see a very beautiful lady with good character.

But it's still very possible.

I will go with character.

make dem test small. Body no be firewood

lawrykings:
Virginity is not overated, stop giving yourself that shit slogan thereby hiding in Sin. Chastity is bliss!

Virginity is not even rated. Virginity was only important when girls were given away at very young age (13 - 17 years). It is impractical to expect a 25 year old girl that went through university, NYSC and pursuing a career to remain a virgin.

I would be very weary of marrying a thirty year old virgin. I feel something must be amiss for her to remain a virgin that long.

Liposure:
virginity is deeper than you think. FYI, there are two types of virgins namely stark virgins and biological virgins. The latter is what you just described above

i also noticed that many people have different meanings for what virginity is and thats why the argument was so much.

Afolashade00:






God bless you! I really don't need to type anything anymore, you said it all.

God bless you too. And I hope you’re having a good weekend?

Agritech:
Being a virgin lady in this present world shows there is a high probability the lady has other good attributes like :
1. The lady most likely has self control, the urge is there, but controlling sexual urge isn't easy. It is very easy for a lady to have s_x.

2. She is most likely not gullible. guys would try to convince her, non virgins girls would try to convince her, and she still didn't listen. Fews ladies are like that.

3. She is most likely not greedy. Money opens many girls legs.

4. She is most likely a careful person as she must have been avoiding places/circumstances where there is high likelihood that her viginity would be forcefully taken.

5. She is more likely to be God fearing. Keeping virginity is very dificulty, the fear of God is most likely what is making her do it.

That is not to say a nonvirgin can't have these attributes, but if you have 10 virgin girls and 10 nonvirgin girls, and you randomly sellect one girl each from the two groups, the girl sellected from the virgin group is most likely to be a better person.

May God bless you for this beautiful write up

Virgins oya raise your hands.... . My own is already up

Fountainofyouth:
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An evil I've seen under the sun, a fuckernizer quoting the scriptures .

What I don't understand is men seeking virgins to marry while the same men praise each other when they sleep with multiple girls. Why are you working against yourselves?