Liposure:
make dem test small. Body no be firewood

NoToPile:


Since you are a christain you should know the verses that support sexual purity and those that speak against immorality.

coolsegun2002:


Wait.....let’s be real.... for once, let’s forget the picture Hollywood and pornn has fed this generation with, including religion or whateva...

Am I supposed to be happy the woman I’m going to marry has been drilled by 10 other men with a couple of abortions to match....??
There’s nothing nice about it....so I don’t get why you people try to paint the picture that there’s nothing wrong with not having bodily discipline.

That picture is a hollywood script...walk into a bar or club ... have sex with random strangers spontaneously ( have u noticed Hollywood acts movies like condoms don’t exist, arbortion don’t exist, like sex is always magical and everything is cool after wards)

over the years people have just come to overlook these things...largely becos u can’t even get 1 virgin out of 100 girls anymore... so the available has become the desired.....that doesn’t mean we should now make chastity an old school thing.

Sex is not food...this our generation treats sex like they need it for breathing...

Agritech:
Being a virgin lady in this present world shows there is a high probability the lady has other good attributes like :
1. The lady most likely has self control, the urge is there, but controlling sexual urge isn't easy. It is very easy for a lady to have s_x.

2. She is most likely not gullible. guys would try to convince her, non virgins girls would try to convince her, and she still didn't listen. Fews ladies are like that.

3. She is most likely not greedy. Money opens many girls legs.

4. She is most likely a careful person as she must have been avoiding places/circumstances where there is high likelihood that her viginity would be forcefully taken.

5. She is more likely to be God fearing. Keeping virginity is very dificulty, the fear of God is most likely what is making her do it.

That is not to say a nonvirgin can't have these attributes, but if you have 10 virgin girls and 10 nonvirgin girls, and you randomly sellect one girl each from the two groups, the girl sellected from the virgin group is most likely to be a better person.

Alexaonfleek:
Hmm okay let me rephrase what I said. There are only 10 virgin guys in naija Your colleague=-1,which is 9 now. Pls encourage your colleague,it's not easy. Froshloaded,should I add your name to make it 8?
Out of these 10 virgin guys in naija,five are foolish and five are wise.

wirinet:

Virginity is not even rated. Virginity was only important when girls were given away at very young age (13 - 17 years). It is impractical to expect a 25 year old girl that went through university, NYSC and pursuing a career to remain a virgin.

I would be very weary of marrying a thirty year old virgin. I feel something must be amiss for her to remain a virgin that long.

Alexaonfleek:
Hmm okay let me rephrase what I said.
There are only 10 virgin guys in naija
Your colleague=-1,which is 9 now.
Pls encourage your colleague,it's not easy.
Froshloaded,should I add your name to make it 8?

Out of these 10 virgin guys in naija,five are foolish and five are wise.

folake4u:



You just want to kill me with laughter here .

Do you believe Froshloaded? .


So true.

immortalcrown:
This generation makes so much effort to justify some unethical behaviours. This is not the major problem. The major problem is that the same society ridicules ethical norms to make the unethical behaviours more acceptable. People often say "If you want to marry, go for a woman that has a good character. Virginity does not matter".

Do not tell me to stop searching for a virgin as a wife. Stop telling me that virginity is just for a night while manners last for a lifetime. A mannerless virgin is better than a mannerless person that has been deflowered. A wise virgin is more precious than a wise person that has been deflowered. A beautiful or handsome virgin worths more than a beautiful or handsome person that has been deflowered. Bad character is not unique to virgins or non-virgins. So, what is your point?

You better tell me that some people lost their virginity under life-threatening circumstances. You better tell me that not all the persons that have lost their virginity are irresponsible. Stop sounding as if virginity is worthless. Stop sounding as if all the virgins have bad characters and all the people that have lost their own virginity have good characters. Stop using constructive statements to encourage and justify sexual immorality. If you cannot identify a virgin that has a good character, you cannot identify a deflowered person that has a good character.

Froshloaded:

I'm a virgin Folake

Agritech:
Being a virgin lady in this present world shows there is a high probability the lady has other good attributes like :
1. The lady most likely has self control, the urge is there, but controlling sexual urge isn't easy. It is very easy for a lady to have s_x.

2. She is most likely not gullible. guys would try to convince her, non virgins girls would try to convince her, and she still didn't listen. Fews ladies are like that.

3. She is most likely not greedy. Money opens many girls legs.

4. She is most likely a careful person as she must have been avoiding places/circumstances where there is high likelihood that her viginity would be forcefully taken.

5. She is more likely to be God fearing. Keeping virginity is very dificulty, the fear of God is most likely what is making her do it.

That is not to say a nonvirgin can't have these attributes, but if you have 10 virgin girls and 10 nonvirgin girls, and you randomly sellect one girl each from the two groups, the girl sellected from the virgin group is most likely to be a better person.

folake4u:


I believe you

folake4u:



You just want to kill me with laughter here .

Do you believe Froshloaded? .


So true.

Alexaonfleek:
I don't believe froshloaded but I will add his name since he insists.
So it's now eight men that are virgins in naija which I don't know.


Frosh,my last line is culled from the 10 virgins in the bible.
I think it also applies to the 10 male virgins we have in Nigeria.

lawrykings:


your opinion doesn't change what virginity commands to those that understands chastity and purity.

little advise for you, never be part of a sin no matter how normalized or in vogue it is, for it doesn't change the fact it is still sin.

Kama Sutra: Insights on Sex and Spirituality

1. Sexual energy is the primal and creative energy of the universe. All things that are alive come from sexual energy. In animals and other life forms, sexual energy expresses itself as biological creativity. In humans, sexual energy can be creative at all levels – physical, emotional and spiritual. In any situation, where we feel attraction, arousal, awakening, alertness, passion, interest, inspiration, excitement, creativity, enthusiasm, in each of these situations, sexual energy is at work. When ever we feel these states of awareness, we must put our attention on the energy that we are experiencing, nourishing it with our attention, experiencing it with joy and keeping it alive in our awareness.

2. Sexual desire is sacred and chaste. The suppression of sexual energy is false, ugly and unchaste.
https://www.choprafoundation.org/consciousness/kama-sutra/

Kay25:

you have a point but don't make your views limited have seen women who had done well and far better than so called virgins above it character is still what keeps a home not just virginity

Livingstone124:
Virginity is another name for good character in our society. It has been like that since the time of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

wirinet:

What exactly does virginity command? So it's is virginity than confers purity on a human being? So are you pure?



It depends on your religion and your sect. Sin just like beauty is in the mind of the believer. It's even a sin to impose your own beliefs on others. You hate it when muslims impose their beliefs on you.

To some cultures sex is not seen as a sin but as some sort of spiritual exercise.

Learn more about Kama Sutra;

Matrimonous:

There is a character that maintained that virginity. You can't separate the two.

lawrykings:


i thought i was chatting with a Christian, that makes it better, give your life to christ, he's the way, truth and life.

TheLasyBuddha:


How this arrives as a front-page material amazes me. Herein, the mod accuses people of devaluing virginity in comparison with manners and character, yet he goes further to devalue deflowered women in comparison with virgins.
This is a poverty mentality mixed with educated illiteracy. For you to think virginity should even make a topic is for a fact stupid.

People who choose to stay untouched is by all means a personal choice. It shouldn't be a basis for moral or uprightness comparison. People who have had sex before aren't less of who they are because of that and it's a choice they made.

If this opinion stems from your delusively perceived knowledge in Christianity, my brother, you are only a Christian but not Christ-like.

immortalcrown:
This generation makes so much effort to justify some unethical behaviours. This is not the major problem. The major problem is that the same society ridicules ethical norms to make the unethical behaviours more acceptable. People often say "If you want to marry, go for a woman that has a good character. Virginity does not matter".

Do not tell me to stop searching for a virgin as a wife. Stop telling me that virginity is just for a night while manners last for a lifetime. A mannerless virgin is better than a mannerless person that has been deflowered. A wise virgin is more precious than a wise person that has been deflowered. A beautiful or handsome virgin worths more than a beautiful or handsome person that has been deflowered. Bad character is not unique to virgins or non-virgins. So, what is your point?

You better tell me that some people lost their virginity under life-threatening circumstances. You better tell me that not all the persons that have lost their virginity are irresponsible. Stop sounding as if virginity is worthless. Stop sounding as if all the virgins have bad characters and all the people that have lost their own virginity have good characters. Stop using constructive statements to encourage and justify sexual immorality. If you cannot identify a virgin that has a good character, you cannot identify a deflowered person that has a good character.

Alexaonfleek:
I don't believe froshloaded but I will add his name since he insists.
So it's now eight men that are virgins in naija which I don't know.


Frosh,my last line is culled from the 10 virgins in the bible.
I think it also applies to the 10 male virgins we have in Nigeria.

Froshloaded:


Hmm.

Are you a virgin?

JastSiryin:


First off, no one is forcing you to be happy with that sort of thing, and i mean NO ONE. It's your choice. My main grouse is with insisting that there's something wrong with people who'd think and act otherwise.

Like u said no one is forcing anyone to be happy if his girl has slept with tons of men, equally no one said there’s something wrong with people who think otherwise either... I don’t know how u arrived at this notion..

But if this were the case, I strongly believe promiscuous men should be looked at in that regard if not, that's a severe double standard.

[b]Now, promiscuity is not exclusive to women. No one wants a promiscuous partner....doctors preach against it, many cultures are against it, and yes religion has its own say too... that’s becos religion is all about discipline.... it isn't just about sex...smoking, alcohol, love of money.. etc...u hear abstainance from doctors all the time, but when u hear it from religious people, it becomes a problem...
Still on double standards, now when virginity is being discussed, I agree the load is naturally on the female side....but the truth is, it’s not a double standard, it’s simply nature’s design... men and women are not the same..I cannot over emphasize this fact...
I tell my little niece that’s just clocked 14 this year ....you are not the same with a man, you should be more responsible, men only think of cumming, we never think about getting pregnant, and that’s becos we are not biologically designed to experience such process.
Men don’t commit abortion, there’s no anatomical difference between a non-virgin male and a virgin male...nature is based against women when it comes to sex...it’s not a double standard issue...the earlier we tell our girls this, the better...The other day, a man snapped a picture with his 6 packs, and a lady came to comment that it’s double standard since we castigate women for opening their boobs .... this is irrational ...and stupid...nature is rigged against women naturally, but if any women thinks it’s double standard, it’s a free world.. she can go ahead and take off her top and also sleep with several men[/b]..


With that being said, I'd like to show you a counter argument that may likely point to Religion as the culprit, other than Porn and Hollywood.

Here we go again with blaming religion for our problems.... now let me share a fact with u that’s staring us in the face but we don’t know..the entertainment/ movie industry is a tool of social engineering....Anything that is to be infused into the world is passed through media. It makes things settle with us so when we see it real life we get used to it... if u don’t belive keep blaming religion for why the world simply want to just fvck irresponsibly....the other day there was a news about a guy who assaulted his friend for not exchanging the girl they were have an orgy with.. since when is to cool to have an orgy...for two women to fvck one man at the same time, or Vice Vera, since when did it become cool for 14 year 14-15 year olds to have random sex... since holly wood made it cool for girls to loose their virginity on prom night..... but hey, religion is there.. let’s blame religion..



Let's live and let live abeg

No one is stopping you from living, it’s you promiscuity apologist that always tackle people when they say they prefer a virgin... u start to make it look like it’s becos of religion....which was why I told u..leave religion aside,ain’t nothing cool about high body counts and several abortions...its one of the reasons people have impaired judgement in their marriage..

We don’t have a problem with it if your choice is a lady with 10-15 body counts and several abortaions to match.....U are the one that should let us live with our choice ....

wirinet:


And you think nairaland is a christian only forum or only Christians exists in Nigeria.

immortalcrown:


My view is limited to you alone and your understanding is responsible for the limitation. In the post, I stated that there are deflowered persons who are responsible. I implied that neither good character nor bad character is peculiar to virgins or non-virgins. As there are non-virgins with good characters, there are virgins with good characters. As there virgins with bad characters, there are deflowered persons with bad characters. There is no society without virgins. There is no society without non-virgins. There is no society in which all the virgins have bad characters. There is no society in which all the deflowered persons have good characters. So, why do people sound as if virgins with characters do not exist?

Akinbahm:


In all honesty bro at the emboldened which one will you go for the former or the latter?