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Guys Advice Me by Mankizitto: 12:51pm On Nov 05, 2020
My girlfriend doesn't value me anymore,she posts the birthday of her ex on facebook, said so many things.. she hav lost the respect for me,what will i do to make her respect and value me again..
Re: Guys Advice Me by Nobody: 12:52pm On Nov 05, 2020
get a life u dey fall ur hand

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Re: Guys Advice Me by woleabayo(f): 12:53pm On Nov 05, 2020
invite her bleeb her very well wink and tell her goodbye grin grin grin grin

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Re: Guys Advice Me by mojekwu2: 12:55pm On Nov 05, 2020
Mankizitto:
My girlfriend doesn't value me anymore,she posts the birthday of her ex on facebook, said so many things.. she hav lost the respect for me,what will i do to make her respect and value me again..

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Re: Guys Advice Me by Stevyne: 12:56pm On Nov 05, 2020
Mankizitto:
My girlfriend doesn't value me anymore,she posts the birthday of her ex on facebook, said so many things.. she hav lost the respect for me,what will i do to make her respect and value me again..
Better move on with your life

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Re: Guys Advice Me by Davash222(m): 12:58pm On Nov 05, 2020
You don't force respect and value, you earn them, rather.

Obviously, she's out of love for you. You shouldn't be disgruntled, that's one of the demerits of dating a Nigerian girl.



My advice;

Try as much as possible to give your heart a sense of belonging by avoiding Nigerian girls. The next girl you'll meet, will be worse than your current girlfriend. They are programmed that way.

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Re: Guys Advice Me by duduade: 1:15pm On Nov 05, 2020
OP you already said she had lost respect for you so what are you still waiting for
Re: Guys Advice Me by Mankizitto: 1:46pm On Nov 05, 2020
musicproducer:
get a life u dey fall ur hand
thanks..dat hits me hard
Re: Guys Advice Me by Mankizitto: 1:47pm On Nov 05, 2020
duduade:
OP you already said she had lost respect for you so what are you still waiting for

can't i get her to respect me again??
Re: Guys Advice Me by Emarvel(m): 1:47pm On Nov 05, 2020
Mankizitto:
My girlfriend doesn't value me anymore,she posts the birthday of her ex on facebook, said so many things.. she hav lost the respect for me,what will i do to make her respect and value me again..
Move on, Brother.
Re: Guys Advice Me by Freelane33(m): 3:39pm On Nov 05, 2020
Love is just a word it doesn’t matter to her cool

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Re: Guys Advice Me by duduade: 7:46pm On Nov 05, 2020
Mankizitto:
can't i get her to respect me again??
Ask yourself

Do you still want to be in a relationship with her

If no

Just tell her to gedifok away
Re: Guys Advice Me by baralatie(m): 8:29pm On Nov 05, 2020
Mankizitto:
My girlfriend doesn't value me anymore,she posts the birthday of her ex on facebook, said so many things.. she hav lost the respect for me,what will i do to make her respect and value me again..
you said she is your girlfriend?
or friend
Re: Guys Advice Me by virginprincess(f): 8:37pm On Nov 05, 2020
Davash222:
You don't force respect and value, you earn them, rather.

Obviously, she's out of love for you. You shouldn't be disgruntled, that's one of the demerits of dating a Nigerian girl.



My advice;

Try as much as possible to give your heart a sense of belonging by avoiding Nigerian girls. The next girl you'll meet, will be worse than your current girlfriend. They are programmed that way.

I hope you are also avoiding nigeria girls, because God will punish you if you are currently with one.
Re: Guys Advice Me by Davash222(m): 9:15pm On Nov 05, 2020
virginprincess:
I hope you are also avoiding nigeria girls, because God will punish you if you are currently with one.
Lost soul, carry your wahala dey go, I'm not the cause of your frustration.

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Re: Guys Advice Me by desmond827(m): 10:41pm On Nov 05, 2020
Bro ....just keep silent and move on
Just do as if you don't know anything and be watching her, don't call her , but make sure u hv moved on with your life ..na she go mumu Las las
Re: Guys Advice Me by Nobody: 10:48pm On Nov 05, 2020
By just reading what you wrote, she did the right thing. She is smart and wants a smart guy around her.

Work on yourself.

1. Work on your self-confidence
2. Work on your spelling/tenses
3. Work on your dreams
4. Work on your bedroom skill
5. Work on your money making/managing skill
6. Work on other necessary things

So, you have a lot to work on — move on and work on yourself; stop demanding for respect. You need to earn it.

In fact, fools want to be respected, but wise men want to be feared.
Re: Guys Advice Me by Mankizitto: 10:55pm On Nov 05, 2020
baralatie:

you said she is your girlfriend?
or friend
my girlfriend
Re: Guys Advice Me by Nobody: 10:59pm On Nov 05, 2020
Davash222:
You don't force respect and value, you earn them, rather.

Obviously, she's out of love for you. You shouldn't be disgruntled, that's one of the demerits of dating a Nigerian girl.



My advice;

Try as much as possible to give your heart a sense of belonging by avoiding Nigerian girls. The next girl you'll meet, will be worse than your current girlfriend. They are programmed that way.

Is it only peculiar to Nigerian females abi why una no dey think before you type?
Re: Guys Advice Me by Openbusiness: 11:15pm On Nov 05, 2020
Mankizitto:
My girlfriend doesn't value me anymore,she posts the birthday of her ex on facebook, said so many things.. she hav lost the respect for me,what will i do to make her respect and value me again..
A man should NEVER ever have any business with dating a woman that doesn't respect him. RESPECT IS NON-NEGOTIABLE. No poo C in this world is worth losing your respect over. I can't tolerate a disrespectful partner. Women respect whatever they value. This is their fundamental wiring. They are naturally programmed to show respect to whatever they place value on. If she doesn't respect you, it means she doesn't value you. So what the hell are you wasting your time with a woman that doesn't value you? That equation can't work. Don't you see how women respect pastors etc? Some literally worship them like a mini god. It's because of VALUE. Your priority as a man should be to only date women that value you. Women that don't value you are the ones you put in the booty call zone, chop and clean mouth no relationship or commitment involved

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