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[s] My neighbour gave me some money which i reluctantly accepted.I think he is older than i am.l didn't even ask for his money.He disturbs me with his own problems taking things from me without permission.He acts as if i owe him something in return.He tells me to do this and that for him.I still have the money with me.people have a motive when they give you things,be it money,gifts or anything whatsoever.I WAS ONLY BEING POLITE TO HIM.HECAN'T BUY ME.He even went to tell people he gave me some money in the past just because i declined his usual request.He thought i was being good to him because of the money he gave to me.Today,I declined when he came..I still have the money with me.should i just return the money and show him I never needed it?NOTE:I am a guy and not a lady.I was only being nice to him I hardly beg for things from people.ln fact i don't relate with people but i am not bragging,i am a very nice guy.From the experiences i have had with people,i am sorry to say that as from today,I QUIT BEING NICE TO PEOPLE.l AIN'T A FOOL!I ONLY FEAR THE FACT I MIGHT NEVER LOOK BACK AND MIGHT BECOME EXTREMELY MEAN TO PEOPLE

What you should do is tell him to go look for a job that brings him money and you too lock your purse

In nigeria if you are too generous you'll be taken advantage of

Pray for your post not to reach front page because Nairaland male chauvinists will skin you alive with their comments.

It is well with you and your boyfriend

introvert2:
A guy gave me some money which i reluctantly accepted.l didn't even ask for his money.He disturbs me with his own problems taking things from me without permission.He acts as if i owe him something in return.He tells me to do this and that for him.I still have the money with me.people have a motive when they give you things,be it money,gifts or anything whatsoever.He even went to tell people he gave me some money in the past.I don't want to be rude to him.Today,i declined when he came with with his problem.what should i do?.

This your story get k-leg.

Are you living or working with this guy?

introvert2:
A guy gave me some money which i reluctantly accepted.l didn't even ask for his money.He disturbs me with his own problems taking things from me without permission.He acts as if i owe him something in return.He tells me to do this and that for him.I still have the money with me.people have a motive when they give you things,be it money,gifts or anything whatsoever.He even went to tell people he gave me some money in the past.I don't want to be rude to him.Today,i declined when he came with with his problem.what should i do?.

Neighbor... Brother ke..

No so e dey start..

Then you return the money

Which one is reluctantly accept

Did he force you at gunpoint

Continue to be acting two minute goody tooshoes there o

Samakus:
This your story get k-leg.
Are you living or working with this guy?

He is my neighbour.

duduade:
Then you return the money

Which one is reluctantly accept

Did he force you at gunpoint

Continue to be acting two minute goody tooshoes there o

I meant I wasn't expecting it.

introvert2:
He is my neighbour.

Why did he give you the money in the first place?

introvert2:
He is my neighbour.

It usually ends in tears. My sympathies in advance

yomi007k:
Why did he give you the money in the first place?

Honestly,i have never asked him for anything whatsoever.So I was surprised.

duduade:
Neighbor... Brother ke..

No so e dey start..

Then you return the money

Which one is reluctantly accept

Did he force you at gunpoint

Continue to be acting two minute goody tooshoes there o

Don't mind the babe. She thinks Nigerians don't think. Once any discerning being reads this story, you will know that this story is definitely not complete.

If she still has the money she 'reluctantly' collected and the guy is giving her problems because of the money, what is stopping her from returning the money so that everybody goes home happily?

Samakus:
Don't mind the babe. She thinks Nigerians don't think. Once any discerning being reads this story, you will know that this story is definitely not complete.

If she still has the money she 'reluctantly' collected and the guy is giving her problems because of the money, what is stopping her from returning the money so that everybody goes home happily?

I am a guy and not a lady.what gave you the impression that I am a lady?You don't just assume things.

introvert2:
Honestly,i have never asked him for anything whatsoever.So I was surprised.

That is the exact problem.

You don't collect gifts or money without knowing the reason. Free gifts/money from some people is not actually free but a trap.

Nothing is free in this world.

yomi007k:
That is the exact problem.

You don't collect gifts or money without knowing the reason. Free gifts/money from some people is not actually free but a trap.

Nothing is free in this world.

I agree with you.I have just learnt a lesson.

introvert2:
I agree with you.I have just learnt a lesson.

A very vital lesson. We learn everyday.

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SweetCunt97:
God loves a cheerful giver

His motive was bad.

introvert2:
I agree with you.I have just learnt a lesson.

Please return that money ASAP

angelusbrut:
Please return that money ASAP

l will do just so.

introvert2:
l will do just so.

Not will,MUST

angelusbrut:
Not will,MUST

first thing tomorrow morning.Thanks.In fact,I quit being a nice guy.l have been taken for granted for too long

SAMBARRY:
What you should do is tell him to go look for a job that brings him money and you too lock your purse

In nigeria if you are too generous you'll be taken advantage of

A generous person could become mean if taken for granted most times.

Lol, this guy again...

You really need to learn how NOT to doubt yourself and your decisions too often.

crackhaus:
Lol, this guy again...

You really need to learn how NOT to doubt yourself and your decisions too often.

pls,what do you mean.I am a changed man.

introvert2:
pls,what do you mean.I am a changed man.

I mean your topics, not referring to just this.

You often come off like someone who's not sure of himself.