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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Akfrenzy(m): 12:17pm On Nov 13, 2020
Turantula:
Aha!
grin
Turantula:
Aha!
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Midas01: 12:19pm On Nov 13, 2020
Stop insulting Jesus Christ by calling him a mere prophet.

Christian population is 2.2bn, yet no suicide bombings or terrorists.

You Muslims need your head checked.
adams123:


WE MUSLIMS don't follow Saudi king neither following imams blindly but we follow the Qur'an and the saying of our prophet. U guys need to learn about ISLAM ooo... The issue of judgement day is not a joke .. I'm warning you o. Stop insulting and think about this religion that has over 1.8billion followers worldwide

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 12:30pm On Nov 13, 2020
Midas01:
Pls keep quiet....That Allah accepted that doesn't mean our God did. Our God will never lower his standards to suite a randy false prophet that can't control his urges.

The christian God in the bible only permitted sex between a man and his wife. In the case of slaves God admonished unmarried men who captured slave girls to marry them properly and treat them like they should rightly treat a wife.

In the case of Abraham, God never permitted him to bed Hagar... That was the beginning of her doom as God was unhappy about it and sent the woman and his child away.

I don't expect anything different from you because you're a Christian. What Christianity is today is completely different from the message that Jesus (peace be upon him) brought. They changed it, modified it, and added to it until they ended up with another religion. In fact, Jesus (Isa) never referred to the religion he taught as ‘Christianity’.

Jesus and Abraham were both Muslim. So they were never Christians nor practiced Christianity and please watch your mouth because God is not unhappy with his Prophet's. He chose them uniquely among billions of humans and hagar departure birthed the greatest ummah today. She and her son are worthy of the Honor that God bestowed upon them.

Sometimes i feel like replying you lots in a nasty way just like you always do but I don't want to lose my faith or become a sinner because of you. It is worthless

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 12:34pm On Nov 13, 2020
Midas01:
Stop insulting Jesus Christ by calling him a mere prophet.

Christian population is 2.2bn, yet no suicide bombings or terrorists.

You Muslims need your head checked.

I guess you are ignorant of the religion you are practicing perhaps you can read about how Christianity spread around the world and the origin of Christianity itself.
Jesus is a Prophet of God. He calls himself that,read your Bible properly

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Comedian2019: 12:35pm On Nov 13, 2020
Hypocrisy is when you leave Islamic terrorists to condemn a man who shakes hand with woman. Irrelevant topic, I must say.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by BigBizzy(m): 12:38pm On Nov 13, 2020
Nawao... Are the opposite sex not human?

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Comedian2019: 12:38pm On Nov 13, 2020
peppermint7:
Bastards. I took the oath just to come here to tell you all that y’all fools. You pple can’t rule on underage marriage, rape bombings and jihad.
Y’all pussies. Ona papa. Keep fooling yourselves.
They can't rule on jihad cos they love the 77-virgin brainwashing theory grin grin grin

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Turantula(m): 1:04pm On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

Any man who has a slave has free access to the slave and not only during the time of Muhammad (saw). The Prophet Abraham was one of the examples who had children from their slave.
Prophet Jacob the father of Prophet Joseph had two children each from his wives slaves. So God permitted that even the olden days tradition too. You can read about slave and the right of their owners.
Even 8years old slave ba?
Una mumu too much

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by DeepSight(m): 1:04pm On Nov 13, 2020
Realismailakabir:

Is it allowable for a muslim woman to greet a muslim man by shaking hands?

Answer

Praise be to Allah.

For a man to shake hands with a non-mahram woman (one to whom he is not related) is haraam and is not permitted at all. Among the evidence for this is the hadeeth of Ma’qal ibn Yassaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to.”

(Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045).

There is no doubt that for a man to touch a non-mahram woman is one of the causes of fitnah (turmoil, temptation), provocation of desire and committing haraam deeds. No one should say that their intention is sound or their heart is clean, because the one who was the purest of heart and the most chaste of all, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched a non-mahram woman, even when accepting bay’ah (oath of allegiance) from women. He did not hold their hands when accepting their bay’ah, as he did with men; their bay’ah was by words only, as was reported by his wife ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). She said that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would test the believing women who emigrated to him with the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): “O Prophet! When believeing women come to you to give you the bay’ah (pledge), that they will not associate anything in worship with Allaah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit illegal sexual intercourse, that they will not kill their children, that they will not utter slander, intentionally forging falsehood (i.e., by making illegal children belong to their husbands), and that they will not disobey you in any ma’ruf (Islamic monotheism and all that which Islam ordains), then accept their bay’ah and ask Allaah to forgive them. Verily Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [al-Mumtahinah 60:12] ‘Aa’ishah said: “So whoever of the believing women agreed to these conditions, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would say to her: ‘I have accepted your bay’ah by words.’ By Allaah, his hand never touched the hand of any woman when accepting their bay’ah (Oath of allegiance) he accepted their bay’ah by saying ‘I have accepted your bay’ah on this basis.’”

(Reported by al-Bukhaari, 4512; according to another report: he accepted their bay’ah by words… the hand of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched the hand of any woman except a woman he owned . Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6674).

Some Muslims feel too embarrassed to refuse when a woman offers her hand to them. In addition to mixing with women, some of them claim that they are forced to shake hands with fellow-students and teachers in schools and universities, or with colleagues in the workplace, or in business meetings and so on, but this is not an acceptable excuse. The Muslim should overcome his own feelings and the promptings of the Shaytaan, and be strong in his faith, because Allaah is not ashamed of the truth. The Muslim could apologize politely and explain that the reason he does not want to shake hands is not to offend or hurt anybody’s feelings, but it is because he is following the teachings of his religion. In most cases this will earn him respect from others. There is no harm done if they find it strange at first, and it may even be a practical opportunity for da’wah. And Allaah knows best.

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/2459/ruling-on-shaking-hands-with-the-opposite-sex

Accursed teaching.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Jaapu: 1:33pm On Nov 13, 2020
Takuruku4:
REPEAT AFTER ME...

JESUS IS LORD.
JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY..
HE'S THE ONLY SON OF GOD.

You are a lunatic grin
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by peppermint7(m): 2:11pm On Nov 13, 2020
Comedian2019:

They can't rule on jihad cos they love the 77-virgin brainwashing theory grin grin grin
Their papa

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by lastempero: 2:35pm On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

As much as Islam is against consumption of alcohol, it has not given anyone the right to harass those taking it instead it encourages us to tell them about the adverse effects of taking alcohol in a polite way. But the kano government is the one doing that not all Muslims.

Okay bro, as they preach to me please do preach to your radical brothers too. They are problem of islam.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Tarabye: 2:54pm On Nov 13, 2020
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Nobody: 3:03pm On Nov 13, 2020
Ooh which kind wahala be this one now this hot Afternoon.
Why must this page ask me if i am muslim before giving me access to coment.
Is there anything secret and they don't want non muslim to see.
Seun please take note if this. This is not acceptable.
Any topic you don't want people to contribute please don't bring it here.
To avoid quarel and unruly comment from individual.
This forum is not refined to respect the sanctity of any religion.
This is anonymous forum, anybody can talk to Jesus or Mohammed they way they like.
It is my kindid advice no offense please.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adewad13(m): 3:59pm On Nov 13, 2020
Midas01:
No shaking hands but fvvking underaged girls and bombings are halal.

By the way, I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.

I confess that Jesus is the way, truth and Life.

I confess that Jesus is the only begotten Son of the Father

Ihdina siratali mustaqim.......
the chance you have is now tomorrow might be too late.
Accept the religion of Allah because on that very day Prophet Isa is going to deny all you Christians .
Islam is the only way.
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adewad13(m): 4:03pm On Nov 13, 2020
DennisEche:
AHA, ITS FRIDAY LET ME GRAB MY POP CORN AND MAT TO LISTEN, SOMEONE HELP ME WITH THE SAUDI KING HANDSHAKE WITH MERKEL. WAHALA IF YOU BE POOR HEADSLAMMER

We aren't dullard......
we follow the message and the messenger not individual nor Saudi King.
May blessing and peace of Allah never cease upon the noblest of human being.
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by DennisEche(m): 4:06pm On Nov 13, 2020
adewad13:


We aren't dullard......
we follow the message and the messenger not individual nor Saudi King.
May blessing and peace of Allah never cease upon the noblest of human being.
TALK TRUE, IF THEY WERE NO ARABS WOULD YOU BE A MUSLIM? YOU FOLLOW THE MESSAGE, YET YOU PRAY IN ARABIC LANGUAGE,GO TO ARAB LAND FOR PILGRIMAGE AND YOU ARE HERE CLAIMING ANOTHER THING , OGA PACK WELL

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adewad13(m): 4:06pm On Nov 13, 2020
lastempero:
Una oga kpatapkata for saudi never apologise after shaking hands with the german chancellor, i mean the people that brought this religion to u guys,

I bessech you to see beyond your nose.me as a Christian no be all my pastor tell me i dey take .

You don't have to take it at all...because some of the messages are for the lost sheep of Israelites .....are you among the sheep...
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adewad13(m): 4:08pm On Nov 13, 2020
mdchikezie:


VERY USELESS SET OF PEOPLE MOSTLY THE ONES IN NIGERIA.

AND ME TOO...... I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.

I confess that Jesus is the way, truth and Life.

I confess that Jesus is the only begotten Son of the Father

That's why you are in lust .....tomorrow might be too late.
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Alennsar(f): 4:10pm On Nov 13, 2020
lastempero:


Okay bro, as they preach to me please do preach to your radical brothers too. They are problem of islam.
I am a Muslim and I am not a radical neither are my brothers but belief me religion does not define a person but personality does. A good person will always be good irrespective of his /her religion and a bad person will always be bad irrespective of their religion as well. Religion only modify humans and that is for those who are ready to adjust.

I am a lady.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adewad13(m): 4:20pm On Nov 13, 2020
DennisEche:

TALK TRUE, IF THEY WERE NO ARABS WOULD YOU BE A MUSLIM? YOU FOLLOW THE MESSAGE, YET YOU PRAY IN ARABIC LANGUAGE,GO TO ARAB LAND FOR PILGRIMAGE AND YOU ARE HERE CLAIMING ANOTHER THING , OGA PACK WELL
Yes...it was sent in Arabic language because that's the language Almighty Allah chooses to reveal the Quran. That's the uniqueness of this Our religion.
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by DennisEche(m): 4:36pm On Nov 13, 2020
adewad13:

Yes...it was sent in Arabic language because that's the language Almighty Allah chooses to reveal the Quran. That's the uniqueness of this Our religion.

YOU MEAN YOUR ALLAH DOESNT UNDERSTAND ANOTHER LANGUAGE ASIDE ARABIC, BRO USE YOUR HEAD

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by mdchikezie(m): 4:52pm On Nov 13, 2020
adewad13:


That's why you are in lust .....tomorrow might be too late.

LOL DUMBASS TOMORROW MIGHT BE TOO LATE BECAUSE I AINT MOOOZLIM JOKER IS WHAT YOU ARE.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by makaveli902: 5:34pm On Nov 13, 2020
Ola260:
It's not a must to come comment here. It's Islam ruling and not Christianity's. So it shouldn't affect u Christians


Of course I can comment here so far as I've taken the oath.
Anyone that feels sexually aroused by merely shaking of hands is a goat!

Ola260:
It's not a must to come comment here. It's Islam ruling and not Christianity's. So it shouldn't affect u Christians


Of course I can comment here so far as I've taken the oath.
Anyone that feels sexually aroused by merely shaking of hands is a goat!

Ola260:
It's not a must to come comment here. It's Islam ruling and not Christianity's. So it shouldn't affect u Christians


Of course I can comment here so far as I've taken the oath.
Anyone that feels sexually aroused by merely shaking of hands is a goat!

I confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.
I confess that Jesus is the way, truth and Life.
I confess that Jesus is the only begotten Son of the Father

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by lastempero: 5:48pm On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

I am a Muslim and I am not a radical neither are my brothers but belief me religion does not define a person but personality does. A good person will always be good irrespective of his /her religion and a bad person will always be bad irrespective of their religion as well. Religion only modify humans and that is for those who are ready to adjust.

I am a lady.

So where are you from north or south?
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Takuruku4: 6:09pm On Nov 13, 2020
Alennsar:

How please? Because for every reasonable question there is an answer.
Khadijat was older than him,how old was his second wife?
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Mccullum: 6:10pm On Nov 13, 2020
Akpan107:
What's the ruling on having SEX with a lady you are not married to?


This verse shows that Muslim men were allowed to have sex with their wives (of course) and their slave girls.

FROM THE QURAN - 23:5,6

"...who restrain their carnal desires (except with their wives and slave girls, for these are lawful to them..."

Again, Muslim men were allowed to have sexual relations with their wives and slave girls.

At that period, it is permissible for Muslim men and it was like that even during Moses (Musa), Sulaimon and Jesus (Isa), as slaves were considered as property of their masters and also recognized by law of various ancient nations even up to medieval period...

Conclusively, that act was normal with rules and regulations of the ancient communities and almighty God didn't forbidden it, so therefore, Muhammad did not committed any act of immorality or sin, base on logical reason on what is applicable at that period in time.
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by adewad13(m): 7:57pm On Nov 13, 2020
DennisEche:


YOU MEAN YOUR ALLAH DOESNT UNDERSTAND ANOTHER LANGUAGE ASIDE ARABIC, BRO USE YOUR HEAD

You have to open your head and brain as well..... I wrote "chooses" which means that's what Our creator preferred from all other languages.
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Josbreed: 8:32pm On Nov 13, 2020
So why did the King of Saudi Arabia, Prince Salman shake Germany's Chancellor's hands and nothing happened?

Only for the the useless Northern Nigerians to push the blame of the handshake to BBC.

I can NEVER follow Islam because its rules only applies to the poor, the rich are free to break Islamic rules.

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Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Decent09(m): 8:59pm On Nov 13, 2020
AntiChristian:
May Allah let us see the truth and give us the strength to follow it. O Allah show us falsehood and Grant us the istiqama to avoid it.

Ameen my Brother
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Akpan107(m): 9:49pm On Nov 13, 2020
Mccullum:



This verse shows that Muslim men were allowed to have sex with their wives (of course) and their slave girls.

FROM THE QURAN - 23:5,6

"...who restrain their carnal desires (except with their wives and slave girls, for these are lawful to them..."

Again, Muslim men were allowed to have sexual relations with their wives and slave girls.

At that period, it is permissible for Muslim men and it was like that even during Moses (Musa), Sulaimon and Jesus (Isa), as slaves were considered as property of their masters and also recognized by law of various ancient nations even up to medieval period...

Conclusively, that act was normal with rules and regulations of the ancient communities and almighty God didn't forbidden it, so therefore, Muhammad did not committed any act of immorality or sin, base on logical reason on what is applicable at that period in time.


You guys love telling stories...

Give us evidence where the "True God" commanded anyone to Sex outside marriage throughout the Bible!

I will be waiting for your response...
Re: Ruling On Shaking Hands With The Opposite Sex by Aeman(m): 10:58pm On Nov 13, 2020
Islam= animalisticity

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