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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mejai(m): 6:13pm On Nov 05, 2020
Only you! 4 children from 2 different men. Hehehehe. Clap for yourself.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by lymelyte(m): 6:17pm On Nov 05, 2020
Your kpecus go don wide anyhw sha... grin
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mariahAngel(f): 6:58pm On Nov 05, 2020
belcom10:
Hmmm, at 26 you already have four kids to different men. What went wrong.

Upbringing, probably...
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by frozen70(f): 7:05pm On Nov 05, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:
Am a moda of 4 girls by 2 different men , 2 lives with deir fada one with my parents and i onli stay with my last baby 1 years and 5 months . I I relocated to asaba to start afresh and i met my new guy in june , he loves me so much and has accepted my baby like his own , we are staying together but i i haven't told him abt my 3 other children , i lied to him that i only have 1 child i I didn't tell him about them because they don't live with me and its not necessary to mention them now . I love him so much and i don't want to loose him because he is my everything on earth. Did i do the right thing please advice me.

You guys are just starting you have to seat him down and tell him what you want him to know about you

Having four children out of wedlock with two different men, speaks volume as if you can't really settle down

Marriage is not for everyone

No matter how you keep those kids away from him, they will surely surface and by then he may reject them and that will cause a bigger problem which may lead to another third man separation

Help yourself
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Twenty8: 11:38am On Nov 06, 2020
Fiction! sugbon if this is true, madam you are a real olo***!
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Jesuisbelle(f): 1:14am On Nov 07, 2020
You loved him and you lied to him, can you accept your explanation if you were in his position?

The answer definitely will be no, how can he be your everything and you can't open up to him, the worst thing that will ever befall you is if he finds out before you start explanation.

please for the sake of life just give your life to jesus..pray God intervene in ur life and that of your children , I wish you the best

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 7:35pm On Nov 14, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
You loved him and you lied to him, can you accept your explanation if you were in his position?

The answer definitely will be no, how can he be your everything and you can't open up to him, the worst thing that will ever befall you is if he finds out before you start explanation.

please for the sake of life just give your life to jesus..pray God intervene in ur life and that of your children , I wish you the best

I ave already given my life to Christ if I didn’t I wouldn’t be alive to tell my story . Ave decided not to tell him anything for now first I need to start up something , get my own place then I will try to tell him the truth for now I would rather kip quiet and enjoy the relationship. Thanks for the advice
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mariahAngel(f): 9:08pm On Nov 14, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:


I ave already given my life to Christ if I didn’t I wouldn’t be alive to tell my story . Ave decided not to tell him anything for now first I need to start up something , get my own place then I will try to tell him the truth for now I would rather kip quiet and enjoy the relationship. Thanks for the advice
grin

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 9:29pm On Nov 14, 2020
mariahAngel:

grin
What's funny?
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mariahAngel(f): 9:32pm On Nov 14, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:

What's funny?

The part you said you'll keep quiet and enjoy the relationship grin
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 9:34pm On Nov 14, 2020
mariahAngel:


The part you said you'll keep quiet and enjoy the relationship grin
OK lol
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mrblessed(m): 2:34am On Nov 15, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:


I ave already given my life to Christ if I didn’t I wouldn’t be alive to tell my story . Ave decided not to tell him anything for now first I need to start up something , get my own place then I will try to tell him the truth for now I would rather kip quiet and enjoy the relationship. Thanks for the advice
Yeah, sure. If after having four children from different men, you haven't given your life to Christ, I wonder who you would have given it to. You know, Jesus Christ is like a jump site that joyously receives us in our low and battered moments. He never casts us away, always drawing us to Himself. However, is "keeping quiet and enjoying the relationship" part of the tastelessly showy and gratuitous exhibition of giving your life to Christ?
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by dprincedej(m): 10:22am On Nov 15, 2020
You are supposed to tell him at least two weeks after meeting him. You don't love him. You love the money he gives you. You have four children and still looking to remarry. You are selfish.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by kwaso2: 11:48am On Nov 15, 2020
With all due respect, You are very stupid. U need total overhauling.

The same mistake you made is what you ate already making.

Tell him the truth. Most likely, the relationship will send. If God show you more mercies, t9 start another decent relationship, tell him everything. If he choose to stay or leave, It's fine.

If u wish to be criminal about planning for an exit, get whatever financial help love still dey sweet am in your name and prepare for the worst

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by ibechris(m): 1:14pm On Nov 15, 2020
The day u will open up to that man,just forget the relationship. If u think I am lying pls tell him about it even u,would never allow ur son to keep a lady with two children let alone four children.



My advice is this:
Invest in yourself and become a better person. Stop depending on men to be what God has destined for u. He cant be all u have in this life if only u can think progressively.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Janosky: 2:43pm On Nov 15, 2020
lymelyte:

You are an extremely promiscuous lady. Why would you have children for multiple men? So this is how you will still have another child for your current man and after he breaks up with you, you will go and get pregnant for another man again.. Na wa for you o..I carry preek up for u angry

A man having many children by multiple women is what ?

What is good for the goose is the same for the gander.

Double standard is hypocrisy.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Janosky: 2:48pm On Nov 15, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:
Am a moda of 4 girls by 2 different men , 2 lives with deir fada one with my parents and i onli stay with my last baby 1 years and 5 months . I I relocated to asaba to start afresh and i met my new guy in june , he loves me so much and has accepted my baby like his own , we are staying together but i i haven't told him abt my 3 other children , i lied to him that i only have 1 child i I didn't tell him about them because they don't live with me and its not necessary to mention them now . I love him so much and i don't want to loose him because he is my everything on earth. Did i do the right thing please advice me.

John 8:32..
The man shall know the truth sooner or later & set himself free for good.

Tell him the truth,let him decide if he's man enough for you.

Las las , your kids deserve a responsible Father figure in their lives.
Reform yourself, please.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Pauladex(m): 3:35pm On Nov 15, 2020
Please don't let anyone make you feel like it is over for you. Having four children for two father is not the end of life but you are handling the matter wrongly. You have a lot to settle before going to another relationship. What about working on yourself, what about learning a trade. What about looking for how to empower yourself. Since you only have only one kid with you presently. Pls forget serious relationship for now, it may multiply your pain if the guy get to know and throw you out.

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 3:59pm On Nov 15, 2020
Pauladex:
Please don't let anyone make you feel like it is over for you. Having four children for two father is not the end of life but you are handling the matter wrongly. You have a lot to settle before going to another relationship. What about working on yourself, what about learning a trade. What about looking for how to empower yourself. Since you only have only one kid with you presently. Pls forget serious relationship for now, it may multiply your pain if the guy get to know and throw you out.
Thank you so much for this your comment it made me feel very happy seeing such lovely comments coming from a guy it really made my day when others are busy calling me names at least you have the heart to advice me nicely without insulting me. May God bless u

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Pauladex(m): 5:49pm On Nov 15, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:

Thank you so much for this your comment it made me feel very happy seeing such lovely comments coming from a guy it really made my day when others are busy calling me names at least you have the heart to advice me nicely without insulting me. May God bless u

Amen. You may pm so that we discussed further on whatsapp. You have made some mistake but were you were not the first to make such. All what you need is how to pick up what is left and leave a fulfilled life. Do u know if you get it rite one of your baby dady may come begging? it is well.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by airminem(f): 12:44pm On Nov 12, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:
Am a moda of 4 girls by 2 different men , 2 lives with deir fada one with my parents and i onli stay with my last baby 1 years and 5 months . I I relocated to asaba to start afresh and i met my new guy in june , he loves me so much and has accepted my baby like his own , we are staying together but i i haven't told him abt my 3 other children , i lied to him that i only have 1 child i I didn't tell him about them because they don't live with me and its not necessary to mention them now . I love him so much and i don't want to loose him because he is my everything on earth. Did i do the right thing please advice me.
How is your children?
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Hathor5(f): 12:49pm On Nov 12, 2021
Can this be true? undecided

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by superCleanworks(m): 10:52am On Nov 13, 2021
Mummiesgirls4:

if i tells him now he will leave me maybe after marriage... I don’t know realli

you are a witch. you deserve 100 slaps for this your evil lifestyle.

next thing you will frustrate this new man with the responsibility of 5 children.

you are a selfish demon.

the way i hate you right now i can lock you in a cell forever so on man will fall victim of your devilish nature again.

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by airminem(f): 5:12pm On Nov 13, 2021
Make it 500 slaps
superCleanworks:


you are a witch. you deserve 100 slaps for this your evil lifestyle.

next thing you will frustrate this new man with the responsibility of 5 children.

you are a selfish demon.

the way i hate you right now i can lock you in a cell forever so on man will fall victim of your devilish nature again.

I just cant imagine what kind of wicked OP is this.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by GboyegaD(m): 1:07pm On Jan 09, 2022
Gloriagee:
The age is fine but the IJN and the ' I'll tell him few days after marriage' sound so unreal like its concocted to bash single mums.

It's a free world so its her life and her choices tho I pity those that are at the receiving brunt of her decisions.


She finally told him few days after the marriage. The lady is wicked and I don't understand her tears. She chose to prioritize dick and sex above her children and now she's expecting her fifth.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by stacyadams: 2:03pm On Jan 09, 2022
GboyegaD:


She finally told him few days after the marriage. The lady is wicked and I don't understand her tears. She chose to prioritize dick and sex above her children and now she's expecting her fifth.


Lol both husband ND wife d here..
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by MufasaLion: 3:05pm On Jan 09, 2022
GboyegaD:


She finally told him few days after the marriage. The lady is wicked and I don't understand her tears. She chose to prioritize dick and sex above her children and now she's expecting her fifth.

She's nothing but a filthy liar and a baby factory.
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Foodqueen(f): 4:15pm On Jan 09, 2022
[quote author=GboyegaD post=109215163]

She finally told him few days after the marriage. The lady is wicked and I don't understand her tears. She chose to prioritize dick and sex above her children and now she's expecting her fifth. [/quote

Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Foodqueen(f): 4:34pm On Jan 09, 2022
Op, how market

Hope he's still Loving you.

grin

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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by obinna58(m): 3:10pm On Jan 10, 2022
The story don mature enter another level gan





And not just another level grin it's the villain�‍♂️
I blame the desperate man though
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by FORWARDEVERLY: 6:08pm On Jan 10, 2022
I pray this relationship crumbles and ends in premium tears.

No man should raise another man's seed...I pray that young man do discover soon and get sense to Japa..

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