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I met my bf now ex sometime ago,he asked me out nd I accepts him but deep down I have love issue nd I don't want any guy to hurt me,so we get along nd we used to talk very nd I started falling in love with him..I told him about my past which I had 3 body counts nd his body body was uncountable dats not an issue tho.this guy is a broke guy nd I know nd I wasn't after money all I want is something serious. So about 3 weeks ago he went to Lagos nd I spents sometime with him before he left.when he got to Lagos we used to talk very well,all of a sudden he doesn't pick my calls because m d one calling he doesn't have card to cal,he started ignoring my chats too I asked him what happened he said m nagging I apologised the next day he told me he wants space, It was like a dream I cried my life out I couldn't eat I was dehydrated I wanted taking poison but my friend came to rescue me..I asked my ex what happened he said he is broke nd he doesn't wants to hurt me not asif I offended him, I said okay lemme send u money I sent 4k tho m not bouyant I m very broke the money I sent I borrowed it too.just to make him happy..we started talking normal but I stopped calling him because deep down the m thinking of how I will pay back the debt..so the next day he asked me to send him 2k I told him I don't v nd hes aware of everything m just managing nd even if i will it will be d next week he insist.I told him i can't nd he told me am I feeling myself because of 4k ? I was shocked nd I leta asked him if he has eaten he was ignoring my chats I called he didn't pick I text him he ignored nd I told him are u ignoring me because of 2k..he flared nd start inshulting me nd he blocked all my lines..seriously I can't even cry..nd for the past few days v not bn eating nd even now I havnt taking water..but why ar some guys so wicked nd heartless ehn..am I bad gurl nd u have Neva cheated on this guy o...why do some people just act asif there's no tomorrow ehn..

M just so depressed.. I don't think I can love again.. Being alone is beta

Oya come love me...i go pamper u

Haters have arrived.

Just secured your happiness.
Na my no1 motto be that

Do whatever makes you happy

Please learn how to make use of paragraphs

And we'll wait to hear the Guy's side of the story before making any conclusions or judgements


Peace

Sundrus:
Oya come love me...i go pamper u

hummmm

ouzo1:
Haters have arrived.

hummmm

debbydams:
I met my bf now ex sometime ago,he asked me out nd I accepts him but deep down I have love issue nd I don't want any guy to hurt me,so we get along nd we used to talk very nd I started falling in love with him..I told him about my past which I had 3 body counts nd his body body was uncountable dats not an issue tho.this guy is a broke guy nd I know nd I wasn't after money all I want is something serious. So about 3 weeks ago he went to Lagos nd I spents sometime with him before he left.when he got to Lagos we used to talk very well,all of a sudden he doesn't pick my calls because m d one calling he doesn't have card to cal,he started ignoring my chats too I asked him what happened he said m nagging I apologised the next day he told me he wants space, It was like a dream I cried my life out I couldn't eat I was dehydrated I wanted taking poison but my friend came to rescue me..I asked my ex what happened he said he is broke nd he doesn't wants to hurt me not asif I offended him, I said okay lemme send u money I sent 4k tho m not bouyant I m very broke the money I sent I borrowed it too.just to make him happy..we started talking normal but I stopped calling him because deep down the m thinking of how I will pay back the debt..so the next day he asked me to send him 2k I told him I don't v nd hes aware of everything m just managing nd even if i will it will be d next week he insist.I told him i can't nd he told me am I feeling myself because of 4k ? I was shocked nd I leta asked him if he has eaten he was ignoring my chats I called he didn't pick I text him he ignored nd I told him are u ignoring me because of 2k..he flared nd start inshulting me nd he blocked all my lines..seriously I can't even cry..nd for the past few days v not bn eating nd even now I havnt taking water..but why ar some guys so wicked nd heartless ehn..am I bad gurl nd u have Neva cheated on this guy o...why do some people just act asif there's no tomorrow ehn..

o boy, see epistle. Lmao. where do you reside first?

debbydams:
hummmm

come na, make i wipe ur tears away.

SarutobiEky:
o boy, see epistle. Lmao. where do you reside first?

kwara

Sundrus:
come na, make i wipe ur tears away.

smiles..am not in for any joke pls

My dear.. the truth is that the guy doesn't love you.
There is a girl that did dis same thing(my own worse sha) to me.
But we are back together again(i dnt love her anymore) because my financial situation has improved a whole lot
I want to pay her back by wasting her time and getting married to another girl. The bit*h is still thinking I love her.
We've bin in the same house since last week and I haven't touched her and am not planning to.

Removing ur mind frm that relationship is the best thing that will happen to you.

What happened is really sad, but you can't stereotype guy with this.
It happens even from girls, I wish you quick recovery.

Why don't I meet these type of girls

ZIINI:
Why don't I meet these type of girls

They end up with the wrong guys and we good guys end up with the wrong girls such is life

debbydams:
kwara

try to forge about him for your own good. He don't care about you. For your sanity sake, move the Bleep on, girl.

Nazgul:
They end up with the wrong guys and we good guys end up with the wrong girls such is life

as in ehn...the life get as e be sha.

Who is still talking of love in this 2020

debbydams:
I met my bf now ex sometime ago,he asked me out nd I accepts him but deep down I have love issue nd I don't want any guy to hurt me,so we get along nd we used to talk very nd I started falling in love with him..I told him about my past which I had 3 body counts nd his body body was uncountable dats not an issue tho.this guy is a broke guy nd I know nd I wasn't after money all I want is something serious. So about 3 weeks ago he went to Lagos nd I spents sometime with him before he left.when he got to Lagos we used to talk very well,all of a sudden he doesn't pick my calls because m d one calling he doesn't have card to cal,he started ignoring my chats too I asked him what happened he said m nagging I apologised the next day he told me he wants space, It was like a dream I cried my life out I couldn't eat I was dehydrated I wanted taking poison but my friend came to rescue me..I asked my ex what happened he said he is broke nd he doesn't wants to hurt me not asif I offended him, I said okay lemme send u money I sent 4k tho m not bouyant I m very broke the money I sent I borrowed it too.just to make him happy..we started talking normal but I stopped calling him because deep down the m thinking of how I will pay back the debt..so the next day he asked me to send him 2k I told him I don't v nd hes aware of everything m just managing nd even if i will it will be d next week he insist.I told him i can't nd he told me am I feeling myself because of 4k ? I was shocked nd I leta asked him if he has eaten he was ignoring my chats I called he didn't pick I text him he ignored nd I told him are u ignoring me because of 2k..he flared nd start inshulting me nd he blocked all my lines..seriously I can't even cry..nd for the past few days v not bn eating nd even now I havnt taking water..but why ar some guys so wicked nd heartless ehn..am I bad gurl nd u have Neva cheated on this guy o...why do some people just act asif there's no tomorrow ehn..

na lie abeg!

OP.. .Please where exactly do you stay in Ilorin?

debbydams:
M just so depressed.. I don't think I can love again.. Being alone is beta

I made this same statement last year! It's a matter of time.

Where do you stay in Ilorin?

uthlaw:
na lie abeg!

I swear no lies

popweezy:
I made this same statement last year! It's a matter of time.

Where do you stay in Ilorin?

do u want to visit ?

This is the only contribution have got

If hunger wayo You, u go eat
Even though I b bench warmer for my church, But i have always taken this piece of advice from my pastor.
"WE Are human beings,we are meant to b disappointed & we can disappoint people too" o normal
So therefore never put all your Hope's in ONE person

I no talk say make u double date oo

debbydams:
smiles..am not in for any joke pls

no jokes oh. Come close make we reason privately. U no go regret am.

Nazgul:
They end up with the wrong guys and we good guys end up with the wrong girls such is life

This life no balance.
Law of static electricity plays out in every facet of life

DryMouth:
My dear.. the truth is that the guy doesn't love you.
There is a girl that did dis same thing(my own worse sha) to me.
But we are back together again(i dnt love her anymore) because my financial situation has improved a whole lot
I want to pay her back by wasting her time and getting married to another girl. The bit*h is still thinking I love her.
We've bin in the same house since last week and I haven't touched her and am not planning to.

Removing ur mind frm that relationship is the best thing that will happen to you.

thanks so much

ZIINI:
Why don't I meet these type of girls

debbydams:
thanks so much

Uwc

Nazgul:
They end up with the wrong guys and we good guys end up with the wrong girls such is life

seriously