I have met many Ladies who tell me this,.....i don't really need my bf money because am also working but I expect him to know his responsibility, duties and i expect him do them without been told

Anytime I ask what are the responsibilities and duties they go dumb...can anyone help explain this.

They are afraid to tell you so you won't shame them.

Once a while, give them money to do hair, if you see a hair you like, buy it for them.

Show them that even though they earn enough to take care of themselves, they can also trust you to not be stingy.

Na one relationship teach me lesson like this o.

I no dey ask bros for money, not even 100 naira recharge card cause I dey work.


Even when bros need financial support, I dey give am steady till I discover say na scam bros dey scam me.

Romanoff:
They are afraid to tell you so you won't shame them.

Once a while, give them money to do hair, if you see a hair you like, buy it for them.

Show them that even though they earn enough to take care of themselves, they can also trust you to not be stingy.

Na one relationship teach me lesson like this o.

I no dey ask bros for money, not even 100 naira recharge card cause I dey work.


Even when bros need financial support, I dey give am steady till I discover say na scam bros dey scam me.

there no shame in it....why not come out straight and tell him.......those word responsibilities and duties always sound awkward to me ooo.

Godoverevery:
I have met many Ladies who tell me this,.....i don't really need my bf money because am also working but I expect him to know his responsibility, duties and i expect him do them without been told

Anytime I ask what are the responsibilities and duties they go dumb...can anyone help explain this.

It is a normal scripted line

in lame man's language
Be ready to spend on me
Cus am the Trophy and you are just a fan


when i get bored or see a better Baller

i Go zoom zoom zoom

Never Upgrade from Bf to Husband
Until she becomes your wife that is when you collect the Barton from her Dad/family and continue the race

Romanoff:
They are afraid to tell you so you won't shame them.

Once a while, give them money to do hair, if you see a hair you like, buy it for them.

Show them that even though they earn enough to take care of themselves, they can also trust you to not be stingy.

Na one relationship teach me lesson like this o.

I no dey ask bros for money, not even 100 naira recharge card cause I dey work.


Even when bros need financial support, I dey give am steady till I discover say na scam bros dey scam me.

You made good points. I agree with you. As long as a lady doesn't pester me with demands, she go dey receive from me on a steady. I love giving at my discretion.

But you see when you feel entitled to it eh, no go see shishi

Godoverevery:

there no shame in it....why not come out straight and tell him.......those word responsibilities and duties always sound awkward to me ooo.

With the way Una always dey bash women, how them go come out straight?

Samakus:


You made good points. I agree with you. As long as a lady doesn't pester me with demands, she go dey receive from me on a steady. I love giving at my discretion.

But you see when you feel entitled to it eh, no go see shishi

Nope, no lady should make demands of you or bill you. Unless she be Olosho.

But as a man, e good to show say you dey responsible.

Imagine to dey date woman, you no dey buy her gifts, you no dey spend one naira. Na your front another man wey Sabi go come carry her.

Tell her make she go find work or tell her papa make he take his responsibility serious.



Ashawo work na work too

Romanoff:


Nope, no lady should make demands of you or bill you. Unless she be Olosho.

But as a man, e good to show say you dey responsible.

Imagine to dey date woman, you no dey buy her gifts, you no dey spend one naira. Na your front another man wey Sabi go come carry her.

I don't gift things because I fear that another man will 'carry' her. Nah! I have never been scared of losing a lady. Not even when I was dating the winner of most beautiful girl on NYSC camp then.

I just feel that there's no loving without giving. I do it because it gives me joy to surprise her and make her feel loved. But she must not feel entitled. She must not. Immediately she does, I activate my stingy button. She can walk if she wants

Samakus:


I don't gift things because I fear that another man will 'carry' her. Nah! I have never been scared of losing a lady. Not even when I was dating the winner of most beautiful girl on NYSC camp then.

I just feel that there's no loving without giving. I do it because it gives me joy to surprise her and make her feel loved. But she must not feel entitled. She must not. Immediately she does, I activate my stingy button. She can walk if she wants

You've gotten it all wrong. I'm not asking you to gift cause of fear of another man taking her.

I'm saying gifting is a way of showing love.

If you don't do it, someone else will. It's not enough to say you care or love someone. Your action can show it.

It can be taking her to have her nails done. It could be a treat to the Spa.

Little things that makes a girl gush and giggle in her spare time.

Lol,


That's normal bro



Giving dem money despite the fact that dem dey work doesn't mean anything, it jusss strengthen the love between you guys,


Though, Only if you say the truth

Romanoff:


You've gotten it all wrong. I'm not asking you to gift cause of fear of another man taking her.

I'm saying gifting is a way of showing love.

If you don't do it, someone else will. It's not enough to say you care or love someone. Your action can show it.

It can be taking her to have her nails done. It could be a treat to the Spa.

Little things that makes a girl gush and giggle in her spare time.

. Point noted. We're saying the same thing then.

How are you? Hope you're having a good Sunday

Samakus:


. Point noted. We're saying the same thing then.

How are you? Hope you're having a good Sunday

I am o. Thank God.

Romanoff:


You've gotten it all wrong. I'm not asking you to gift cause of fear of another man taking her.

I'm saying gifting is a way of showing love.

If you don't do it, someone else will. It's not enough to say you care or love someone. Your action can show it.

It can be taking her to have her nails done. It could be a treat to the Spa.

Little things that makes a girl gush and giggle in her spare time.

what does she do back in return.... what is her own responsibilities and duties towards the man or isn't meant to be vice versa.

Godoverevery:

what does she do back in return.... what is her own responsibilities and duties towards the man or isn't meant to be vice versa.

If you read my comment, you'll see I wasn't exactly gender specific. It goes both ways.

If you get money and you no fit see something wey go fit guy wey you love or something wey you go like him wear buy for am.

That love get K leg.

Love is an action word and it goes both ways. Na love God love humanity wey make am "GIVE" him only son.

Romanoff:


I am o. Thank God.

Cool. Ngwanu, have a pleasant night rest

Romanoff:


If you read my comment, you'll see I wasn't exactly gender specific. It goes both ways.

If you get money and you no fit see something wey go fit guy wey you love or something wey you go like him wear buy for am.

That love get K leg.

Love is an action word and it goes both ways. Na love God love humanity wey make am "GIVE" him only son.

to be honest u have said it all but only few ladies reciprocate this gesture.....most just have this mind set of they just have to receive and not give.
They will say he is the man.

Godoverevery:
to be honest u have said it all but only few ladies reciprocate this gesture.....most just have this mind set of they just have to receive and not give.
They will say he is the man.

And I'm telling you that if a lady you're in a relationship can't buy you a gift especially if she's working or gainfully employed, that love selfish.

Romanoff:


And I'm telling you that if a lady you're in a relationship can't buy you a gift especially if she's working or gainfully employed, that love selfish.

mine buy me gift ooo..... but have dated few who never even bought me fruit or 10naria sweet.
imagine dating a lady and she comes to your house empty handed all time but when u visit her she be angry u didn't buy her anything while coming.

Romanoff:


And I'm telling you that if a lady you're in a relationship can't buy you a gift especially if she's working or gainfully employed, that love selfish.

E sure me say you be guy

nurain150:

E sure me say you be guy

I'm a woman o. And I'm married.

Omo see my geng ..wat we mean is dat we can survive without ur money and will not be demanding like some ladies..but dat doesn't not mean u won't give us something occasionally...d same way we can also get something 4 u..honestly I don't believe in asking guys 4 money..I believe d guy is d one dat is supposed to give me..plus he is d one dat knows how much he can afford...plus I don't know how to do it.. ask 4 money..maybe because all d guys I meet usually give me without me asking

Godoverevery:

mine buy me gift ooo..... but have dated few who never even bought me fruit or 10naria sweet.
imagine dating a lady and she comes to your house empty handed all time but when u visit her she be angry u didn't buy her anything while coming.

I totally understand.

Romanoff:


I'm a woman o. And I'm married.

Pele

WrittyWritter:
Omo see my geng ..wat we mean is dat we can survive without ur money and will not be demanding like some ladies..but dat doesn't not mean u won't give us something occasionally...d same way we can also get something 4 u..honestly I don't believe in asking guys 4 money..I believe d guy is d one dat is supposed to give me..plus he is d one dat knows how much he can afford...plus I don't know how to do it.. ask 4 money..maybe because all d guys I meet usually give me without me asking

That because it is mutual.......