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I did a lot of research on this topic and I understood different people and their opinions. I came up with a video to share my opinion and some of the views I got regarding this topic.
Take a listen.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_DCCOFYle4M

Yes! Many mothers do

I really find this very disturbing. Some people are not fit to be parents

Roadsidetaylaw:
Yes!
Many mothers do

Sometimes being a good father is a thankless Job. You do your best as a man to put your kids and the next generation in a position to succeed, knowing fully well that you might not be praised for it that's even you live long enough.

The true value of a good wife is in old age. Not now, that the man is working, hustling , providing. It's when he is now old, retired, weak, this is when he can be easily discarded.

This is why some argue that women don't love like men love. Women love you for what you can provide and not who you are.

Some of you will be shocked to find that, if you were dead today. Your wife will be looking out for your will, where the property documents are etc.

In a nutshell, as A man. You may not win your children over emotionally like your wife would. Make effort to be in thier lives, provide for them. And most importantly take care of yourself and your future so that you wont be in shock like Buhari when in future they will be asking your wife if they should love you or not.

The inevitability of a self-absorbing or opportunistic mother poisoning the mind of her offspring against her husband, and vice versa, is the same as the inevitability of death.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjGA6giAOrE

Hmmm!I don't think so base on my experience growing up......maybe it happens but my ma and pa(God rest his loving soul) were all cool parents

Smile4mee01:
Sometimes being a good father is a thankless Job. You do your best as a man to put your kids and the next generation in a position to succeed, knowing fully well that you might not be praised for it that's even you live long enough.

The true value of a good wife is in old age. Not now, that the man is working, hustling , providing. It's when he is now old, retired, weak, this is when he can be easily discarded.

This is why some argue that women don't love like men love. Women love you for what you can provide and not who you are.

Some of you will be shocked to find that, if you were dead today. Your wife will be looking out for your will, where the property documents are etc.

In a nutshell, as A man. You may not win your children over emotionally like your wife would. Make effort to be in thier lives, provide for them. And most importantly take care of yourself and your future so that you wont be in shock like Buhari when in future they will be asking your wife if they should love you or not.

I love your write up and you Just explained a very good point what is expected of a family to avoid children mind being bayaised