Allow him to cry Abeg some girls are just too deep to predict, the man no expect am..

Cry over a failed relationship??
Because of say I dey mad ni

Bennysam:
I no cry but the whole day food no hungry me at all

My Brother...that shit happen to me too.
It was the very first & last time I felt heartbroken

...after the breakup that fateful morning, I just went to work as usual. And then went for lunch break at noon.
I ordered for food, tried to gulp a few spoons of rice...and that was when I discovered I didn't have the appetite to eat.
I left the whole food n drink on the table and went away.

That moment, I realized...heartbreak is real

soulstalker:
A matured man(45-49 yrs) was seen crying bitterly this morning in a bank at surulere, when we tried to console and asked why he was crying, he said the girl he has been spending alot on dumped him for another person. Infact i almost slapped him, so i was wasting my sorry because a girl broke ur heart.

Guys come in here, let's share our emotional sides in break up or failed relationship.


Let's hear yours also

Well I did that was then not now, I remember I cry for the babe I was with then because I was doing everything possible to make it work it failed

Yes I have.I truly liked this person.

Buzx:

Calm down. Every superman/woman has a kryptonite.

lol

virginprincess:
I have not seen any nigeria man that is worth my tears, when i see that man i will know .

Definitely me

Dearlord:

Definitely me

Hmmm really, maybe you should tell me more.

Erojepromise:
l never cried because l am super woman l do the breakups send their annoying selves packing.amma Savage..

Smh. That's why you look like a snake. If you provoke me now, I'll trace you, force you and I to date, fvck your brain out and move on, then we'll know if you'll cry by then or not

virginprincess:
Hmmm really, maybe you should tell me more.

...if only you can submit ur C.V with all honesty

Yes, even when I knew it hasn't fail completely.

RedPanthar:



Smh. That's why you look like a snake. If you provoke me now, I'll trace you, force you and I to date, fvck your brain out and move on, then we'll know if you'll cry by then or not

After that, how many years will be left with your life?

One key standard I set for myself is: Do Not Enter A Relationship That You Cannot Walkout. Be it intimacy, friendship, job, commitment, anything.

you made my day Aunty !!
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Ytea:
Yes, even when I knew it hasn't fail completely.

I will cry for betrayals. E.g., if my girlfriend went behind my back to say bad things about me or try to seduce my man, it will pain me more.
It's always good to have plan B in any relationship you are invested in so you won't be taken unaware when the eventuality happens. Signs are always there but we prefer to ignore it.

Dearlord:


...if only you can submit ur C.V with all honesty

, You guys won't kill someone with laughter on nairaland , which one is submit c.v, c.v for what exactly? is it a job interview .

RedPanthar:



Smh. That's why you look like a snake. If you provoke me now, I'll trace you, force you and I to date, fvck your brain out and move on, then we'll know if you'll cry by then or not

deranged fellow psycho get yourself off my post and go to a rehab. you definitely do need help from that drug addiction plaguing your reasoning.

Lovelyn451:
u think he's crying for just the relationship? age is not on his side, his mates have grown children instead of encouraging him u want to slap him...na ur type dey make person commit suicide. please allow him, let him cry and relieve himself of all that stress, crying is good for the health

Honestly you have a point, because if your heart gets broken by 49 & you are completely single with no children, It's a lot of problems.

At that age, only very few women want to marry you. It isn't even about money at this point, unless you are stupendously rich like Ned Nwoko. Even at that, these Women like Regina don't really care about you, they are there for the money.

That's why I wonder when people make statements such as Men don't suffer the impact of late or delayed marriage. Every sensible man should be married by 35, at worst 37. Once 40 hits, some ladies would start rejecting you.

Sniper101:

Cry over a failed relationship??
Because of say I dey mad ni




My Brother...that shit happen to me too.
It was the very first & last time I felt heartbroken

...after the breakup that fateful morning, I just went to work as usual. And then went for lunch break at noon.
I ordered for food, tried to gulp a few spoons of rice...and that was when I discovered I didn't have the appetite to eat.
I left the whole food n drink on the table and went away.

That moment, I realized...heartbreak is real

That’s exactly how it happened to me but my own Na fufu, that was first and last

I remember one. He was a nairalander. We were together for almost two years. I cried one full month right after the split. And I still cried anytime I remembered. Love sha

Yes

Chii59:
I remember one. He was a nairalander. We were together for almost two years. I cried one full month right after the split. And I still cried anytime I remembered. Love sha

Love is wicked

When it has not happen to you, all what you will be spitting around is nonsense. When you never venture into a real love affair with a woman you think she is the last bust stop, all you will be sayings is jargons.
We are not talking of Bleep and go girl
We are not talking of flirting here
We are talking of real affair...

I said a lot of jargons too when it has not happen to me then. But when a woman I loved with the whole of my heart turned me down, I know a kind of trauma pain I went through most especially when I remember those nice time I had with her, time spent with her, money and all the promises we said.

She killed my emotion, feelings for woman for I trust no woman again. It appears to me that women are same up till now

Kingzy4pep:
Love is wicked

It's one of those challenges one must sometimes pass through.

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It happened 3 weeks back but i never cried. The relationship was my first.
I was sad that night but woke up entirely another man the other day. Woke up a free man, a very happy man.

Things like this will always happen until you accept the fact that your partner's emotion can only be controlled by himself/herself.

He/she might love you today and tomorrow ceases to love you. One must always prepare for the worst in every situation. This doesn't make you a pessimist rather, one that understand that life is not well balanced.


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sapphiere:
Yes. He was my first love. My pastor separated us. I was 16 then. He joined choir because of me. One day we were caught. My pastor reported us to our parents. Disgraced us in church on a Sunday service and banned us from singing in the church.

He became aware that something was going on between us.

oh oh so sorry about that, African parents' mentality...he should have just given both of you advice and sex education

True

tosinhtml:


Honestly you have a point, because if your heart gets broken by 49 & you are completely single with no children, It's a lot of problems.

At that age, only very few women want to marry you. It isn't even about money at this point, unless you are stupendously rich like Ned Nwoko. Even at that, these Women like Regina don't really care about you, they are there for the money.

That's why I wonder when people make statements such as Men don't suffer the impact of late or delayed marriage. Every sensible man should be married by 35, at worst 37. Once 40 hits, some ladies would start rejecting you.

seanwilliam:
Yes during my simping days.. I refused to eat...even though the idiot was giving me gonorrhea back to back I still cry when she left.. odunayo God go purnish u wereva you are

Hmmmmm, can't agree less

desgiezd:
It's very easy to criticize the man who cried. It's quite convenient to call him names but pray it doesn't happen to you for he who feels it knows it all.
Perhaps you haven't experienced this kind of pain. It's an inconsolable kind of pain, it comes from the deepest part of your heart and you just see tears rolling down your cheeks on their own, you try to stop it but you can't. You would want to be a man but that manly, macho grandstanding will also fail you. Those tears are shameless and they can come anywhere! It will be as if the whole world has collapsed on your head alone. More especially if she's the one with whom you have no secrets and on whom you have invested all hopes and you feel you're through with looking for and toasting again.

Brothers, pray it doesn't happen to you for all I have written here are my personal experience!

Funny Man.
He must have been blinded by fake love and failed to notice the warning signs.




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lightwind:
let's assume it's the guy you left your bf for that was 30 yrs while your bf was still 23 and out of the country, you then opened your kpekus for the 30 yr old guy who has great job, spends on you. I think that's where you cried after taking your virginity and dumped you after.

In The Light Of Wind.

Wow...all in ur end... u must b sociopath

Yes

soulstalker:
A matured man(45-49 yrs) was seen crying bitterly this morning in a bank at surulere, when we tried to console and asked why he was crying, he said the girl he has been spending alot on dumped him for another person. Infact i almost slapped him, so i was wasting my sorry because a girl broke ur heart.

Guys come in here, let's share our emotional sides in break up or failed relationship.

Let's hear yours also

this poster is insensitive, irrational and have never been truly in love. That's why people like hiding their pain from others. I do cry when people i truly love leave me and that's because i truly loved them..