Jashub:
I do not support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.

That doesn’t change the fact that she is very arrogant, if someone chats you up, try to allow such person introduce him or herself before starting to behave like malfunctioning ceiling fan, the interviewer was even trying to calm her down but she called it nonsense.

Jashub:
Look, we are all different and we react differently to situations. And what you have just stated is how you would react in this sort of situation. But you need to remember, that not everyone is you, and they will react differently from you.

And that's why she will keep losing opportunities like this, that requires good manners and brain. Obviously, she lacks both.
But I can measure some brain for her and teach her manners if she will humbly learn.

Martinez39s:
When you create your company, reach your prospective employees through Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and other social media platforms. Don't tell a company how they should reach their prospective employees. They know what they were looking for and they knew the test that would separate the unworthy from the worthy. How they test is up to them not you. Who are you or anyone to tell a company how to contact or test their prospective employees?

Bullshit. There was nothing unethical or unprofessional here. The company, their rules.

Building more irrational excuses. Being polite and well-mannered cost nothing. Instead of doing what is right by supporting and encouraging good behaviour, you wasted energy subtly covering up and excusing trashy attitude and attributing blames to the company. Why? It's because you and jashub are just like the lady in the chat, attitude-wise. You both see yourselves in that lady hence the compulsive need to defend.

It's good that she was dismissed for her rudeness and ill manners. People like her and you guys are trash, real trash. You people do not change, and people who consider you friends should reconsider. At least, I am happy that most nairalanders have a good moral compass

Even such behaviors not only limited for female gender alone, 75% of Nigerians have attitude, though common among women, go to market and price goods down, it may lead to curse from the owner.

See how, vio, FRSC, police, army used to rude to motorists.

We need serious reorientation in this country, no wonder the mtn and co used to monitor customers' calls among their agents.

BigBashiru:


It is invasion of privacy because WhatsApp is for just family and friends for some people. The prospective employer should have just sent her a text message.

You said family and friends for some people.
Who made that a law? Either through Sms, Email or whatever, it's still digital isn't it? You would have said he should have gone to the post office nw.
A lot of people use whatsapp for business purposes.
I use whatsapp for my business, and whenever I see a message from an unknown number, I would want to know who the person is. She applied for a job didn't she? She also dropped her contact didn't she? If she wanted it through email and not have her privacy 'breached', she should have said so.
Once again, how is it breach of privacy to text someone with an unknown number?
And for the fact that the dude even mentioned her name, isn't that enough to let you know that the guy knows her a little bit?
You don't have a point Mr man.
Breach of privacy ko.

Jashub:
I do not support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.

Oga, what are you even saying. Most Nigerian girls are mannerless and very very senseless and rude. even if someone is begging for favour will u reply them that way.

If you say Hi to most Nigerian girls, she will look at you from head to toe, feeling you want her number or you want to take her to bed.

I guess thats why most of them are unmarried.

Fussion1000:


Where d I wrote u re jobless? It confirmed ur behaviour as a man who would think his idea must be done and not mind he is subordinate, you type will not make working environment conducive in as much they don't align with ur opinion.


Pls learn how to respect others idea that are contrary to urs most especially wen u other side of disadvantaged*

Oga HR, use your own advice too.

You are not respecting other people's ideas but you want others to respect yours.

How were you able to confirm my behavior in a number of posts?
You even confirmed my behavior as a subordinate.

You make so many conclusions.


How is my side disadvantaged here? If you don't have a company won't people get job?

For every company with a shitty interview process there is atleast one with a standard one.

typical naija hoe. death to all naija useless hoes

Jashub:
I do not support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.

Clearly the company is not well organised........what is the role of HR again?

toprealman:

Clearly the company is not well organised........what is the role of HR again?

That is a very good question a lot of my attackers haven't answered.

Perfectsouth:
Bro, if you message me on WhatsApp irrespective of who you are, I will first greet you sir or MA.
Cos I will want to believe for you to have my number, you must have gotten it from someone or somewhere

Some will even read without replying not knowing God just answered there prayer point for that job or connection... A lot of Nigerians have very bad attitude...

Karleb:


Oga HR, use your own advice too.

You are not respecting other people's ideas but you want others to respect yours.

How were you able to confirm my behavior in a number of posts?
You even confirmed my behavior as a subordinate.

You make so many conclusions.


How is my side disadvantaged here? If you don't have a company won't people get job?

For every company with a shitty interview process there is atleast one with a standard interview process.

So u re are CEO of multinational conglomerate? OK o , I salute oga patapata o, I won't join issue with a guy that in trance again. But when you wake up from ur hallucination come and re read your long Epistles on nairaland and in ur imaginary conglomerate pls give applications and other subordinate total power to dictate for you house want to run it.

byebye.

After this rejection, the employer came out to clarify that he placed numerous calls and sms but there was no response, then he decided to use the whatsapp platform...


But as we can see, it ended in tears

kingxsamz:


You said family and friends for some people.
Who made that a law? Either through Sms, Email or whatever, it's still digital isn't it? You would have said he should have gone to the post office nw.
A lot of people use whatsapp for business purposes.
I use whatsapp for my business, and whenever I see a message from an unknown number, I would want to know who the person is. She applied for a job didn't she? She also dropped her contact didn't she? If she wanted it through email and not have her privacy 'breached', she should have said so.
Once again, how is it breach of privacy to text someone with an unknown number?
And for the fact that the dude even mentioned her name, isn't that enough to let you know that the guy knows her a little bit?
You don't have a point Mr man.
Breach of privacy ko.

Its not a law but people should be reasonably aware that text message is the business tradition and ask permission when contacting by WhatsApp.

Jashub:
This is your OWN response. And not everyone will act the way you would under a given situation. Remember that

That does not warrant you to be that rude and saucy... I see you as such...

Jashub:
You are completely off point here.

First and foremost, we are not talking about you, or your success in securing a job; we are actually discussing on the method used by the above company in disseminating information to one of their applicants.

Have you sold your senses??

I am giving you instantly how a private company can decide to test applicants

Hu and 5n , Jesus what are these generation learning ? I think Emmanuel is more wrong, no proper structured company send messages like over WhatsApp, it must in an official mail, it already tells that its a small company, also introduce yourself. Playing Devil's advocate, it's normal for ladies to have intrusive messages or even fraudulent messages or insistent toasters.
On Mary's side, when engaging with anyone you should always be professional and courteous. You never know who you might be chatting or talking with. It causes nothing to ask sorry who am I speaking with ? and if it doesn't go that far as you want, don't reply. Someone with that type of attitude especially with poor spelling. I wouldn't hire such to talk with client esp with that attitude. All these will have been simple if Emmanuel did a proper introduction. They are both wrong sha and Emmaneul was unprofessional also.

What pride dose, be mindful you nor go hear, this is what am battling with my wife almost every time, though some women are designed like that they can't change..

i'm glad she lost the job and i need see that interviewer who chated her up and commend hin greatly for his epic reply on her not being fit for the job anymore

stupid girls anywhere
cuz dem politicians and sugardaddy carrying them up and down with big cars fucking them around as sex tools dem be so they think they can be rude to every other person(guys)

odinson1:
Who is bringing up all these mannerless and uncouth Ladies
I wonder what nigerian ladies Gain in being unnecessarily rude to strangers


So I finally made first to comment in a front page topic I dedicate this FTC to Righteousness89 and Slawomiir

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goodlife4every1:

That does not warrant you to be that rude and saucy... I see you as such...

[/s] Another narrow-minded conclusion

glowingflame7:


They could have been formal too, like addressing her as Miss as they later did. It's a useless and unserious criteria for dismissing a potential worker.

No, they would have sent flowers to her house with drones and put out a red carpet for her to step out.

If "Hello, good evening Mary isn't enough", then you'd have to wait for the organisation that'll add a chieftancy title to your name.
I'm very sure that if you were the one, you definitely wouldn't complain.

regardless! she lost the job and i'm glad she did


even if God himself disguise as a guy approach these girls exactly same way they gonna be rude


the way i take hate girls these days hen! una go think say i be dey celibate ni oo

Jashub:
I do not support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure.

odinson1:
Who is bringing up all these mannerless and uncouth Ladies
I wonder what nigerian ladies Gain in being unnecessarily rude to strangers


So I finally made first to comment in a front page topic I dedicate this FTC to Righteousness89 and Slawomiir

Tomorrow, they will say there is no job.

Jashub:
I agree, but try and look at it from this perspective : you receiving a text from an anonymous number on WhatsApp is a breach on your privacy and security. And as you know, this is 9ja, and you cannot vouch for the next man. So her response is only natural given the circumstances

Continue talking crap!

Feel free to raise your daughter to have such mannerisms.

NaijaOlosho:


Have you sold your senses??

I am giving you instantly how a private company can decide to test applicants

There is what we call HR. Please read up on it before we have this conversation. Thanks

Perfectsouth:
Bro, if you message me on WhatsApp irrespective of who you are, I will first greet you sir or MA.
Cos I will want to believe for you to have my number, you must have gotten it from someone or somewhere

Leave him.

Let him raise his own daughters like that and you raise your daughters like this.

We will see whose children have sense pass.

tunjijones:
This has happened to me before.

A young man was recommended by a senior staff in my organisation. The staff said he knows the young man that he is a very fervent member in his church and that he is a good person. I asked what his qualifications was and i was told he has an HND.

I told him my reservations about this guy. 1. That i dont rili like to work with those pple that carry church in their head and 2. He is a an HND holder and the job is for a driver, i feel he is over qualified. Though the pay for drivers in my firm is about 150k, i still feel he is over qualified, i have my reasons.

He persuaded me, told me how the guy just got married that 150k wld go a long way in his life.

I agreed. I called him for interview, he was so gentle and soft spoken. I told him abt my reservations about employing him, and he swore that he was not anything like what i thought.

I agreed to employ him. So i needed him to send me the name of his referees and email addy so they can reference for him. I used my other number to calm him. The conversation went like this:

Me: hello, good afternoon.
Him: who his this?
Me: wasted like 2 seconds to respond. My name is t......
Him: who the fulk is this. I dont have time for shit u better say who you are or bounce off my fone.
Me; i interviewed you today from (the name of the firm)
Him: sir am so sorry i didn't know its you, pls sir can you hear me out... I was in the......
Me: ended the call and bounced as he said i shd.

That was how he lost the job. My senior colleague that recommended him couldnt even ask me to employ him... Because he know the ethics in the organisation.

Please I need a job .. bsc public administration ..
Whatever that is available you can let me know Sir .. it's been 4 yrs of no job

Jashub:
This is your OWN response. And not everyone will act the way you would under a given situation. Remember that

She was rude Sir. Simple.

Greeting an unknown number politely doesn't make you fall victim of scam Sir

Fussion1000:



So u re are CEO of multinational conglomerate? OK o , I salute oga patapata o, I won't join issue with a guy that in trance again. But when you wake up from ur hallucination come and re read your long Epistles on nairaland and in ur imaginary conglomerate pls give applications and other subordinate total power to dictate for you house want to run it.

byebye.

Oga HR!

Do you know the amount of conclusions you've made in 2 to 3 posts?

Learn to do things properly and not how you feel or want!

Don't treat your subordinates or applicants like trash.

Other people's ideas are as important as your's.

Take those to the bank.

Do have a nice day sir!

Jashub:
I agree, but try and look at it from this perspective : you receiving a text from an anonymous number on WhatsApp is a breach on your privacy and security. And as you know, this is 9ja, and you cannot vouch for the next man. So her response is only natural given the circumstances

Her response is natural?
The insult is also natural abi
Just call a spade a spade

Jashub:
True, but the company should have been more specific on the method of communication. Some people cherish their privacy above ambition

no organization will tell you "we will whatsapp u"
When you are submitting ur email and number,u should be expecting response via any means.

My own interview was via whatsapp and it was sweet because It gave me the time to put down good responses without the pressure of eyes staring at u... In this digital age,expect anything...communications are shifting online.

She's a rude person,that's the fact.

Someone greeted respectfully, greet them back nicely before asking who they are in a sane manner too.
It's when the person starts crossing the line before you strike at them.

That is why I always tell people "learn how not to transfer aggression"
Maybe something dey vex her before she come online,she come use the guy as anger absorber.

BigBashiru:


Its not a law but people should be reasonably aware that text message is the business tradition and ask permission when contacting by WhatsApp.

That is what I'm asking you.
Who gave such rule and who made it so?
Where did you see that Sms should be used to Contact someone in terms of business and not Whatsapp? Or isn't sms private too?
Oh, have you forgotten that sms used to be the the means via which people used to communicate to each other before social media?
Even if you suggest using email, isn't email also a means of communicating with both friends and family?
So what makes whatsapp private and sms 'work only'?
What logical explanation can you bring to defend your stance?

CalliDora1:
The job was not meant for her. Forget it. When something is yours, it doesn't matter what you do or don't do, you'll get it.

Is this the point or she was just rude?

You're right. This job wasn't for her and no job is for her. Nobody wants to hire a rude person. Let her go and start her own business