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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by AniwetaluEmma(m): 7:00am On Nov 29, 2020 |
There are lessons to learn from every mistake. If you fail to learn that lesson, there is every likelihood that you may not get off the hooks of the problems that mistake will precipitate. How can you have evidence of your wife cheating with another man and you pardon her and allow her to move back to your house? That was the first and big mistake you made and is now causing you more problems. Your wife has seen how weak you are as a man and she is leveraging on that to manipulate you. The first thing you would have done when you found out her sexual excapades especially the circumstances sorounding that was to emotionally separate yourself from her and only take responsibility of your children. Someone who had cheated and also left you because of mere chats ladden with empty promises with unknown man, what quarrantee do you have that she would not kill you and run out with another man if she has the opportunity again? My brother, block that girl emotionally and avoid her families and take care of your children. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by goodman5(m): 7:01am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Baba just fine a way to ur kids, |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by toye440: 7:01am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Its not in my position to make the call, but u dont need an angel to translate it either cos the hand writing is clear on the wall stirring at u saying read me aloud. Bro pls if u dont want ur daughter to continue or inherit her mothers cycle of debauchery, pls do the needful by filing for child custody with ur evidence. Pls dont show us here, show it to the magistrate. I know its a tough call to make but remember " things fall apart to make way for better things ". Ur next mission is how to save ur children from their mothers bad influence, as nothing good can ever come from that 419 family. This story should serve as a deterrent to every single brother out there, when its time to settle, let beauty be the last u consider. Like i have always said, beauty is the 1st thing nature gives to every woman, and it would be the 1st it takes away when it returns, then u would be left with character. Brothers chase after character for beauty is just a shadow. Remember even ur shadow liv's u in ur darkest moment. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Tony142: 7:01am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: u are mad, the kid belong to the man and not the woman, if u think she will not allow you take your kids, then u are not man enough #nonsense |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Realhommie(m): 7:04am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Meteng:It was actually a very foolish decision he made after having this knowledge.... 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by petitejolie(f): 7:05am On Nov 29, 2020 |
ahnie:infact is a simp type. He will just die for nothing. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by hamzeiy: 7:06am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Tony142:The guy is just pathetic abeg, he is not ready to face the reality of life...I swear no be curse that woman go kill am one day if he stays with her. I want make him give me the wife's details my chop my own, obviously he is a pump, .. otherwise who stays in a marriage like this, na only you suffer from parents breakup...some people loose their parents completely to death set yet they are better than this. I have spent almost a year without commenting on any post here, all I do is login, read,like and share. But this guy's situation jus dull my day honestly. I actually regret reading the post....e just they annoy me. Be a man guy or die stupid and get your kids turned into future oloshos |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Tobiloba2407: 7:07am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: There's a reason my igbo friends that grew up in lagos, don't date igbo girls or have igbo friends |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nobody: 7:07am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:disassociate yourself with the unhappy and unlucky ones, ignore dis law at your own pel. you might think you are trying to save your marriage bt you might as well as drown wit her if you don't disassociate |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by romenna: 7:07am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Distance yourself from that family. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Tony142: 7:08am On Nov 29, 2020 |
IamPlato: I swear, the guy foolishness na 1st class |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by petitejolie(f): 7:09am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Realhommie:as in d guy is something else. Even after marrying her Nd later knowing that she’s d course of your problem , he still accepts her, sleep with her. Why are you killing ur small surviving destiny because of puna. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by LMS1(m): 7:09am On Nov 29, 2020 |
MR OP YOUR WIFE MUST BE OYO OR EKITI OR MAYBE OSOGBO BABE,I SWEAR DOWN CHEATING DEY THIER TRADITION, AN THEY WONT FEEL REMORSE DOING THIS AT YOUR BACK WHILE SMILING WITH U MORE OFTEN, MINE IS ONCE YOUR FEMALE PARTNER PREVENT U FROM ACCESSING THEIR PHONE JUST START BEING VIGILANT AND SUSPICIOUS,ALSO WEN PARENT'S TELL U "GO AND LOOK FOR BETTER WORK"MY BROTHER RUN FOR YOUR LIFE(speaking from experience) BECAUSE EVEN IF U ARE DATING IN PEACE IF THE PARESTS DONT LIKE YOU THEY ILL DO EVERYTHING TO PULL YOUR HEART DOWN....BUT SERIOUSLY OP DONT LET KIDS TIRE YOUR ASS DOWN IN SUCH A DEVASTATING MARRIAGE. PICK YOUR KIDS AND TRAIN THEM YOURSELF WHILE MANAGING YOUR BUSINESS, YOU WILL HAVE REST OF MIND AND STEADY income THAN ATTACHING YOURSELF WITH THAT CODED LovePeddler OF YOURS U CALLED A WIFE.BUT U SEF FUMBLE O .ONLY DATING SHE SNEEK GO NO OTHER PLACE BUT CLUB AND YOU COULDN'T ASK YOUR SELF IF SHE WENT TO PRAY IN THE CLUB?.....OGA MY ADVICE BE SAY DISSOLVE D MARRIAGE,TAKE YOUR KIDS WITH U AND TREAT THEM LIKE YOUR WIFE AND LIFE .BECAUSE ONCE A CHEAT IS ALWAYS A CHEAT #L_M_S. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by petitejolie(f): 7:10am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Tony142:He be professor of foolishness 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by simplepee(f): 7:12am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Nuyokoi:You both should take a back seat and stop embarrassing yourselves. Aside that the yahoo boy might have used her, a married woman sleeping with another man is a curse/badluck on its own. There are places that such act can kill the husband slowly till he finally leave the world.. 3 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nnatuu: 7:12am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Here is my advice..: Love her, forgive her genuinely. And bring her back. Discuss with her not argue, find out why she does what she does, solve it if possible, protect her and pray with her. God will be with you then and heal your land. Bring your home together, these experiences of yours are painful but also think about the children before you fire any billet. I made the mistake of being too unforgiving on my daughters mum, today my daughter is growing into a very wise and gifted woman whom I love with my life...and it’s hurting her that her both loved parents are living apart. And can never be together again as we are both married. And one question I fear to answer from her in the future is...what sin was that deep that I could not forgive her mom? And the truth is...NONE. Just as yours...mine is same but more serious. Learn from my experience, if you love yourself. Fix it, don’t fight it, don’t quit. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by ORIAYO70(m): 7:14am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: You mean that man is not stone to death... Look it happens to me too, my dad will borrow money in his work place n give it to his wife for partying...he married to an Ijebu woman, you know what that's means. He trained none of us, I trained mysf from poly to University....imagine now he wanted us that he failed to train to be around him.... My opinion. Face your life squarely Take care of ur children Keep distance to ur in-law n wife they r evil. Never tried to recover all you have lost, Just pray hard n forgot abt your wife kpekus it will derail u more. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by KingTom(m): 7:14am On Nov 29, 2020 |
ahnie:Make person no lash him own wife again kwanu? |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Tony142: 7:15am On Nov 29, 2020 |
hamzeiy: No mind am |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by TechyGuy: 7:17am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: I have not done a post in Nairaland for years I think but after reading this I had to. I am hoping you see and read this. Here is my conclusion: As long as you keep blaming your dad, it doesn't matter how bad he was/is, you will keep becoming like him. If your motivation in life is your hatred for your dad, you are bound to make the same mistake and become exactly like him. I cannot explain the spirituality behind this here but trust me that is how it works. If you want, you can request it and I will share links with you on some messages you should listen to (If you are a Christian). My advice to you: Forgive your dad. It is for your own good. You don't have to bring him into your family but let go of all the grudges you had against him. He may just be feeling guilty for his mistakes as you are right now about your own mistakes. As for your wife, when it comes to infidelity and the fact that she is not repentant, you may have to divorce her legally. You cannot continue to accept a prostitute as a wife (assuming all you said about her is true). Stop using the excuse of your children to condone her excesses. You also do not have to hate her, that is not the goal. Save yourself and the future of your children by not condoning porsitution. Start on a new path with a new kind of mindset that seeks to be a better man because that is the right thing to do, not because you hate your dad and don't want to be like him. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by iamJ(m): 7:17am On Nov 29, 2020 |
You marry club girl There are certain women, no matter what you do never take them seriously, sorry but no hope |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Grandeur2015: 7:18am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Anyone that knows this guy should please tell him to do just TWO things. First, take his children away from that type of lady to his mother. Secondly, he should cut every tie with the family of his wife and avoid seeing her for at least 5yrs. Probably relocate to Lagos, Abuja or even Abroad. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Basiljoe: 7:19am On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Myhusband(m): 7:20am On Nov 29, 2020 |
have heard about sleeping with a Lady and everything one labour for will just go just like that, there is this lady I flirt with before my marriage, she's a good lady, she want a relationship but was already hooked up though I explained to her but anytime I'm with this lady or even sleep with her, I always get above my expectations in income I made my first cool million for the 4months I dated this lady, I tried to continue the relationship with her but don't want to hurt my woman it's very good for a man to be observant while flirting or dating a Lady, some ladies are full of bad luck while some ladies brings fortune to you. be observant sorry for your experience Op, God will restore your losses |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Gesman: 7:20am On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Fuckjesusandgod: 7:23am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: How do you know those kids are yours? na only woman knows who she get belle for o. If you can do DNA for those kids, then you can start from there, make e no be say you dey take care of another man's kid. lesson Iearn early in life " if she's a hoe, she will always be". Focus on your life now until you are sure those kids are yours. ciao! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by capitalzero: 7:24am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:You are paying for father sins. Your father was a womanizer Definitely, he womanizer a married woman. His children would pay for it if they do live in opposite live with their father. You started your life like your father by fornication with her from school. It was not live. But sexual sin prevented you from seeing the dangers ahead. If you want to be free from the woman , you have to divorce her officially. With divorce, association between you and in-laws would end. Take custody of children. Remarry. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Clonepops(m): 7:26am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Chiquitq: the guy just stupid anyhow the whole thing dey vex me |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Perfectsouth(m): 7:27am On Nov 29, 2020 |
IamPlato:yes sir, agreed
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by authority2006(m): 7:30am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: And this simply means that your problem is not going away. You can't eat your cake and have it. Even right now that you are still married to her, you are not living together, you're in different states. You have no control over or say in her life. So, what is the difference now? You're already separated, you can't sleep with her anymore, you just don't want to admit that it is over. And with divorce or separation, you can always see your kids anytime. Or, where did you get the idea that you won't be able to see your kids again? Are you going to abandon them and your forgo your responsibility? |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by OhISeeCars100: 7:32am On Nov 29, 2020 |
I have read your long stories. I must say sorry for going through all you went through. Your marriage is under satanic siege and your wife and her mum is a collaborator .you might eventually leave her.she doesn't want to change and your life and bright future is at stake. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by petitejolie(f): 7:32am On Nov 29, 2020 |
becky39000:there are actually people like this o. I know people like this. They know this is who and what is killing dem but dey still deep dier neck Nd whole body inside. It’s crazy mehnnn 1 Like |
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