Perfectsouth:
yeah he slept with her and she felt cheated according to her..

I was legally married to her, do you wish I become promiscuous?

1st born Sept 2
2nd Sept 28..
We are not living together, we stay in separate states and body no be firewood.

I am not a gum gum guy, from what I experienced in my family, I decided to stick to one woman to avoid my kids going through whatever I went through in life.

Difficult for me to say this, but I will anyways.

I hope the statement hit you somewhere and get you to rage towards a better life.

YOU ARE A FOOLISH MAN!

I feel no pity for your continuous stupidity, people like you are the reason terrible human beings like your wife think they can always get away with anything.

Stop been foolish and get a proper life, there are better women out there that are ready to love you and remain loyal.

All that prayers and fasting won't work without your SENSE getting formatted and you must also face reality.

I repeat, YOU ARE A FOOLISH MAN!

No cap!!

Perfectsouth:
Cc royalroy

NEVER DATE OR MARRY A GIRL OR LADY WHO IS VISIONLESS AND DOESN'T ALIGN WITH YOUR DREAMS , GOALS AND ASPIRATION.

I was blinded by love cos she was beautiful. Initially when we started out, things were fine. I was doing well for myself as a photographer. then from forgetting pant to bag to clothes, we started living a couples life..
The way I wired myself right from inception,i don't drink, I don't smoke and believe, I don't womanize.. I don't even watch football.. I am an extreme introvert..
So I started noticing that when it is past 11 or 12am,she will sneak out to club, it took me time to notice this cos I always sleep early. When I noticed this and tried to stop her, she will get angry and just leave the house at night, one day, I almost got shot by our vigilante and that day, I vowed to drive her away. She apologized prosefuly and promised to change.. Well, it seems she changed..
Fast forward to 6yrs later, we got married and today, eight years later, we are blessed with two beautiful kids, a 4yrs boy and 2yrs girl.. They are beautiful and adoring..

Now something happened to me last year.. I lost everything I owned.. I was doing well for myself, I have workers, owned a car and was building myself a nice house. Everything went down the drain.. Everything.. I went to pray about what was happening to me and I was told to fast for some days that some secrets will be revealed to me.. Well I did and the revelation started pouring in..

While we still dating, not married then, my wife was doing runs and I didn't even know, this is how I got to know..
One of the yahoo guys he dated back then, he slept with her and gave her money. But she was not satisfied with the money he gave her so while that guy went into the bathroom, my wife took the money he intend to buy fuel with and ran away. According to the guy, when he tried to trace her on foot, Sars nabbed him. He spent close to 2million before he could get off their hook so since then, he vowed to kill her anytime he sees her.. Fortunately for him, he saw her on Facebook and then use a wealthy Nigeria young rich Nigerian picture to message her.. And they started talking.. In a week, they've started sending nudes to each other. And she was already planning how to leave me and the kids and flee with her new lover.. This time around, we are not together cos when things got unbearable, she left with the kids to her parents place.. She said she can't go to mine..
Don't know how but this guy knows me, I was very popular in the state I was cos of the work I do.. So when he went through my wife's Facebook, he saw our wedding pics and he was disappointed.. Believe me, I was very hardworking and for 7years, she didn't work, I was sponsoring her expensive lifestyle and I didn't even feel it a bit.. There was a time I told her to learn event management since I am a photographer, we can always work together, she said she is to fragile to work or learn anything.. But last year, she decided to learn fashion designing.. So this guy sent me all their 2months plus chat.. Where she badmouthed me just to gain Favour.. It was so damning.. She badmouthed my mom,.
So when the guy made his intention known to her and that he has sent me all their chats.
While they were chatting, she already told the mom that she has found a very rich guy..the guy even told her to break up with me and she did, someone she hasn't met before.. So when she broke up with me, I called her mom and told her, her mom was like, I should go and look for something good doing and forget about love for now.. Now when the whole issue came out, the mom came to where I was with some people and started begging that it was the devils handiwork..

Are you sure you own those kids biologically.
Next time, run away from slay queens. They have been emptied by yahoo boys.

7BigSquids:






It's the modern day wife and not just about the male. Women now hate wifey and feminine roles. The modern woman has been taught to believe wifey roles is weak and her actions more than half of the time is to rebel and to fight normal. Many times its not just about being firm. Many of these ladies have developed a fixed way of interpreting life and by extension they behave the opposite of what's expected to present themselves as strong.


Many more marriages will end this way in this generation. And it's not just about males being flexible or not being firm

The firm I mean is, he been firm with what he wants and how to go about it, the world is change so are females, but as humans we know what will please us and that's what we should be after........before marriage their signs atleast little, we choose to ignore.....there are still ladies who think differently from what you have described

You are not your father. Carrying your fathers crime till now, affects you one way or another. Forgive your dad truly(and let his past remain in the past). Grind hard, hustle to give your children the best life you have(they are all you have). Do not fall for cheap blackmail (sex would always be her weapon, and she has commercialised it). You won't die if you choose to live for your kids while interceeding for grace on your estranged wife. The effects of your past are pulling you in, break free(truly forgive) and see your path open.

Realhommie:
Hahahahaha..

Could be under a spell maybe, never underestimate the power of puna..

But sincerely sha, the bros no try. His is a classic case of "Architect of your own downfall".. Make God show am mercy.

I pray God doesn't get tired of showing him mercy cos he has been helping him out but d guy just wont see it.

petitejolie:
I pray God doesn't get tired of showing him mercy cos he has been helping him out but d guy just wont see it.

True.

Ikennamurphy:

Where una de see these kind of women marry sef, if I no see virgin gal, I no de marry, most of these issues are usually from women's past life

It has nothing to do with virgin or no virgin
Bad market plenty out there

It's for you as a man not to pick one
When a woman lacks character
Virgin or not
You will regret

toye440:
Its not in my position to make the call, but u dont need an angel to translate it either cos the hand writing is clear on the wall stirring at u saying read me aloud.
Bro pls if u dont want ur daughter to continue or inherit her mothers cycle of debauchery, pls do the needful by filing for child custody with ur evidence. Pls dont show us here, show it to the magistrate.
I know its a tough call to make but remember " things fall apart to make way for better things ". Ur next mission is how to save ur children from their mothers bad influence, as nothing good can ever come from that 419 family.
This story should serve as a deterrent to every single brother out there, when its time to settle, let beauty be the last u consider. Like i have always said, beauty is the 1st thing nature gives to every woman, and it would be the 1st it takes away when it returns, then u would be left with character. Brothers chase after character for beauty is just a shadow.
Remember even ur shadow liv's u in ur darkest moment.

Exactly
Character is key

Roseey0:
Asides praying for yourself.
Have you prayed for her ?
All she needs is a one on one with God.

even till this morning, I still prayed for her

Perfectsouth:
swear for me join the emotional stress I dey go through?
You get conscience like this?

Sorry to say, you emotional stress na your choice ooo. You've seen all the signs n revelations but yet you chose to stick on. It's obvious that you probably want an early exit from this sweet earth. You need be alive to be able to take care of those beloved kids of yours...take note of that.
Na y e they hungry me to swear for you, cuz deep down you know what to do but I can't tell what's holding you back. If you can't leave her physically, at least you can do that psychological n emotionally...
Finally, learn to forgive yourself and your dad. He made his own mistakes, holding on to what he did to you and your family won't do any good to you...pick up what's left of your life and be that greatness you're destined to be.

your story is really a sad one

Perfectsouth:
even till this morning, I still prayed for her

Bring her to personal knowledge of God. Don't give up on her. We often try to do it ourselves thats why we fail. Believe in the revolutional power of God and go deeper in him. Desperate situations requires desperate measures. It's demons that posses people to do these things. Casting it it out and restoring her requires a deeper walk with God.

Except your didn't take your marriage vows. Your souls are still tied together. You will always go back to her

Dreyton36:
Damn this got me deep

Bro on Friday this coming week
Send me a mail and identify yourself , I'll bless you with 100K it's a promise

INSHA ALLAHU

but on one condition, you must let go of that woman , stay safe

good afternoon sir

I have always being looking forward to getting married,but recently I am genuinely scared. I just pray for Gods mercies.

Roseey0:

Bring her to personal knowledge of God. Don't give up on her. We often try to do it ourselves thats why we fail. Believe in the revolutional power of God and go deeper in him. Desperate situations requires desperate measures. It's demons that posses people to do these things. Casting it it out and restoring her requires a deeper walk with God.

Except your didn't take your marriage vows. Your souls are still tied together. You will always go back to her

What’s this one saying??

Athemisia:
It's just a made up story don't take it too serious

I thought so

Perfectsouth

I am late corner yo this your story but I will tell you that; you nor wise. Some of the things you over look can kill you or save you.

All the times I rise and fall, a woman is involve

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Perfectsouth:
As I type this, it's with tears in my eyes.. I am pained, they've done everything bad to me.. Sincerely, I don't deserve this ill treatment have gotten from this family...
It is gonna be a very long read but I know you will learn a thing or two from this..
I might not be able to touch everything but if you feel there is something I need to share and I didn't, point it out and I will shed more light on it....

This may seems a bit lengthy but you should learn one or two lessons from it..
I come from a not broken not memded marriage same as my wife but hers was worse than mine..
My father used to be a rich man. When car dealing was very lucrative, he was a top notch car dealer in akure.. So along the line, he started fornicating. His was on another level, he always take them abroad to sleep with, shop for them and do every every.. We are five in my family, I being the first born..
I had to train myself through university with photography with the help of my mum too. I remember when I was looking for project money, one of my father's wife, the one that went to give birth in Dubai just came back and they were doing naming ceremony.. I could remember I was in the rain with my mum and they were pointing at us, though we couldn't hear what they were saying.. How did I raise my project money? Sponsoring 5 kids wasn't an easy task since 3 of us was in the university. So I went with my to her work place, she was a nurse so we collected all the aprons used during immunization and washed them.. Then I also hustled to complete the money...
It was a very rough and tough life but all along, we didn't even seem like someone who has a father..

Let me jump to the reason for this thread..
I vowed never to allow whatever happened in my family happen to me in the future..
I met my wife when I was in 200 level.. I was 23 and she was 21..

Cc royalroy

Suke...