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I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by ConfessionsNgr: 4:03pm On Jul 15, 2015
I’m a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am in the choir and we are both born again. Am telling you all this for you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free, as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life.

Two months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching pornography! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things there but it has been pass-worded.

I didn’t confront when he returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has porn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction.

He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant.

Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.


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http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by falconey(m): 4:05pm On Jul 15, 2015

Hmmm since you are both strong in the spirit as you pointed out, why not reason with him in the spiritual way. With few quotes from the bible it should subdue his enthusiasm about mouthaction.

Advice to you : perhaps you should try something new to spice up your mating with him. New styles and all.

Right or wrong if I were a woman, I would do it.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Drinkwater(m): 4:08pm On Jul 15, 2015
What a tall tale

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jul 15, 2015
Like seriously!!!! FVCKING QUIT THE 'HOLY' ACT!! angry

He is nt asking u to do something bad. u guys are married. u should learn to please ur husband and stop pretending.
If u keep this 'I am too holy to do that' act, sex will become boring for u guys and he will start looking outsyd.

Buh if ur not comfortable with giving ur husband mouth action, no problem.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jul 15, 2015
hilarious tale! chaiii, womennn!!!

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Utchgirl(f): 4:13pm On Jul 15, 2015
Before u blame me, i'm a christian.

U r angry dt ur husband watched/ is watching porn.
U hv a sex free courtship, right ?
And 4 ur mind,he is nt masturbating ? No sex, bt he is getting d pleasure 4rm som wia else.
U beta wake up ooo
U guys r taking dis christianity 2 far.
U wont use d same mouth u use in speaking in tongue 2 giv him mouth action ?
U cant be more catholic dan d pope. If care is nt taken, ur pastor might evn be getting dt mouth action 4rm his wife. Evn d bible said dt u must be submissive 2 ur husband.And u dnt hv any right 2 deprive ur husband 4rm his conjugal rite. U guys r now married so he hv d right 2 demand it 4rm u right, left and center.

U saw porn movies and u r angry.wonda wht u wil do if he stat having extra marital r/ship.Keep ur man 2 save ur marriage 4rm some ladies dt r ready 2 giv him mouth action .

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by eph12(m): 4:13pm On Jul 15, 2015
When is this movie coming out? Looks like it's going to be interesting.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jul 15, 2015
lol @ "the same mouth I pray with".

And here I thought the buttoned up church ladies were some closet freaks.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Update(m): 4:15pm On Jul 15, 2015
two things are involved....if cant beat them, let them be.
xo since yhu can spice up yo sex life by doing woh he says then divorce!!!!!!
Jus imaging how boring this marriage will be(if this trash z real abi na directed by emeka ami......)


next plzzzzz

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by ogogoromasta: 4:17pm On Jul 15, 2015
dey dere
if yuh no svck am
betta chick dey outside
wey go svck am
wella
juss lyk *************
all deez buriful "ladies" no get
brain buh are professional dikk succkazz grin

now get on yuh knees woman! angry

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by daimsy(f): 4:17pm On Jul 15, 2015
madam, you better give in to your husband because nobody forced you to say I do when you were asked by the pastor or whoever joined both of you. emphatically and scripturally, you as a wife are expected to ' SUBMIT' to your spouse and that include sex.
when you begin to deprive him or defraud him of what is rightly his, then I think that you have some bad signs coming. I hope you don't expect him to go out there. ..

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by FORUMgod: 4:17pm On Jul 15, 2015
lol
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Chibuhealth(f): 4:19pm On Jul 15, 2015
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur husband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by jnrbayano(m): 4:20pm On Jul 15, 2015
Born again in pornography...

New discovery.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jul 15, 2015
Lol.




U are alone madam.



Shebi u are not babies in the spirit. Ask the spirit to settle this one for u. Its not our business.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by funnyme(f): 4:25pm On Jul 15, 2015
Collossians 3:18. Do the needful.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Icocop101(m): 4:26pm On Jul 15, 2015
"When a man be in marriage,old things are passed away behold all things have become new"......so forget about whatever you saw in that envelope wHatsoever,he must have had all that in his possession to console himself and to acquire some experience instead of opting for anything under the skirt!

And concerning the other matter;obey your husband because he is head over you,and satisfy his desires to avoid him opting for help elsewhere.......instead,first make him understand your reasons for not allowing such (like telling him it's negative health Implications of indulging in such).

BE WARNED!!! Your marriage is just too young to join the long list of marital break-ups.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by XuteSleeks(m): 4:27pm On Jul 15, 2015
Drinkwater:
What a tall tale

I think she is telling the truth. Here's another truth...the only way he's gon be saved from it is by deliverance. There is a spirit behind porn.
Secondly, whether you give in to his mouth action plea or not he will still cheat on you not cos he doesn't love you; in fact he might be deeply in love with you but like I said it is a spirit and the actual sin is not just in watching it but what it drives one to do.
Summary: Intensify your prayers that he will one day seek deliverance and be a loving wife despite all. It might encourage his conscience to judge him.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by funnyme(f): 4:27pm On Jul 15, 2015
Chibuhealth:
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur hysband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?
Babe I love your writeup jare. They aren't babies in the Lord,both are serious born again but the hubby is a pron star,abi addict. Whichever one.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jul 15, 2015
Lolz
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Fancylife(m): 4:31pm On Jul 15, 2015
at op,since u guys are married there is nothing wrong with that,go on and do it.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by dayojags10(m): 4:36pm On Jul 15, 2015
woman!!!,how many times i call yu?,yu ar abt to lose ur man if yu fail to give him that BJ. another chik go surely help am, i pray ur husband is the rich type. yu are finished!!!

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by ted1741: 4:48pm On Jul 15, 2015
Like seriously, Mother Theresa, why did you marry? Have you ever heard of Convent where women of virture are kept, you should go there with immediate effect. Mtcheew, holier than thou. Spear us the sanctimony; pornography, how did you know what pornography is sister Theresa. So, this is a big issue for you in marriage that heavens have to fall. So you were a virgin before marriage abi? I suggest you Bleep your husband through some tinted class, no touching, kissing, sucking, just stright dick/pussy contact and add condoms to it as well, head to the shower thereafter, and please don't look at him because it is sinful, kneel down in the shower and say, "father forgive me for I have bleeped". Mumu. That is why I can't stand some "born agains", stupendously ignoramous, sheepishly religious and very temperamental, quick to anger and judge, unforgiving and truly unrepentent, hypocrits to the core. Don't come on Nairaland with this foolishness again otherwise I will send amadioha to descend on you, ewu born again. We are talking of you husband, not boyfriend for crying out aloud. Sucking his dick will send you to hell abi?

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by misspicy(f): 4:53pm On Jul 15, 2015
Born wuruwuru pple

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by aenero(m): 5:02pm On Jul 15, 2015
You women of this days sef... Always making a mountain out of a mole-hole,y don't u give him what he wants to avoid stories that touch the heart

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by fabbyluv: 5:29pm On Jul 15, 2015
Chibuhealth:
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur hysband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?
hahahahahahahaha her speaking in tongue neva baff jare!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by orogodoganyin(m): 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2015
the mouth use to speak in tongue. hahahahahaha... hillarious stuff

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by BUSHHUNTER: 6:05pm On Jul 15, 2015
Don't do it sister let the sharp girls out there do your dirty work for you

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jul 15, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:
I’m a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am in the choir and we are both born again. Am telling you all this for you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free, as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life. Two months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching pornography! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things there but it has been pass-worded. I didn’t confront when he returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has porn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction. He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant. Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.
Posted anonymously on www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this
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Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving mouthaction, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here angry angry

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or vaginus
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers angry angry


Note
Those fetishes I posted above might be a big deal to some of you, but is not a big deal to some other women (e.g, porn actresses)

Same thing here, mouthaction doesn't sound a big deal to some of you, but is a big deal to some other women

We all have some principles or doctrines we aren't willing to compromise,
So why attack the woman?

Shame on all of you....

Just because mouthaction have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in mouthaction

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get mouthaction since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give mouthaction)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by drnoel: 6:26pm On Jul 15, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:
I’m a 27-year-old lady and my husband is 31 years. We got married four months ago, we attend the same church, we even met in the church and we are both active. He is in the ushering department while am in the choir and we are both born again. Am telling you all this for you to know we are not babies in the spirit. Our courtship was sex free, as you know now, no touching, kissing nor romancing. We seldom visit each other at home due to our church strict restriction on that. And when I do I never went beyond his sitting room maybe if I had done otherwise, I would have known about this before now. Our wedding ceremony was great and we settled down to marital life. Two months after, my husband has a cause to travel out of town, it was on a Saturday and I decided to clean the room as I was re-arranging the clothes in the wardrobe, a parcel fell on my leg, at first I ignored it but on a second thought I picked it up to check what was inside, I received the greatest shock of my life, my husband has been watching pornography! The parcel actually contained different porn movies. I felt sad and dejected. I tried to check his laptop if he has such things there but it has been pass-worded. I didn’t confront when he returned and I pretended as if nothing happened. That night I took his phone when he was fast asleep and searched through it, behold he has porn movies on his phone too! But I still kept my cool. I had to let the cat out of the bag when one month later he asked if I like MouthAction and he want us to it give a trial. He said watched porn movies so that he will be able to satisfy me in bed. To say that I was shocked is an understatement. I told him I can’t indulge in MouthAction. He has been pestering me for this. How can I engage the same mouth I use to pray, to speak in tongues in MouthAction? Since then he has been behaving funny. He keeps to himself; he is not even interested in making love with me and I’m yet to get pregnant. Is this right? Doesn't feel right to me.


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Madam keep doing strong in the spirit till anoda woman that is strong in the bed collects ur husband by offering him new things he should rightly get from his wife. Strong in the spirit is not what will save ur marriage if ur husband is curious about trying new things. A word is enough 4 the wise.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by naijaboiy: 6:30pm On Jul 15, 2015
Mtcheeeewwww!!!!! undecidedundecidedundecided

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