What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? - Nairaland General (2)

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by bigboyk(m): 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2020

Not making excellence the keyword in everything you do.

Not learning to identify what your needs are.

Not learning to set short, medium and long term goals.

Not identifying some skills and learning them well.

Not socialising well and understanding the opposite sex.

Not learning how to manage your finances.

Not managing your time well.

Not learning how to keep your emotions in check.

Not learning about keeping personal hygiene and having a good sense of fashion.

Not having confidence in yourself.

Not mastering self study.

Not learning how to enjoy your company.

Not avoiding some dangerous lifestyles.

Not taking good care of your health.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Jagaban880: 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2020

To be financially self sufficient.....

Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by davodyguy: 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2020

IMO01:
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What?

Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Emmzy201(m): 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2020

lemme sit and learn too approaching 20 and I need advices like this

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Benprass(m): 8:50pm On Dec 06, 2020

Good question,

The truth is that you dot have to focus on being 30 or doing what you want to do, just leave a happy � life anytime you wake up, why because the next day or seconds is not guarantee, do what makes you happy especially what put smile on people face.

The life is unpredictable and is very fragile.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Vulcan24(m): 8:51pm On Dec 06, 2020

Have at least a job that has pension, furnish your apartment fit for couple, buy gym tools and take on a sport, travel a lot and stay away from dating strange and stray women and also avoid going to too many religious houses, pick one.

Trust me by 30 u will smell of maturity and manliness

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by sud12(m): 8:51pm On Dec 06, 2020

Get to know God more... because at 30, you need to rely on an external force to pilot your life because so many demands will arise

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Openyamind111(m): 8:51pm On Dec 06, 2020

Learn anything that’s available for you to learn while you can because those things you learn will become possibilities for you later..

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Nobody: 8:55pm On Dec 06, 2020*

Most people here will talk of something sexual or some other form of immediate gratification because that’s how fvcked up our mentality is in this part of the world. But I can tell you, as a man in my mid-thirties, that the one thing you will regret not doing in your twenties, when you have all the energy and freedom in the world, is creating a constant and sustainable income stream that can last you into your 30’s, 40’s and 50’s with very little followup effort.

Research has proven that you have the most energy and brain power in your teens and 20’s. Your body and mind start slowing down once you reach thirty. If you can spend your 20’s developing a steady and reliable income stream, whatever form that takes is up to you, by the time you’re in your 30’s and 40’s you are still a relatively young man and can then spend all your time partying and fvcking all the women in their 20’s (if that’s your thing) while investing relatively little time to keep your business running. It’s called “delayed gratification”.

What you don’t want is to spend all your teenage and 20’s years chasing these frivolities then hustling like a mad man in your 30’s and 40’s probably with a wife, kids, and elderly parents to take care of at the same time. A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by thatsleepboy1: 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020

Do not indulge in masturbation before 30 cos I'm talking from a real life experience and it's really affecting me bad. pls don't soapy ooo

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:57pm On Dec 06, 2020

zenbancrofti:
Am 24y/o and of recent have been soberly reflecting on my life because seriously there's been lot of letdown and all. I feel I can do more so I need heartfelt advice from the experienced folks here. Thanks

Simply get those thoughts out of your head. Don't pressure yourself unnecessarily. Things will fall in place at d right time.

But importantly at 30, you ought to have sense, be responsible, confident.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Seyzcham91(m): 8:59pm On Dec 06, 2020

Nice Talk!

nairaman66:
Stay in your path! If you make it, good! If you don’t, you will still be okay! There is no manual to life..

You will have regrets, and you will have happy times. Enjoy both!

Stay safe.

Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by SeriouslySense(m): 9:03pm On Dec 06, 2020

Fellow Citizen, Patriotic to the village and mother land, here are things you will regret not doing before the age of 30.

1) Not discovering your purpose in Life.
2) Not Swimming in water
3) Not climbing a mountain, and exploring the earth.
4) Not having good and loyal friends, after 30, you will not have the chance to make much friends as much, but still possible.
5) Not producing something with your hands, discover what your hands can create.
6) Not learning a good programming language, we are nerdy.
7) Not Yet independent
cool

Not been able to make delicious food recipes.
9) Not riding a Bike, Bicycle, car.
10) Not playing board games.
11) Not running more than 4 kilometers
12) Not liberating your mind.

13) Not discovering your potentials.
14) Not baking
15) Not involved in a business process
16) Not able to develop your goals and been dynamic

Good luck

cheesy

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by obowunmi(m): 9:04pm On Dec 06, 2020

Do everything you can afford. Years from now, it wouldn't matter anyway.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by ublight: 9:06pm On Dec 06, 2020

seanwilliam:
Not having sure source of income , not making use of updates available

i dey find updates o. Hwfa na

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by gungab(m): 9:06pm On Dec 06, 2020

Learn driving before then

Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by emerged01(m): 9:06pm On Dec 06, 2020*

zenbancrofti:
Hmm thanks . So you mean age is not an important factor in the grand scheme of things.

Bro,don’t be deceived age is very important in the scheme of things. Time waits for nobody.
If psalm 90 vs 12 can say,Teach us how to number our days.... And if bible can say there is time for everything. Time to sow and time to reap,you should know that there are things one must do at a certain time.
Anything your heart is striving for at a time go for it. Don’t say age is on my side,it is not time.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by matm: 9:07pm On Dec 06, 2020

No regret in life provided you are alive and healthy.Each day u wake up alive,be happy and enjoy for u don't know tomorrow.In comparing urself with mates,remember to compare urself with ur mates that have died.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 06, 2020

zenbancrofti:
Am 24y/o and of recent have been soberly reflecting on my life because seriously there's been lot of letdown and all. I feel I can do more so I need heartfelt advice from the experienced folks here. Thanks

I don't know the essence of this your TOPIC, but please don't ever marry a LIABILITY no matter how beautiful she is.
You will regret it..
That's one thing people do and start regretting immediately in marriage.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by franzis(m): 9:10pm On Dec 06, 2020

Nothing to regret, keep living, working hard/smart..be happy

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Slyzen(m): 9:13pm On Dec 06, 2020

You will regret nothing if you set rules for your life and live by them. Only a fool lives his life by the standards of others. QED.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Casper21: 9:13pm On Dec 06, 2020

Don't let the society fool you with their norms and age preference. A man can be, do, achieve anything at any age. There are no regrets to living, there are only mistakes

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by NigeriaB(m): 9:14pm On Dec 06, 2020

If you haven't dedicated your life to God!

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by femi4: 9:14pm On Dec 06, 2020

zenbancrofti:
Am 24y/o and of recent have been soberly reflecting on my life because seriously there's been lot of letdown and all. I feel I can do more so I need heartfelt advice from the experienced folks here. Thanks

None, He makes things beautiful in it's own time. Don't put yourself under any pressure. You ll be surprised that even your achievement now at 24 is a target for some people at 30. Yet it doesn't mean you are better off

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Kinkykinky: 9:15pm On Dec 06, 2020

slyfoxxjoe:
Most people here will talk of something sexual or some other form of immediate gratification because that’s how fvcked up our mentality is in this part of the world. But I can tell you, as a man in my mid-thirties, that the one thing you will regret not doing in your twenties, when you have all the energy and freedom in the world, is creating a constant and sustainable income stream that can last you into your 30’s, 40’s and 50’s with very little followup effort.

Research has proven that you have the most energy and brain power in your teens and 20’s. Your body and mind start slowing down once you reach thirty. If you can spend your 20’s developing a steady and reliable income stream, whatever form that takes is up to you, by the time you’re in your 30’s and 40’s you are still a relatively young man and can then spend all your time partying and fvcking all the women in their 20’s if that’s your thing while investing relatively little time to keep your business running. It’s called “delayed gratification”.

What you don’t want is to spend all your teenage and 20’s years chasing these frivolities then hustling like a mad man in your 30’s and 40’s with a wife, kids, and elderly patents to take care of. A word is enough for the wise.

God bless you.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Kinkykinky: 9:17pm On Dec 06, 2020

Slyzen:
You will regret nothing if you set rules for your life and live by them. Only a fool lives his life by the standards of others. QED.

True!!

Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Thoughtfeed: 9:17pm On Dec 06, 2020

zenbancrofti:
Am 24y/o and of recent have been soberly reflecting on my life because seriously there's been lot of letdown and all. I feel I can do more so I need heartfelt advice from the experienced folks here. Thanks

Do you have a car

Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by Bullman(m): 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2020

zenbancrofti:
Am 24y/o and of recent have been soberly reflecting on my life because seriously there's been lot of letdown and all. I feel I can do more so I need heartfelt advice from the experienced folks here. Thanks

Before u clock 30 learn to accept the fact that nobody owes you nothing.
Dont feel ashamed of any hustle u do cos nobody will give u shingbayin of yo broke.
And also dont force love or friendship on nobody..

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by officialfestus(m): 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2020

Nothing bro, take Kentucky as an example.

Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by themaestro08(m): 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2020

slyfoxxjoe:
Most people here will talk of something sexual or some other form of immediate gratification because that’s how fvcked up our mentality is in this part of the world. But I can tell you, as a man in my mid-thirties, that the one thing you will regret not doing in your twenties, when you have all the energy and freedom in the world, is creating a constant and sustainable income stream that can last you into your 30’s, 40’s and 50’s with very little followup effort.

Research has proven that you have the most energy and brain power in your teens and 20’s. Your body and mind start slowing down once you reach thirty. If you can spend your 20’s developing a steady and reliable income stream, whatever form that takes is up to you, by the time you’re in your 30’s and 40’s you are still a relatively young man and can then spend all your time partying and fvcking all the women in their 20’s if that’s your thing while investing relatively little time to keep your business running. It’s called “delayed gratification”.

What you don’t want is to spend all your teenage and 20’s years chasing these frivolities then hustling like a mad man in your 30’s and 40’s with a wife, kids, and elderly patents to take care of. A word is enough for the wise.

You spoke well..... But ya know, it isn't as easy as you made it seem. Sometimes the whole thing comes down to ones destiny and maybe luck - and not necessarily about working hard in ones twenties.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by achimendy(m): 9:19pm On Dec 06, 2020

The best advice I can give you bro is time wait for no one, so sharply discover ur purpose/talent and work on it until u become exceptional good. The world will not call someone that has a fluctuating result, so standardize ur result. And lastly don't forget to seek God's grace as u proceed, read motivational books too, very important. Do this and thank me later.

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Re: What Are The Things I Would Regret If I Don't Do Before Thirty Years Of Age? by davididenyi(m): 9:21pm On Dec 06, 2020

Halopy:
At 24, you have all the grace to lay your hands on everything possible, try as many skills you can learn, learn a trade as well as proceed on your acaademics if that's what you want. You have the opportunity and strength to rise if you fall. But be sure that you have explored as many options as possible and you have concluded on what you want to do for your life or have set a career path you so want for your self before or at the latest early thirties. If by 30, you don't know where you're going, then you will need special grace not to fall for everything.

My brother I want to be like you

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