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kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

Are you a lady or a guy? Why will your younger brother hate you so much? Is he sponsoring your education,? your data is incomplete need for info for better advice.

IGNORE HIM, GOD IS ON THE THRONE

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

Both of you should do DNA test maybe he isn't ur biological bro.

Bros no vex oo.. first. The yahoo he is into has he been cashing out a lot, does he gives ur parent money? Does ur parent support his yahoo? What kind of friends does he keep? Is he a bit supportive at home? And you have you been staying home a lot due to the strike? From morning till night does he sees you? If yes then bro it will be very hard because if you aren’t involve in providing little at home, no one will respect you if you don’t have money. But if truely your home is a very strict one, don’t beat him at all. Seize his phone and laptop that he uses for the yahoo he is only doing those because of the 25$ to 100$ gift card client Gives him.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

@op how old is this brother of your's

xProfx:
Pay less attention to him... The worst thing you can do is trying to force someone to respect you. I have realised age is a fake instrument that only worked in the past so don't let your age difference make you think he will respect you so much.

The best way you can get him to respect you is to stop trying, just be a more simple person and treat him like an adult, like your mate. Learn to forgive him in advance cos he will still offend you and you will still offend him...

Just be nice to him for no reason than the blood you share... Buy him little things like drinks and snacks when you go to the supermarket and just give him without asking. Advise him less, let him realize his own mistakes...

bro..take this advise. Just ignore him. Be patient until you leave the house, or go squat with a good friend.

water don pass garri already,if e come to fight him brother fit beat am.

Your little brother got approval from ur parents to disrespect you.. based on the money he is seeing at his age.. plz go rent ur own house fast and let him stay alone and learn the hard way

kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.

I stopped reading when I got to the part you said he is 17.

17 years old behave just like that, they believe they know all..

Free him na, early adulthood dey shack am.

He will soon understand that being an adult is a scam.

Then Body he calm down.

Until then just ignore

TOYNEX:
Beat am.

So that he will go and call his fellow CULTISTS to come and deal with the OP abi or do you think the OP hasn't thought about that already?

Guy don go balm for egede watch out ooo

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Take him to a beer parlour and talk like Adults that you people are. Stop taking him as a teen.

See him as someone that is old enough to do what's best for his personal life.


The earlier you understand this ^, the better it would be for you both.



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kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.

What!!!!
You are 26 and hes 17!!
Wait o,do you have any physical structure less than him? I mean,is he taller or bulky than you are?
Guy beat the hell out of him seriously. Don't mind those peeps saying buy this n that for him,for what nah,are you born to be pampering your junior?
See what should be more of a concern to you and everyone is your education and him being into internet scam cos one day,he might end up caught and disgracing you your family.

Stop doing petty things,keep studying to be a better person,keep a group of bright acada guys and if possible,get something doing for the time being.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

resoect is earned not forced men. i would tell you to leave the guy alone work on yourself and your position in your family. earn the spot. respect would come.

Kill am..He dies,You go to prison..Finish

The truth is ,he disrespects you because he feel he is senior to you,probably because the yahoo he does is paying him. In Nigeria of today,na who get money be senior. So,bro find money and see if the boy won't be kneeling to greet you..

Another failed middle class family loading

Beat the crap of of him....make him fear u but most of all show him love afterwards

Honestly, whenever he walks in the room, start reading an article out loud about the arrest of yahoo boys.

Then go eat some akara and have a laugh at his dumb a--.

Seriously though, that kid is lost right now. But he may leave that life behind, so have faith and love your brother.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

Anything that cannot make you happy should have no hand in your unhappy state.

Forget your brother, he's simply ignorant of this unprecedented time in your life. Ghost the hell out of him and concentrate on you.

Him go learn the hard way.

kaynacy:
Beat the crap of of him....

lol

Welcome to the Club.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

r u guys orphans

Thats because he is taller and stronger than you.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

Why would he gather children from the Neighbourhood, that is a bit extreme?
What did you do? Say the full Story, his side your side
What is the age difference?
Which part of the Country are you based?

Mark it down, he will start using 'sir' for you as soon as you starts getting change in your pocket.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.

Beat the hell out of him and tie him down with rope. People keep saying you earn respect, that is a white man's lie. You must respect those who are older than you even when the elderly misbehaves just as you love without being loved back. This your brother deserve serious discipline cos he's too young to be disrespecting you.

Mods please make this a new rule,
we hate it when someone who should have been banned since will still be teaching our children on how to use the F words,

Please share this everywhere so this can go round,
that moniker called slawormiir needs to be banned,
how can you keep using the F WORD on a public forum?
The F word is niggar,
for those that are also copying him and be shouting damn niggar
up and down should please take note and desist from this,
damn niggar is an insult to the black mans race but we just dont
know of it.
Thats what the whites uses to insult blacks there in the U.S
WHY ARE WE THIS IGNORANT AND REFUSED TO KNOW THE
TRUTH!
He keeps advertising to us he smokes and drinks and do a lot of
bombings in his laptop,
please is this the life we should be celebrating in this country,
we need good morals of youths that can show signs of leadership
and strenghts and not all this nonsense damn niggar we keep
seeing up and down our front pages,
please mods ban this slawormiir of a guy too,
he is adding nuisance to our beloved forum nairaland and also
teaching some peacefull youths on how to smoke and live the
nonsense niggar life,
i pray we all have sense to reject this damn niggar guy and
embrace the truth.
Damn niggar can never help us,
i repeat this damn niggar can never help us,
i drop my case,
(mods please take note,
for we can only celebrate heroes that adds meaninful things to our
lives and our environment and not this useless damn nigga we all
see on our front pages)
inshort make this a rule if any account is found wanting of ever
mentioning that F word called damn nigga again should be given
the heavy harmmer of ban straight away,
i dont want a situation whereby little children can now use this
damn niggar as their daily mantra,
we need to stop all this right now.
thanks.

My immediate elder bro is 9yrs older than I am and never have I disrespected him even til now that I am an adult. The fear of his back-hand slap alone don reach to fear me.

If you cannot deal with your little brother at home, there is nothing we can do about it here.

Call him as an elder, tell him you did not hate him,but the love you have for him.
If he is comfortable with what he is doing he should continue. Remember, he is an adult and should be treated as such.