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Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 1:01am On Dec 08, 2020
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 1:06am On Dec 08, 2020
Pay less attention to him... The worst thing you can do is trying to force someone to respect you. I have realised age is a fake instrument that only worked in the past so don't let your age difference make you think he will respect you so much.

The best way you can get him to respect you is to stop trying, just be a more simple person and treat him like an adult, like your mate. Learn to forgive him in advance cos he will still offend you and you will still offend him...

Just be nice to him for no reason than the blood you share... Buy him little things like drinks and snacks when you go to the supermarket and just give him without asking. Advise him less, let him realize his own mistakes...

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nazgul: 1:45am On Dec 08, 2020
Beat hell out of him. How can your younger brother openly disrespect you? As long as you keep quiet he'll continue deal with him by teaching him a lesson he'll never forget in his life.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by DenreleDave(m): 4:30am On Dec 08, 2020
Naaa bi were

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by helinues: 6:13am On Dec 08, 2020
In an average family in Nigeria, if you don't have money, your opinion might not be needed...

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by legacystore: 6:23am On Dec 08, 2020
First how old is your younger brother?

How many years u take senior him?

If he insults you publicly to ur face pls don't ignore, always caution him and remind you are his elder n demands some respects from him.

Overall kw that u can't force respect u earn respect. Are u being a true elder brother to him, beyond giving him advice how many times have u given him a gift even if na boxers n singlet?

U need to act like an assist father to him to earn the respect u seek n show him love.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 6:32am On Dec 08, 2020
legacystore:
First how old is your younger brother?

How many years u take senior him?

If he insults you publicly to ur face pls don't ignore, always caution him and remind you are his elder n demands some respects from him.

Overall kw that u can't force respect u earn respect. Are u being a true elder brother to him, beyond giving him advice how many times have I given him a gift even if na boxers n singlet?

U need to act like an assist father to him to earn the respect u seek n show him love.

He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Karleb(m): 6:42am On Dec 08, 2020
If you can beat him, make sure you deal with him properly the next time he disrespects you.
If you can't, use your mouth. Abuse the hell out of him and let him know through your mouth that you are his elder and he must show you your respect.

Whenever those small kids he has influenced mock you, stand your ground. If you can beat them, do. If you can't, tell them they lack respect because you are not their mate and report them to their parents and guardians.

This will make them fear you and start minding their businesses.

Stop talking to him and those little kids unless it's necessary. Start behaving like a big brother.
The best way to act so is to mind your own business.

I'm very sure your brother respects people not up to your age outside so why would he disrespect you so much?

If he won't stop, tell him to stop talking to you and report him to your parents.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Karleb(m): 6:44am On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:

He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs. Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me. I do give him money sometimes.
grin
Stop giving him money, he doesn't deserves it.
I'm sure you are older than some of him uncles in school.
Beat that boy very well.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 7:18am On Dec 08, 2020
Lol.
Ignore him jor. See the age gap sef.

Show him that at his age there are still a lot of things he hasn't experienced that you have.

Make mockery of his own mockery by smiling at him and his co mockers and simply walking away as if you have better things to do.

Stop shouting and beating him that only shows how much the whole thing is getting to you.

Make it look like he's being childish and it doesn't get to you at all.

Ina short while it will all stop you ll see

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by GboyegaD(m): 7:22am On Dec 08, 2020
Bother less about his acts and he will realize you are no longer entertaining his folly. Be you and focus on improving your life.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kingsley38162: 7:34am On Dec 08, 2020
Best hell out of him. How can your younger brother openly disrespect you? As long as you keep quiet he'll continue deal with him by teaching him a lesson he'll never forget in his life.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by grim33(m): 7:53am On Dec 08, 2020
If he is here in Nairaland talking about this it’s already too late...
He never established dominance over his brother in the early years of the boys life that why he is here having problem with a 17 year old kid.
If he starts to “beat him” he’ll get nothing but hatred from a disrespectful brother but may also love him very much.

Try distance....
big space......
for a long time while you build up your self confidence...
is always seems to work...
Karleb:
If you can beat him, make sure you deal with him properly the next time he disrespects you.
If you can't, use your mouth. Abuse the hell out of him and let him know through your mouth that you are his elder and he must show you your respect.

Whenever those small kids he has influenced mock you, stand your ground. If you can beat them, do. If you can't, tell them they lack respect because you are not their mate and report them to their parents and guardians.

This will make them fear you and start minding their businesses.

Stop talking to him and those little kids unless it's necessary. Start behaving like a big brother.
The best way to act so is to mind your own business.

I'm very sure your brother respects people not up to your age outside so why would he disrespect you so much?

If he won't stop, tell him to stop talking to you and report him to your parents.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by stacyadams: 10:55am On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?


Lock d house one day put key inside ur pocket,,no weapons,,,beat am up for 2hours non stop,him brain go reset...


No let am win u oo grin

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 11:48am On Dec 08, 2020
Janella29:
Lol.
Ignore him jor. See the age gap sef.

Show him that at his age there are still a lot of things he hasn't experienced that you have.

Make mockery of his own mockery by smiling at him and his co mockers and simply walking away as if you have better things to do.

Stop shouting and beating him that only shows how much the whole thing is getting to you.

Make it look like he's being childish and it doesn't get to you at all.

Ina short while it will all stop you ll see

Exactly as I've stated. Trying to force any respect would be counterproductive.

That's a boy who lacks experience and only time and experience will teach him. He will soon graduate in a short while and move out of the house. The respect will come naturally.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by BafanaBafana: 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2020
Something is wrong somewhere walahi.
I did laundry for my younger brother, helped him fight off bullies, bought him snacks back then, beat him up when he erred, helped him with homework and all,

He dare not disrespects me now. I still send him on errands whenever I go home.
His only issue is that he still taxes me and him no dey like to return my change even though he has money more than me. He is an IT guy.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by southniyikaye(m): 12:03pm On Dec 08, 2020
Mtchew... 26-17 =?
If na me, I go don beat the age diff commot for him body tey tey...
Sometimes, you have to let your siblings know the diff between you being Jonathan and you being buhari...

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Eriggs: 12:03pm On Dec 08, 2020
How old both of una be

Make we start from there.
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by parkerx7: 12:03pm On Dec 08, 2020
Nazgul:
Best hell out of him. How can your younger brother openly disrespect you? As long as you keep quiet he'll continue deal with him by teaching him a lesson he'll never forget in his life.
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by tubetv: 12:03pm On Dec 08, 2020
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Paxxcarl(m): 12:03pm On Dec 08, 2020
lol nawa o
if ur younger brother gets wealthier than you he’s gonna throw you to the mud

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Starboytwo(m): 12:03pm On Dec 08, 2020
He is 17(Big boy)

He is into G( hotel life, drinks, drugs, clique already)

He dosent respect you( honestly I don't know how that happens How will your 17 year old bro not respect you) don't you guys play football together, Pes, Fifa, chill ? You suppose to be his role model man?

conclusion beating him is a waste of time and a wrong move. My young bro sometimes do wahrah, some times I change it for them, and whenever we play Pes, I beat him silly, like 5-1 6-0 7-1, once I did him 11-2, he wan cry...

If we play football, I mark him out, dribble him, beat his every move tongue I know for sure I'm his role model when it comes to football so i know his game.and that's when he gets mad most, i can anticipate all his move grin I most definitely always win his set.

But we cool, we vibe, we work together, I give them OT, update etc...

Just chill with your bro, and don't look age at all, you won't believe "updates these boys got"... Chill with your bro manh...

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by OgbanjeProphet: 12:04pm On Dec 08, 2020
Op, na you dey do yourself.
Nigerians don't respect AGE any more, they respect your monetary achievements.

Go and make some money, and your younger ones will respect you.

I was once in your shoes, but today, all my younger ones that used to disrespect me in the past worship me like an idol.

The only solution to your present predicament is to go out and make wealth LEGALLY.

In the words of my girlfriend;
"NA WHO EDUCATION HELP?".

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Lexusgs430: 12:04pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?


Just let him be......
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by fortune579: 12:05pm On Dec 08, 2020
Self respect would earn you your respect.


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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Pofgrace(m): 12:05pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?
send him to efcc nah
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Sonnobax15(m): 12:05pm On Dec 08, 2020
lipsrsealed. Op,this is just the beginning..

Just pray say make that boy no first you blow,if not, foot match go better pass you for where that boy dey....

Honestly,this Yahoo Yahoo of a thing has contaminated our young boys....no single respect.....

Op, you're not alone ohhh......even me too,pikin wey I know how and when my elder sister tay born am dey form odogwu for me now

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