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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Legalese(m): 12:02am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Everything no be gragra. Wisdom no be by muscle. Nazgul: 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Flash68: 12:29am On Dec 09, 2020 |
xProfx:u said it all my younger brother for hux be like the op brother before u say jack e don set blow for fight he is always right n neva wrong na him dey oppress ppl but him dey complain say ppl dey oppress n hate ham for hux, what did we not do beat him, made him to sleep outside, invite army to deal with him, chase his friends away or what we got tired of every thing last last we turn pastor n did that above now he is very calm n respectful sometimes beat is not the best solution to calm our disrespectful younger ones make them ur friends n respect their opinion its work like magic 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nyanabo(m): 12:38am On Dec 09, 2020 |
kenwills: Check the past you would see where you got it all wrong with him, I dare say you gave him too much room while growing up. Like you I have a 17yr old brother he just finished waec while I am 22yr old and a graduate. I never gave my siblings room to insult me. when the play was getting too much I cut it short, and when it comes to serious matters I treat it as such. Right now what you should do is pay less attention to him, leave the house frequently just keep yourself busy but never engage him in a fight as you would loose your self respect.. and try to forgive him not for his sake but for your peace of mind. And concerning the group of children he gathers to insult you he doesn't know he is also making a a way for them to insult him one day just report them to their parents. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Irritant: 1:34am On Dec 09, 2020 |
See talk oh.. Oga goan join secret cult or army nau so u can deal with him yeye |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Samzzy94(m): 3:06am On Dec 09, 2020 |
kenwills: Hmmmm....I had this same issue years back and I know that feeling. The thing is that you shouldn't expect him to respect you because you are just his elder brother, like you said, he is into internet fraud and he must have lost every sense of morals. For now that you are still at home, just try to avoid getting into a physical fight with him cos trust me, you might not like the outcome. And don't do that mistake of buying him things now that you guys are not in good terms, it will give him the impression that you are scared of him and want to bribe him with your gifts. Just try to maintain yourself in that house no matter the insults and disrespect till you go back to school....Start planning to live on your own after school and don't ever think of going back to the house to live there.... That is the only way you can get a little bit of your self respect back....Cos with the level he has gotten to ehn... confrontation would not get you anywhere 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by KCNATH(m): 6:15am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Tony142:That was then o on ur father side. Today money speaks and is more respected |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Tony142: 6:25am On Dec 09, 2020 |
KCNATH: anyone who think he or she need money before people respect him or her , that person is definitely suffering from low self esteem if u did respect me when I am struggle, and all of a sudden u start respecting me when I become rich, I will NEVER take u serious, I go ignore u, because I know all those respect are fake, you just want to chop my money with fake respect, it will not work on me the only people I will treat with respect are those people that respected me for who I am when I was struggling 2 Likes |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by themanderon: 11:14am On Dec 09, 2020 |
You cannot deal with a boy you are 9yrs older than? Lock him in and whoop his butt. What rubbish. I never disrespected my elder brothers so why would my younger one disrespect me? No teenager can disrespect me and go scot free. Where are your parents in all of these? Are they aware their kid is now into the business of robbing people? That boy is a ticking time bomb. A Yahoo boy with no respect is a recipe for disaster. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by rezzy: 5:12pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
kenwills:9 years difference, e chop witch? 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by frozen70(f): 8:25pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
kenwills: Where are your parents in this picture How old is your junior brother that you can't beat that nonsense out of his life Until the whole street starts laughing at you before you will take action Anyway report him to your parents, let's start with that |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 10:56pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
quentin06: I'm a guy. He is still in secondary school and does'nt support me in anyway. I don't know why he disregards me that much cos I do advice him and mind my business often. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:13pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
teedoxman89:No he hasn't does he gives ur parent money?No he doesn't Does ur parent support his yahooYes they do cos the last time I cautioned him they got angry at me [qoute]What kind of friends does he keep? [/quote]Many of his friends are far below his age Is he a bit supportive at home?No And you have you been staying home a lot due to the strike?Yes If yes then bro it will be very hard because if you aren’t involve in providing little at home, no one will respect you if you don’t have money. But if truely your home is a very strict one, don’t beat him at all. Seize his phone and laptop that he uses for the yahoo he is only doing those because of the 25$ to 100$ gift card client Gives him. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:18pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
BlueKiddo:17yrs |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:26pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Greenback: Thanks bro! Yeah he is taller than me that's why he feels he is in control. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:28pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
cassyrooy: Thanks for the advice. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:30pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:36pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Gokoyer1401:Thank you |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:45pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
tron23: Thanks bro! |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:47pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
talktrue1234: Whenever I correct him, she tells me to mind my business and that statement gives him wings to disobey the more. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Dissap: 11:48pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
kenwills:
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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:53pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Tony142: Alright thanks. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 11:57pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
neonbash0: I'm inspired! Thanks bro. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:00am On Dec 10, 2020 |
chris51: They're in support of him. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:05am On Dec 10, 2020 |
blazebaba: Honestly bro I'm short of words, I was present in the hospital were he was delivered. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:13am On Dec 10, 2020 |
Xano: Exactly bro. When I informed our parents they treated the matter as nothing. I'll do as you've said thanks alot. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by talktrue1234: 6:10am On Dec 10, 2020 |
kenwills: Welcome to manhood bro, what you are going through is what many people experience in the hands of women, yes including their mothers. The sad reality is your mom is an accomplice in all that is happening, but you shouldn't take it to heart or use that to react with her, or dislike, she is your mother no matter what. Their eyes go soon clear, just make sure you work hard, never, never be lazy, don't hate them, give them time and space if you can, but don't change towards them, your brother is immature, their are things he can't deal with at his age, women too love money too much and their heart is always at whoever can satisfy that love for money. Also if you have a girlfriend or fiancée, don't tell her what is happening in your house, it will end in more problems for you if you do. There is a possibility you have even being spending from what your brother makes from fraud, especially if you have being collecting allowance from your mom, you can trace many of the money to your brother, don't be sad when you realize this bro. Those are things that makes African men grow up, trust me if you work hard and maybe give them space if possible, all what you are experiencing is just a stage in your life. Your brother will learn with time, just know that he is being foolish and he is letting his teenage hormone control him, when he finally calm down, and learn his mistakes be very ready to forgive him and laugh it off, that will also help him to forgive himself. But bro most importantly find something doing, something that will benefit you when you graduate, don't finish school and go back home waiting for your mom to give you food and shelter freely. If you are a Christian try to pray and read the bible it will give you the hope you need during this period. Work hard smartly too bro and don't join your brother in fraud, good luck 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 12:04pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
kenwills: Hmm, then there nothing you can do to change his behaviour, get on with your life. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:17pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
EM123: I'll do so thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:19pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Godpikin4real: You're right she is highly in support of him. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:25pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Dollar7gs: Thanks It was very helpful. I appreciate! |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:32pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
mountex: Exactly! you've spoken well thanks for your input. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by kenwills(m): 12:35pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Aparche: Thanks for the advice. |
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