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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Oduduwaboy1(m): 1:18pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills: Dont beg for respect, earn it. But if he keeps disrespecting you beat the hell out of him 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Goldenrod1: 1:18pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
I don't have nonsense brother I come beat ham to stupor, him mama go pity ham 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by faoogoke(m): 1:19pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills: Arrange for a time when your parents won't be around. Lock him in the house, use cane and beat him very well. The summary of the beating is that you make him kneel down and raise up his hand. You will only need to do it once and that will be it. He will begin to respect. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Myhusband: Na wa ooo... |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by DoubleEngine007: 1:22pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Tony142:You're a fool.. Who asked you ,if your father that gave birth to a FOOL like you is rich? Wild animal! |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Asadujames202(m): 1:31pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
cynthia500: Complete nonsense Smelly pant 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Tony142: 1:33pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
DoubleEngine007: I know your problem bro, it is frustration caused by hunger, as a good Nigerian that I am drop your account number let me bless your small life with some cash #wink |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by IFezki96: 1:37pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
cynthia500: Why don't you simply mind your business,, this a public forum and everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Bellotelli: 1:38pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Nazgul:Pls don't follow this advice... But go with the writer above him. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by IFezki96: 1:38pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
cynthia500: Why don't you simply mind your business,, this a public forum and everyone is entitled to his or her opinion. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Akpuobi1: 1:39pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
How old are you my brother You are focusing your attention on irrelevant things. If your mind and metals powers are properly engaged on productive things, you won't have time to focus on what your brother says about you. Your value has drastically reduced before your brother. Maybe he has money more than you, etc. So insulting and talking down on you is the way he's using to pass the message to you. Go back to the drawing board and meditate where you failed it and please leave him to live his life. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:42pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills:Almost 10yrs differences and he disrespect you. If he grwo up and live with your parents, they spiilo him. I'm A year and 5months older than my sister and she doesn't disrespect me. Of you see us you will think we are twins. My younger brother is 6yrs and some months younger than me and he dares not disrespect any of us openly. My grandma pull your teeth and give you to swallow. While me being the elder one don't disrespect them either. My younger brother as a child would prefer o beat her than report him to my mom or my granny for talking back at me. I can't bully them either cos it's not allowed in my house. My advice to you is to ignore your brother and mind yourself. Of he notice that you don't have his time, he will atty using his head. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Kokaine(m): 1:44pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills:Is he physically bigger or stronger? Do you do your pushups regularly? Start the gym. Learn boxing. You will tire your body out so much that you won't even have time for anyone. Engage yourself in strenuous physical activities. You won't notice him and you won't feel little. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by EM123: 2:00pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
I think u should stay away from him , before small boy go beat old man , behave as if u don't know him , i think if u do this he won't respect or disrespect u . Your value will remain with u and when u resume school , don't go home when ever u have holiday , stay away from home for a long time let your brother and parents miss your presence. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Godpikin4real(f): 2:00pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
What ur parents reaction 2 dat? Most times, mothers tend 2 b in support cos of d little change she collects from him. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by blesskewe(f): 2:04pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills:chaiiiiii u cold sha |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by OneKinGuy(m): 2:04pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
use belt on him. chickina |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by membranus: 2:06pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo: Not all brothers are "chillable" with. What works with you might not work with another because of circumstances tied to upbringing. Let him avoid and ignore his brother until the devil that has possessed him will either leave or destroy him. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by BobbyZrealist(m): 2:15pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
I may be wrong,I don't know your relationship with him. But, Such things are called rebellion, rebellion comes from oppression. You may have treated him really bad when u guys where still little. You are 9years older than him,so let me say if he was 5 u where 14,u where a Teen and he was a kid. He might have looked up to u then but u shoved,now he is a teen and no more a kid and he remembers and he resents you, it hurts him whenever he remembers how you treated him,so the only way to pay u back is to ridicule you. I am speaking from experience. So now be humble enough to bring him closer and ask for his forgiveness, if he persists then free him. But for those telling you go and beat him up,be very very careful. U never see where younger brother embarrass him elder b4 abi? OK Don't even try it,because the anger in him is beyond your physical strength. I rest my case. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by uuzba(m): 2:17pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills:Go and focus on your runs and stop demanding respect. You students carry education on top of you head. Can't you learn another thing from internet and make way forward? Anybody 18 years and above is a FULL BLOWN adult. You are eligible to marry, get passport, driving licence, drink, born children, anything!!! You shouldn't even be in that house complaining about who respect you or not. What if ASUU never calls off their strike? Will you die because of that? Your brother is looking up to you and you are messing up. That's why he's making fun of you. Focus on your runs he will respect you |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Dollar7gs(m): 2:17pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
it is not because he has not made money as some people re saying here, cos at this stage now both of them re growing and in school, someth factors i consider responsible for this is first, what is the family up bringing and training like? are both parents living? if yes, what do they say wen ur younger brother disrespect u? I say this cos in my family where i grow up, my parents inforce discipline, they sternly resist any of the younger ones disrespecting their seniors, infact u earn serious punishment if u do. Another thing i think lead to this is like the guy in question is too quiet, even in his submitions here, u can vividly notice that frm his writeup, and because of being too cold, the small younger brother, he seniors with oclose to 10yrs want to over shadow him. Who does that in my family? i have 4 junior brothers following me and we even give only 2 yrs gap and they re way taller and bigger than me, yet i command their respest till tommorow, 3 of them re even married and even their wifes follow suit in that respect, so i guess u sowed this seed u re reaping now....and most, importantly, its obvious that guy has joined bad gangs, u can see that even in ur neighborhood, with even the age difference, he commands much respect than u, thats why, he could influence younger guys there to insult u, cos those guys too dnt have respect for u, not just ur younger brother. To tackle this, one, using for or beating him like some people re saying will not help, it will worsen the already bad situation, u re going to use diplomacy here, by first working on ur own self confidence that is already shaltered, then u re going to give him some distance, pay less attention on what he does, focus more on u, talk less to him, by this i dont mean keep malice with him, no, but only talk wit him wen neccessary. then stamp ur authority as the senior, this u do intelligently, wen issues arises that demands u to show up as the senior, take responsibilities, stop being too cold, be the man. I hope this helps... 2 Likes |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by olumydhe: 2:18pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
pafo: mine is even just 3 years, though I call him by his name and we talk like mate,because dat is d way we are from d begining, we drink, play do all things together, dat ppl even our set use to call us twins but wen he vex,I know better Dan to face him though we play like mate but still got a lot of respect for him, he treat me like his mate hence why we r best of friends till date love u bro 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 2:20pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills: Get physical with him. Kick his black ass. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Adau123(m): 2:21pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
To me the fault is from the parents, because from the beginning if your parents did not bring you up in a discipline way it always result in that way. I will like you to table this matter before your parents thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by OmoAkin85: 2:33pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
lol go and have money |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Juoflife1(f): 2:42pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Touch him small in the presence of those kids, so those silly kids will be scared of you. Infact, beat him very well. |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by DontTradeUrSoul: 2:45pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
kenwills:Instead of you to man up and travel to impact the World, you are under same roof whining like a shameless Bitch about you lil' Brother. Respect is not to be demanded but earned! Focus on benefitting Humanity with you Life, respecting and famzing you would be automatic when he sees the World celebrate you! Don't be stupid forever by trying to force forever by trying to force him, rather, let his behavior towards you motivate you to Greatness! The World has so much Problems, solve one and watch the World enthrone you! 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by OmoAkin85: 2:46pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
am 4years older dan my brother..he be army sef ,we reason like friend,but d respect is still dere ..if you want respect you have to earn it.not by forcing him to do so 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by jditimiya(m): 2:51pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Just follow these steps, 1. don't advise him again 2. reduce the way to communicate with him. 3. make a way that he hardly see you, because when he sees you always and you not making money like him he will always disrespect you. 4. report the case to some one older than both of you who he also respect. 5. Pray to God that your ways should be open, when things better for you na uncle him go they call you. 6. remove age from respect deeds bring respect. thanks 1 Like |
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by nedekid: 2:52pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
No wonder certain comments are made on this forum and you wonder. In this same forum you see people easily insult folks so casually. Look deeper and you will find out 90% of members are kids. |
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