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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Twelfthman: 1:48pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Don't mind her. Seams she was overly emotional and unable to reason well when she type that to nairaland. Beverlyjean: 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Psych412(f): 1:49pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
AuntRose:. |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by moyosore32: 1:49pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Wo Las Las both gender needs each other so all this one na long story. [/quon no be lie 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Psych412(f): 1:49pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
AuntRose:. |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Psych412(f): 1:49pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by hotwax: 1:49pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Men should stop getting married jare. These arrogant people will be nice. I have 2 of them as friends. They can greet me 10 times a day. Have you eaten? Have u breath today? Have u this ..have u that? They are in their 30s...any lady above 26 is a no no for me as wife. Women live in a fantasy world on social media, but in reality, they are nothing 12 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by pansophist(m): 1:50pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Op be careful, this mango tree that you're shaking so, if it fall eh? Your writeup is an exercise in futility, as it requires the female demographic you're referring, to be something they can't be, and if you anything about female nature, it is that when a lady goes bad, she hardly go back. Good girl gone bad is real. Instead of these women to digest, make changes and move on, they will attack. They are like an aboki soldier, robotic to the core, can't think for themselves, and when you see one, you've seen all. Everything you said made sense, but "cognitive dissonance" is woven deep into the fabric of their being, they are capable of coexisting harmoniously with two contradicting thoughts, and still emerge as survivors, noble, faultless, and of course, its always men fault. The delusion is real. So madam, let them be. If anything I learnt about life, it is that "you can deny the truth because it uncomfortable, but you can not run away from the consequences of denying the truth". Life has evolved a perfect system of rewarding, or punishing us in accordance with our works. As for me, I'll be overseeing how things goes, praising the smart ones and laughing at the idiots who think they are smart because they are young and the attentions are coming. 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Emaprince: 1:51pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Of course its a known fact that women lies to themselves a lot. Or tries to vomit manipulatory words to make men feel as though women is a big favor to them...when in reality,women needs men to survive in any way you look at it. A woman without a man in her life is completely bitter all her life. ..but a man can go years without a woman and still be extremely happy. Women are on social medias screaming "I don't need a man in my life"..yet their prayer points centers around finding a man. Small time they will flood social medias with engagement rings etc Nonense 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by ziondaughter247: 1:51pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Leshurr: Lol..Mr MAN! Stop deceiving yourself, bloody lowlife! Because no woman gives you face in the real life, you come here to talk trash! At least 80% of Nigerian women are breadwinners or earn almost same as their husbands! Men are really losing their value. I am quite sure you can barely take care of your own financial needs, talk more of a woman! Many of you men here suffer from serious low selfesteem. Pure Shame! Lmao 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Beverlyjean(f): 1:52pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
BadBitch: Both genders have their challenges...no one cares if a 30 yr old woman don't hv a car money, business or rented apartment... but men are validated based on the mentioned... if linda was a man with the money she has , she wud hv been married since just by a snap of the finger but because the society validates money as the way a man is respected or wanted in the society , she herself will not settle for less.... a very rich man can go to the village and marry a girl from a poor home...but a rich woman will not do that ... 21 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by NOwazobia: 1:52pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
There is no much feminism offline. The hypocrisy online is just to flow with the trend, because not many persons can swim against the tide. We are in the zombie civilization age. Follow, follow is a sign of a retard. 12 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Splitmind: 1:53pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
CalliDora1: I know of one https://www.nairaland.com/6143669/looking-born-again-brother-serious 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Seyzcham91(m): 1:53pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Scam! Stop Claiming Vandamme or Jetli there the thread is applicable to all of You women we know how it goes and there you go again, deceiving yourself still as yoruba will say "ai tii kofa nle ifa tin se" we have not consulted the oracle yet and its already happening JovialJune: 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by stanech: 1:54pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
ziondaughter247: 80 percent? haba na where all these women dey? 12 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by ebene4nija: 1:55pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by pansophist(m): 1:57pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Regex: Jesus. So you're implying that common sense is not common within the female demographic anymore eh? To the extent that you're surprised a woman said something that make sense? In other words, to be smart is not a feature of many nairaland females ? Which kind nonsense be this naw? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by chinchonglee(m): 1:58pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
mrblessed:Goat Talk!! 2 Likes
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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by jimmychang: 1:58pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
mrblessed: Nigerian women are in high demand ... where and when...the reverse is the case Nigerian men are the ones in high demand.... And you are blaming Nigerian men for the problems their female counterpart go through .... ....trash 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by chinchonglee(m): 1:58pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Nuttella:Shiloh is today!! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Tilykay(m): 2:00pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
mrblessed: Arh.. please don't let other eyes see this post . |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Beverlyjean(f): 2:01pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
AuntRose: Whenever a woman doesn't agree with ur ideology, u say it must b a man.. U know the thing about all these, u will end up seeing how foolish ur ideology is ...it might take a decade or 2 but u will realise...u might not wanna accept it in front of people, but deep down inside, u will realise ur ideology is just the devils plan to ruin the society 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by legallyminded: 2:01pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
JovialJune: Mumu |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Splitmind: 2:02pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
DicklyD: That's the solipsism and transactional attitude to sex showing itself. Those kinds of arrangements tend to not last. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Freelance363: 2:02pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
The real problem is their misinterpretation of feminism,which has made them shirk most of their responsibilities. Am just glad that,at least,someone still have enough sense to realise the self-deception. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by legallyminded: 2:03pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
mrblessed: Another simp mrblessed: Another simp 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by lightpurple: 2:03pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Leshurr:My friend Keep this nonsense to yourself. So Nigerian men are the price then? You disgust me. Stop degrading Nigerian women while looking for cheap Nairaland recognition. If you are using this mentality to run your home, I can bet you 100% that your husband has no regard for you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
ojun50:SORRYYYYYYYY OOOOOO O______OYO |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Aflix(m): 2:04pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
ziondaughter247:Abeg where did you get your 80% statistics from So you are saying all the men that we see everyday going to their various places of work don't contribute financially to the home Abeg make Una De think before Una talk, okay? 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by lightpurple: 2:04pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Kuns84:Like your mom did I guess What a waste 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Kuns84:ANYWHERE ANY DAY 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Leshurr: Wife nko? 1 Like |
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